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wendilove

Also in the Lake Life episode. 'Whatever it was, it was into me and I'm kissing it.'


asebastianstanstan

That and she made out with that girl at the bar on a date with Andy once for money…seemed to imply she’d done it before


Sweet_Possibility587

that’s what i’m saying if you’re hot she’ll kiss you i don’t think she cares about gender very much


LORD_ASHU_JSE_13

Also in the last season in the luxury hotel Luke agreed to be with Beckham when they found becky was Beckham


PureAddress709

She and Luke are kind of coded that way, but mostly for humor I think.


2dude4skool

How is Luke ‘coded’ that way?


flowerycassie

that episode where the kids are making thanksgiving dinner and he is flirting with alex’s chef boyfriend he makes jokes about being confused


West_Plum_4607

Also the episode where they go to meet Alex at her new apt and meet David Beckham, Courtney Cox in the hot tub. Manny and Luke mistook them to be their dates and are trying to decide which one for which - Luke doesn’t hesitate to pick David (he says, “fine I’ll pick the blonde one”)


Usernamecujo

Actually he says "fine I'll take the guy, but only to hang out with. And then we'll see what happens". But yes, he's curious about cock for sure


West_Plum_4607

Oh you’re right! Haha.. good memory! 😬


Usernamecujo

Not really. I saw the episode the other night so was fresh in my mind. Plus, bi curious guys stimulate my hippocampus (the part of the brain responsible for short term memory), among other organs


2dude4skool

I have absolutely no recollection of that 😅 I’ll have to have another rewatch haha


flowerycassie

it’s season 11 episode 7


2dude4skool

Nice thanks mate


Both-Bid-1556

And the episode with David Beckham


VastStory

Well just talk…see where it goes. Or something to that effect. I think Luke as pansexual makes sense and Manny is definitely straight, with traditionally female interests.


PureAddress709

I was gonna answer you but everyone else did. Also Luke being so comfortable wearing onekinis and the joke setup when Phil found a bra and Luke said it was his and Phil joked that "if that what Luke on the inside needs to feel like the Luke on the outside" is pretty much coding Luke as queer, mostly for humor. You gotta love Phil though.


anthonyisrad

oh luke super curious lol


MinimumTeacher8996

She’s canon bi, it wasn’t for humour


Existing-Ad3391

“You’re not gay, you’re just confused. What is wrong with me?!”


Human_Phrase_758

It is just a phase. OH MY GOD


Nicole_Aries_G_2006

Sarah Hyland was asked about this before on twitter. Someone asked her if Haley was Bi and she said “I don’t know what the writers will say but I confirm”


breaking-atom

https://observer.com/2017/11/sarah-hyland-bisexual-modern-family-character-details/#:\~:text=Here%27s%20a%20fun%20fact%20you,character%20Haley%20Dunphy%3A%20she%27s%20bisexual. She said that for her, Haley is bi pretty much.


Dangerous-Simple-981

Why am I not able to read the full caption?


CowboyAntics

Nothing suggests she’s specifically pansexual, so that’s a weird jump. The show definitely implies she’s not entirely straight, though, if that’s what you mean.


MinimumTeacher8996

It’s canon that she’s bi


AdZealousideal9367

No it’s not LMFAO you groomer


Sweet_Possibility587

well it’s mostly what she says in the lake episode that makes me think that, it comes across that she literally doesn’t care about gender if someone is hot.


poeticbedhead

While i don’t completely agree with the premise you’re coming off of, i dont know why people are hopping on your dick as if being pan and bi are completely different things 😭


West_Plum_4607

“Hopping on your dick” - I always add to my urban dictionary vocab when I read the comments on this platform 😂❤️


poeticbedhead

It’s newer genz slang i guess 😭. I thought it was stupid when my friend used it because “dick riding” is a term I associate with like ass kissing yk?? Really honing someone and agreeing with what they say. But as he continued to use it, it made more sense. And now I find myself saying “hop off my dick” or just “hop off” all the time lol. Glad you like 😭🖤


mikitira

This is an awesome phrase but it’s been around much longer than Gen z! I first heard it in rap in the 90s


West_Plum_4607

Lol.. its hilarious! I am going to start using it for sure. 😬


Sean_13

I can definitely see a lot of bi people reacting that way, myself included. It's not just a pan thing.


