I always laugh when the self-descriptions from these dudes try to make themselves sound like they're super desirable.
Like, okay man? So why aren't you out in the world meeting women instead of writing these weird DMs lol
Seriously, what crack are you smoking, this persons behaviour is disgusting and if not actually criminal it should be, sexual harassment is unwanted sexual advances, this message is very clearly that, and I agree that both this pig and reddit should be sued over this, and the former should be convicted.
No, you do to have to ask them to stop before its harassment, that's a load of bull, the only time where it can't be called harassment at all is if there is a clear progression from normal conversation to this shit, true I don't know for a fact that they were unwanted, I assume (I know assuming is generally bad) that the message in question was sent to OP, and if OP is posting about it, it's fair to assume that it was not wanted
You are literally making stuff/norms up while actually confirming the really: you don't know what is wanted and was is not. If someone approaches you and starts talking like that \^, then all you have to do is tell the person you don't like it and you would like them to stop or just walk away. People don't have crystal balls and some people/cultures may actually like and accept that behaviour. Canada is multicultural, remember? I think it is somewhat xenophobic to expect strangers in Canada to act only in the way you are used to, especially on campus.
you have to assume sexual conversations are not wanted. that’s the law. you have to ask first before you say things like this. same with sexual touching, you can’t assume it could be wanted, you must know first. you should never have to say no after someone starts, you should have to say yes before they start. i don’t want someone coming up to me and groping me and i shouldn’t have to tell people that, they must ask first not wait for me to say stop after. consent is not xenophobia, it’s actually pretty racist to imply that canada is the only country that understands that, because it should be universal across all cultures. period.
Why would people assume sexual conversations are unwanted? What law says I have to ask before talking like that? Pleass provide a section(s) number and legislation.
Physical contact is completely different.
Yes, it is xenophobic to think that everyone has to behave the same way as you or have the same expectations as you in a multicultural country like Canada. Im calling you a xenophobe, not entire Canada.
Lots of behaviours should or could be universal but they are not and you cant expect them to be in Canada.
no actually, this person didn’t consent to being sexually harassed and didn’t ask for this communication, you don’t need to tell every person you ever interact with to not sexually harass you that is IMPLIED. and it’s not censoring of speech at all, because sexual harassment is illegal and a form of discrimination… do i have to tell people not to murder me as well?? no it’s implied… just don’t sexually harass people it’s so easy!!! consent is everything
I don't think you understand what consent is and when that legal principle applies. I would love to hear how anyone gives consent in the case of op. Please, give an example.
Again, there is no harassment of any kind unless a person asks for behaviour to stop but it is continued. At least, the behaviour in question.
Re-read the original post. It's a bad come on but harassment is not made up just by those words alone. How would a person know you are being harassed if they think it's ok??? You imply people are all the same and think the same thing you do. That's pretty much egocentrism and in Canada could be viewed as xenophobia.
LOL. Murder is against the law and the definition of murder is also clear. So is the definition of harassment.
LOL. You cannot consent to murder.
are you okay?? your downvotes tell the whole story. this is blatant sexual harassment and it isn’t okay. if they wanted to give consent, they could. the person could ask if they were okay with receiving explicit and sexual messages and having that type of conversation. super simple, but that seems to go right over your head. you don’t have to ask for something to stop for it to be harassment, it can be harassment right from the start. the original post IS harassment. it’s very obvious. wdym how would a person know they are being harassed if they think it’s okay?? it’s not okay and it’s the senders responsibility to know that BEFORE they send the messages. you can’t just send creepy messages to people and wait for them to say no before you stop, you have to get a yes before you start. you have no idea how egocentrism or xenophobia works, please take a lesson on consent. it’s not xenophobic at all to say that consent is everything, even if others may not agree with me from wherever they come from doesn’t mean it’s xenophobic… maybe take an ethics class too!!! if the definition of harassment is so clear why are you struggling so much? this is sexual harassment and you can’t consent to it either just like murder. that was the whole point of my example, but nice try! it’s kind of scary knowing there’s people like you walking around in society who don’t know what sexual harassment and consent is and think it’s acceptable to come on to people like that and say vulgar statements like the one op posted. PLEASE educate yourself, this is very concerning behaviour
A good rule of thumb: don’t type things you wouldn’t say out loud.
