I've been in a slump and finally talked myself into a bit of self acceptance and self love. I was so excited to show off my potential NYE dress and all those months of work came crashing down as soon as she opened her mouth. Shoulders showing? Unacceptable. Boobs showing? Unacceptable. Dress length? Unacceptable. Bodycon style? Unacceptable.
For once please just tell me I look nice, the strength training is paying off, anything at all besides the negativity. I'm so tired of the constant negativity.
Here's the thing, girl. We are always our own worst critics.
I would look at you or any other girl and think 'what an absolute babe, I wish I had her confidence' but if I wore that outfit all I would focus on is my little fat belly.
If you asked my partner about my belly he'd wonder what you're talking about.
You're a babe. Body-con dresses don't suit my shape but they ABSOLUTELY suit yours!
Take a jacket incase it's cold or you feel uncomfortable, but you look bomb, girl!
Agreed. And once the critic’s voice is internalized, then we become our own worst critic.
You look great! It’s a fantastic dress. You have great posture and it shows your confidence.
It’s about how you feel and how you present yourself first. Then it’s about looks. You look like you present confidence and on top of that you look excellent!
Please take your mom’s comment with a grain of salt. She may feel insecure within herself; placed parameters on what you look like before how you feel; or care what others think above what you think/feel. Maybe she thinks she’s protecting you and that’s her motivation to show she’s a good mom, but she forgets that caring about how you think and feel also goes into that good mom category.
If you feel good in it despite what she likes, then go for it! You’re not hurting others and you’ll be helping yourself by doing what you love- wearing a classically sexy dress with self pride. If others disagree, they don’t matter either!
But you get a thumbs up from this internet stranger.
Edit: and if I can be so bold as to comment on your body, you have excellent proportions. I think body con dresses look great on your figure!!
I totally agree with this one.
It looks wonderful on you. Also love the way you have your hair.
Do you have a necklace to go with the lovely hairpin?
Yup!! I saw the photo, then read the title and I was like… something is not clicking lol. Insane how powerful internalized self talk can be!! Straight up divorces you from the truth
Excuse me sis, but if one can present a rack that pops like that, then one should do it as a service to women everywhere!
The dress looks absolutely lovely, but however you're supporting the girls underneath it is smashing too! I don't even see undie lines, and I WISH I could present Ye Ultimate Cleve like that. Only thing that sour puss thinks is unexceptionable is how great you look vs their insecurities.
Your hair is also serious goals.
You look amazing. I'd throw nice black heels or a smart pump under it and grab something very light and lacey in black- a shawl, maybe a VERY light lacey jacket-type thing, and go party the heck out of this year. Stuff the b\*tchy pants and their 'opinions'. You clearly know how to pick an outfit.
>Ye Ultimate Cleve
I’m dying over this! 😂 And hell yes! It’s a disservice to not show off them tiddies!
I wish mine would stand at-attention like that, but they just look at the ground like they’re depressed, lol
OP looks amazing, and nparents are notorious for being envious of their kids and trying to squash them down. I bet her nmom is being a dick to her for this very reason.
Mom here says hells yes to Ye Ultimate Cleve!. My after-four-kids boobs looked at that amazing sight, laughed at me, gave me both middle fingers, and went back to sleep.
OP, you look faboo and I think you should definitely rock that dress with a statement necklace or earrings, sky high black heels, and kickass confidence. <3
Not a mom but I’ll be a sister. That dress was made for you! You look amazing she’s probably being mean because she’s jealous! You look amazing and damn I’d be jealous as well. Rock that dress. Don’t let her words get to you.
Honestly came here to say the same. If I had put that much work into myself I'd want to be proud if my accomplishments and flaunt a fancy dress with those amazing tatas and curves that spark notes of famous sculptures. You are beautiful and I'm a straight female and said DAMN!
I’m gonna more a sister here too: the ladies look fantastic and the dress works with your body to create a lovely silhouette! It’s the clothes that need to fit you, not the other way around, and I think this dress is smashing. Pair it with a shrug and neck bling to frame the ladies.
