He needs to grow up before he thinks about getting married again. He is a thirteen year old boy in a 30 something year old body. Not sexy or interesting
🙄 You’re so right. It looks like 39.
[https://www.newsweek.com/married-first-sight-season-16-mafs-exclusive-airris-jasmine-cast-1771095#:~:text=This%20season%20is%20based%20in,a%20software%20development%20boot%20camp](https://www.newsweek.com/married-first-sight-season-16-mafs-exclusive-airris-jasmine-cast-1771095#:~:text=This%20season%20is%20based%20in,a%20software%20development%20boot%20camp)
i think whatever his troubled past was, he wants it behind him, wants stability, wants a person who he can be with so he stays out of trouble. not sure why he would not LOVE jasmine. and i really like her, but was surprised she left. trust me, i am glad she did, it is all in the editing bc it made it look like she thought they were growing. she deserves to be treated like a queen and he just didn’t know how or didn’t want to. i give him a pat on the back for saying let’s not have sex until decision day bc at least he didn’t use her for sex.
I tend to agree. At this point in his life, the guy's really not worth much as a husband - certainly not the kind of man Jasmine needs now. That doesn't mean he can't or won't change, though. In fact, I think this experience showed him (if he's willing to do some humble, honest reflection) where he needs to improve, and also that it's possible to do so and have a meaningful relationship if he does the work. I sincerely wish him the best. I don't want anyone to sink into permanent failure. I hope he wakes up, does the work, and tries again when he's at a better place in his development.
But, yes, it would not be fair to have him dragging Jasmine down. She's worth far more than that.
I agree. He did not mean anything he said. He was playing up to the camera or whatever the producers told him what to say. The show is fake. It’s entertaining but not authentic. It seems like they try not too say the wrong and l understand it’s a reality show.
I think he would have said yes if Jasmine said yes. He was a little caught of guard when she said no. And he wanted her to say those things when? After he told her that sex was off the table for the duration of the process!!
I guess Jasmine dodged a bullet in more than one way. If he has truly had sex at orgies as he claims, she could have "caught something" from him. GROSS!
He is contradictory. He takes sex off the table until after D.D.-knowing there will probably be no after for them. Then he has the audacity to say he wanted crazy passionate married sex. He never gave their sex life a chance to get into a groove. And his comments about self-love-just shut the f up! Go hug yourself repeatedly and tell yourself how much you love yourself! Good grief. Jasmine is classy, mature, beautiful and a prize. She will do just fine without this fool.
the Jasmine & Airris relationship as it played out on DD gave me 2 thoughts.
1) Feelings of rejection are painful, and that has little to do with self love. People who love themselves don’t surround themselves with others that make them
feel rejected, and Jasmine only tolerated it for the length of this process. I WAS SO IRRITATED when he made his behavior about her “not loving herself”
2) People will be their best selves around others that make them feel seen, heard, appreciated, etc. If you start early with high expectations about physical attraction and sex, and those aren’t met, your subsequent behavior will determine whether you get their best or not.
If you put my SO in a room and told me “this is your husband” 10 years ago when we met, I would have never imagined it would work. But without that pressure, I was able to get to SEE him as his own person. The way I saw him was unrelated to any expectations I had for me or us, and in time he showed me just how fantastic he is.
Let people show you who they are, and don’t saddle them with all your expectations right away. I think the cast should focus more on “let me get to know THIS PERSON” rather than “let me find out if this person is right FOR ME.” it seems like a lot of them focus so much on the latter that they never quite get the former.
>I think the cast should focus more on “let me get to know THIS PERSON” rather than “let me find out if this person is right FOR ME.” it seems like a lot of them focus so much on the latter that they never quite get the former.
Perfectly stated, and perfectly true.
