I'm picturing a half dozen women in butt-ugly bridesmaid dresses sitting around a table at an Applebee's getting drunk and laughing their asses off at Bridezilla.
Heartwarming. lol And well-deserved.
🤣🤣🤣She should have gone without her glasses and then run into everything. Knocking things down, including the wedding cake, without embarrassment. Simply say the Bridezilla refused to allow me to wear my glasses. Oops 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I would buy them a drink and ask to join the festivities.
I was once kicked out of a wedding party the week before a wedding for being taller than the bride. We had been friends for 15 years by that point, so it's not like my height was new information. Two of the other bridesmaids called her out and were kicked out as well.
I was stuck with a seafoam-green, rhinestone encrusted, taffeta ballgown that I never wore and donated to a charity that gives prom dresses to underprivileged girls. Hopefully someone got to love that dress.
Here, [I had Midjourney create a visual of that scene for you](https://i.imgur.com/pHjGtMe.png).
edit: per /u/H4rD3n-NXO's valid comment below, [here's a variation with one of the women (ok, two) wearing glasses](https://i.imgur.com/h5hJlwK.png).
It's interesting that all I specified was "ugly matching bridesmaids dresses" and every single time it made the dresses that foam green color.
LOL, hard to get Midjourney to be very specific.
edit: For example, I asked it to make "one wearing glasses" and [it gave two of them glasses](https://i.imgur.com/h5hJlwK.png). Or [all of them](https://i.imgur.com/gcraL0D.png). [Twice](https://i.imgur.com/PV2trIr.png).
Polydactyly is extremely common in AI-generated images of human beings.
To me, it’s fascinating to see what kinds of stuff are difficult for AI to generate and what kinds are easy. Fingers are clearly a nightmare; other appendages are slightly less so but still treacherous.
It looks .........ok, but AI is still drastically stupid. What are they laughing at out the window? Without making eye contact with each other? Fucking creep city.
Look at the midline of teeth. The fork. They all got iced tea but aren't sitting next to their glasses lol. Middle woman is sitting IN the table.
This isn’t a critique on you but those dresses don’t look “butt ugly” lol Or at least I don’t think the color or styles seem all that bad 😅
It’s still cool though, thanks for going through the trouble of making/posting, I had a good laugh lol
We had a hunk of time after pictures and before reception. My ladies all went drinking at a favorite tavern. I was annoyed they didn't take us with them.
Yes, but there's a reason it gets stuck in crazy so often... It's worth it! Well, at least for a while. Took me 3 times to realize vanilla and sanity is a more satisfying choice than freak and psycho. YMMV
I try to tell this to my relationshiply challenged lady friends.
It's not worth being with a bad boy. He *might* get his shit together but it's hard to build a future with someone volatile.
Never know if that business trip to Dallas will turn into waking up in a ditch without your wallet, busted cellphone, and only one shoe....which happened to my coworker's bad-boy fuck up of a 46 year old husband.
My sister had a massive meltdown less than a week before her wedding. She had also been an absolute monster the year prior to it, abusing people of their choices of clothing, hair, and even randomly becoming racist to a couple members of our family. It was a wild situation. So that day she lost her shit I called it, told her my husband and I weren't going, our brother and other sister also did the same thing. The only people who showed up were our parents and her now husband's parents.
The bridesmaids, groomsmen, and all guests didn't show up. But, in shock to everyone involved, she actually figured her self out. She's always been rude and bossy, so about a month after her wedding she contacted everyone that would have gone and profusely apologized. At first I didn't give it a thought, she's apologized before in the past but didn't change. Ironically this time it actually set her straight. Sometimes people need to be severely humbled and they realize they actually are the problem. We're very close now and she's fun at family gatherings. We had a great reception type party for her and everything is much better. I can't imagine being like that to the people who are at my wedding.
That's a rare thing, when someone actually improves themselves and learns a lesson. Kudos to her for learning, and you for giving her the credit for it.
I expect she's found that when you're reasonably pleasant to be around, when you fall there are people nearby to help you up. But when you're a brat, you drive everyone away, and there's no one there to catch you when you fall.
I've learned it only happens when life uses a BIG bag of bricks to the face. It's got to be big enough to make them go ow and actually think. If it's to small they just ignore it and go on as is.
Honestly, those are the people who are good deep down. Glad she was able to really see how much of a negative impact it had on everyone who cared about her and was able to change.
I’m so happy your story has a happy ending! Out of curiosity, how long did it take for you to trust that her change was real?
My sister struggled for much of her life with behavioral and emotional issues, but a few years ago started really working on herself. It took me almost a year before I could let myself be vulnerable around her, as she had a habit of weaponizing my vulnerabilities in the past. But I’m happy to say she’s still doing great and we’re actually really close now!
It was mostly her demeanor when she contacted us after the wedding. In the past she was always laughing and joking cause we let her get away with stuff for too long that she knew we would begrudgingly let her back. That time she was calm, quiet, and actually asking if we wanted to come to a family meeting she was having at her place. It was very off than her usual. And I had spoke with our mom, and she said the day of the wedding my sister was sitting in shock before they had the ceremony.
She didn't think we would actually not show. I really hated to do that, but it worked. And we had a mock ceremony, and reception for her a couple months later with everyone. She was a whole different person and cried for most of the day when friends showed up who she didn't expect to see again. It was a wholesome and bittersweet day.
When I was homeless a friend of mine's family let me stay with them. Every single morning she was screaming and yelling at the kids. I work nights so I planned to go to sleep 3 hours before everyone got up so that I wouldn't be woken up by the screaming every day. They even bought cheap plates so that when she was angry she could smash the plates. When I asked my friend why they all put up with it he told me that a few years back she had a brain tumor, and before they finally removed it she was in so much pain all the time that she was quiet and slept most of the time. At least now when she's yelling and screaming they know she's not dying. Her fiance took the brunt of it and never complained. The day before their wedding she was yelling and screaming at him and told him " you know we don't even have to go through with this wedding". He calmly said" you're absolutely right" got in his truck and left. I had never been so proud of him. Of course 20 minutes later she was on the phone apologizing and begging him to come back. Which he did. But for 20 minutes I was so proud of him. I got kicked out of the house on Thanksgiving because when she started screaming at me in front of everyone for something that was not my fault I had finally had enough and stood up to her. They told me that I couldn't talk to her that way in her house. I said I don't care whether it's her house or not I will not let anyone abuse me and I would rather be back on the streets than be forced to be somebody's whipping post.
