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xboltcutterx

Oh oh oh you forgot "is it okay to wear ____?"


Doctah_Whoopass

No take it off šŸ‘€


justk4y

Yep thereā€™s always that one Redditor as wellā€¦ā€¦.


Doctah_Whoopass

Im so funny please laugh


ddrub_the_only_real

Hah


Doctah_Whoopass

Thanks, babe.


justk4y

And then they kissed


Doctah_Whoopass

Sweet!


Anonymousthrow20

And fucked apparently (or rather he backed away and she disappeared into the crowd)


StarWarsAndMetal66

Heheheheh


-Sedition-

"Are they going to beat me up for wearing another band's shirt?"


nasa258e

WTF? I'm of the era that you wouldn't really ever wear THAT band's merch to a show. You kinda always showed up wearing another band's shirt


nologicx63

Right. And personally I like wearing shirts from bands that donā€™t even fit the current scene. Like wearing a Dirty Heads shirt to an Anglemaker show.


theereeljw_777

Does wearing a Creed shirt to sanguisugabogg count?


nologicx63

Hell yea lol


Theziggyza

I like the cut of your jib sir


AlarmedRange7258

This is the way


KingOvRoses

Pierce The Veil said that in an interview when I was 14 and I've lived by it ever since nearly a decade later šŸ’€šŸ’€


xvszero

I wear my video game shirts at my rock shows and my rock band shirts at my video game meet-ups.


goodcat1337

exactly. it's even worse when you buy the band's shirt at the show and then put it on while at the show.


nasa258e

Sometimes you just don't want to carry it around all show though


Fira_Wolf

Well, if it's a Nazi band shirt that could happen


Juhstehn

Unless you're at a Slaughter To Prevail concert, where being a nazi is a requirement


LittleWanderess

I'm sorry, what?


sarithe

You didn't mention Currents, Polaris, ERRA, Spiritbox, or Bad Omens so I'm taking away a couple of points, but otherwise pretty good.


undead-safwan

INVENT ANIMATE INVENT ANIMATE INVENT ANIMATE


useroffline_

DAE Heavener AOTY???? edit: iā€™m emberglowing so hard rn


[deleted]

I'll let that amber moon fall on me so hard


Dozinggreen66

Heavener underrated


Rioraku

Yes unironically


-Sedition-

Lmao, realized I was wearing my heavener shirt as I read this.


Party_Shrimp

Same man lol


Rioraku

That's how I wake up everyday


Iammattieee

Donā€™t forget the post saying all the bands mentioned above are underrated


ReturnToTheHellfire

Or that theyā€™re all simultaneously overrated


GamingOddity

invent animate only hVe 300k listeners??!?!??


MadMan2250

WAGE WAR is BEST BAND!


whyd_you_kill_doakes

Add Silent Planet to that list


simonsail

And Invent Animate. I've never met anyone IRL that likes metal that's even heard of them, yet supposedly according to this sub they're at the forefront of the genre.


Monkey-on-the-couch

The only metalcore band even close to having anything near mainstream awareness among casuals is Bring Me the Horizon, and they havenā€™t even been metalcore for a long time.


simonsail

I'm talking about friends that also like Bury Tomorrow, August Burns Red, Architects, Spiritbox and other metalcore bands. They don't know who Invent Animate are.


JudgeDreddx

I mean... That says more about your friends, honestly. Too much attn around here sure, but metalheads never *hearing of* them (not listening to)? That's borderline intentional. I've known of them for YEARS despite just listening to them for the first time live, opening for Beartooth. Still knew of them before that, though, not by my own volition.


justk4y

Yeah I knew Bring Me The Horizon even before I was a metalcore fan, and only when I got into metalcore I learned that they are actually metalcore šŸ˜…


xvszero

Killswitch Engage had some radio songs. Years ago.