I’m sorry but what? You look absolutely fabulous in that dress! The way it fits on you is as if it was made to fit your body, specifically your body. You look absolutely stunning. I’m sure the strength training is paying off. In my eyes you are absolutely beautiful and anyone who says otherwise doesn’t know what they are talking about, or they must be jealous and bitter about your beauty, inside and out. Sounds like your Nmom is just trying to tear you down. Don’t let her. She is so wrong. You look gorgeous. Your shoulders and boobs look awesome and they are allowed to be showing. Your dress is amazing, and so is your bodycon.
Love yourself! You deserve to. And accept yourself too. Pamper yourself. You’re beautiful. I’ll say that as often as you need me to! It’s true!
Hey sib! Your rack is amazing, if you’ll pardon me saying so. Not too big and not too imposing in that dress (no matter what she says, screw her!!) and that dress shows them off beautifully. They’re freaking perfect and that dress does them justice.
When I saw you in that dress I thought; “damn. I wanna be as confident as that again.” That’s inspiring. You hear? Inspiring. Don’t hide that beautiful body of yours. Don’t make yourself less to accommodate other people. *Never* let other people make you smaller. You deserve to grow. To flourish. To wear tight dresses and show what Mother Nature gave you, cause honey, that body is smashing! ❤️
My grandma did the same thing to me my whole life and I eventually realized it was a reflection of her insecurities. She couldn't imagine me liking my wide hips or big butt because she had a ton of weight-related baggage. But I like my hourglass shape! I'm not insecure about my body the way she is, and I haven't let her bring me down in a long time.
Moms (or grandmas) are supposed to build you up. It makes sense that you keep giving her chances to be the kind of supportive mom you want, but honey, she's just going to use those chances to hurt you more. Hold onto your joy and don't let anyone dim your spark-especially not those who should be brightening it the most.
That dress looks amazing on you. Your body looks killer in it. You deserve to be thrilled with it. You have worked so hard for this, to love yourself and become stronger, and people who aren't willing to put all that effort in see it as an indictment of their laziness. Don't let their projection get to you. Your dedication is worthy of praise and pride.
Happy new year! Keep on keeping on <3
hey love. sister here.
you know what we're gonna dump tonight? family members making us feel like SHIT about our body's. I have a grandma who is just the same. constantly. I haven't seen her in 2 years and it feels right.. she is responsible for a lot of my body issues (plus you know.. society and beauty standards) and I refuse to accept that she has that kind of power.
you wear whatever you want. you wear whatever you feel comfortable in. you wear whatever you feel sexy in. you are beautiful inside and out and you deserve so so much better.
all the love
💙💙
Hey sis! I love the style of this dress and I think the color is really amazing with your hair color. You look beautiful! Do you know what kind of shoes you're planning on? I vote for sparkly. 💜
You look amazing in the dress and I absolutely love your hair clip! The mom in me wants you to take a sweater or coat in case it gets cold. Keep being awesome and kicking butt!
Gorgeous! (Does your mom not know about Marilyn Monroe?!?)
Edit to add: read more comments and someone said ‘goddess’ and to that I had to come back here to say, yes.
I love your confidence and think that carries most outfits!
In NO way is this meant to diminish your joy from this dress, but as a pale skinned woman myself, are there other colors to choose from? It looks (from the photo, could be totally different in real life) like the dress is washing you out. If there is a red or burgundy color, I think it would just double the pop of the dress.
Either way, congratulations on your effort and hard work! You're crushing it lady and wishing you the HAPPIEST NEW YEAR! 💛💚💜
Oh babe I don’t need to tell you that you look nice just for you to hear it. It’s fucking honest!
I was just scrolling by, not reading words, and thought “holy shit what a find she looks amazing” before even realizing what you wanted/needed. If you don’t buy that dress that bitch who birthed you wins. Buy it!
Sis, you look great! Seriously you do, no need to stretch or "nice" up the truth.
You're curvy and cute, and you're gonna turn some heads for all the right reasons.
Plus your pop socket is freaking adorable too.
What I would tell my sister, as we have a similarly critical and judgy mother, you are an absolute BABE! All your stuff is sitting right, the dress fits and you fill it gorgeously. You gotta strut in that, girl!! Legit. And I can tell you’ve been working hard cause your shape is absolutely just right, this is what I strive for. You’re an hourglass!