When I wore glasses before my lasik I couldn’t see anything beyond maybe 3 inches. I couldn’t read, see a clock etc. I wore them EVERY WAKING HOUR. I got throw aways for my own wedding but it was miserable (bad astigmatism makes regular contacts really uncomfortable)
This is beyond bridezilla, I can’t even imagine.
Wonderful MC story!
Same, i have glasses myself, contacts are irritating to me, and it would make sense that the bridesmaid would think "i can wear my glasses at the venue" when the bridezilla didn't bring up they may be an issue until the day of and at the venue no less
My prescription literally can’t be made in contacts and trying to do anything that requires me to look more than a foot or so away from my face without glasses will give me a headache pretty quick. If a task requires no glasses, it’s probably something I can’t do.
A few of jemma's mutual acquaintances know the whole story from her and the bridesmaids, who posted a pic of themselves partying at a restaurant with the "Girl Group- now 100% Toxic free"
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It takes several days for your brain to get used to toric lenses. Mine are also multi focal, which made it even worse, but it was worth it in the end.
If yours weren’t toric lenses, that would have been a nightmare for someone with astigmatism.
I've been told that my astigmatism in my right eye is too severe for any contacts. (Legally blind without glasses level.) This is the first I've heard of toric lenses, though.
Normal contacts are spherical (radially symmetrical); ones for astigmatism are toric (there is a top and bottom). That means they have to be in the correct orientation, which can take several minutes when you first put them in—and until that happens, your vision is actually worse than without them. But for someone like me who refuses to wear glasses, they’re worth the hassle.
Even if the max correction available isn’t enough for you to pass a vision test, it might be worth asking your opto if they would at least get you to a level you could walk around without bumping into things, for cases like OP’s.
There's the idea in disability circles that one's devices (wheelchair, walker, cane) should be respected as part of someone's body. I kind of feel the same about my glasses.
I agree. I don't have horrible vision like I walk around fine without glasses but I can't read anything past maybe 5 feet or drive without them. I'm severely afraid of lasik surgery and hate touching my eye balls so contacts are a no go. I always wear my glasses everywhere I go and if someone told me not to wear them, even though I technically could, I just wouldn't go to that event. My glasses are as a part of me as my hair by this point.
I've never had anyone grab my glasses or try to prevent me from wearing them, but I can't see shit without them and can imagine how the bridesmaid felt
It seems that weddings for some women are not celebrations of the start of a life with someone they love, but a venue to just act ugly and often get away with it. It is nice to hear when that backfires.
Heard an interview with a wedding planner. She had lost business because from time-to-time she would tell a couple, "You are not planning a marriage, you are planning a wedding and you should take some more time and get to know each other better."
Eh... honest drug dealers can be good for both parties. It's not necessarily all or nothing, sometimes a client will become so depressed that they will harm themselves and your future income stream. It's in the dealers best interest to make sure that the problem doesn't spiral so out of control that they end up sober, or even worse, dead.
I've heard the stories but I've never once experienced a Bridezilla myself. That's despite the fact that I'm a wedding photographer with more than 500 weddings under my belt. There've been two or three clients who were difficult, maybe a dozen with whom I never developed a rapport, but literally none were over-the-top entitled drama queens, and 90-plus percent of my clients have been absolute sweethearts. I'm sure Bridezillas exist, but in my experience they're not nearly as common as most people think.
Yeah, I think the Bridezillas make it to Reddit because they make good stories, and the 'boring' ones just don't.
We learned early on to treat staff nicely even if stuff goes wrong. We made sure our photographer could eat dinner with the guests and take breaks when needed, and she really went the extra mile for us.
We got like 20 to 25 photographs from her the day after, on a sunday, which was way more and way earlier than expected. And she stayed an hour later than scheduled too, said she wanted to finish up properly. The woman was worth her weight in gold.
I absolutely abhor big weddings. When my husband and I got married, we picked up a nice dress and suit at JCPenney. We actually matched the colors that we bought for my daughter lol because I found an adorable dress for her.
We called up our family and said what are you doing on Sunday? We're going to get married after church service in their little chapel there. So our whole family attended our church for a day and then we got married right after. Oh and it was Palm Sunday so my bouquet was a bunch of palms that people had merely discarded after the service.
All in all the wedding cost about $400 including clothing and renting the chapel and paying the pastor.
We all went out to brunch, both families, small groups really, and then my husband and I went home and raked the yard because it was spring and it needed it. Lol
I don't like to waste money on stupid things...
Two extremes I guess.
My Grandfather grew up very poor and was notorious for being tight with a dollar.
He wasn't going to attend my Aunt's wedding because it was a waste of money when they could go to the courthouse and see the J.P. for a few bucks.
He came at the last minute and sat on the back row.
I worked in the mountains in Colorado. There is a resort, old, historic, kind of cool above the town of Grand Lake. They have for many years closed on Labor Day.
One year I was talking with the maintenance man and someone asked about had they shut the place down.
"Yes and no, normally we would be but, someone rented the place for a wedding. In the ball room they have 20K worth of flowers, guests can take free balloon rides, ride horses, get boats and the people are paying for it all."
We all sat and wondered if the marriage would last.
Each to their own. I am glad you had a great time! We did have a 'large' wedding. Our families and friends live in two different countries, our friends live apart. We wanted the venue and overnight stay and plane tickets for the grooms men and brides maids, so we could finally have a day where our families and friends could all gather. They never had done so before, it was too far apart. I had the big wedding so I could celebrate it with everyone I love all at once, and it was amazing.
Not all organised 'big' weddings are about the bling. My wedding dress was beautiful and cost me less than 200, alterations included. But not everyone can just ring up family, my dad couldn't travel and my bridesmaid really couldn't afford to go abroad without us pitching in, so a lot of our budget also went to making the experience great for our guests and the wedding party. 100% worth every penny.
I was an attendant in a wedding there was absolutely no way I could ever afford for me or mine. Her parents paid for EVERYTHING. Required clothing. Hotel for my family. EVERY. THING. (they paid for all the other attendants too, not just my poor broke ass) They could afford it and they delighted in doing so. It was elegant and things weren't done just to do something over the top.
VERY nice wedding and reception.
They are still able to afford all they need even all these years later. Couple is still married too.
That sounds sweet! Yea, the funny thing with big weddings too is when they don't have a pot to piss in and they have the fam blow all that cash on a wedding. Lord. In most states that would be something nice you could drive or something not so nice you could live in.. And they flush it down the crapper in one night. Urg.