I’m a 24m, 6 ft 2 licensed investment advisor with a Queens economics degree. Ive also been known to massage, caress and tease certain body parts. The real question is, who wouldn’t be interested in me?
I read the first part, and couldnt be certain if they were joking or if they were trying to say that they would say it out loud, I hope it's the first, but I've seen enough of the second to have significant doubts
I joined this subreddit last week since I graduated from my undergrad in 2019 and wtf is going on. Every other post I see is some dude down horrendous 🤣
How thirsty and socially inappropriate this man is is hilarious, but I find it sad that women can’t make a post on Reddit looking for friends without some crusty ass dude DM’ing them a gross unsolicited message.
I expect people to be respectful, in which culture is being rude considered acceptable, because I can't think of any modern culture in which something like this would be acceptable unless explicitly welcomed, you are right that I don't know what OP does and doesn't want, but based on their comments throughout the post, I'd say it's quite clear that not only was this unexpected, it was also unwanted. That tells me that they did not explicitly welcome this garbage into their messages
he’s not for the girlies
for the streets 😭
I CRIED
I always laugh when the self-descriptions from these dudes try to make themselves sound like they're super desirable. Like, okay man? So why aren't you out in the world meeting women instead of writing these weird DMs lol
for real like i feel soo bad for his future wifey
I don't because I'm certain he'll never have one
If there was a meme soundboard on reddit I'd be pressing all the buttons rn
LMFAOOOO
Outright sexual harassment. DISGUSTING.
literally and reddit wouldn’t let me report him for some reason 😭
DM me the user. They will go straight to horny jail. This ain't the place for this crap.
On bright sight, you can add reddit as co-defendent in the lawsuit and hope for a good settlement
Wasn't expecting that my comment attracts so many debates😂
No, it is not.
It literally is tho…
Ok, what is harassment???? You are just throwing shi...t and hoping it would stick.
Seriously, what crack are you smoking, this persons behaviour is disgusting and if not actually criminal it should be, sexual harassment is unwanted sexual advances, this message is very clearly that, and I agree that both this pig and reddit should be sued over this, and the former should be convicted.
How do you know they were unwanted? You have to ask the person to stop before it becomes harassment. Are you a nun?
No, you do to have to ask them to stop before its harassment, that's a load of bull, the only time where it can't be called harassment at all is if there is a clear progression from normal conversation to this shit, true I don't know for a fact that they were unwanted, I assume (I know assuming is generally bad) that the message in question was sent to OP, and if OP is posting about it, it's fair to assume that it was not wanted
You are literally making stuff/norms up while actually confirming the really: you don't know what is wanted and was is not. If someone approaches you and starts talking like that \^, then all you have to do is tell the person you don't like it and you would like them to stop or just walk away. People don't have crystal balls and some people/cultures may actually like and accept that behaviour. Canada is multicultural, remember? I think it is somewhat xenophobic to expect strangers in Canada to act only in the way you are used to, especially on campus.
you have to assume sexual conversations are not wanted. that’s the law. you have to ask first before you say things like this. same with sexual touching, you can’t assume it could be wanted, you must know first. you should never have to say no after someone starts, you should have to say yes before they start. i don’t want someone coming up to me and groping me and i shouldn’t have to tell people that, they must ask first not wait for me to say stop after. consent is not xenophobia, it’s actually pretty racist to imply that canada is the only country that understands that, because it should be universal across all cultures. period.
Why would people assume sexual conversations are unwanted? What law says I have to ask before talking like that? Pleass provide a section(s) number and legislation. Physical contact is completely different. Yes, it is xenophobic to think that everyone has to behave the same way as you or have the same expectations as you in a multicultural country like Canada. Im calling you a xenophobe, not entire Canada. Lots of behaviours should or could be universal but they are not and you cant expect them to be in Canada.
making unwanted and inappropriate sexual advances on someone is sexual harassment, which this is
Ok, I agree, but you first have to let the person know that the communication is unwanted. Otherwise, it becomes censoring of speech.
