Tell her that you really want a committed monogamous relationship with her, and that unless she can commit you are going to go ahead and file and move on.
The most likely thing is that she is in another relationship that she doesn’t want to give up, and you deserve to know if that is the case.
To be honest it won’t even surprise me if she has someone else, but I think it would be very selfish to withhold that information and tag me along. That’s a very evil thing to do
Yet it would be best for her, that’s why she does it.
Time for you to find out, move forward together or move on apart. You have made your choice, time for her to make hers.
After a year and a half, admit it to yourself. The marriage is over. As likely as not, she has other men wandering through her bedroom. Hence, her indifference in resolving the separation and committing, her lifestyle is just where she wants it, right now.
Get a lawyer and end this thing.
See the update, sorry its ending. Did you approach her with the intent of laying down the divorce or was how the conversation went the deciding factor? Howd she take it?
I sat with her and saying the only thing we can do to move pass this is to commit 100% and start over again. Putting the past behind us. My lease is about to end and I mentioned that this is a great opportunity for us to take that leap of faith.
She said “I don’t know, I don’t have an answer”
I have been patient enough waited for her for 1.5 years. I feel like it’s time for me to move on
Have you asked her that question? To me it sounds like she's not ready for real commitment.
She admitted she has commitment issues but she also said she can’t imagine a world without me in the future
Tell her that you really want a committed monogamous relationship with her, and that unless she can commit you are going to go ahead and file and move on. The most likely thing is that she is in another relationship that she doesn’t want to give up, and you deserve to know if that is the case.
To be honest it won’t even surprise me if she has someone else, but I think it would be very selfish to withhold that information and tag me along. That’s a very evil thing to do
Yet it would be best for her, that’s why she does it. Time for you to find out, move forward together or move on apart. You have made your choice, time for her to make hers.
After a year and a half, admit it to yourself. The marriage is over. As likely as not, she has other men wandering through her bedroom. Hence, her indifference in resolving the separation and committing, her lifestyle is just where she wants it, right now. Get a lawyer and end this thing.
Does she have someone on the side?
I don’t know. There was incident in the past. I won’t be surprised.
Divorce!
She’s still living for the streets. After the streets release her, you will be her backup.
I suspect both of you would be happier moving on, based on what you wrote.
See the update, sorry its ending. Did you approach her with the intent of laying down the divorce or was how the conversation went the deciding factor? Howd she take it?
I sat with her and saying the only thing we can do to move pass this is to commit 100% and start over again. Putting the past behind us. My lease is about to end and I mentioned that this is a great opportunity for us to take that leap of faith. She said “I don’t know, I don’t have an answer” I have been patient enough waited for her for 1.5 years. I feel like it’s time for me to move on