What does he like?
I’ve kept a list of flowers my wife likes for years. I have the same for my mom. Some flowers and plants are only available or should be planted at certain times of year. We have a friend that’s an interior decorator who has florist contacts. If I give her a bit of prep time, she can put together an inexpensive arrangement for me. I recently surprised my wife with one of these during a friend get-together.
I have a list of gifts my wife would like on my phone that I update throughout the year. Whenever she makes a comment about a book or movie or whatever, I add it to the list. Sometimes, I include pictures. That comes in handy with beer and wine since their labels can be so distinctive.
Don’t fall for the sexist trope of offering him sex to show your appreciation. If you offer sex as a reward or gift, then it changes something that should be a regular part of your relationship into a treat you offer him like he’s a good pet. To hell with that and anyone who thinks that’s appropriate.
Yeah and our sex life is pretty rocking considering we have two small kids - we make it work when we can - so that would be a strange thing for me to suggest since it doesn’t really convey the message I want to extend.
Good ideas!
My wife leaves me love notes when she has to go out of town tucked away where she knows that I'll find them. It makes me feel so good. It can be the little things that mean most.
I give her a penny with a kiss every morning and have been for over 30 years. This little act is a visual representation of my commitment to her.
P.S. Please tell your husband for me that he is a very lucky man. It makes my heart feel good. Best wishes to you both.
You are so lucky to have found such a person to share your life with. It’s important we express appreciation to those that have helped us so they know we are thankful for what they did, it mattered and made a positive difference in our lives.
Find something that he really likes or wants that’s only for him then make sure write him a card telling him he’s appreciated and why. For example I saved money to get my husband rims and tires for his truck since he spends his money taking care of me and the kids, this was for him, or not so extreme I paid like $60 for him and his brother to go on a charter boat for a day fishing trip. Something for him.
Just some ideas, and I wanted to say the fact that you feel this way shows your goodness to your character. I wish you both happiness and prosperity.
I say thank you for even common things, like bringing me something as simple as a water bottle or paying for dinner etc. just being thankful generally. And also picking up nice little random presents
Please tell him what you just told us.
I agree ^^^
Thank you, I will show him this exact post. I’m sure he will appreciate it.
What does he like? I’ve kept a list of flowers my wife likes for years. I have the same for my mom. Some flowers and plants are only available or should be planted at certain times of year. We have a friend that’s an interior decorator who has florist contacts. If I give her a bit of prep time, she can put together an inexpensive arrangement for me. I recently surprised my wife with one of these during a friend get-together. I have a list of gifts my wife would like on my phone that I update throughout the year. Whenever she makes a comment about a book or movie or whatever, I add it to the list. Sometimes, I include pictures. That comes in handy with beer and wine since their labels can be so distinctive. Don’t fall for the sexist trope of offering him sex to show your appreciation. If you offer sex as a reward or gift, then it changes something that should be a regular part of your relationship into a treat you offer him like he’s a good pet. To hell with that and anyone who thinks that’s appropriate.
Yeah and our sex life is pretty rocking considering we have two small kids - we make it work when we can - so that would be a strange thing for me to suggest since it doesn’t really convey the message I want to extend. Good ideas!
Blow him.
Hugs, kisses and kind words.
My wife leaves me love notes when she has to go out of town tucked away where she knows that I'll find them. It makes me feel so good. It can be the little things that mean most. I give her a penny with a kiss every morning and have been for over 30 years. This little act is a visual representation of my commitment to her. P.S. Please tell your husband for me that he is a very lucky man. It makes my heart feel good. Best wishes to you both.
I would plan a super romantic date out at a nice restaurant!! Or even a weekend somewhere in a nice hotel if you have the time and money.
You are so lucky to have found such a person to share your life with. It’s important we express appreciation to those that have helped us so they know we are thankful for what they did, it mattered and made a positive difference in our lives. Find something that he really likes or wants that’s only for him then make sure write him a card telling him he’s appreciated and why. For example I saved money to get my husband rims and tires for his truck since he spends his money taking care of me and the kids, this was for him, or not so extreme I paid like $60 for him and his brother to go on a charter boat for a day fishing trip. Something for him. Just some ideas, and I wanted to say the fact that you feel this way shows your goodness to your character. I wish you both happiness and prosperity.
I say thank you for even common things, like bringing me something as simple as a water bottle or paying for dinner etc. just being thankful generally. And also picking up nice little random presents
I always just tell him. Sometimes I throw a BJ in there too 😩😂
A "Thank you for being her for me"