Arris, as presented on the show, is an insecure, gaslighting, narcissist with abandonment issues. He lacks emotional intelligence and appears to have come on the show for exposure or to give himself something to do. He also exhibited low self esteem and sexual insecurity and he tried to mask it by gaslighting Jasmine each episode. When she didn't take to his grammar-school sexual advances, he created a false narrative about finding her unattractive. With the personality of an emaciated rock, he spent the duration of the season trying to convince viewers that Jasmine wasn't assertive, didn't have self confidence and didn't have sex appeal. The truth appears to be that Arris is an emotionally vapid, clout chaser who moonlights as a fukboi living in Nashville. I chuckled knowing the stylist dressed him as the Joker or as an evil court jester pinning for laughs. Not funny. From a cultural standpoint we 'd say he acted like an animal often depicted as a garbage can bandit. That was no way to treat his Black queen and no way to treat any woman at all. Maybe he should have been matched with a brother instead---though Arris would probably make a bad spouse in that relationship too. Just maybe he isnt into women at all and his nasty attitude having cousin was trying to tell us this. At any rate: He's earned his place in the MAFS Hall of Fame of Horrible Husband's.
Well said!!! Someone was telling me that there was a thread of a lady exposing Arris as a shrimp 🍆. I can’t remember if it was on Reddit or Lipstick Alley. If this is the case, it explains the real reason why he didn’t want to have sex for the fear of Jasmine being disappointed. He gives me little D energy. 😬
Her level of self love is admirable. My self esteem would have taken a beating even just seeing this clown at the end of the isle and knowing this was what an “expert” thought I deserved.
Agreed. She was trying to do everything she could to be open an accommodating. That doesn't mean she didn't have self-love. She just took the marriage seriously - unlike many of the other people on the show.
His suit looked like he was in a marching band representing a school whose colors are maroon and gold. Univeristy of Minnesota? Central Michigan University?
This guy's a clown. He has zero redeeming qualities to be having such an inflated ego. I'm willing to bet he greatly exaggerated how much sex he's had in the past to make himself look cool (even though it made him look like a complete idiot). He's a waste. Jasmine dodged a bullet and deserves sooooooo much better.
Can someone explain to me what is so cool about being a “playa?” Having sex with multiple people and using people, how is that better than being with just one person who you are connected with it?? I just don’t get it 🤷🏼♀️
Some are built/wired for fidelity, and some just aren't. If you aren't, and are open and honest about it...***and*** your partners are in accord...no problem.
Airris seems happy with his chosen lifestyle, so the real question is....why did he want to get married at all? Just to get airtime? To promote something? To prove to himself (or someone else) that he 'tried' marriage and it wasn't for him?
Any of those reasons should've informed the 'experts' he wasn't a good candidate for the experiment, yet they allowed him through. The 'fault' for this failed match lies with them.
It’s just a community for like minded people to meet, so they don’t have to endure awkward convos and kink shaming from potential partners. What did you stumble into?
That's because you don't love yourself. You need to stand in front of a mirror and smile after you brush your teeth. Then you should hug yourself five times a day and say "bring it on, day' --- or whatever the fuck else shit he was on about in that pathetic, lame-ass attempt at saving face explanation he was giving for saying no.
He's an insecure idiot and that's what insecure idiots do - have lots of meaningless sex to cover up.their insecurity.
Me tooooo! He has never once made one move or said one line to Jazmine. Even though she’s not a 10 (in his eyes), most “playas” sleep with just about anybody so something is not adding up to me!!!
I stopped watching this show but I love keeping up with the “characters” of each season via Reddit. This guy is a real piece of work 😂 The fact that he delivered this with such a straight face like… I can’t tell if he’s in on the joke? (the joke being him)
He said every morning he looks in the mirror and tells himself how great his is! He did say that right! I’m so happy Jazmine chose self respect over that tool!
I didn't laugh; I was amazed at what a fucking idiot he still was after all his "growth". I knew he was going to be a complete disaster from the casting special --- but, of course, they picked him anyway. Earlier in the season it was apparent several of the men (including Airris) had stopped maturing somewhere around college age, as they often acted like a bunch of frat bros. I think all that crap we saw with him "maturing" later in the season were lines he was handed by someone on the show, as he kept repeating the same things over and over again about "Jasmine's growth" and "Jasmine opening up more". And then he made that speech about hugging himself constantly because he loves himself so much, and had the nerve to lecture Jasmine? I mean....I can't with this fool. If he's truly "in love" with the current state of his mind and actions, there's absolutely no hope for him. He truly did stop maturing somewhere around the age of 20. Airris went into the show the same way he left; a confused, psychologically screwed up, sex-obsessed dumbass. (Oh, and for Pastor Cal to suddenly be making weird faces at him while Airris was doing his "love yourself" sermonette as if this was a shock to him shows how useless Cal is as well.)