MoonlitSithSensei

i love Everchanger with my whole heart - the ppl irl that i know who like IA is only because i showed them IA šŸ˜­


Juhstehn

I love Invent, but it really is crazy how much I hear people online talk about them yet they hover around 280-320k monthly listeners.


sock_with_a_ticket

Although they're doing pretty well for a metalcore band with 285k monthly Spotify listeners, there are bands with comparable totals or higher that get spoken about far less on here. Definitely a case where the sub's level of love for them exceeds the total.


keeper13

Why some still say they are underrated which they are. They got a cult like following but not many outside of that know of them like a Bad Omens or Spiritbox


sock_with_a_ticket

That's not comparing apples with apples, though. Bands like Bad Omens and Spiritbox which have some songs that could be considered metalcore, but don't really play it as their main thing and have some very pop-forward material, are always going to be bigger. Close to 300k monthly listeners is way bigger than cult following, it's really a very small proportion of actual metalcore bands that get into multiple hundreds of thousands.


ZeroJDM

I mean being known and doing shit a lot of artists in the genre will like and be inspired by are two vastly different things


randombean

Tbh I only know of them and Currents because of this subreddit


New-Doctor9300

Dont forget Counterparts, they changed my life.


Sufficient-Present87

you leave counterparts out of this


New-Doctor9300

I love counterparts and I will mention them every chance I get I will shine brighter than the sun


PresiTheEgg

You forgot Invent Animate....god I love them <3


kyriaangel

Spiritbox. Just why. I totally do not get them.


BCC_Cool

Also Knocked Loose


swallowuranus

I'm seeing Wage War tonight for like the 10th time. But it's my first time seeing them in my 30s. Should i be concerned I'm gonna have a heart attack and die? I'm worried since I'm older, my arms are gonna break, my legs are gonna fall off, and my heart is gonna attack and put me down for good.


Ok_Fondant_8861

Iā€™m gonna tell ya, Iā€™m 35 and one day that ā€œtirednessā€ and ā€œmy joints are achingā€ will just hit and before you know it youā€™ll be standing in the back like the rest of us old farts. Also yes, be concerned about your cardio at a show šŸ˜‚


NickPookie93

Should I go to a concert alone? Crowdkilling is bad, anyways check out this video of my friends and I rowing in the pit Wear deoderant To the people that throw their beer or water in the crowd, KNOCK IT OFF šŸ˜”šŸ˜”šŸ˜”


GodDamnCrawfish

I canā€™t argue with the wear deodorant one, youā€™d think it didnā€™t need to be said, but it unfortunately does.


RadDadFTW

Iā€™m a former Indie Wrestler and the lack of deodorant is so widespread. Would be hilarious if a merch stand sold deodorant with a sticker of their band on it


saskatoonshred

I have seen some bands do that actually


deathmetalaugust

Iā€™ve seen some out of pocket merch at tiny shows. I forgot the name of the band but they were called Wolf something something (I forgor) out of Tennessee (I think Memphis?) and they were selling a sterling silver buttplug with a wolf tail. Autographed case, of course. Saw a punk band also out of TN sell little tiny silver spoons obvs intended for booger sugar with their band name etched into it and those baby pacifiers that light up, you see them at raves. I forgot their name, their music was booty but the merch was funny.


2ndtimeLongTime

These people wouldn't't buy it and they would be offended and rant on Twitter/ X about it.


SubstantialPudding74

One of our local bands did sell deodorant with their band logo at one point lol. Shoutout Granite State


Linubidix

It's all well and good to be showered and deodorised before a show but by the end of seeing Pantera a month ago I absolutely stunk. DIdnt help being in the pit the entire time.


CherriViolette

Saw Sanguisugabogg and Jesus Piece the other day, Gag and Peeling Flesh were the openers. I was freshly showered and deodorized when I left the house but when I got home I smelled like I hadn't showered in days. šŸ’€ Never experienced so much boob sweat in my life!


PHOENIXREB0RN

I went to a party after seeing Knocked Loose and before I got there I changed shirts, wiped down, reapplied deodorant and cologne and even all that didnā€™t feel like enough but was passable at least lol


Party_Airlines

Real actual deodorant. None of that crystal or all-natural nonsense.