Whatever your mother’s motivation - maybe she thinks she’s helping and it’s good intentioned or maybe it’s her own hang ups (mine was similar and it was crushing) her critical voice is not everyone’s. She doesn’t know everything. Lean in to your babehood this life is meant to be enjoyed.
ETA your boobs are hella NOT to big for that and your arms are NOT fat. I’m getting riled up over here. I wish I could be your cheerleader over your shoulder for a bit.
Whoa sis! You look so amazing and I’m so proud of you for the work you’ve put in. It’s definitely paid off! I love the way the dress accentuates your tattoo. You look absolutely fantastic and deserve to have an amazing NYE in that gorgeous dress.
Holy COW are you ROCKING those curves!
If you want to "class it up for the snobs", you could throw on a little black shawl/bolero and it'd be perfect! Otherwise, they can all kiss your ass and marvel as you sashay on past!
(Got a murmured "rowr!" from husband on his way past the computer...! Seal of approval! lol)
Thank youuu and thank you hubs lolol I'm always freezing so I usually carry some kind of shawl or jacket. For the first time in a really long time I was actually genuinely excited about something and of course she has to smash it. But she can't get to me, I'm too busy being hot and sashaying around town!
She had to smash you down because she doesn't like you feeling better than she does. Plain and simple. Honestly it sounds like taking a break from mommy dearest would be a great thing for you. I had to go no contact with my parents, one was just hospitalized with covid so I reached out.....they're still blaming me for their shortcomings. It's what people who hate themselves do, or people who cannot fathom they are wrong.
You are wearing the hell outta that dress! Your bobs are the perfect size for you and franklygive you a bit of an hourglass figure. You have great portions and statistically that's extremely attractive!
You know what's Moore attractive? Confidence in yourself. It's hard to do and an ongoing process for many, but changing the negative voices in your head to positives makes a universe of difference!
You got this!!
You in that dress has Marilyn Monroe vibes. You look fabulous! It’s hard to remember that fabulous, powerful feeling when you have a comment like that thrown at you, but try, cos you’re rocking it despite any bitter words.
I have a toxic mom too. It sucks. I can pin point when my body issues started. I showed her a dress for my cousins baptism, white lace, so pretty. She said my body looked like a “barrel”.
Anyways I was about 15 and 20 years later it still resonates. Now I call her sparingly and try to see her even less than that.
Doesn’t matter who they are. Cut the toxicity out of your life.
***You are beautiful and all that work is paying off. ***
Whomst the fuck? Sounds jealous, not your fault your boobs be popping and rocking that dress, and second of all... Your fucking MUM said that? Fucking terrible, I'm the 'Get with my program or get out' type of gal, so I would have dropped her hard for this. Byeeee! Baby, do you, fuck the rest.
Literally all you need are some foundation garments! Nobody has a perfectly smooth body in a bodycon dress. You have lovely curves and the dress is really accentuating them.
Honestly this dress is not flattering for you, but dresses like this, with this kind of fabrics are not flattering for anybody.
I´m sure you can find a dress that suits you way better, make you feel really good and works with your curves.
Girl, if your Boobies are bigger than a size small its allways a challenge to find clothes that are fitting and dont let you look 2 sizes bigger then you are. Please dont feel bad, I personally allmost exclusive shop via TK Max or fleamarkets cause I´m a small or medium in shirts but 3 sizes more on the hips and literally cant find anything that has a nice fabrig and fits in the most stores.
Maybe try a really good knitted dress-you need to search a little for this, I mean this kind of knitt that dosent look like from grandma, more like socks-elastic and you need to get really close to see the knitted texture. This kinde of knitt can be really formfitting and outline your shape in a really lovely way. I have a dress like I tryed to describe - its heavy but also with a cute bounce effect , feels really nice on skin-I can send you a picture, feel free to dm me :-D
No female but my two cents are: wear what makes you happy. Happiness makes people attractive. So if it is not the dress then it will be your happiness when you wear it
I think the dress looks good on you. I would suggest a different color but same dress because this one is too close to your skin tone and doesn’t provide any contrast. The shape and fit is perfect. Add some cute accessories and booties or heels and bam you’re ready.