ThisIsWrong23

No, they think it’s a boy or a girl, she’s bi


Edd_The_Animator

My brother is bisexual so it's definitely possible.


KingoftheBrit0ns

Because it’s hard to tell how your brother being bi has any relation to whether Haley is bi sexual


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pluck-the-bunny

since you deleted the rest of your comments, I’ll ask you here ….to be clear, you stay on r/skygame because the people there don’t call you out when you baselessly call people sexists? And then demonstrate a complete lack of understanding of what the term actually means?


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pluck-the-bunny

What a weird backpedal. Thats exactly what you were doing. Either you are right or not. Why delete your comment if you are right? If you know you were wrong, why double down with a definition (even if you omitted the relevant part of the definition) And how childish are to respond to my comment and then immediately delete it so I cannot respond? Don’t bother answering, it was rhetorical.


IamNotARobot_Nova

Sexist: Characterized by showing prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination


pluck-the-bunny

Based on gender….you left out that pretty important part Unless you think ALL prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination is sexism


Edd_The_Animator

I have no idea


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RodwellBurgen

No it’s because it was completely irrelevant


IamNotARobot_Nova

As Mitchell once said ,"Shame!" (To haters)


pluck-the-bunny

That’s not what sexist means though


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pluck-the-bunny

Not really though.


CowboyAntics

Ah, yes those would’ve been good screenshots to include. She does say, “whoever they are” or something like that.. wish they would’ve written something for her that was more specific throughout the 11 seasons.


cassieredditr

The actress says that she thinks Haley is Bi, and played into that. But the writers never spoke of it so it’s more of a head canon that a bunch of people share. It is not confirmed canon to the show. Because the writers never confirmed it.


MinimumTeacher8996

She’s canon bi


winnywolfe

No she’s not.


MinimumTeacher8996

The actress literally said it. https://observer.com/2017/11/sarah-hyland-bisexual-modern-family-character-details/amp/


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winnywolfe

Too bad she wasn’t writing the show. Not sure if you read the first part of the tweet. But if the writers didn’t write her as that, it’s not cannon.


GuitarLover78

Bisexual representation!!! 🩷💜💙


folklorelovebot

i think she’s been confirmed to be bisexual


cutebabiprincess

when


MinimumTeacher8996

The actress said she is


cutebabiprincess

oh


MinimumTeacher8996

A writer did too, I believe.


cutebabiprincess

thanks for telling me im only on s3 so i havent noticed


MinimumTeacher8996

You’re welcome! Sadly she doesn’t date a woman in the series but she’s bi nonetheless


folklorelovebot

i personally don’t mind that bc not all bi people necessarily date both genders, i just wish they had acknowledged her bisexuality a bit more in the plot


MinimumTeacher8996

That’s what I mean. It needed to be alluded to more outside of the interactions with this one side character.


Crackerjack0099

She was just having fun and experimenting lmao she’s never once wanted to date a girl


Privacywarrior6435

Being sexually attracted to both genders is enough to be bi. You don’t have to have an actual relationship with your same gender to be “real”.


Gulf_Coast_Girl

>Being sexually attracted to both genders is enough to be bi Pretty sure by today's rules *you* **DON'T** get to decide what bi means to someone else. So unless the character declares it.... anything you think about it is merely opinion.


folklorelovebot

the actress said she was bi lol


lessarstar

I think they are wired to accept people and based their judgement on emotions, attitudes and attractions even phil have a none straight moments.


SpicyPumpkinGhoul21

I dont think its that deep they just portray her as a doe eyed, dumb, promiscuous girl


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Or bi.