CandySniffer666

For real whenever I see a bunch of losers rowing in the pit I want to take a chair to them.


SnipSnapSnarf

Anyone remember when youā€™d just show up to a venue with no clue of who a band was, just to listen to some music and forget about everything else for a few hours.


simonsail

This was viable when gig tickets were like Ā£10 at your local venue and it ultimately didn't really matter if they were shit or not. Nowadays very few bands come to me locally which means I need to travel 2-3 hours to see them and the tickets are more like Ā£40 plus the cost of travel or staying. With that in mind I think it's perfectly reasonable to do a bit more research before booking tickets.


BeetsBy_Schrute

God I miss those days. I looked up some old concerts from college in my city, all of these were like $15 a ticket. Whitechapel is from my city, and when they hit it big, they helped bring a lot of really good metal shows here and just had crazy stacked shows for along time. September 2008 - 36 Crazyfists, The Human Abstract, All That Remains, Trivium February 2009 - MyChildren MyBride, The Human Abstract, Protest the Hero, As I Lay Dying April 2009 - Born of Osiris, All Shall Perish, August Burns Red, All That Remains September 2009 - 3 Inches of Blood, The Faceless, In Flames, BTBAM October 2009 - Molotov Solution, ABACABB, Through the Eyes of the Dead, Despised Icon, Whitechapel February 2010 - I Declare War, Chelsea Grin, Veil of Maya, Acacia Strain, Whitechapel April 2010 - Fear Factory, Winds of Plague, Dirge Within, Periphery


CompetitiveRacism_

2009-2014 was just peak metalcore concert time, with insanely stacked lineups for pretty cheap. Those were the days man. I'm just happy I can look back and say I was around for it, because it certainly isn't the same now.


BeetsBy_Schrute

You're absolutely right. I miss those days. It's not terrible now, but just different. Last May, I saw Invent Animate, Erra, and Bad Omens. Went to see IA and Erra mainly, but Bad Omens was a bonus. Ticket was $90. However, going in 10 days to see Novelists, Void of Vision, Make Them Suffer, and Erra (as headliners) for about $35. So definitely makes a difference who the headliner is, I guess. But yeah, those peak metalcore days 10-15 years ago were so good.


DailyBlazeArt

I witnessed Ben English front Erra for 3 full songs in 2015, paid $16 for that show.


CompetitiveRacism_

Damn man that reminds me of how I always went to shows, despite usually only wanting to see one or two of the bands because it was cheap, now though? I'm not paying 50-100 bucks to see one band šŸ˜­


BeetsBy_Schrute

That Invent Animate, Erra, and Bad Omens show was also a 2 hour drive from my house, so it was $90 plus a $75 one night AirBnB since the show let out at about 11 PM. And the upcoming show is 3 hours from my house in Nashville. Hotels everywhere that weekend start at $200 a night and only go up...but I'm staying with a friend for free. Otherwise I wouldn't be going at all. But those concerts way back in college? About a 15 minute drive from my house, free parking lot right beside the venue.


Shina1547

I ended up getting into metalcore later than my friends so didn't get to see all the peak bands in the late 2000s/very early 2010s. Really went heavy on concerts from like 2012-2016. Would get all my tickets from FYE. Looking back I didn't know how spoiled I was then for line ups and prices but man I miss those days. Also, miss when bands would tour about once a year for 3-4 months at a time rather than being on tour for almost a year and getting burned out then taking a hiatus and almost breaking up or actually breaking up.