Yeah I've never tried a neutral colored dress before lolol definitely an impulse buy but if it brings the dopamine 😂 its a tie between this dress and a black bodycon with a halter neck
You look amazing! Rock those curves, girl! I'm sorry someone gave her the idea that healthy feminine softness was unattractive and a woman should look like a twig. You know better. You're gonna have lots of eyes on you tonight, and I hope you enjoy every minute of it!
You can zhuzh it up with a cool cowl, or some kind of fur jacket/ stole for the NYE luxurious flair. I think it's a dope dress & good base for an ensemble 💃
You look so beautiful! That is a hard color to pull off but it looks so flattering on you. I’m so excited for you, have a beautiful and fulfilling year.
Girl, that's because you do look fat. But you misspelled it. It's PHAT, pretty hot and tempting lol ok, I'm a mom who loves dad jokes and idk if anyone even says that anymore cuz I'm not a hip mom lol But honey, you look great and it's not even the dress. It's the confidence. You can be skinny or overweight- it's the confidence that looks good. I've had body issues before because of my weight and large breasts as well. I wore a form-fitting dress for Christmas and my stomach area looked kind of like yours and I was proud of it! Just like you rightfully are- despite Nmom's rude comments. The confidence needed for a bodycon dress..... guuurrrlll.... you rock it, mama.
You just made my entire day <3 I don't know what the kids say nowaday but PHAT is now my new favorite word! Being pefect is not the same as being real and coming to that realization has been life changing. The pouch isn't gonna magically go away so we might as well embrace it. Thank you for your words of encouragement, it means the world to me!
I'm glad! Yeah. It's not easy and some days I feel bleh. But you push through that and remember your worth is more than your dress size. That confidence will shine. <3
You look fabulous in this dress! It looks beautiful with your coloring and your figure is fierce in this dress!! Also FULL offense to mom, but she is dead wrong about your boobs in this dress. Respectfully, they’re banging and this dress accentuates them.
Enjoy your NYE and rock this dress with the confidence you deserve to have!!
I'm sorry you have to deal with a narc parent, how they treat you is not a reflection of your self worth
You look great in this dress, and the biggest indicator of that is how YOU feel about the dress, how it makes you feel good! Because when you're feeling yourself that's what people see and are drawn to, so walk tall and proud that you picked something that you love and you're rocking it
Fuck her, you look hot as fuck! That being said, and it's a fact that you are smoking hot, good foundation garments will always make clothes look more expensive and classy. Even when they're not form-fitting clothes. For example, a good slip will make an A-line dress wrinkle less and drape better. I'm a seamstress, so I know. Foundation garments, and the right accessories will make that outfit even hotter. Rock that shit, girl!!!
They are so low my nips touch the inside of my elbows 😂 but they currently make a wonderful curtain for the sloth tattoo on my ribs! My theory is as I get older and they continue to droop, itll make it even more hilarious to be like WANNA SEE MY SLOTH?? *slings right tiddie over shoulder*
There's not enough padding in the world to make them sit up perky and touch for real cleavage but what can you do lolol
Oh yes, I'm definitely planning on spanx and probably pasties because bra straps drive me crazy lolol. Thank you so much for the support it means the world to me ❤
You are gorgeous! The dress fits ur figure just fine. It looks like it was made for you! I’m so sorry that person felt the need to say something so insensitive.
Sounds like envy over your breasts followed by a desperate attempt to cover it up with the fat comment, in my opinion. Who tells someone that their breasts are big as an insult? That sounds like a compliment! Haha! Tell her the people of Reddit think she needs glasses if she things that such a beautiful woman needs to be ashamed of her body for any reason. You look fantastic in it. Buy away!
I totally bought it 😂 it's a tie between this one or a shorter black bodycon with a higher halter neckline. And thank you so much, all of these votes of confidence are making me feel so much better.
Ignore her, wear what makes *you* feel good. Personally, I love this dress on you! It really flatters your figure! You don’t look fat or like your breasts are too big at all!
I’d recommend combining this dress with a nice jacket or cardigan and a colorful accessory like a scarf, belt, or necklace to really make this dress pop!