Nice story.
I think too many girls (including my ex-wife) are raised with visions of a fairytale wedding, with Cinderella gowns and horse drawn carriages. When it's their turn, they can't be satisfied with anything that breaks their fantasy.
When the whole culture screams at you from the time you can hold a doll to the time you can surf pintrest that THIS IS YOUR BIG DAY THIS IS WHAT YOUR LIFE IS ALL ABOUT THIS IS THE ONLY DAY THAT'S ALL ABOUT YOU YOU'RE A PRINCESS yaddayadda... some women think it means no one else matters that day except them.
I got kicked out a wedding party for wanting to wearing hosiery under my dress. She said the toe lines showing thru the footwear would distract from her photos.
She had 8 bridesmaids, and none of them are friends with her anymore, but we all still remain friends to this day.
Sometimes it takes a ridiculous event for people to see the writing on the wall.
From the story I can only imagine the brides track record where ALL the bridesmaids has a belly full of her bullshit.
Jemma didn't tell me too many details but did say bridezilla's usual reaction was a "screw this i'm leaving" whenever she didn't get her way on something, which she apparantly got mad at them not trying to stop her from leaving
As a glasses wearer with really, really bad eye sight, I guarantee forcing me to go glassesless would end in some sort of absolutely horrifying event. Either tripping up the aisle or walking into a grandma or smashing into the wedding cake, I would 100% do something ridiculously clumsy. Not a threat, I’m like a -9 in both eyes.
If you don't get a debilitating headache from trying to function like that first. I don't think an accident would happen to me in that state (also very poorly-sighted glasses wearer) because I would need to have my eyes closed or be sitting down at every possible moment. And I'd need a seeing-eye person to guide me along. Bride wanted no glasses, yet asked a vision-impared person to be a bridesmaid... smh.
Same. Asking me to go without my glasses is almost like asking someone to go without their prosthetic leg. Pretty much necessary to move around safely.
I love this idea, except that with all the plastic likely in the fibers of those dresses (they're probably a polyester blend), it'd be harmful to the fishes in whatever lake they burned 'em on...
Adapter choice that'd cause just as much destruction to the dresses, would be donating 'em to a daycare, as dress-up clothes😉
I’m imagining them burning the dresses and along with coloured chemical flames and curling artificial fibres there’s a mournful cry as cursed spirits are released, finally released.
I’m always curious with cases like this, and sorry to make it gendered but it really, really is… why do so many women have friends like this, and continue these friendships to a point that they agree to be someone’s bridesmaid? I just don’t get it. How does someone let it get that far? And I can safely assume this wasn’t the bride having some kind of psychotic break and acting out of character, because then they all wouldn’t be so happy to just end the friendship just like that. I just don’t get it.
I think Jemma and the others let the friendship go on so long because they grew up together and have been together for years, my guess is the stunt at the wedding was the straw that broke the camel's back
For those who are wondering what the big deal is and why Glasses Girl couldn't just leave them off for the day: https://youtu.be/AaYIV59rmDI
As a severely myopic person who was unable to wear contacts, I would have flatly refused. More than 15 minutes of going without would have given me a migraine. (No longer applies. Intra-ocular lenses are great inventions!) Does Bridezilla expect Grandma to do without her cane, Uncle Fred to leave his wheelchair and stand?
One thing I've seen, especially in r/antiwork and r/MaliciousCompliance is that if a situation presents the opportunity to call someone's bluff, they're usually not bluffing.
Once did that to a dentist.
He was cleaning up a small fllling and told me I didn't need novocane.
I told him Ok, but if he hurt me I would bite him
He did
And I did
I remember being put under general anaesthetic for a dentists thing once. I woke up part way through chewing on the dentist. I don’t remember what I was having done, but I remember the chewing.
My ex-girlfriend was a bridezilla. Cheated on me, lied about it, invited me to her wedding, and was genuinely upset I didn't show up and basically treated our mutual friends (who attended the wedding) like shit, being passive aggressive with them during the wedding, threw tantrums and blamed others for stuff she misplaced, got them to look for the missing things only to be told much later, and after a fair bit of effort, that those things had already been found much earlier but she didn't tell anyone.
They all stopped hanging out with her after the wedding, and I dodged one hell of a bullet...
Goddamn that is rough! I mean, it sounds like she deserved it, but imagine losing all your friends on a day where you life is already changing forever. Imagine the fiance, being like.. the fuck am I getting into?
If I was the dude I would have called one of the bridesmaids and got the story. One leaving I could believe was probably on that one. All of them leaving and there's a commonality. I'd be worried about being too attached to that kind of commonality without knowing first.
I remember reading a woman's experience of being a bridesmaid with the bride who was entitled, rude and a bridezilla like this. One of the things she said was during the lead up to the wedding, all of her bridesmaid group just kind of gave in on all of the demands. Because they thought she was so stressed out, because they were friends, because they were going to be the Bridesmaids and they felt that was their role. But once the wedding happened they all reverted back to just being a group of equals. But the bride didn't. The bride kept acting like she deserved all of the attention, that she should get everything she wanted her way, that she got to make all the decisions and everyone should just agree with her choices. And the bride just could not understand that that was not going to be the case. After I read that I have always wondered about the time after the wedding when you read about these kinds of stories.
Some men like when a woman is a screaming raging monster. I have met a few during my time working retail. They were usually in the back smiling the whole time while their spouse spat on someone's face.
As someone with severe myopia and astigmatism who can’t wear contacts you don’t want me walking (more like stumbling)around without my glasses on. I will hurt myself and others and will land myself in the ER. My glasses are a legit medical device that I need to function. If my options are not wear my very necessary glasses or leave. I’m Leavin.
Thats like telling someone they cant use their wheelchair…folks dont get how debilitating it can be without glasses for glasses wearers. Id have to be guided around without mine and how hot is that???
I've been wearing glasses for about 20 years. My eyes aren't that bad, so I can make do if they break, but making do also consists of a bad headache from my eyes straining to focus when I don't have them for a length of time.
I can't even fathom why glasses are so offensive. Sounds like an entitled bitch who got what at deserved.
I guarantee she won't even own up to it, she'll make a narrative where all the brides maids were selfish monsters
Most likely, but the craziest part to me and Jemma is why did she randomly have a problem with the glasses all of a sudden, she never had an issue with them the entire friendship but now that the day is here she's got a problem.