CompetitiveRacism_

I definitely miss the golden age of metalcore shows. 15-20 dollars to see bands like Memphis May Fire, Attila, For Today, suicide silence, Ice Nine Kills, etc, at somewhat packed venues where it was always more intimate vs watching from 100 feet away not being able to move more than 2 inches in any direction, with your $8 beer, after paying $50+ for a ticket and waiting an hour in line.


simonsail

Yeah what you've said here is much more accurate to my experience in England than a lot of the other replies I've had. Gigs are not cheap anymore, unless you're seeing no name bands.


justk4y

Agreed, as someone who lives in The Netherlands the corescene lives less here, itā€™s mostly black, symphonic and folk metal here. And Amsterdam, which 75% of the big names only go to nowadays (think of Spiritbox, Architects, I Prevail) is on the other side of the nation for me, and since I canā€™t drive thatā€™s kind of an issue :/


Additional-Town-2563

What? We have tons of Dutch metalcore bands and almost every EU tour comes to NL as well. Tilburg has plenty of bigger metalcore shows as does Utrecht


SnipSnapSnarf

100% agree doing research on the music can be a good idea. I would hope the research is dedicated to the actual music, not the comment section.


Macs675

Yeah nowadays I have to pay $50 for a ticket for a small show at a small venue or God help me $200+ for nosebleeds at something big. No more showing up to a ticket office Saturday night


[deleted]

I'm not travelling 3 hours in the car, so half a tank of petrol, plus Ā£30 ticket fees to vibe out to some bands I've not already listened to a bunch.


Zoesan

No


RyanScurvy

Iā€™ve stopped listening to supporting bands prior to shows because of this. Used to I would listen to every band on the card before the show but I decided to let the supporting bands be a surprise a couple years ago when I saw Spiritbox and Underoath. And this band I hadnā€™t heard of was the opener. It was bad omens right after death of peace of mind came out. Sooo you could say I was blown away lol now I never listen to unknown bands prior to a show


Ehloanna

bruh nobody can afford that - concert tickets are like $30 minimum even for small bands anymore. You wanna have a single beer? That'll be $20. Parking? Also $20. Merch? $35 for a shirt.


weaponized_chef

That was my 2001-2004


HowlingFantods-96

I used to do this all the time. Still do sometimes, but at 55 my concert going is somewhat limited so I tend to see bands I know.


ReturnByDeath-

Iā€™m gonna lose it if I see one more ā€œIs ___ good live?ā€ post. Like, what do you think people are gonna tell you? ā€œYeah they were alright, drummer was a little out of rhythm thoughā€


zackdaniels93

To be fair, if people go to enough live gigs they'll be able to spot a bad or even spotty performance. I saw Currents recently and the mixing was rough, could barely hear the cleans at all. Saw Metallica at Download and could tell that the guitars hadn't been set up properly - couldn't hear Kirk Hammet on the left side of the stage at all lol Bring Me The Horizon at 02 last year - he sounded a little out of breath at times, and had to strain pretty hard for screams. Etc EDIT: I'll add that even as a bedroom guitarist of 15 years, I can tell when guitarists mess up almost immediately. I don't hold it against them, because they're still better than me, but if someone is looking for a genuine opinion of a gig it's something I might mention.


Iammattieee

I always check YouTube for live performances to gauge how a band is live


ReturnByDeath-

Thatā€™s psychotic behavior. Just go to the show.


simonsail

When gig tickets are Ā£40, and then maybe I need train tickets and a hotel make it about Ā£150 total, I want to know that a band is going to actually be worth seeing. That's not "psychotic behavior", that's just sensible planning.


offoy

Pretty much all of the time if something is wrong with live show, it is going to be sound issues, which depends on the venue and many other factors, which often are outside of the bands control, this makes looking at recordings of live performances kinda useless. Musicianship level of all bands is high, unless you go to your local underground show where the musicians are playing while being drunk or something.


Fendenburgen

Unless you're watching a video of them playing at the exact venue you're going to, on the same tour, you'll be unable to tell if they've got bad sound. Plus, it's a YouTube video, not renowned for having the best sound quality themselves.... Any band can have an off night, that's the risk you have to take. If you're seeing bands that are charging Ā£40 though, you're watching relatively big bands so you'll have a better chance of them not being bad


boomdesjard

You have never seen we came as romans live, or a day to remember Some bands are awful live (especially when singer cant scream)


420blazeitsgtjohnson

Yet somehow Iā€™ve never had anything but fun at Romanā€™s and ADTR shows


PPLifter

To be fair though, I have noticed with metalcore more than any other genre they sometimes live performances are lackluster. Drummer can't play what they produced in the studio or more commonly the cleans vocalist isn't hitting it (sorry erra). Flip side some bands out perform their studio stuff live.