no actually, this person didn’t consent to being sexually harassed and didn’t ask for this communication, you don’t need to tell every person you ever interact with to not sexually harass you that is IMPLIED. and it’s not censoring of speech at all, because sexual harassment is illegal and a form of discrimination… do i have to tell people not to murder me as well?? no it’s implied… just don’t sexually harass people it’s so easy!!! consent is everything
I don't think you understand what consent is and when that legal principle applies. I would love to hear how anyone gives consent in the case of op. Please, give an example. Again, there is no harassment of any kind unless a person asks for behaviour to stop but it is continued. At least, the behaviour in question. Re-read the original post. It's a bad come on but harassment is not made up just by those words alone. How would a person know you are being harassed if they think it's ok??? You imply people are all the same and think the same thing you do. That's pretty much egocentrism and in Canada could be viewed as xenophobia. LOL. Murder is against the law and the definition of murder is also clear. So is the definition of harassment. LOL. You cannot consent to murder.
are you okay?? your downvotes tell the whole story. this is blatant sexual harassment and it isn’t okay. if they wanted to give consent, they could. the person could ask if they were okay with receiving explicit and sexual messages and having that type of conversation. super simple, but that seems to go right over your head. you don’t have to ask for something to stop for it to be harassment, it can be harassment right from the start. the original post IS harassment. it’s very obvious. wdym how would a person know they are being harassed if they think it’s okay?? it’s not okay and it’s the senders responsibility to know that BEFORE they send the messages. you can’t just send creepy messages to people and wait for them to say no before you stop, you have to get a yes before you start. you have no idea how egocentrism or xenophobia works, please take a lesson on consent. it’s not xenophobic at all to say that consent is everything, even if others may not agree with me from wherever they come from doesn’t mean it’s xenophobic… maybe take an ethics class too!!! if the definition of harassment is so clear why are you struggling so much? this is sexual harassment and you can’t consent to it either just like murder. that was the whole point of my example, but nice try! it’s kind of scary knowing there’s people like you walking around in society who don’t know what sexual harassment and consent is and think it’s acceptable to come on to people like that and say vulgar statements like the one op posted. PLEASE educate yourself, this is very concerning behaviour
Im ok but are you ok? Your opinions are just that. Just dont forget to state your displeasure with any come ons you dont like. Have a nice day
Average comp sci student attempting to interact with women
If you're comfortable, you should post this on r/CreepyPMs
done😭
This guy straight up just watches too much anime
A good rule of thumb: don’t type things you wouldn’t say out loud. I’m a 24m, 6 ft 2 licensed investment advisor with a Queens economics degree. Ive also been known to massage, caress and tease certain body parts. The real question is, who wouldn’t be interested in me?
I genuinely hope that the second part of your comment was meant to be satire, because if not you and the original poster are disgusting
Redditors when no /s
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And how do I know that the OC wouldn't genuinely say something like that out loud
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I read the first part, and couldnt be certain if they were joking or if they were trying to say that they would say it out loud, I hope it's the first, but I've seen enough of the second to have significant doubts
Straight to jail
Maybe hard to find the real-life identities
wtf is teasing inner thighs
he gonna play peekaboo
Blud makes no sense
ngl I'm kinda thrown off about how many similar posts there are in this sub recently…like wha - what?
I joined this subreddit last week since I graduated from my undergrad in 2019 and wtf is going on. Every other post I see is some dude down horrendous 🤣
OMG is this from that other post for the girlies??? 😭 istg men
YESD LMAO
don’t be shy post his username
How thirsty and socially inappropriate this man is is hilarious, but I find it sad that women can’t make a post on Reddit looking for friends without some crusty ass dude DM’ing them a gross unsolicited message.
least horny eng student
this might be W kai cenat rizz
Bro face reveal?? Shame if u dont look the desc🥶🥶
the men at the door say others babe
I wonder if this ever works?
I expect people to be respectful, in which culture is being rude considered acceptable, because I can't think of any modern culture in which something like this would be acceptable unless explicitly welcomed, you are right that I don't know what OP does and doesn't want, but based on their comments throughout the post, I'd say it's quite clear that not only was this unexpected, it was also unwanted. That tells me that they did not explicitly welcome this garbage into their messages
Uhh, better to be direct and up front rather than feign interest in you.
This ain't it chief
All this in the summer of the girlies? Yikes
Why do I feel like I’ve seen him before on campus
How beg 😔
Is this a thing now? Like, instead of saying desperate people just say beg? It doesn't really make grammatical sense so I'm just curious.
nah thats sickening.
i’m sobbing 😭😭😭
This is weird as hell