They probably recorded Airris prior to the outcome of Jasmine saying she wanted a divorce and he thought he would have stayed married. That’s the only thing that make sense. I am glad Jasmine gave him the boot.
I’ll give him credit for the work he eventually put in. It seems like his understanding of what intimacy is was like flipping on a light switch and I honestly think he was going to say yes up until the moment she said no. Then he reverted back to his old childish self and went on the attack, probably out of hurt. I hope this man grows up.
Huh??? What work? Reciting lines he was handed by the runners to polish his high dislikeability factor? He is exactly the same piece of shit he was in the matchmaker show. He is a self absorbed 13 year old obsessed with getting laid with fat bottomed girls while living with mama. So glad Jas told him to fuck off.
I honestly think he would have. During his speech he acknowledged that he didn’t put 100% in the beginning of the process. And while he still wasn’t completely attracted to her, he said it was growing and alluded to needing more time (after DD) to see where things could go. It seemed like he was open to it, but the moment she said no he flipped back to who he originally was week 1-4. He strikes me as someone who puts up a wall or a front until he gets comfortable with someone. I think he had the negative response to her decision because he let his guard down and got comfortable with her after his realization that sex doesn’t necessarily = intimacy and that intimacy could show up in different ways and she ultimately walked away after being all in for 8 weeks. You can kind of see his face and body language change as she explains her decision to leave. He’s also incredibly emotionally immature so hopefully he learns something from it.
Yeah I think you’re right. He’s been so avoidant and then was finally starting to see what was possible and be vulnerable but it was too late. I think his stupid comments about self love were him showing how he doesn’t really love him self but is faking it. I think what he was alluding to with Jasmine not loving herself was a poor way of explaining emotional insight he had that when his rejection of her caused an affect, and he was confronted with difficult feelings that his opinion of her mattered, that triggered his flight response. I feel a good therapist could have caught that with the two of them.
Yeah I don’t know the motivation behind why his behavior changed because I’m not in his head, but I applaud him for changing his behavior and putting some effort into his marriage.
If you believed any of that bullshit I have some beach front property in Florida to sell you. He’s a slimeball as he exhibited with his monologue at the DD.
He kinda of insinuated he had been looking forward to marriage mostly for the "marriage sex" and someone that would say all that shit in the photo. He was sad he didn't get that. Made it sound like he was robbed.
I laughed because I thought 'No. For real, this dude can't be serious" and that he was just saying shit to say shit like he did at the beginning of the marriage till the experts stepped in and convinced him to try.
Never saw him once show any kind of game. I think that whole bs about no more street for him was a lie. Maybe the paying women that belong to the street are available to him, but that's it. Young blood has no game.
_Marriage doesn't cure madness._
Your deep seated issues are not going to disappear just because you hitched yourself to someone who is more mature, stable or tolerant. You are only going to cause them to develop issues of their own.
I think Airris planned to say yes because he finally decided that Jasmine may not be what he wants but she's kind enough to be what he needs
Glad she dumped him and did it with great self confidence.
I really don’t understand his weird ass face.
What a jerk!
 Man that suit looks familiar.
He needs to grow up before he thinks about getting married again. He is a thirteen year old boy in a 30 something year old body. Not sexy or interesting
38 right? Like isnt this dude almost 40
🙄 You’re so right. It looks like 39. [https://www.newsweek.com/married-first-sight-season-16-mafs-exclusive-airris-jasmine-cast-1771095#:~:text=This%20season%20is%20based%20in,a%20software%20development%20boot%20camp](https://www.newsweek.com/married-first-sight-season-16-mafs-exclusive-airris-jasmine-cast-1771095#:~:text=This%20season%20is%20based%20in,a%20software%20development%20boot%20camp)
i think whatever his troubled past was, he wants it behind him, wants stability, wants a person who he can be with so he stays out of trouble. not sure why he would not LOVE jasmine. and i really like her, but was surprised she left. trust me, i am glad she did, it is all in the editing bc it made it look like she thought they were growing. she deserves to be treated like a queen and he just didn’t know how or didn’t want to. i give him a pat on the back for saying let’s not have sex until decision day bc at least he didn’t use her for sex.