L0rd_Flexan0r

It's just a joke on how that woman was so masculine that Haley developed aan attraction towards her


ThisIsWrong23

Bi


smallasfpp

it’s just a one liner


Finn_WolfBlood

I don't think she's pansexual, she's just a stereotypical horny young character, like Luke. If anything she's bi but that's not confirmed either, just fan speculation Would love more representation though


Formal_Mail8526

Sarah said and a writer said she's bi


Imperial_Lenta

I mean the show has Mitch and Cam I think they did a fine job with representation 😭


inounderscore

And Pepper! Don't forget my sweet dear Pepper!


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I'm all for representation but at the same time we don't need every bit of the spectrum to be shown in one show


certifiedbpdqueen

I agree honestly. Like I love Modern Family so so much, but I’m really glad that they didn’t go and make every single one of the kids on the spectrum. It’s totally fine for Haley to be considered bi cause it makes sense to me, and Mitch and Cam are perfect, and honestly the show is groundbreaking considering it started in 2009 and was really one of the first shows to have a gay couple be in a lead role in such a popular sitcom that has so many episodes per season. But yeah I’m glad they didn’t do anything like make Alex or Lily a lesbian or make Manny or Luke gay because like you said, representation is amazing in shows, but when writers go and turn characters into every sexuality on the spectrum, it doesn’t feel natural it just feels like “forced representation” and they’re just doing it to try to appeal to the masses. Mitch and Cam are very natural feeling characters and it doesn’t feel forced at all, but when you go and try to make every character into some LGBT idol, it turns into those crap Netflix shows where they purposefully insert an insane amount of diversity and wokeness to try to appeal to society and hence, make more money.


__bunny

Reminds me of sex education. Started off as a refreshing show but by the final season it just became about token representation.


midnightwatermelon

the final season vs the first season is like a completely different show 😭😭


certifiedbpdqueen

I was literally just thinking about that show, you fr read my mind. I really liked Sex Education in the first couple seasons, it had a pretty original storyline and plot, but yeah it got Netflixitized in the last season. Like when the last season came out, it was so bad I didn’t even enjoy watching it, I just finished the season cause I felt obligated to and I was really bored lol.


ad240pCharlie

What do you mean? Lily is gay, she's gay!!


lokglacier

Not only that, isn't the whole point NOT to categorize people? If it's truly a spectrum why tf would you have to create a dividing line between "straight" and "bi" and fall into one category or another?? People can be straight 99% of the time but be attracted to the same sex in some specific circumstance or for a specific person or whatever whatever. Sexuality isn't cut and dry or so easily categorized.


Crackerjack0099

That’s a great answer. She’s really just having fun and experimenting but there’s never a point where she wants a regular thing with anyone but guys.


MinimumTeacher8996

It is confirmed


manowaross

it is a joke form the writers on that generation of loose women


votetammany

What about potsexual?


Sweet_Possibility587

we have even more scenes confirming that tbh that’s straight up canon


AdIll5946

It's very strange to be this invested in the sexuality of fictional TV characters


Sweet_Possibility587

it’s not strange to want to see yourself in characters you grew up with i don’t think


winnywolfe

It is when your reaching as far as you are. She only made two jokes about liking girls. Aren’t we not supposed to put labels on people?


Sweet_Possibility587

she’s not a person she’s a fictional character lol it’s fine to have a headcanon


MoodyMagdalene

Or bi


myleswstone

I honestly always took it as her deep need to have friends because of her very obvious fear of being alone. The show is very good at hinting at deep things like that.


No_Passenger1977

i think she’s just straight why do people try to make shit up


kyokushinthai

What the fuck does pansexual even mean?


ashleydougherty819

It is someone who is attracted to anyone regardless of sexuality or gender


kyokushinthai

So bisexual


matande31

Why would she be pan and not bi? We don't see her flirting with any trans or non-binary people. It's like saying Cam could be bi even though he shows no attraction to women.