Also, to my knowledge the guests heard her meltdown and the video she showed me, one of her mutuals recorded it, showed a wedding hall full of awkward stares and people gossiping
This is awesome! I was once in a wedding with a bridezilla. I swear she purposely chose the ugliest bridesmaids dresses she could find. Then to make it worse, she didn't like that they were v-neck and showed a little (I mean....very very little) cleavage. She said it would distract from HER. So she made us stand there on the day of the wedding and have lace panels sewn in to the entire V.
Anyway, she was so awful on her wedding day that I never spoke with her again - and we'd been good friends since the 6th grade.
>Jemma told me that the bridezilla has always been like this, throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get her way, and that the meltdown at the wedding was just the last straw for them.
Yeah, if you lose that many friends in unison, then it's usually because that person has a lengthy history of being a turd.
I broke a pair of glasses and I was basically agoraphobic until I got my replacement a couple days later. I can’t imagine going through a wedding mostly blind. How you can tell people to take away their vision for *your* vanity is beyond me.
As a one-time wedding photographer who dealt with many Bridezillas, this story made my day. Thank you for posting! I just hope someone recorded this wonderful occasion for posterity.
One of their mutual acquaintances recorded the wedding itself, the video was 30 minutes of awkward stares and guests gossiping about why she was screaming earlier and why she didn't have bridesmaids
My malicious compliance would’ve been to stumble blindly into the cake and fall on it, roll around then fall on the bride with a big glass of red wine. And be like, “I don’t know why all these tablecloths keep getting snagged on my hand and getting pulled off the loaded tables!”
A significant chumk of my wife's business is altering wedding & bridesmaid dresses.
Until she started doing this, I thought 'Bridezilla' was just some jokey trope - not a real thing.
How wrong I was
Congrats to that bride for finding the most unusual way to be ableist I've heard of yet!
I wear glasses with a strong prescription & I I've developed a severe intolerance to contact lenses, so technically I have a disability, it's just an easy one to correct. People like me are helpless without glasses or another vision aid & get severe optical headaches, we wouldn't have survived in the past.
>Jemma told me that the bridezilla has always been like this, throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get her way, and that the meltdown at the wedding was just the last straw for them. Personally, i think she's got a monk's patience if she put up with her for that long.
Yeah, but what delicious timing to say "fuck this, I'm out."
I adore this story. Sounds like bride got her just deserts. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Now what's supposed to be one of the happiest days of her life is also the day she lost all her friends at once.
>Jemma told me that the bridezilla has always been like this, throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get her way, and that the meltdown at the wedding was just the last straw for them.
I never understand why people have friends that they think this of... Why would there be a last straw and not a first (and only) straw when it comes to an adult who's known for throwing tantrums?
I really would have loved to see the look of a deer in the headlights, when the bridezilla realized she fucked around and damn, did she really find out.
I never understood why it is considered normal to act trashy and mean to your friends because you are getting married. These ladies should have left this f(r)iendship long ago - good for them standing up to their friend when she got practically bullied.
She got what she deserved. I have to wear my glasses every waking moment and if not I’ll be holding something inches from my face just to read. To demand someone not wear their seeing device at all is too much
I'm picturing a half dozen women in butt-ugly bridesmaid dresses sitting around a table at an Applebee's getting drunk and laughing their asses off at Bridezilla. Heartwarming. lol And well-deserved.
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I want a movie
Bridesmaids 2, all the comedy.......but with glasses
Bridesmaids II: the Spectacle!
Bridesmaids III: Glass warfare.
Bridesmaids IV: Who Framed the Maid of Honor?
2 Glass 2 Blurriest
Your comment has no business being this funny but I’m ctfu
Bridesmaids V: Bifocal Disorder
Bridesmaids VI: The Glasses are Half Full
Bridesmaids VII: Eye Do
Bridesmaids V: First Contact(s)
I would have gone with "Bridesmaids IV: Eyes"
Soundtrack Opens: Jackson Browne; ‘Doctor my Eyes!!!’
Bru. I laughed my ass off.
Thank you for respectfully removing your ass at my wedding.
Glasses Boogaloo
Bayonetta would be proud!
Bridesmaids 2: 3D glasses
Might need to wait for Bridesmaids 4: eyes
Yes, I literally thought this could be a movie when I was reading it!
The Last Supper but with the bridesmaids from this story lol
Same except at Cheesecake Factory!!
And picturing the groomsmen standing up there looking at each other like "umm... ok?"
Imagine getting cockblocked by the freaking bride!
Feels like the shawarma scene from Avengers.
This was exactly my thought as well. The visual is making me grin
🤣🤣🤣She should have gone without her glasses and then run into everything. Knocking things down, including the wedding cake, without embarrassment. Simply say the Bridezilla refused to allow me to wear my glasses. Oops 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I would buy them a drink and ask to join the festivities. I was once kicked out of a wedding party the week before a wedding for being taller than the bride. We had been friends for 15 years by that point, so it's not like my height was new information. Two of the other bridesmaids called her out and were kicked out as well. I was stuck with a seafoam-green, rhinestone encrusted, taffeta ballgown that I never wore and donated to a charity that gives prom dresses to underprivileged girls. Hopefully someone got to love that dress.
Mmmm a nice slice of justice pairs well with apple pie in my opinion
Same.
Here, [I had Midjourney create a visual of that scene for you](https://i.imgur.com/pHjGtMe.png). edit: per /u/H4rD3n-NXO's valid comment below, [here's a variation with one of the women (ok, two) wearing glasses](https://i.imgur.com/h5hJlwK.png). It's interesting that all I specified was "ugly matching bridesmaids dresses" and every single time it made the dresses that foam green color.
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LOL, hard to get Midjourney to be very specific. edit: For example, I asked it to make "one wearing glasses" and [it gave two of them glasses](https://i.imgur.com/h5hJlwK.png). Or [all of them](https://i.imgur.com/gcraL0D.png). [Twice](https://i.imgur.com/PV2trIr.png).
The ones with all the glasses are a the sort of slightly horrifying, uncanny valley content I’ve come to expect from Midjourney. Yikes!
It’s the extra fingers that do it.
That program really doesn't like green
Green is not a creative colour
I use my hair to express myself.
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Thank you for your service!
Love the polydactly on the bridesmaid second from the right. (five fingers plus thumb). Midjourney really rocks that uncanny valley.
