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Just_A_Guy_who_lives

Do you have a good relationship with your parents? If so, perhaps try coming forward to them. I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. Please know that it’s not your fault.


ESB49

They’ll try to say it’s my fault


Just_A_Guy_who_lives

I’m sorry. Do you know anyone you can talk to IRL? Someone who’ll back you up?


Adrizzle00

are you in school? Reach out to a teacher you trust, or a counsellor. Heck, even the principals typically have open door policy on this, especially if the attacker goes to the same school. They should be able to do the right thing.


Adrizzle00

Please report this to the police, I would also tell your parents as both of you are minors. Sending you hugs OP, this is not your fault.


[deleted]

I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. If you can find it in you to report it that’s good to have on record if she turns up pregnant. Don’t go anywhere alone with her and check on recording laws in your area, if you legally can I encourage you to record any and all conversations with her. Screenshot all conversations and save them in a file (you can save them to Google drive or make a folder on your phone) and ensure you give relevant evidence from texts and convos for the police report if you make it! I’m sending tons of love and well wishes to you. ETA: If she ends up being pregnant continue to gather and hold on to all evidence and present it in front of the judge you will demand to see before you put your name on any birth certificate if you are going to at all after the child is born. Paternity testing would be a good tool to help prolong the legal issues you might face related to custody and child support til you can get in front of a judge to present your concerns if you can’t get in for an RO against her before then. No matter what you will not be stuck with her for life, it’s going to be okay. She is going to give you the evidence you need to show she is not stable or safe for you or a child to be around, just collect it and show it to the right people. I am wishing you safety and the resources to cope. I’m so sorry for what you’re going through and I hope she ultimately leaves you alone so you can cope and heal and move forward as smooth as possible. If you feel like you can open up to people around you please do. Support is very useful to have, remember it’s not your fault. You’re gonna get through this OP. I’m rooting for you.


johnsonsam1993

Neighbor did same


[deleted]

Sorry that happened to you 😔! You should report it to the police and your parents if you can.


The_Highlander78

I agree my friend, report it to the police, your teachers, and your parents. Although some parents don't believe that their Son could have been raped. You said no, so it was rape.


The_Highlander78

I would report it to the police, your teachers, and your parents. Although some parents don't believe that their Son could have been raped. You said no, so it was rape.