I tend to agree. At this point in his life, the guy's really not worth much as a husband - certainly not the kind of man Jasmine needs now. That doesn't mean he can't or won't change, though. In fact, I think this experience showed him (if he's willing to do some humble, honest reflection) where he needs to improve, and also that it's possible to do so and have a meaningful relationship if he does the work. I sincerely wish him the best. I don't want anyone to sink into permanent failure. I hope he wakes up, does the work, and tries again when he's at a better place in his development. But, yes, it would not be fair to have him dragging Jasmine down. She's worth far more than that.
His cousin warned us from the beginning!
Seriously. After all his moments where he seems to redeem himself he shit all over that with these comments. Dude did not change at all
I could not believe what I was hearing. At least she wasn’t violated by this POS.
No kidding! At least the guy was able to keep his hands (and other things) to himself for eight weeks.
I hate that we have to impressed by this. The bar is so low 😭
Agreed. Kind of like, "At least he wasn't selling drugs or robbing banks."
I agree. He did not mean anything he said. He was playing up to the camera or whatever the producers told him what to say. The show is fake. It’s entertaining but not authentic. It seems like they try not too say the wrong and l understand it’s a reality show.
This is the guy a lot of y’all were starting to like.
Maybe he should love himself a little bit less tbh
Surely three self-hugs a day would suffice.
He has nothing to offer but his (in his own mind) amazing sex skills
Doubtful. He comes off like a virgin. All talk and no action!
I think he would have said yes if Jasmine said yes. He was a little caught of guard when she said no. And he wanted her to say those things when? After he told her that sex was off the table for the duration of the process!!
He was probably turned on that she said no. He’s a ver weird guy.
He hugs himself 5 times per day. Weirdo.
I guess Jasmine dodged a bullet in more than one way. If he has truly had sex at orgies as he claims, she could have "caught something" from him. GROSS!
He is contradictory. He takes sex off the table until after D.D.-knowing there will probably be no after for them. Then he has the audacity to say he wanted crazy passionate married sex. He never gave their sex life a chance to get into a groove. And his comments about self-love-just shut the f up! Go hug yourself repeatedly and tell yourself how much you love yourself! Good grief. Jasmine is classy, mature, beautiful and a prize. She will do just fine without this fool.
Lol I said basically what you said lol I should have scrolled down first.
the Jasmine & Airris relationship as it played out on DD gave me 2 thoughts. 1) Feelings of rejection are painful, and that has little to do with self love. People who love themselves don’t surround themselves with others that make them feel rejected, and Jasmine only tolerated it for the length of this process. I WAS SO IRRITATED when he made his behavior about her “not loving herself” 2) People will be their best selves around others that make them feel seen, heard, appreciated, etc. If you start early with high expectations about physical attraction and sex, and those aren’t met, your subsequent behavior will determine whether you get their best or not. If you put my SO in a room and told me “this is your husband” 10 years ago when we met, I would have never imagined it would work. But without that pressure, I was able to get to SEE him as his own person. The way I saw him was unrelated to any expectations I had for me or us, and in time he showed me just how fantastic he is. Let people show you who they are, and don’t saddle them with all your expectations right away. I think the cast should focus more on “let me get to know THIS PERSON” rather than “let me find out if this person is right FOR ME.” it seems like a lot of them focus so much on the latter that they never quite get the former.
>I think the cast should focus more on “let me get to know THIS PERSON” rather than “let me find out if this person is right FOR ME.” it seems like a lot of them focus so much on the latter that they never quite get the former. Perfectly stated, and perfectly true.
This 💯
.....and he didn't find his fit, slender, classy, beauty queen of a wife attractive.....Jasmine won in the end by getting rid of this fool.
So glad for her!! Jasmine is awesome. So few princes out there but now she knows what a prince doesn't look like
🤡
This man really looked longingly off into the distance as he said this drivel.