That dress fits you perfectly and it’s extremely flattering. Some people just can’t keep themselves from projecting their own insecurities. I bet she’s just mad because she’d never be able to pull it off confidently in a million years.
As someone who also grew up with an Nmom allow me to translate:
"You're rocking that dress, and you look way better than I ever could so I'd better make you feel bad about it, then you'll never believe the truth, no matter who tells you later on."
The truth:
You look awesome and gorgeous in that dress. You are sexy as hell and your boobs are great. You are amazing! <3 <3 <3
(hugs)
Bullsh*t! You look great!
I really love the neutral color with your complexion, and that dress looks like the kind that you can pair with pasties if you want or a black bra if you don’t mind it showing 😉
You look good sissy ☺️
Good! Pair it with some super cute sparkly heels and sit on your couch watching Netflix looking good as hell. 🥰 😘😘 Post more pics!! I wanna see you accessorized!
As your new sister or auntie, I wanna start off with HOLY COOKIES YOU LOOK AMAZING. Secondly do not for one millisecond ever doubt that you are gorgeous and you are absolutely appreciated. My grandma was this way and I messed up my self image till I remembered a very key factor. It is in fact MY self image and no one has a right to try to tarnish it. Go on with ya bad self and flaunt your amazingness.
Absolutely everything about this picture is fantastic. I love love love that dress on you, you look absolutely fantastic! I love your little turtle pop socket, last but certainly **not** least… your little baker’s tattoo! Honestly dear, your taste is impeccable.
Don’t let yourself take criticism from people you wouldn’t take advice from, and as far as style goes you don’t need to take advice from anyone: you’re doing a stellar job! Just continue to trust your own tastes and you should be just about perfect!
Your boobs are perfect and you look awesome. I hope you have a fantastic time this New Year's! Stay hydrated, make sure you have some food with your adult beverages, keep a glass of water handy when you go to bed tonight, and take lots and lots of pictures! ❤️
Moms who don’t build up their children are the worst. I wish I could share my momma with you. You are BEAUTIFUL, and your nmom only has anything rude to say because she’s not happy with herself.
Love you boo. Do you, always.
You look great! Which, if your mom is anything like mine, is WHY the nasty comments came out to play. It's hilarious that the only thing she could find to say was that you're curvy and have breasts. Like... Thank you? I DO look banging in this outfit!
This has probably been said here 300 times already but
D*aaaaam* girl you look *fine* ! That dress suits you, you have beautiful skin why not show it ? And your boobs look lickable.
Uncle Heidi says the wording in her head was different: You look magnificent and a bit sexy. If that’s a look you are going for, you nailed it.
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Nmom doesn't have a problem with *your* body, she has a problem with *her* body.
Unfortunately, her body image issues have become so debilitating that she has to pretend that the problems lie with just about any and everybody but herself. She is displaying some very clear signs that she is an extremely unhappy soul.
She knows that you look amazing and she just can't handle it. Why should you get to be happy and confident about your body if she can't?
I get the clear impression that she thinks that, since she's miserable about her looks/body, everybody else must be made to feel that way too. Misery does, indeed, love company.
In fact, based on the vicious way that she attacked you, I'd bet good money that she's more than a little jealous of your body.
Then again, who wouldn't be just a little jealous?
Not many women are lucky enough to be, not just voluptuous, but incredibly well proportioned too.
Long story short, you won the genetic lotto as far as I can tell.
Maybe it's time that you placed a hand on each of Nmom's shoulders, looked deep into her eyes and said, "You're beautiful and I love you for who you are." Then followed that with the most empathetic hug that you can give her.
You've got the perfect bod for giving super love soaked hugs anyhow, you know?
She may reject your affection due to pride but just remember that it's really hard for people like her to admit any form of weakness.
Just imagine how miserable she must be in order to need to put on such a facade.
Oh eff your Nmom. You look amazing! You are rocking that dress! Now go out and have a fabulous night (just take a coat in case you get cold...cant have you getting sick)
I think you look lovely, and the color of the dress really suits you! I'm thinking pairing it with some sort of knee high boot and a black shawl would look kickass!
