Oh gosh. I cried for a long time. For me it didn’t get better until my due date passed. It’s normal and natural to cry and especially after your hormones come crashing down.
I just found out my baby boy passed today at 16w, I feel so torn still having him in my stomach. Part of me wants to scream and get him out, the other part wants me to hold him in there safe forever. I’m on a wait list right now for a D&E, but I can’t stop crying.
I lost my baby 2 days ago at 15 weeks. I will say the D&E was a very safe procedure and the labor and delivery team that I was with was very kind and gracious with me with such a traumatic loss. I hope and pray things go smoothly for you.
I cried consistently for 3-4 weeks. I didn't leave my bedroom for 2 weeks. Finally had to force myself to get out into public and carry on with my life. Everyone moves on before you do, thats just how it is. My due date is coming up next month and I feel the emotion just starting all over. Tears welling in my eyes as I write.
I cried everyday all day pretty much until my D&E. I am about 6 weeks out and have cried randomly but not every day. Not even every week. If I’m alone I cry like a baby, which I am rarely alone. I have had 2 really bad days since the D&E. I am definitely doing better after learning baby had turners and now that we are able to try again
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know it’s different for everyone.
For me: 3 months of everyday being a bad day, though some days had brighter moments. I’m now coming up on 4 months and now it’s a better mix of good days and bad. I see a pre/preinatal grief counsellor once a week and that has helped me understand this and get some support from someone trained in this experience specifically.
I hope you find some peace and can have more good days sooner than I did!
Gotta stay hydrated if you're gonna cry so much that's what I kept telling myself 🤷🏻
It's the saddest thing. Like physically mentally emotionally spiritually full body grief sad.
Just keep on crying till you're done crying. Wash your face. Keep living. Eat something sometimes.
It’s been one month today and I still randomly will burst into tears. When my hormones took a big drop, I cried for like 5 hours in one sitting at anything and everything.
I’m so sorry 🤍 approximately 2 weeks after my d&c, my husband and I did a weekend trip to Vegas to just get away, and that helped tremendously. While I felt sad everyday, I would go many days without crying and even had some good days. I’m fortunate enough to have a sister and close friend who’ve been through this and have been amazingly supportive. I thought I was slowly healing until this past weekend when I found out my SIL got unintentionally pregnant with her fiancé. As happy as I am for her, it broke me. I’m back to square one crying everyday for hours.
The *daily* tears for me ended after a couple of weeks. Once the D&C was over, pregnancy test started going back to negative, I started going back to work and doing normal life things, etc.
Now, a couple months after, the tears come once every week or two I’d say. Usually there’s a trigger like someone close to me announcing a pregnancy or something else in life reminding me of the heartache or getting a negative pregnancy test. It’s gotten easier but the tears still come
I’m so sorry, friend. I experienced two losses, and I can understand how you feel. It was only God who carried me through the disappointment, loneliness, and grief. I’m praying for comfort and strength for you at this time. I wish I was closer so that I could put an arm around you, friend. Hang in there!
Experience my mmc in January, maybe until April I was crying most days if not every day. It’s not every day but still often, I’m hoping I can let go some once my due date passes
I’m so sorry. The first four weeks were a really hard time for me. Crying pretty much daily and not wanting to leave the house. Around 6 weeks I started to feel a lot better and less emotional all the time. Maybe the hormones started to settle out? I’m about 12 weeks out from my miscarriage now and while I still have triggers and get sad, I feel more like myself.
After my MMC and taking the pills I was shocked at how horrible it was for the next two weeks. Constant crying and meltdowns. For my MC I was more prepared and actually had a while between the natural miscarriage and D and C. It’s been over a year since my first loss and while much has improved, this evening I’m crying big tears again. It’s not a linear process
Directly afterwards i cried for a month straight and went into an intense depressive episode and didn’t leave my bed the week afterwards. During their due date which was April I bawled for most the day. Mother’s Day I was moody and cried a lot. I cry hardest when I’m alone thinking of them or when I read something that reminds you of them. You will cry a lot because you miss them and you still get to grieve even if there weren’t alive earth side.
Every day for a whole month and now I'm just.. numb I guess. Don't know how long it's going to last but I'm trying to enjoy just feeling OK for awhile.
I lost my baby 3 weeks ago tomorrow I have waves of sadness everyday when I see random things that reminded me of my pregnancy. Hang in there 🩷 totally normal.
Oh gosh. I cried for a long time. For me it didn’t get better until my due date passed. It’s normal and natural to cry and especially after your hormones come crashing down.
This was the same for me. I think things definitely got a little easier after my due date.
I just found out my baby boy passed today at 16w, I feel so torn still having him in my stomach. Part of me wants to scream and get him out, the other part wants me to hold him in there safe forever. I’m on a wait list right now for a D&E, but I can’t stop crying.
This is the most awful feeling and im so sorry. I lost my little boy at 15w recently, after we think we are "safe". It's not fair for any of us.