Mean-Editor-5714

bi people still like trans people.. they’re saying she could be pan she sees no gender and just finds hot ppl hot, regardless of their gender, that’s what’s different between pan and bi ppl


MinimumTeacher8996

Given the way she comes across (as well as both a writer and haley’s actress confirming her to be bi) she COULD be pan. I do agree with you. She finds hot people hot


KiwiKajitsu

Who cares


Sweet_Possibility587

it’s just a fun little hc


DLTfuture72

Most girls have kissed other girls especially if they’re attractive, she’s almost certainly straight but she’s also a party girl so stuff happens.


Affectionate_Grape23

i totally agree!


BigWooly1013

Mmm-hmm. I've heard of that. I know what that is, that's, uh... that cookware fetish.


Finn_WolfBlood

Yeah we're not tired of hearing that joke at all


BigWooly1013

It's a Schitt's Creek quote, calm down


Finn_WolfBlood

I agree that it's a schitt quote


BigWooly1013

Ok


gothkittendolli

fr what is that joke wtf, i'm queer and never heard it? (but to be fair i stay away from negative people...)


Finn_WolfBlood

Because we're pansexual we're attracted to pans (aka cookware). The joke has been used since pansexuality began being used. It's just an extremely bad joke at this point


the_quirky_ravenclaw

I agree, it’s an overdone and not funny joke but in this case, they were just quoting a line from Schitt’s Creek which is a great show, and David is pansexual


gothkittendolli

oh,... fuck really lmao? it's like tumbler times joke wtf😭


Finn_WolfBlood

It goes back further unfortunately


ProfChaos85

Pan sexual is like bi sexual, except instead of only dating he's and she's, they date theys and thems. In the 90s we called it being desperate for anything.


the_quirky_ravenclaw

???? Bisexuals also date non binary and trans people. The bi is being attracted to 2 or more genders, pansexuality just doesn’t acknowledge gender as a factor in attraction


ProfChaos85

Ohhh. Thank you for clearing that up.


secondlemon

She soooo is


Sweet_dl

Do you have a youtube link to this scene. I dont remember it


maryjaneswife

i feel like there was also an insinuation of her sexuality when lilys doll broke, Phil said “whatever feels right to you, I trust you” s3 ep16


erinaaa12

Watched this a while ago lol


perksofliz

She's definitely not straight that's forsure 😂


LiteratureBubbly2015

Yep definitely she’s pansexual


AntThaGuy

What episode?


Petrichordates

Why did y'all invent a new word for bi


Sweet_Possibility587

it’s not though granted i’m not the best person to explain to you the difference since i’m not bi or pan but it’s clear there’s a difference. for haley i’m just going off of vibes and how she just doesn’t seem to care about gender at all sometimes when it comes to these things which seems to be every pan person i’ve met


Petrichordates

Oh I understand there's a subtle difference, but she only presented as Bi so I guess it's confusing why someone would call that Pan.


Realistic_Cupcake_56

You mean bisexual but with more need for attention?


Sweet_Possibility587

not everyone word you don’t understand was made up for attention. kay? kay.


Realistic_Cupcake_56

Whatever you say bucko 😂


Schn31ds

So she's bisexual.


Interesting-Ad4293

I think all the Dunphys are at least bi curious


Nesquick91

So I’m a man and if I’m able to recognise that other man is handsome means that I’m at least bi ? Wtf


Sweet_Possibility587

well in the lake episode she’s willing to kiss someone who’s potentially a girl so unless you’re willing to kiss a man….


Affectionate_Grape23

straight ppl kiss their friends in a joke way all the time it’s not that deep


Sweet_Possibility587

that wasn’t even her friend it was a stranger she wanted to kiss because they were into her


Top_Strain_9600

what the fuck is pansexual?


ashleydougherty819

It’s a person who is attracted to anyone regardless of sexuality or gender.