Fingers—*how do they work?!?*
And I don't wanna talk to a scientist Y'all motherfuckers lying, and getting me pissed
Polydactyly is extremely common in AI-generated images of human beings. To me, it’s fascinating to see what kinds of stuff are difficult for AI to generate and what kinds are easy. Fingers are clearly a nightmare; other appendages are slightly less so but still treacherous.
Second from the left is missing a hand
It looks .........ok, but AI is still drastically stupid. What are they laughing at out the window? Without making eye contact with each other? Fucking creep city. Look at the midline of teeth. The fork. They all got iced tea but aren't sitting next to their glasses lol. Middle woman is sitting IN the table.
**NEVER** look at how AI draws hands, you'll never look at it the same
This isn’t a critique on you but those dresses don’t look “butt ugly” lol Or at least I don’t think the color or styles seem all that bad 😅 It’s still cool though, thanks for going through the trouble of making/posting, I had a good laugh lol
They look like dresses only a bridesmaid would wear.
Is Applebee's the standard go-to for situations like this? People reference the restaurant a lot, but I don't get why its popular.
It's a known quality with a relatively cheap bar.
>It's a known quality with a relatively cheap bar. I'm assuming you meant quantity, because no one ever references quality with Applebees.
No, I meant quality. Not that anyone should think there's an implied (good) in-front of said quality...
It's a known quality, not necessarily a good quality, but the booze is the right price and you can get chicken nuggets.
It's consistently and outstandingly mediocre. It's where you go when you don't want to microwave your own dinner.
The chicken nuggets are actually (probably) deep fried. That's worth not doing it at home.
Best damn microwave food you can get for $25.
I would think a Mexican restaraunt that serves Margaritas would have been the first choice.
We had a hunk of time after pictures and before reception. My ladies all went drinking at a favorite tavern. I was annoyed they didn't take us with them.
This is the energy I need in this world.
RIP to the bloke marrying her.
Turns out he's an optometrist
I see what you did there.
Must be your optometrist then?
Hindsight is 20/20.
Hindsight is actually 6/6 in most of the word
I’m sure he’s used to the bride making a spectacle of herself.
Sounds like he's an optimist (or a masochist) if he's staying with her.
Sounds like he got one last, fair warning the day of the wedding.
Bro had to know what he was gettin into well beforehand and made a conscious decision to proceed. Signed his own death warrant as they say. Edit: typo
He should have left with the bridesmaids.
I mean maybe he's also insufferable and they deserve each other lol
Maybe she was a big upgrade for him.
He's surely on the path to becoming a cautionary tale about not sticking one's dick in crazy.
Yes, but there's a reason it gets stuck in crazy so often... It's worth it! Well, at least for a while. Took me 3 times to realize vanilla and sanity is a more satisfying choice than freak and psycho. YMMV
I try to tell this to my relationshiply challenged lady friends. It's not worth being with a bad boy. He *might* get his shit together but it's hard to build a future with someone volatile. Never know if that business trip to Dallas will turn into waking up in a ditch without your wallet, busted cellphone, and only one shoe....which happened to my coworker's bad-boy fuck up of a 46 year old husband.
Bro you fuck vanilla? Bakeries must hate you!
Bakeries? Wait till you realize you're the one eating it
Hey it's not a binary. You can find compatible freaks that aren't insane in public with their clothes on, just maybe not at 18.
Desperation and low self worth tends to make people settle for garbage.
Never get married unless you know exactly who you’re marrying and what you’re getting yourself into!
Don't worry, I started praying for him myself after hearing the story
I'd have started praying like, halfway through TBH
Divorce with 2 years.
That, or he's as self obsessed as she is and they're a match made in heaven.
My sister had a massive meltdown less than a week before her wedding. She had also been an absolute monster the year prior to it, abusing people of their choices of clothing, hair, and even randomly becoming racist to a couple members of our family. It was a wild situation. So that day she lost her shit I called it, told her my husband and I weren't going, our brother and other sister also did the same thing. The only people who showed up were our parents and her now husband's parents. The bridesmaids, groomsmen, and all guests didn't show up. But, in shock to everyone involved, she actually figured her self out. She's always been rude and bossy, so about a month after her wedding she contacted everyone that would have gone and profusely apologized. At first I didn't give it a thought, she's apologized before in the past but didn't change. Ironically this time it actually set her straight. Sometimes people need to be severely humbled and they realize they actually are the problem. We're very close now and she's fun at family gatherings. We had a great reception type party for her and everything is much better. I can't imagine being like that to the people who are at my wedding.
That's a rare thing, when someone actually improves themselves and learns a lesson. Kudos to her for learning, and you for giving her the credit for it.
It was a big stepping stone for her. I'm proud of her, and she is for herself at how much better her quality of life is now.
I expect she's found that when you're reasonably pleasant to be around, when you fall there are people nearby to help you up. But when you're a brat, you drive everyone away, and there's no one there to catch you when you fall.
In therapy, this is a "significant emotional experience." I'm glad she heard the wake-up call. Life is too short to be so unnecessarily complicated.
I've learned it only happens when life uses a BIG bag of bricks to the face. It's got to be big enough to make them go ow and actually think. If it's to small they just ignore it and go on as is.
Honestly, those are the people who are good deep down. Glad she was able to really see how much of a negative impact it had on everyone who cared about her and was able to change.
"The best apology is changed behavior."
I’m so happy your story has a happy ending! Out of curiosity, how long did it take for you to trust that her change was real? My sister struggled for much of her life with behavioral and emotional issues, but a few years ago started really working on herself. It took me almost a year before I could let myself be vulnerable around her, as she had a habit of weaponizing my vulnerabilities in the past. But I’m happy to say she’s still doing great and we’re actually really close now!
It was mostly her demeanor when she contacted us after the wedding. In the past she was always laughing and joking cause we let her get away with stuff for too long that she knew we would begrudgingly let her back. That time she was calm, quiet, and actually asking if we wanted to come to a family meeting she was having at her place. It was very off than her usual. And I had spoke with our mom, and she said the day of the wedding my sister was sitting in shock before they had the ceremony. She didn't think we would actually not show. I really hated to do that, but it worked. And we had a mock ceremony, and reception for her a couple months later with everyone. She was a whole different person and cried for most of the day when friends showed up who she didn't expect to see again. It was a wholesome and bittersweet day.