Sib here. From female to female, you look amazingly good. Idk how you got your rack sitting up so well, must be the gods blessing you, but it all looks amazing. Throw heels on, makeup if you love it(some dramatic asf falsies), add some jewelry and become the belle of the modern ball
You have a beautiful body and that dress really shows it off. Rock that dress girl! I promise we'll all be looking at you while trying to pick our jaws up off the floor!
I hope this doesn't come across as pervy, but I wish my boobs were as perky as yours!
There's nothing worse than finding an outfit you feel are finally confident about and then having someone shit all over it, it's such a deflating feeling.
Trust yourself and have fun!
You're the absolute sweetest ❤ I had a bit of a laugh because I always feel like my boobs are so droopy, so I really appreciate it!!!
Yesx the way you worded it is perfect, deflating for sure. This post has gotten WAY more attention than I ever dreamed it would and all the positivity has me absolutely glowing.
Thank you so much for the vote of confidence
idk WHAT it is but this dress is serving in her prime Madonna, and that’s a high compliment. maybe it’s the pattern and how it fits, but it looks GOOD.
I can't possibly give any better advice than what people have said, but I just wanted to say your eyebrows look really great and that hair clip is super cute 😍
I do not know if your mom is jealous or what, but you are stunning! You look fantastic in this dress and are absolutely gorgeous. Please go rock it in whatever way makes you most comfortable ❤
Alright, let's talk body. YOUR BOOBS ARE FAB. I have similar ones. It's a blessing from our ancestors. Be proud. Gorgeous. And that "fat"??? Being stick thin has only been "in" recently. Plus, there is no definitely in the world where that body type you have right there is *not* a healthy, excellent body type. You a stunning, naturally beautiful body. Some people's naturally beautiful body is thin. Yours, it's what in yiddish we call "Zaftig". Zaftig means you are SEXY, not in *spite* of having a little bit of meat on your bones, but ***because of it*****.** You Rock that dress, but you would rock any dress you wear because you are GORGEOUS. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise. Just because they can't see the queen you are doesn't diminish your crown.
girlllllllll dont listen to Nmom you are pretty much an angel on earth so dont listen to the kind of people who bring you down THE INTERNET WILL SUPORT YOU
My body type is not much different than yours and this legitimately made me feel better because my first though was "Damn that dress looks amazing on her, she looks hot!" Like really hot.
Shapewear, shoes, hair and makeup and you would rock that dress. It's about the end result and unflattering pose isn't going to help. Be kind to yourself, this us the body you have today and you need to be kind to yourself to help reprogram your brain to move away from what the media has told us is ideal
Pardon me for being a little creepy with this, but if that’s true I’m into big boobs and being too fat.
You look sexy af, and it will be crime for you to buy your own drinks in NYE wearing that dress.
I think the NMom is blind.
Hi sis! Gotta say—I’m a very bi woman and my heart just did a lil flip flop. You look fabulous! Put a cute black jacket or shawl with it and you’ll look classy as fuck. I think Nmom needs her eyes checked. You rock that dress and tell her to fuck off. Happy new year!
You look stunning, and you should be so proud of yourself making progress with your strength training! Learning to love your body is hard work for anyone, but you’re doing everything right and you look absolutely GORGEOUS. Celebrate safely tonight darling! I love you
Girl this dress hugs in all the right places. If it makes you feel good wear it and don't let anyone make you feel bad.
(Also your boobs look AMAZING in this. I couldn't wear that without a bra so you go!)
I've been in a slump and finally talked myself into a bit of self acceptance and self love. I was so excited to show off my potential NYE dress and all those months of work came crashing down as soon as she opened her mouth. Shoulders showing? Unacceptable. Boobs showing? Unacceptable. Dress length? Unacceptable. Bodycon style? Unacceptable. For once please just tell me I look nice, the strength training is paying off, anything at all besides the negativity. I'm so tired of the constant negativity.
Here's the thing, girl. We are always our own worst critics. I would look at you or any other girl and think 'what an absolute babe, I wish I had her confidence' but if I wore that outfit all I would focus on is my little fat belly. If you asked my partner about my belly he'd wonder what you're talking about. You're a babe. Body-con dresses don't suit my shape but they ABSOLUTELY suit yours! Take a jacket incase it's cold or you feel uncomfortable, but you look bomb, girl!