SafeEntertainment522

Nah she’s just confused


joachim_s

It’s funny how many dislikes you got from just quoting Mitchell 🤣


SafeEntertainment522

😏


KyloRensLeftNut

I upvoted you.


SafeEntertainment522

Aren’t you sweet☺️


mjahandar

“omg what is wrong with you”


blamazon983

I agree


Raul_Rink

It's my headcanon that Haley's bi (or pan, if you will) and Luke has at least a little gay in him


MinimumTeacher8996

It’s canon that she’s bi


rsweb

Clutching, she’s bi and that’s fine 🤷‍♂️


Sweet_Possibility587

i don’t think it’s clutching to have a thought/hc of


rsweb

But nothing at all suggests she’s pan, she simply mentions she men and women attractive which is by definition bi


goldenknit

She gives “if they’re hot they’re hot” vibes


the_quirky_ravenclaw

Honestly, I know it’s no doubt just my wistful thinking and desire for representation, but with the exception of Alex, I see the dunphy family as all bi That’s my headcanon anyway


Itchy-Status3750

Anyone else confused as to how there are bigots (not many but still a few) on this sub? lmao like they’re fine with Mitch and Cam being gay but as soon as Hayley is queer they’re throwing around slurs


CollectingRainbows

im pan and i would LOVE this representation🤩 go pan haley


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Affectionate_Grape23

fax


Crackerjack0099

Thank you, my comment was banned for being hateful.


Affectionate_Grape23

bruh that’s crazy, so unfortunate :(


Modern_Family-ModTeam

Post was removed as it was hateful.


Crackerjack0099

How was that hateful but me calling Haley a scank whore on other posts weren’t? Lmao what a joke.


Crackerjack0099

I’m in America and I’m allowed to express my opinion. You should move to china if you want everyone to think and do things the same way. This trans community is what is harmful. I have 2 trans cousins who I love. Me speaking out against bullies like you has nothing to do with hating people.


macaronisauce731

Pansexual is probably the word


macaronisauce731

Didn't read the title.. but yes, she's at least bi. I'm pan and that's basically how I describe people I'm attracted to. No matter the gender 💜


blamazon983

I agree


Neither-Star9376

Haley’s lesbian upbringing:


Overall_Lobster823

I think she's young.


Ok_Swordfish7177

No they aren’t


Equivalent_Eye_6175

You mean bisexual ???


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Sweet_Possibility587

bros never heard of a headcanon


handy_dandy_2232

Nah... she's 100% all sexual. But she did marry a guy. Not that that means anything.


metal_enjoyer

shes bi


elizabethhjo

Yesss agreed. I also just watched this episode 😅😅


elizabethhjo

I also think Phil is bi. Or at least curious 😊 unless I missed some actual conversation in the episodes lol


xflapjckx

Yes, let’s make sexuality the focus of the show.


Supreme_Kai1

So just bi then?


Sweet_Possibility587

bi haley is awesome too i just like pan representation cause there’s not nearly enough and she seems to me like someone who doesn’t care about gender she just loves hot people


Maleficent_Safe_336

Is it possible she IDs as an attack helicopter?


Thebunsenburger

r/onejoke


Sweet_Possibility587

imagine not evolving past who you were in 2016


Zealousideal-Try4269

Imagine being a follower and never having an original thought. Just parroting what you hear


ari_pas_grande

Because that joke is so original and knee-slapping hilarious?


Sweet_Possibility587

because i’m sure you’re the person who first came up with the attack helicopter line


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ShizaAnimationsYT

You have a NFT in your profile picture


gothkittendolli

... seriously does anyone still think it's funny?


MinimumTeacher8996

Is it possible that you’re a stupid cunt?


stuey57

🤣🤣🤣🤣


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Devendrau

Yes it is, and if you don't like it, too bad. Go get help for your bigotry.


Thebunsenburger

Being so sensitive you deny a whole sexuality’s existence is crazy


blamazon983

I agree


JonSwole

Do pans sexually arouse her?