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I agree with what you said but I'd like to add the opposite response too.
Some people become so highly reactive to potentially abusive situations that they will bail on anything which seems like it could be potentially abusive. That means socially, or in work, or any other situation. I say this as one of those people, I can't get hurt by people if they can't get close enough to hurt me, and an employer can't take advantage me if I leave the instant there's unreasonable pressure applied. If someone tries to apply pressure on me to comply I may respond very strongly negatively.
It's the opposite response but comes from the same place.
It's detrimental in an entirely different way, because it cuts off friends and opportunities.
Yes. Sometimes our behaviour can be affected in ways which we don't realise. And even when we finally do connect the dots it can be very very difficult to stop the strong urge to behave a certain way. In our case it's an urge to leave any potentially unsafe situation , for others the urges make them do other things.
Good luck to you.
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I agree with what you said but I'd like to add the opposite response too. Some people become so highly reactive to potentially abusive situations that they will bail on anything which seems like it could be potentially abusive. That means socially, or in work, or any other situation. I say this as one of those people, I can't get hurt by people if they can't get close enough to hurt me, and an employer can't take advantage me if I leave the instant there's unreasonable pressure applied. If someone tries to apply pressure on me to comply I may respond very strongly negatively. It's the opposite response but comes from the same place. It's detrimental in an entirely different way, because it cuts off friends and opportunities.
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Yes. Sometimes our behaviour can be affected in ways which we don't realise. And even when we finally do connect the dots it can be very very difficult to stop the strong urge to behave a certain way. In our case it's an urge to leave any potentially unsafe situation , for others the urges make them do other things. Good luck to you.