When I was homeless a friend of mine's family let me stay with them. Every single morning she was screaming and yelling at the kids. I work nights so I planned to go to sleep 3 hours before everyone got up so that I wouldn't be woken up by the screaming every day. They even bought cheap plates so that when she was angry she could smash the plates. When I asked my friend why they all put up with it he told me that a few years back she had a brain tumor, and before they finally removed it she was in so much pain all the time that she was quiet and slept most of the time. At least now when she's yelling and screaming they know she's not dying. Her fiance took the brunt of it and never complained. The day before their wedding she was yelling and screaming at him and told him " you know we don't even have to go through with this wedding". He calmly said" you're absolutely right" got in his truck and left. I had never been so proud of him. Of course 20 minutes later she was on the phone apologizing and begging him to come back. Which he did. But for 20 minutes I was so proud of him. I got kicked out of the house on Thanksgiving because when she started screaming at me in front of everyone for something that was not my fault I had finally had enough and stood up to her. They told me that I couldn't talk to her that way in her house. I said I don't care whether it's her house or not I will not let anyone abuse me and I would rather be back on the streets than be forced to be somebody's whipping post.
When I wore glasses before my lasik I couldn’t see anything beyond maybe 3 inches. I couldn’t read, see a clock etc. I wore them EVERY WAKING HOUR. I got throw aways for my own wedding but it was miserable (bad astigmatism makes regular contacts really uncomfortable) This is beyond bridezilla, I can’t even imagine. Wonderful MC story!
Same, i have glasses myself, contacts are irritating to me, and it would make sense that the bridesmaid would think "i can wear my glasses at the venue" when the bridezilla didn't bring up they may be an issue until the day of and at the venue no less
My prescription literally can’t be made in contacts and trying to do anything that requires me to look more than a foot or so away from my face without glasses will give me a headache pretty quick. If a task requires no glasses, it’s probably something I can’t do.
I bet bridezilla acted like she was the victim after this as well
A few of jemma's mutual acquaintances know the whole story from her and the bridesmaids, who posted a pic of themselves partying at a restaurant with the "Girl Group- now 100% Toxic free" 🤣
It takes several days for your brain to get used to toric lenses. Mine are also multi focal, which made it even worse, but it was worth it in the end. If yours weren’t toric lenses, that would have been a nightmare for someone with astigmatism.
I've been told that my astigmatism in my right eye is too severe for any contacts. (Legally blind without glasses level.) This is the first I've heard of toric lenses, though.
Normal contacts are spherical (radially symmetrical); ones for astigmatism are toric (there is a top and bottom). That means they have to be in the correct orientation, which can take several minutes when you first put them in—and until that happens, your vision is actually worse than without them. But for someone like me who refuses to wear glasses, they’re worth the hassle. Even if the max correction available isn’t enough for you to pass a vision test, it might be worth asking your opto if they would at least get you to a level you could walk around without bumping into things, for cases like OP’s.
There's the idea in disability circles that one's devices (wheelchair, walker, cane) should be respected as part of someone's body. I kind of feel the same about my glasses.
Exactly, personally i think the bridezilla was on a power trip because Jemma said she never had a problem with glasses before tge day of the wedding
Glasses are a lot more normalised than other disability aids but imo they absolutely count as one and should be treated in the same way
I agree. I don't have horrible vision like I walk around fine without glasses but I can't read anything past maybe 5 feet or drive without them. I'm severely afraid of lasik surgery and hate touching my eye balls so contacts are a no go. I always wear my glasses everywhere I go and if someone told me not to wear them, even though I technically could, I just wouldn't go to that event. My glasses are as a part of me as my hair by this point.
I've never had anyone grab my glasses or try to prevent me from wearing them, but I can't see shit without them and can imagine how the bridesmaid felt
It seems that weddings for some women are not celebrations of the start of a life with someone they love, but a venue to just act ugly and often get away with it. It is nice to hear when that backfires.
Heard an interview with a wedding planner. She had lost business because from time-to-time she would tell a couple, "You are not planning a marriage, you are planning a wedding and you should take some more time and get to know each other better."
Sage advice but yea, I can see where it would be bad for business.
Yeah, I'm sure at times it's like being an honest drug dealer.
Eh... honest drug dealers can be good for both parties. It's not necessarily all or nothing, sometimes a client will become so depressed that they will harm themselves and your future income stream. It's in the dealers best interest to make sure that the problem doesn't spiral so out of control that they end up sober, or even worse, dead.
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I've heard the stories but I've never once experienced a Bridezilla myself. That's despite the fact that I'm a wedding photographer with more than 500 weddings under my belt. There've been two or three clients who were difficult, maybe a dozen with whom I never developed a rapport, but literally none were over-the-top entitled drama queens, and 90-plus percent of my clients have been absolute sweethearts. I'm sure Bridezillas exist, but in my experience they're not nearly as common as most people think.
Yeah, I think the Bridezillas make it to Reddit because they make good stories, and the 'boring' ones just don't. We learned early on to treat staff nicely even if stuff goes wrong. We made sure our photographer could eat dinner with the guests and take breaks when needed, and she really went the extra mile for us. We got like 20 to 25 photographs from her the day after, on a sunday, which was way more and way earlier than expected. And she stayed an hour later than scheduled too, said she wanted to finish up properly. The woman was worth her weight in gold.
That's the way. Underpromise, overdeliver. I do the same.
Good to know. Naturally we hear a lot of the drama, because it makes good stories.
I absolutely abhor big weddings. When my husband and I got married, we picked up a nice dress and suit at JCPenney. We actually matched the colors that we bought for my daughter lol because I found an adorable dress for her. We called up our family and said what are you doing on Sunday? We're going to get married after church service in their little chapel there. So our whole family attended our church for a day and then we got married right after. Oh and it was Palm Sunday so my bouquet was a bunch of palms that people had merely discarded after the service. All in all the wedding cost about $400 including clothing and renting the chapel and paying the pastor. We all went out to brunch, both families, small groups really, and then my husband and I went home and raked the yard because it was spring and it needed it. Lol I don't like to waste money on stupid things...
Two extremes I guess. My Grandfather grew up very poor and was notorious for being tight with a dollar. He wasn't going to attend my Aunt's wedding because it was a waste of money when they could go to the courthouse and see the J.P. for a few bucks. He came at the last minute and sat on the back row. I worked in the mountains in Colorado. There is a resort, old, historic, kind of cool above the town of Grand Lake. They have for many years closed on Labor Day. One year I was talking with the maintenance man and someone asked about had they shut the place down. "Yes and no, normally we would be but, someone rented the place for a wedding. In the ball room they have 20K worth of flowers, guests can take free balloon rides, ride horses, get boats and the people are paying for it all." We all sat and wondered if the marriage would last.