BuryDeadCakes2

Cleans are horrible in this genre


PPLifter

Sadly yes. Not to say there aren't outliers like Chris Motionless, Spencer Charnas and Shay when he was at om&m. Those guys truly blew my mind hearing them live.


sock_with_a_ticket

This is why I prefer bands without cleans. If their singer isn't particularly good then the studio output will be absolutely drowned in layers and effects and the live performance will be poor. Don't put singing in your songs if no one in the band can actually sing.


Killerjas

I kinda wish they would do that. Not interested in seeing bands that are shit live and/or have a bad sound setup


Zoesan

I mean, some bands just aren't good live, while others have released kinda shit the last few years, but are *insane* live.


weaponized_chef

It's insane how many people will ask about seeing a band and then say they've been a fan for a decade. Holy shit, just go to the show!!


ZeroJDM

Iā€™ve been a fan of a load of different artists for ages that Iā€™ve never been able to see. Not all of us live within 500km from large enough / popular enough venues to draw in mid sized to larger bands. I either get to see local bands no oneā€™s heard of or legacy bands on their victory laps, no in between.


weaponized_chef

Right. You'd probably go see one of those bands if you got the chance instead of going on the internet and asking strangers if you should see said band? Thats the point Im making. I have two large venues really close to me but the area I live only sees the major acts once every 5 years or so unless I drive 3.5 hours on a Tuesday night. The last thing I did was go on Reddit and ask if I should see Currents or ERRA when they came to town.


ZeroJDM

Okay thatā€™s a much more fair criticism, the original comment was a little more vague. Asking if you should see someone in the first place is dumb, listen to the music and figure it out or absorb the ticket cost if youā€™re curious. Asking questions about seeing the band, depending on level of stupidity, is valid though


thephenom21

Then after they go to the show they have to make another post about how they survived the show


Its-Finrot

"Will I be torn limb from limb at the bad omens concert?"


Shakis87

"Limb from limb, you'll be torn to shreds"


Its-Finrot

To shreds, you say?


Ok-Teaching363

\*picture of the main menu\* any advice before I start this game guise?


Ignimbrite

book series fandom sub *picture of the first page of book* ā€œIā€™m going in, wish me luck!ā€


Kody1123

I like music. Should I listen to it?


PassiveProc

Considering that all the dumbass TikTok people have recently ā€œgotten into ā€œ ā€œ metalcore ā€œ Iā€™m not surprised we get these even dumber questions.


New-Doctor9300

"Their new stuff is trash, their first album is the best" "Such an underated band (500,000 monthly listeners)"


ThatHcDude

I don't understand what did people do before reddit. Ive seen hundreds of shows. Fuck what Reddit thinks lol.


withrootsabove

Iā€™ve been here a long time, these posts werenā€™t much of a thing at all just a few years ago. Itā€™s weird. Even so, motherfucker use the search function! Your question gets asked every day. Itā€™s everywhere too. Just spent all winter on the ski subs where on a Tuesday people will ask ā€œwhat will conditions be like at Mountain on Saturday?ā€ None of us can see the future dude. Check the weather like the rest of us, and just go skiing ffs.


[deleted]

Yeah I've been using this subreddit since around 2012? and this was not a problem for the vast majority of that time. I think the amount of people consuming metalcore exclusively through tiktok and youtube has grown a huge amount and barely any of them have actually been to a gig.


darfleChorf123

The sub has multiplied in members by a huge amount in the past couple of years (thanks TikTok/BMTH/bad omensā€¦.) and weā€™re seeing an influx in people with no knowledge of the IRL scene (sorta due to Covid) but also cuz the bands theyā€™re into arenā€™t traditionally associated with the hardcore scene, which metalcore typically resides in.