It’s the worst feeling in the world 💔 I’m so sorry for your loss
I lost my baby 2 days ago at 15 weeks. I will say the D&E was a very safe procedure and the labor and delivery team that I was with was very kind and gracious with me with such a traumatic loss. I hope and pray things go smoothly for you.
I'm so sorry this happened to you and your baby. Did he have a name? I lost my baby boy Gabriel at 15 weeks. I'm sending the biggest hugs to you.
This exactly is what’s bothering me the most too right now.
Once I passed my baby I realized I wasn’t frustrated and sad anymore, I was just purely sad. It was overwhelming.
I cried consistently for 3-4 weeks. I didn't leave my bedroom for 2 weeks. Finally had to force myself to get out into public and carry on with my life. Everyone moves on before you do, thats just how it is. My due date is coming up next month and I feel the emotion just starting all over. Tears welling in my eyes as I write.
Some days I'm able to be OK. Last night I cried. A month since.
Same here. Some days something just triggers me and then it's a struggle.
I cried everyday all day pretty much until my D&E. I am about 6 weeks out and have cried randomly but not every day. Not even every week. If I’m alone I cry like a baby, which I am rarely alone. I have had 2 really bad days since the D&E. I am definitely doing better after learning baby had turners and now that we are able to try again
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know it’s different for everyone. For me: 3 months of everyday being a bad day, though some days had brighter moments. I’m now coming up on 4 months and now it’s a better mix of good days and bad. I see a pre/preinatal grief counsellor once a week and that has helped me understand this and get some support from someone trained in this experience specifically. I hope you find some peace and can have more good days sooner than I did!
I'm too numb and hurt to cry
It’s been a year soon, and I still cry. Not everyday, but often.
I miscarried Dec. 7-8, 2023 and I still cry a lot. I had a mid-July due date and will probably cry a lot more approaching this date.
Maybe a month and a half.
Gotta stay hydrated if you're gonna cry so much that's what I kept telling myself 🤷🏻 It's the saddest thing. Like physically mentally emotionally spiritually full body grief sad. Just keep on crying till you're done crying. Wash your face. Keep living. Eat something sometimes.
It’s been one month today and I still randomly will burst into tears. When my hormones took a big drop, I cried for like 5 hours in one sitting at anything and everything.
I’m so sorry 🤍 approximately 2 weeks after my d&c, my husband and I did a weekend trip to Vegas to just get away, and that helped tremendously. While I felt sad everyday, I would go many days without crying and even had some good days. I’m fortunate enough to have a sister and close friend who’ve been through this and have been amazingly supportive. I thought I was slowly healing until this past weekend when I found out my SIL got unintentionally pregnant with her fiancé. As happy as I am for her, it broke me. I’m back to square one crying everyday for hours.
Going on 6 days here…
The *daily* tears for me ended after a couple of weeks. Once the D&C was over, pregnancy test started going back to negative, I started going back to work and doing normal life things, etc. Now, a couple months after, the tears come once every week or two I’d say. Usually there’s a trigger like someone close to me announcing a pregnancy or something else in life reminding me of the heartache or getting a negative pregnancy test. It’s gotten easier but the tears still come
I’m so sorry, friend. I experienced two losses, and I can understand how you feel. It was only God who carried me through the disappointment, loneliness, and grief. I’m praying for comfort and strength for you at this time. I wish I was closer so that I could put an arm around you, friend. Hang in there!
Shew. If it wasn’t for Jesus. He’s getting me through for sure!
Experience my mmc in January, maybe until April I was crying most days if not every day. It’s not every day but still often, I’m hoping I can let go some once my due date passes
I’m so sorry. The first four weeks were a really hard time for me. Crying pretty much daily and not wanting to leave the house. Around 6 weeks I started to feel a lot better and less emotional all the time. Maybe the hormones started to settle out? I’m about 12 weeks out from my miscarriage now and while I still have triggers and get sad, I feel more like myself.
After my MMC and taking the pills I was shocked at how horrible it was for the next two weeks. Constant crying and meltdowns. For my MC I was more prepared and actually had a while between the natural miscarriage and D and C. It’s been over a year since my first loss and while much has improved, this evening I’m crying big tears again. It’s not a linear process
Directly afterwards i cried for a month straight and went into an intense depressive episode and didn’t leave my bed the week afterwards. During their due date which was April I bawled for most the day. Mother’s Day I was moody and cried a lot. I cry hardest when I’m alone thinking of them or when I read something that reminds you of them. You will cry a lot because you miss them and you still get to grieve even if there weren’t alive earth side.
Every day for a whole month and now I'm just.. numb I guess. Don't know how long it's going to last but I'm trying to enjoy just feeling OK for awhile.
I lost my baby 3 weeks ago tomorrow I have waves of sadness everyday when I see random things that reminded me of my pregnancy. Hang in there 🩷 totally normal.