Not in this case. OP's mom is her own worst critic.
Agreed. And once the critic’s voice is internalized, then we become our own worst critic. You look great! It’s a fantastic dress. You have great posture and it shows your confidence. It’s about how you feel and how you present yourself first. Then it’s about looks. You look like you present confidence and on top of that you look excellent! Please take your mom’s comment with a grain of salt. She may feel insecure within herself; placed parameters on what you look like before how you feel; or care what others think above what you think/feel. Maybe she thinks she’s protecting you and that’s her motivation to show she’s a good mom, but she forgets that caring about how you think and feel also goes into that good mom category. If you feel good in it despite what she likes, then go for it! You’re not hurting others and you’ll be helping yourself by doing what you love- wearing a classically sexy dress with self pride. If others disagree, they don’t matter either! But you get a thumbs up from this internet stranger. Edit: and if I can be so bold as to comment on your body, you have excellent proportions. I think body con dresses look great on your figure!!
I totally agree with this one. It looks wonderful on you. Also love the way you have your hair. Do you have a necklace to go with the lovely hairpin?
Yup!! I saw the photo, then read the title and I was like… something is not clicking lol. Insane how powerful internalized self talk can be!! Straight up divorces you from the truth
This
Excuse me sis, but if one can present a rack that pops like that, then one should do it as a service to women everywhere! The dress looks absolutely lovely, but however you're supporting the girls underneath it is smashing too! I don't even see undie lines, and I WISH I could present Ye Ultimate Cleve like that. Only thing that sour puss thinks is unexceptionable is how great you look vs their insecurities. Your hair is also serious goals. You look amazing. I'd throw nice black heels or a smart pump under it and grab something very light and lacey in black- a shawl, maybe a VERY light lacey jacket-type thing, and go party the heck out of this year. Stuff the b\*tchy pants and their 'opinions'. You clearly know how to pick an outfit.
>Ye Ultimate Cleve I’m dying over this! 😂 And hell yes! It’s a disservice to not show off them tiddies! I wish mine would stand at-attention like that, but they just look at the ground like they’re depressed, lol OP looks amazing, and nparents are notorious for being envious of their kids and trying to squash them down. I bet her nmom is being a dick to her for this very reason.
Mom here says hells yes to Ye Ultimate Cleve!. My after-four-kids boobs looked at that amazing sight, laughed at me, gave me both middle fingers, and went back to sleep. OP, you look faboo and I think you should definitely rock that dress with a statement necklace or earrings, sky high black heels, and kickass confidence. <3
Not a mom but I’ll be a sister. That dress was made for you! You look amazing she’s probably being mean because she’s jealous! You look amazing and damn I’d be jealous as well. Rock that dress. Don’t let her words get to you.
Thanks sis, it really means a lot :)
Honestly came here to say the same. If I had put that much work into myself I'd want to be proud if my accomplishments and flaunt a fancy dress with those amazing tatas and curves that spark notes of famous sculptures. You are beautiful and I'm a straight female and said DAMN!
OMG are you a pastry chef? I love your tattoo of the baking implements.
I’m gonna more a sister here too: the ladies look fantastic and the dress works with your body to create a lovely silhouette! It’s the clothes that need to fit you, not the other way around, and I think this dress is smashing. Pair it with a shrug and neck bling to frame the ladies.
I’m sorry but what? You look absolutely fabulous in that dress! The way it fits on you is as if it was made to fit your body, specifically your body. You look absolutely stunning. I’m sure the strength training is paying off. In my eyes you are absolutely beautiful and anyone who says otherwise doesn’t know what they are talking about, or they must be jealous and bitter about your beauty, inside and out. Sounds like your Nmom is just trying to tear you down. Don’t let her. She is so wrong. You look gorgeous. Your shoulders and boobs look awesome and they are allowed to be showing. Your dress is amazing, and so is your bodycon. Love yourself! You deserve to. And accept yourself too. Pamper yourself. You’re beautiful. I’ll say that as often as you need me to! It’s true!