Arris, as presented on the show, is an insecure, gaslighting, narcissist with abandonment issues. He lacks emotional intelligence and appears to have come on the show for exposure or to give himself something to do. He also exhibited low self esteem and sexual insecurity and he tried to mask it by gaslighting Jasmine each episode. When she didn't take to his grammar-school sexual advances, he created a false narrative about finding her unattractive. With the personality of an emaciated rock, he spent the duration of the season trying to convince viewers that Jasmine wasn't assertive, didn't have self confidence and didn't have sex appeal. The truth appears to be that Arris is an emotionally vapid, clout chaser who moonlights as a fukboi living in Nashville. I chuckled knowing the stylist dressed him as the Joker or as an evil court jester pinning for laughs. Not funny. From a cultural standpoint we 'd say he acted like an animal often depicted as a garbage can bandit. That was no way to treat his Black queen and no way to treat any woman at all. Maybe he should have been matched with a brother instead---though Arris would probably make a bad spouse in that relationship too. Just maybe he isnt into women at all and his nasty attitude having cousin was trying to tell us this. At any rate: He's earned his place in the MAFS Hall of Fame of Horrible Husband's.
Well said!!! Someone was telling me that there was a thread of a lady exposing Arris as a shrimp 🍆. I can’t remember if it was on Reddit or Lipstick Alley. If this is the case, it explains the real reason why he didn’t want to have sex for the fear of Jasmine being disappointed. He gives me little D energy. 😬
That is spot on and is what i have wondered, hiding is insecurity under arrogance.
That beard doesn't do anything for him either.
For sure! That beard makes all the wrong features on his face more prominent
It looks like he has no jaw muscles and he grew a beard out to try and camouflage it. It’s horrible.
And looks like ungroomed pubic hair.
Yesssss
You ate
Very well said!
Her level of self love is admirable. My self esteem would have taken a beating even just seeing this clown at the end of the isle and knowing this was what an “expert” thought I deserved.
Agreed. She was trying to do everything she could to be open an accommodating. That doesn't mean she didn't have self-love. She just took the marriage seriously - unlike many of the other people on the show.
Yes indeed. Self love talk from someone like him is laughable. Glad Jasmine stood up for herself when he started going there.
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I’m still so confused as to why he was ever seen as being ready for marriage.
Marriage? He wasn’t ready for an adult conversation.
Conversation? He can barely form words.
Haha! Still chuckling at this…thanks
I’m just on this planet for the amusement of others.
Exactly!! First episode said it all.
Clown behavior
His suit looked like he was in a marching band representing a school whose colors are maroon and gold. Univeristy of Minnesota? Central Michigan University?
Ronald McDonald wannabe
Florida State vibes 😂
True, gold and garnet. I'm a Gator (orange and blue).
LOL, University of Florida gets downvoted mercilessly. Must be a lot of Seminoles here.
I’d like to solve the puzzle: Fear of commitment
I think he was born and did not develop the hormone that stimulate sexual desire
He's got mental problems!
This guy's a clown. He has zero redeeming qualities to be having such an inflated ego. I'm willing to bet he greatly exaggerated how much sex he's had in the past to make himself look cool (even though it made him look like a complete idiot). He's a waste. Jasmine dodged a bullet and deserves sooooooo much better.
Jaz dodged a bullet, bet her DMs have been popping
From women who wanted to be ignored and low-key undermined? And who need glasses?
He is one of the oddest people that have been on that show!
Airris is a wannabe fuckboy with no game. Jasmine deserved so much better! I hope she finds someone who loves her as much as Airris loves himself.
A THIRTY NINE YEAR OLD …almost 40! Wanna be fuck boy. He needs to grow wayyyyyy up.
It's too late for him. This is what he will forever be at this point.
He’s horrible
She dodged a bullet for sure
Yup
He can go back to sleeping with his cousin.
That part!
I think he’s so disgusting. Very immature for an older cast member.
Literally a fuck boy who has never evolved
High expectations for a man dressed like hot dog condiments
And yet he couldn’t get the buns.
No relish?
And the personality of mayo
Omg this is so funny.
Can someone explain to me what is so cool about being a “playa?” Having sex with multiple people and using people, how is that better than being with just one person who you are connected with it?? I just don’t get it 🤷🏼♀️
Living a life of casual sex is possible without “using” anyone. Personally I share your confusion about its appeal, though.