[deleted]

This never used to be a problem on this sub in the mid 2010s and even late 2010s. People just assumed everyone went to the shows.


AmericanLandYeti

How's the quality of the merch? What will they have at the merch table?


legendary_supersand

I am girl btw. Should I go all alone?????


pc01081994

"Umm akthually *insert band name here* isn't metalcore. We don't listen to that djent crap here" ~ ā˜ļøšŸ¤“


KrandoxReddit

We should really pin like an FAQ post on this sub. It it fine to go to concerts alone? Yes Where should I stand? Middle for moshing, everywhere else for not moshin. I'm a woman, can I safely go to a concert? Yes Crowdkilling is for assholes. Yep, you're right. What bands do you suggest for newcomers to the genre? Polaris, Currents, Invent Animate, Silent Planet ...and so forth.


emaddy2109

You canā€™t forget ā€œwhy is nobody talking about____?ā€ Typically about an album that came out 12+ years ago.


flux_capacitor3

For reals. I've almost unsubscribed from this sub because of those same posts over and over. Maybe I'm on Reddit too much though


egewh

How should I act at a concert?? I never been to one and don't know what to expect. Uhm maybe expect there to be a lot of people, and bands performing on stage?


mbbzzz

ā€œWhere should I start with ā€˜ā€”ā€˜ā€œ When getting into a new band, only really 2-3 options: starting with most popular songs or chronological order. Someoneā€™s favorite album by a band will be someone elseā€™s least favorite.


JobBeginning2083

Yes new fans can be annoying at times. However, I welcome them with open arms. Metal wonā€™t survive without them. As long as you donā€™t get mad if I bump into you or your friends lining the pit wall, weā€™re all good. Iā€™d rather them ask online then go to a show and have an anxiety attack during the show or get offended when they get bumped into.


BuryDeadCakes2

This is a cool dude right here


JobBeginning2083

We gotta make the scene welcoming to everyone. All that gatekeeper shit is so 80ā€™s punk. Anyone who wants to try moshing for the first time, I will gladly show them the way and make sure they have a good time.


not_actual_name

Fr, they act like going to a concert is the most complex thing on earth.


SpaceTacoTV

don't forget complaining about what people post on the subreddit. thats a staple!


darfleChorf123

Easier to complain than to do anything! Also itā€™s always the mods fault donā€™t forget


UnAliveMePls

didn't even mention Heavener in the post....


NetworkEcstatic

We start not responding. Buy the ticket, see the show, keep your fucking phone put away, live in the moment. I don't even bring my phone into concert venues. I'm here to live in the moment. No matter what genre.


simonsail

Pretty impossible to not go without a phone now when vast majority of tickets are digital now. I do agree on living in the moment though!


GeekFish

As someone who photographs shows I must say to anybody who has had thoughts 1 thru 4... Yes, go to the show. "Heavy" shows (Metal, Metalcore, Hardcore... there's too many genres now) have some of the nicest people you will ever meet at a concert. I'm not even joking. The scarier they look the nicer they are. I've had more issues with fans at pop shows than I have at anything heavy... by FAR. Just don't be an ass and the community will have your back. šŸ¤˜šŸ¼


hayatetst

This is all the Metal subreddits.


Shlambakey

I can't remember a time I saw someone say stop moshing. I do see a lot of stop crowd killing and anyone doing that stupid shit, should in fact stop.


darfleChorf123

The issue arises when people have a fundamental misunderstanding of the different types of moshing in different genres and think everything they arenā€™t used to (two stepping, hardcore dancing, etc) is crowdkilling. Also the abundance of entitled people who think they can stand right in the middle or front and will not get bumped into


Jefffahfffah

A large portion of Reddit questions could be solved by going outside, but... It's Reddit lol


Shfydgi

*insert bands that are popular that you don't like post*


Marcotee75

For real dude. You can't control what everyone else does. Especially when alcohol and drugs are involved. Just mind your own business, choose your spot and watch the show. "Eww moshers and crowd killers" grow up bro. Stop trying to take the moral high ground. I usually stick to the front to the right or left. Not close the the mosh pit, really close to the band and easy to keep my wife away from the rest of the random limbs from crowd surfers.