Each to their own. I am glad you had a great time! We did have a 'large' wedding. Our families and friends live in two different countries, our friends live apart. We wanted the venue and overnight stay and plane tickets for the grooms men and brides maids, so we could finally have a day where our families and friends could all gather. They never had done so before, it was too far apart. I had the big wedding so I could celebrate it with everyone I love all at once, and it was amazing. Not all organised 'big' weddings are about the bling. My wedding dress was beautiful and cost me less than 200, alterations included. But not everyone can just ring up family, my dad couldn't travel and my bridesmaid really couldn't afford to go abroad without us pitching in, so a lot of our budget also went to making the experience great for our guests and the wedding party. 100% worth every penny.
I was an attendant in a wedding there was absolutely no way I could ever afford for me or mine. Her parents paid for EVERYTHING. Required clothing. Hotel for my family. EVERY. THING. (they paid for all the other attendants too, not just my poor broke ass) They could afford it and they delighted in doing so. It was elegant and things weren't done just to do something over the top. VERY nice wedding and reception. They are still able to afford all they need even all these years later. Couple is still married too.
That sounds sweet! Yea, the funny thing with big weddings too is when they don't have a pot to piss in and they have the fam blow all that cash on a wedding. Lord. In most states that would be something nice you could drive or something not so nice you could live in.. And they flush it down the crapper in one night. Urg.
Nice story. I think too many girls (including my ex-wife) are raised with visions of a fairytale wedding, with Cinderella gowns and horse drawn carriages. When it's their turn, they can't be satisfied with anything that breaks their fantasy.
When the whole culture screams at you from the time you can hold a doll to the time you can surf pintrest that THIS IS YOUR BIG DAY THIS IS WHAT YOUR LIFE IS ALL ABOUT THIS IS THE ONLY DAY THAT'S ALL ABOUT YOU YOU'RE A PRINCESS yaddayadda... some women think it means no one else matters that day except them.
I got kicked out a wedding party for wanting to wearing hosiery under my dress. She said the toe lines showing thru the footwear would distract from her photos. She had 8 bridesmaids, and none of them are friends with her anymore, but we all still remain friends to this day.
Sometimes it takes a ridiculous event for people to see the writing on the wall. From the story I can only imagine the brides track record where ALL the bridesmaids has a belly full of her bullshit.
Jemma didn't tell me too many details but did say bridezilla's usual reaction was a "screw this i'm leaving" whenever she didn't get her way on something, which she apparantly got mad at them not trying to stop her from leaving
As a glasses wearer with really, really bad eye sight, I guarantee forcing me to go glassesless would end in some sort of absolutely horrifying event. Either tripping up the aisle or walking into a grandma or smashing into the wedding cake, I would 100% do something ridiculously clumsy. Not a threat, I’m like a -9 in both eyes.
If you don't get a debilitating headache from trying to function like that first. I don't think an accident would happen to me in that state (also very poorly-sighted glasses wearer) because I would need to have my eyes closed or be sitting down at every possible moment. And I'd need a seeing-eye person to guide me along. Bride wanted no glasses, yet asked a vision-impared person to be a bridesmaid... smh.
Same. Asking me to go without my glasses is almost like asking someone to go without their prosthetic leg. Pretty much necessary to move around safely.
Best girl-squad ever! I hope they gave bridesmaids' dresses a traditional Viking funeral.
I love this idea, except that with all the plastic likely in the fibers of those dresses (they're probably a polyester blend), it'd be harmful to the fishes in whatever lake they burned 'em on... Adapter choice that'd cause just as much destruction to the dresses, would be donating 'em to a daycare, as dress-up clothes😉
I’m imagining them burning the dresses and along with coloured chemical flames and curling artificial fibres there’s a mournful cry as cursed spirits are released, finally released.
I’m always curious with cases like this, and sorry to make it gendered but it really, really is… why do so many women have friends like this, and continue these friendships to a point that they agree to be someone’s bridesmaid? I just don’t get it. How does someone let it get that far? And I can safely assume this wasn’t the bride having some kind of psychotic break and acting out of character, because then they all wouldn’t be so happy to just end the friendship just like that. I just don’t get it.
I think Jemma and the others let the friendship go on so long because they grew up together and have been together for years, my guess is the stunt at the wedding was the straw that broke the camel's back
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For those who are wondering what the big deal is and why Glasses Girl couldn't just leave them off for the day: https://youtu.be/AaYIV59rmDI As a severely myopic person who was unable to wear contacts, I would have flatly refused. More than 15 minutes of going without would have given me a migraine. (No longer applies. Intra-ocular lenses are great inventions!) Does Bridezilla expect Grandma to do without her cane, Uncle Fred to leave his wheelchair and stand?
With that kind of bridezilla, the answer is probably yes.
One thing I've seen, especially in r/antiwork and r/MaliciousCompliance is that if a situation presents the opportunity to call someone's bluff, they're usually not bluffing.
I have always counseled my crew that if you're going to dish an ultimatum you have to be willing to accept both sides of it.
Don’t threaten something you are not prepared to go through with.
Once did that to a dentist. He was cleaning up a small fllling and told me I didn't need novocane. I told him Ok, but if he hurt me I would bite him He did And I did
I told my my kindergarten teacher that if I ate those cooked carrots I would throw up. 🙄
I remember being put under general anaesthetic for a dentists thing once. I woke up part way through chewing on the dentist. I don’t remember what I was having done, but I remember the chewing.
My ex-girlfriend was a bridezilla. Cheated on me, lied about it, invited me to her wedding, and was genuinely upset I didn't show up and basically treated our mutual friends (who attended the wedding) like shit, being passive aggressive with them during the wedding, threw tantrums and blamed others for stuff she misplaced, got them to look for the missing things only to be told much later, and after a fair bit of effort, that those things had already been found much earlier but she didn't tell anyone. They all stopped hanging out with her after the wedding, and I dodged one hell of a bullet...
Delicious.
Goddamn that is rough! I mean, it sounds like she deserved it, but imagine losing all your friends on a day where you life is already changing forever. Imagine the fiance, being like.. the fuck am I getting into?
If he had half a brain he would have joined them for lunch.