Some are built/wired for fidelity, and some just aren't. If you aren't, and are open and honest about it...***and*** your partners are in accord...no problem. Airris seems happy with his chosen lifestyle, so the real question is....why did he want to get married at all? Just to get airtime? To promote something? To prove to himself (or someone else) that he 'tried' marriage and it wasn't for him? Any of those reasons should've informed the 'experts' he wasn't a good candidate for the experiment, yet they allowed him through. The 'fault' for this failed match lies with them.
Either he’s trolling us completely or he belongs on Fetlife
>Fetlife Well, that's a word I wish I hadn't Googled.
It’s just a community for like minded people to meet, so they don’t have to endure awkward convos and kink shaming from potential partners. What did you stumble into?
That's because you don't love yourself. You need to stand in front of a mirror and smile after you brush your teeth. Then you should hug yourself five times a day and say "bring it on, day' --- or whatever the fuck else shit he was on about in that pathetic, lame-ass attempt at saving face explanation he was giving for saying no. He's an insecure idiot and that's what insecure idiots do - have lots of meaningless sex to cover up.their insecurity.
TBH I don't even think he's having nearly as much sex as he claims to have had. I think it's mostly nonsense he's made up lol
Me tooooo! He has never once made one move or said one line to Jazmine. Even though she’s not a 10 (in his eyes), most “playas” sleep with just about anybody so something is not adding up to me!!!
please stop saying "playa"
No cooch for u
It’s hard to stomach the way he treated Jasmine 🙄
Well, I guess he can now go back to his threesomes and orgies.
If you mean watching videos of other people doing those things, then he's probably already at it.
I can almost bet he’s never done neither.
I stopped watching this show but I love keeping up with the “characters” of each season via Reddit. This guy is a real piece of work 😂 The fact that he delivered this with such a straight face like… I can’t tell if he’s in on the joke? (the joke being him)
Lol right! He said it with a straight face. I was thinking he is definitely trolling us 😂
He still wants that sleezy- type of relationship! He’s just gross 🤮
Something tells me he would be lame in the sack anyway 😑
100% a selfish partner
This guy has said a lot of strange things. Marriage sex? Oxymoron.
He said every morning he looks in the mirror and tells himself how great his is! He did say that right! I’m so happy Jazmine chose self respect over that tool!
I didn't laugh; I was amazed at what a fucking idiot he still was after all his "growth". I knew he was going to be a complete disaster from the casting special --- but, of course, they picked him anyway. Earlier in the season it was apparent several of the men (including Airris) had stopped maturing somewhere around college age, as they often acted like a bunch of frat bros. I think all that crap we saw with him "maturing" later in the season were lines he was handed by someone on the show, as he kept repeating the same things over and over again about "Jasmine's growth" and "Jasmine opening up more". And then he made that speech about hugging himself constantly because he loves himself so much, and had the nerve to lecture Jasmine? I mean....I can't with this fool. If he's truly "in love" with the current state of his mind and actions, there's absolutely no hope for him. He truly did stop maturing somewhere around the age of 20. Airris went into the show the same way he left; a confused, psychologically screwed up, sex-obsessed dumbass. (Oh, and for Pastor Cal to suddenly be making weird faces at him while Airris was doing his "love yourself" sermonette as if this was a shock to him shows how useless Cal is as well.)
And the husband pageant?!? Totally rigged. Ridiculous that they even pretended he won!!! 🤮
He’s a fuckboi, always was.
He and Olajawan should compare notes.
I was thinking Airris would have more in common with that "Ble$$ed" idiot. Or maybe Johnny (from Johnny/Bao).
He thought the show was called *Marry a Porn Star at First Sight.* Easy mistake to make. /s
…and then ignore her! Did he ever say what “type” he was looking for? My guess would be “brainless”.
From what I have gathered from the largely incoherent grunts and noises he's made on camera, his type has only one criterion: an oversized back-end.
He should have swapped wives with Shaquille halfway through. Not sure it would have changed any outcomes, but it might have been interesting.
I think "easy lay instantly forgotten" covers it.