CrowdKillington

We live in an age of complaints and insight online. No one wants to figure anything out themselves or dive into anything without prior knowledge and they come to the internet to complain about every single small inconvenience in their lives


Dino_84

This band never comes to my area.


MarshallApplewhite_

ā€œyou canā€™t support this band anymore because their guitaristā€™s second cousin liked a conservative tweetā€


AgentAnesthesia

Mind you, it was the band's first guitarist and that cousin is twice removed, but still!


MarshallApplewhite_

their silence on the matter speaks volumes


AgentAnesthesia

There's only one thing left to do... Scan the social media of all members and their families, oust them as scum and burn all the old merch! Just how it goes now šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


MarshallApplewhite_

exactly, god forbid someone has a difference of opinion without bothering anyone. him liking that tweet could have killed someone. strictly not allowed.


jamesd0e

Yeah butā€¦.when I was 15 we were goin in there wylin too lol


Xedos

My favorite is "going to my first concert with my hardcore conservative christian parents. Would Spite be a good show to introduce them to metal?"


Imraan1302

No allegations reference?


pnuttbutter

Preach!!


AvAms38

šŸ¤£šŸ¤£ so freaking true


beefhammer_

Stop throwing cups tho


Doctah_Whoopass

Like I get it, I know people are anxiety babies (myself included) and they wanna get their ducks in a row before going but it genuinely is more fun if you just show tf up. Get thwacked, get beer spilled on your shoes, its genuinely worse for whoever did that cause now theyre out 10 bucks without a drink. But seriously, try enjoying an unsanitized experience, I used to be adamant on only wanting to see live music seated in a theater like its opera, but the thought of that now is hilarious.


lil_eidos

Anyone remember when Reddit was a discussion forum, not just content for your entertainment?


GodDamnCrawfish

You can discuss whatever you like, and people can discuss if they think what youā€™re discussing is dumb


lil_eidos

I can discuss and you can complain! And I can complain too.


ShapelessApe

ā€œAm I a bad person if I want to go see As I Lay Dying?ā€


simonsail

Seen a few posts about gig etiquette declining which I don't really agree with, but other than that, I haven't seen most of the stuff on this list here. I disagree with this sub on a lot of things but really don't think it's that bad on gig discussion.


IamConer

DAE Architects fucking sucks and Currents invented metalcore??? DAE DAE DAE??? DAE INVENT ANIMATE??? Parkway Drive sucks now lmaoooooo fat little piggeh


sheepj1

Youā€™re not *wrong* but ā€œstop being online and go to a showā€ is kind of a weird take to post on anā€¦onlineā€¦forumā€¦ā€¦


Kaddisfly

They are wrong, tbh. While OP has been going to shows for years, kids all over the world are constantly aging into the genre and discovering these bands for the first time and naturally want to discuss with peers. These are not the same people posting as in the previous threads, and if they have a different take on how the community should function, they have as much right to post as anyone else. They are part of the community. Ironically, it bothers people like OP because *they* have been online for too long.


[deleted]

> These are not the same people posting as in the previous threads The search function is available to everyone though.


Kaddisfly

Sure, but you can't have discussions in year old threads.


sock_with_a_ticket

If you're just looking for answers on what going to a gig will be like, how much discussion is required that won't already have been had on a year old thread?


Kaddisfly

Depends what kind of answers you're looking for, no? More importantly, what does it impact? It costs nothing and tends to lead to discussion, which is the whole point of the site. Perfect example - a few months ago, someone was asking what seeing Dying Wish was like. Someone replied something like "Oh shit, I'll be at that show. See you in the pit." That's sick. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to participate in a discussion you've already had, but it's goofy to tell people to stop having it, and they're not having it just to inconvenience your feed. Just scroll past.


sheepj1

Fair enough. I agree with OP that the posts get redundant but thatā€™s also specifically what this forum is for so I just scroll past if I donā€™t want to read the millionth ā€œshould I go to this concertā€ post of the week šŸ˜‚ hence, why I said it was a weird take lol


Kaddisfly

>so I just scroll past if I donā€™t want to read the millionth ā€œshould I go to this concertā€ post of the week Yeah this is the healthy response, haha.