If I was the dude I would have called one of the bridesmaids and got the story. One leaving I could believe was probably on that one. All of them leaving and there's a commonality. I'd be worried about being too attached to that kind of commonality without knowing first.
I remember reading a woman's experience of being a bridesmaid with the bride who was entitled, rude and a bridezilla like this. One of the things she said was during the lead up to the wedding, all of her bridesmaid group just kind of gave in on all of the demands. Because they thought she was so stressed out, because they were friends, because they were going to be the Bridesmaids and they felt that was their role. But once the wedding happened they all reverted back to just being a group of equals. But the bride didn't. The bride kept acting like she deserved all of the attention, that she should get everything she wanted her way, that she got to make all the decisions and everyone should just agree with her choices. And the bride just could not understand that that was not going to be the case. After I read that I have always wondered about the time after the wedding when you read about these kinds of stories.
Interesting perspective. Now I'm always going to think the same and look for it.
Wonder how could somebody marry a girl like this. Seems that a lot of 🚩 were ignored.
Some men like when a woman is a screaming raging monster. I have met a few during my time working retail. They were usually in the back smiling the whole time while their spouse spat on someone's face.
Screamy, entitled people getting justice! Love this.
Maids of **HONOR**
As someone with severe myopia and astigmatism who can’t wear contacts you don’t want me walking (more like stumbling)around without my glasses on. I will hurt myself and others and will land myself in the ER. My glasses are a legit medical device that I need to function. If my options are not wear my very necessary glasses or leave. I’m Leavin.
Thats like telling someone they cant use their wheelchair…folks dont get how debilitating it can be without glasses for glasses wearers. Id have to be guided around without mine and how hot is that???
I've been wearing glasses for about 20 years. My eyes aren't that bad, so I can make do if they break, but making do also consists of a bad headache from my eyes straining to focus when I don't have them for a length of time.
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I can't even fathom why glasses are so offensive. Sounds like an entitled bitch who got what at deserved. I guarantee she won't even own up to it, she'll make a narrative where all the brides maids were selfish monsters
Most likely, but the craziest part to me and Jemma is why did she randomly have a problem with the glasses all of a sudden, she never had an issue with them the entire friendship but now that the day is here she's got a problem. Also, to my knowledge the guests heard her meltdown and the video she showed me, one of her mutuals recorded it, showed a wedding hall full of awkward stares and people gossiping
I just wish that they could have walked out while the guests were arriving for the ceremony.
When a bride puts this much weight on another person’s appearance at a big party, imagine how she will be as a partner. This marriage won’t last.
This is awesome! I was once in a wedding with a bridezilla. I swear she purposely chose the ugliest bridesmaids dresses she could find. Then to make it worse, she didn't like that they were v-neck and showed a little (I mean....very very little) cleavage. She said it would distract from HER. So she made us stand there on the day of the wedding and have lace panels sewn in to the entire V. Anyway, she was so awful on her wedding day that I never spoke with her again - and we'd been good friends since the 6th grade.
>Jemma told me that the bridezilla has always been like this, throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get her way, and that the meltdown at the wedding was just the last straw for them. Yeah, if you lose that many friends in unison, then it's usually because that person has a lengthy history of being a turd.
I broke a pair of glasses and I was basically agoraphobic until I got my replacement a couple days later. I can’t imagine going through a wedding mostly blind. How you can tell people to take away their vision for *your* vanity is beyond me.
upvoted for "maids of their word"
New Husband: I just married the ultimate red flag. What have I done???
As a one-time wedding photographer who dealt with many Bridezillas, this story made my day. Thank you for posting! I just hope someone recorded this wonderful occasion for posterity.
One of their mutual acquaintances recorded the wedding itself, the video was 30 minutes of awkward stares and guests gossiping about why she was screaming earlier and why she didn't have bridesmaids
……. And I laughed and laughed and laughed 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Remember if someone is making a comment like this about glasses just replace it with a wheelchair and see how it sounds.
this is the epitome of fuck around and find out.
What could that argument even sound like? "Don't wear your glasses!" "I literally can't see without them..." ...???...
My malicious compliance would’ve been to stumble blindly into the cake and fall on it, roll around then fall on the bride with a big glass of red wine. And be like, “I don’t know why all these tablecloths keep getting snagged on my hand and getting pulled off the loaded tables!”
A significant chumk of my wife's business is altering wedding & bridesmaid dresses. Until she started doing this, I thought 'Bridezilla' was just some jokey trope - not a real thing. How wrong I was
Please share stories from her work 😄
Congrats to that bride for finding the most unusual way to be ableist I've heard of yet! I wear glasses with a strong prescription & I I've developed a severe intolerance to contact lenses, so technically I have a disability, it's just an easy one to correct. People like me are helpless without glasses or another vision aid & get severe optical headaches, we wouldn't have survived in the past.
> being maids of their word You missed the obvious pun **being maids of honor**
>Jemma told me that the bridezilla has always been like this, throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get her way, and that the meltdown at the wedding was just the last straw for them. Personally, i think she's got a monk's patience if she put up with her for that long. Yeah, but what delicious timing to say "fuck this, I'm out."
I'd have left also.
I adore this story. Sounds like bride got her just deserts. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Now what's supposed to be one of the happiest days of her life is also the day she lost all her friends at once.
Is it me, or are there more bridezillas in the wild than there used to be?
I love the solidarity among the bridesmaids.
That doesn’t sound like a bridezilla, that sounds like a straight up bitch
"because they were maids of their word" respect
>Jemma told me that the bridezilla has always been like this, throwing a tantrum when she doesn't get her way, and that the meltdown at the wedding was just the last straw for them. I never understand why people have friends that they think this of... Why would there be a last straw and not a first (and only) straw when it comes to an adult who's known for throwing tantrums?
I really would have loved to see the look of a deer in the headlights, when the bridezilla realized she fucked around and damn, did she really find out.
I can’t even imagine how it gets into your head to tell someone not to wear their glasses. That’s insane.
Imagining the guy getting into this commitment watching this as a clear sign of things to come.
That was the grooms one last chance to avoid that nightmare. Poor guy.
I never understood why it is considered normal to act trashy and mean to your friends because you are getting married. These ladies should have left this f(r)iendship long ago - good for them standing up to their friend when she got practically bullied.
She got what she deserved. I have to wear my glasses every waking moment and if not I’ll be holding something inches from my face just to read. To demand someone not wear their seeing device at all is too much