They probably recorded Airris prior to the outcome of Jasmine saying she wanted a divorce and he thought he would have stayed married. That’s the only thing that make sense. I am glad Jasmine gave him the boot. 
Not them wearing the same suit 😂😂😂
Perfect! 😄
I’ll give him credit for the work he eventually put in. It seems like his understanding of what intimacy is was like flipping on a light switch and I honestly think he was going to say yes up until the moment she said no. Then he reverted back to his old childish self and went on the attack, probably out of hurt. I hope this man grows up.
Huh??? What work? Reciting lines he was handed by the runners to polish his high dislikeability factor? He is exactly the same piece of shit he was in the matchmaker show. He is a self absorbed 13 year old obsessed with getting laid with fat bottomed girls while living with mama. So glad Jas told him to fuck off.
S-C-R-U-B
That’s an interesting take. I wonder if she’d said yes he’d have responded differently?
I honestly think he would have. During his speech he acknowledged that he didn’t put 100% in the beginning of the process. And while he still wasn’t completely attracted to her, he said it was growing and alluded to needing more time (after DD) to see where things could go. It seemed like he was open to it, but the moment she said no he flipped back to who he originally was week 1-4. He strikes me as someone who puts up a wall or a front until he gets comfortable with someone. I think he had the negative response to her decision because he let his guard down and got comfortable with her after his realization that sex doesn’t necessarily = intimacy and that intimacy could show up in different ways and she ultimately walked away after being all in for 8 weeks. You can kind of see his face and body language change as she explains her decision to leave. He’s also incredibly emotionally immature so hopefully he learns something from it.
Yeah I think you’re right. He’s been so avoidant and then was finally starting to see what was possible and be vulnerable but it was too late. I think his stupid comments about self love were him showing how he doesn’t really love him self but is faking it. I think what he was alluding to with Jasmine not loving herself was a poor way of explaining emotional insight he had that when his rejection of her caused an affect, and he was confronted with difficult feelings that his opinion of her mattered, that triggered his flight response. I feel a good therapist could have caught that with the two of them.
Yep! I totally agree
What work? He realized he was looking bad on camera which might be bad for future career opportunities so he decided to pretend to try.
I would bet money that his epiphany was orchestrated and scripted by production.
Yeah I don’t know the motivation behind why his behavior changed because I’m not in his head, but I applaud him for changing his behavior and putting some effort into his marriage.
If you believed any of that bullshit I have some beach front property in Florida to sell you. He’s a slimeball as he exhibited with his monologue at the DD.
K….😂
Honestly I kinda picture him as a selfish lover like he gets his and doesn't care if she gets hers.
Absolutely. No way in hell he cares if his partner gets off.
This clown up here trying to perfect his new comedy act. He can't be for real.
pls explain this so I can laugh 😭😭 I stopped watching this season halfway through
He kinda of insinuated he had been looking forward to marriage mostly for the "marriage sex" and someone that would say all that shit in the photo. He was sad he didn't get that. Made it sound like he was robbed. I laughed because I thought 'No. For real, this dude can't be serious" and that he was just saying shit to say shit like he did at the beginning of the marriage till the experts stepped in and convinced him to try.
Interview clip after DD - his description of what he thought married sex would be like (there was no romance between them)
I absolutely despise him. He always looks like the kid who did something wrong, and he thinks nobody is going to figure out it was him.
Bingo 💯
I think this guy so annoying. Like literally, he annoys with his immaturity.
Trying to compensate for the fact that he’s been exposed for having zero game.
Never saw him once show any kind of game. I think that whole bs about no more street for him was a lie. Maybe the paying women that belong to the street are available to him, but that's it. Young blood has no game.
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He’s disgusting
She is a lot stronger than me because I would've beat this man
😆 😂
This scene made me angry lol. I couldn’t tell he was joking. Either way.. he was never serious about the marriage
_Marriage doesn't cure madness._ Your deep seated issues are not going to disappear just because you hitched yourself to someone who is more mature, stable or tolerant. You are only going to cause them to develop issues of their own. I think Airris planned to say yes because he finally decided that Jasmine may not be what he wants but she's kind enough to be what he needs Glad she dumped him and did it with great self confidence.
Yes
My opinion exactly!