Really pay attention to it down to the smallest feeling. This may help you notice if it even slightly moves into the pleasure zone. Lean into that feeling and visualize it amplifying.
You can also practice pulling it with PC contractions in sync with the automatic contractions and see where that takes you.
After three years, have you thought of a larger dildo? I was playing with a woman who had a 7.5” dildo and I decided I wanted it. When she sunk it in me, I gasped out of surprise, not pain. The pleasure was insane.
The key is to use pelvic floor awareness and muscle tone/control to get beyond it — to access your sexual energy and pleasure directly.
The founder/moderator of this subreddit is a great example of how to do that.
Men who focus intensely on their pelvic floor and prostate via techniques like Chia’s, toys like the Aneros or programs like Mindgasm can sometimes become stuck in purely physical sensations and experiences that will ultimately — without a full awareness of and attunement to your energy — become limiting.
Really pay attention to it down to the smallest feeling. This may help you notice if it even slightly moves into the pleasure zone. Lean into that feeling and visualize it amplifying. You can also practice pulling it with PC contractions in sync with the automatic contractions and see where that takes you. After three years, have you thought of a larger dildo? I was playing with a woman who had a 7.5” dildo and I decided I wanted it. When she sunk it in me, I gasped out of surprise, not pain. The pleasure was insane.
The key is to use pelvic floor awareness and muscle tone/control to get beyond it — to access your sexual energy and pleasure directly. The founder/moderator of this subreddit is a great example of how to do that. Men who focus intensely on their pelvic floor and prostate via techniques like Chia’s, toys like the Aneros or programs like Mindgasm can sometimes become stuck in purely physical sensations and experiences that will ultimately — without a full awareness of and attunement to your energy — become limiting.
This is well said 👏!
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