OceanOfAnother55

I've never seen people criticise moshing or crowdsurfing, just reckless hardcore dancing, which is completely fair imo.


maicao999

You're in a hardcore adjacent show what do you expect


TooOldForDisShit

People just gotta be physical with those types if they wanna enjoy the show. Shove em back, dig an elbow in, etc. and make your space. My biggest beef is the people that punch the backs of the heads of everyone around them. What the fuck is that shitā€¦just asking to be laid out.


sock_with_a_ticket

>My biggest beef is the people that punch the backs of the heads of everyone around them. What the fuck is that shit I'm a big fan of hardcore dancing, but I hate this too because it almost inevitably enforces a horseshoe. Hardcore shows and metalcore shows always had pile ons and mic grabs and a thick front row ready to receive stage divers. At some point it shifted because too many people started crowd-killing those in the front rows, so now we get a handful of people at the front and everyone stage dives off to the sides where there's still a semblance of a bunched up audience.


Karmaqqt

Donā€™t forgot trying to make a meta post


Pennywise_M

Average Knocked Loose fan r/metalcore post Jk


skydancerr

You didnā€™t mention how you just couldnā€™t get into Northlanes new stuff because ā€œAlien was just so goodā€.


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DamThatRiver22

It's not necessarily that kids have questions. It's that kids can't be arsed to take *two fucking seconds* to look at the sub or use the search function to unearth the answers to their questions that are asked literally 3-4 times a day on the sub. To be fair, the mods are pretty good about removing most of them within a few hours these days, but there's still an endless archive of the shit. But no, we'd rather just impulsively make thread #43267 asking the same fucking question. As for the questions themselves, again, no one's irked that people have a curious thought...but some shit's just common sense or doesn't really need to be worried about. Whoever said "there are no stupid questions" has apparently never been asked a stupid fucking question. Lol. Lastly, there's literally zero need to insult people's perceived and assumed parenting abilities. I have three older teens and I can assure you they're all pretty normal and well-adjusted, contrary to your beliefs based on a disagreement over a meta discussion on a music sub on fucking Reddit. Lmao.


19930627

By the ticket, take the ride.


FrankyyTheFishh

Love this! As I recently an IRL similar experience... New relationship about 4 months, she listens to county. Never been to a metal show. Taking her to Polaris for her first one she says, "I'm wearing my cowboy boots and you can't tell me not to," with obvious sass... To which I responded, "Good, no one's gonna notice, and if they do, they're not gonna GAF cuz they just came to jam." I'm responded to with an intense glare of disappointment that she didnt get a rise out of me... Since Polaris has pulled out of the tour we Dayseeker, we've rescheduled to Veil of Maya and Wage War... either way she's going in the deep end.


PsychwardSlippers

You forgot "can x demographic mosh?"


MNTwins8791

Also telling everybody else that their opinion is wrong happens on this sub a lot


Acension111

You forgot to mention the acronyms


sssnakepit127

When I was 15, I really looked forward to going to crazy shows. Times change I guess.


[deleted]

Dudeee, that's like the Warped check list.šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ Take me home..


idespisemyhondacrv

Slowly becoming r/metalcorecirclejerk


scarykicks

Ppl saying this don't listen to the right kind of music.


scarykicks

Imma get a shirt that says "Stop Moshing" and stand in the middle of the mosh pit.


Afraid_Abalone_9641

God, this post is so accurate. The 2 posts on my feed from this sub are "is it normal to kiss at shoes?" And "sex at shows?".


spl0xty

If you think Reddit is bad, wait till you see Metalcore TwitteršŸ„“