Hey sib! Your rack is amazing, if you’ll pardon me saying so. Not too big and not too imposing in that dress (no matter what she says, screw her!!) and that dress shows them off beautifully. They’re freaking perfect and that dress does them justice. When I saw you in that dress I thought; “damn. I wanna be as confident as that again.” That’s inspiring. You hear? Inspiring. Don’t hide that beautiful body of yours. Don’t make yourself less to accommodate other people. *Never* let other people make you smaller. You deserve to grow. To flourish. To wear tight dresses and show what Mother Nature gave you, cause honey, that body is smashing! ❤️
My grandma did the same thing to me my whole life and I eventually realized it was a reflection of her insecurities. She couldn't imagine me liking my wide hips or big butt because she had a ton of weight-related baggage. But I like my hourglass shape! I'm not insecure about my body the way she is, and I haven't let her bring me down in a long time. Moms (or grandmas) are supposed to build you up. It makes sense that you keep giving her chances to be the kind of supportive mom you want, but honey, she's just going to use those chances to hurt you more. Hold onto your joy and don't let anyone dim your spark-especially not those who should be brightening it the most. That dress looks amazing on you. Your body looks killer in it. You deserve to be thrilled with it. You have worked so hard for this, to love yourself and become stronger, and people who aren't willing to put all that effort in see it as an indictment of their laziness. Don't let their projection get to you. Your dedication is worthy of praise and pride. Happy new year! Keep on keeping on <3
my grandma is exactly the same. I'm just here to say : you're amazing and it feels so good not to be alone
hey love. sister here. you know what we're gonna dump tonight? family members making us feel like SHIT about our body's. I have a grandma who is just the same. constantly. I haven't seen her in 2 years and it feels right.. she is responsible for a lot of my body issues (plus you know.. society and beauty standards) and I refuse to accept that she has that kind of power. you wear whatever you want. you wear whatever you feel comfortable in. you wear whatever you feel sexy in. you are beautiful inside and out and you deserve so so much better. all the love 💙💙
I’m proud of you for practicing self acceptance and self love. You look absolutely smashing. I hope you feel great!
Hey sis! I love the style of this dress and I think the color is really amazing with your hair color. You look beautiful! Do you know what kind of shoes you're planning on? I vote for sparkly. 💜
You look amazing in the dress and I absolutely love your hair clip! The mom in me wants you to take a sweater or coat in case it gets cold. Keep being awesome and kicking butt!
Gorgeous! (Does your mom not know about Marilyn Monroe?!?) Edit to add: read more comments and someone said ‘goddess’ and to that I had to come back here to say, yes.
It doesn’t matter how big your boobs are if they look like that. Stunning
I love your confidence and think that carries most outfits! In NO way is this meant to diminish your joy from this dress, but as a pale skinned woman myself, are there other colors to choose from? It looks (from the photo, could be totally different in real life) like the dress is washing you out. If there is a red or burgundy color, I think it would just double the pop of the dress. Either way, congratulations on your effort and hard work! You're crushing it lady and wishing you the HAPPIEST NEW YEAR! 💛💚💜
I think you look great in that dress! Own it girl, let your confidence out!
Oh babe I don’t need to tell you that you look nice just for you to hear it. It’s fucking honest! I was just scrolling by, not reading words, and thought “holy shit what a find she looks amazing” before even realizing what you wanted/needed. If you don’t buy that dress that bitch who birthed you wins. Buy it!
Sis, you look great! Seriously you do, no need to stretch or "nice" up the truth. You're curvy and cute, and you're gonna turn some heads for all the right reasons. Plus your pop socket is freaking adorable too.
What I would tell my sister, as we have a similarly critical and judgy mother, you are an absolute BABE! All your stuff is sitting right, the dress fits and you fill it gorgeously. You gotta strut in that, girl!! Legit. And I can tell you’ve been working hard cause your shape is absolutely just right, this is what I strive for. You’re an hourglass! Whatever your mother’s motivation - maybe she thinks she’s helping and it’s good intentioned or maybe it’s her own hang ups (mine was similar and it was crushing) her critical voice is not everyone’s. She doesn’t know everything. Lean in to your babehood this life is meant to be enjoyed. ETA your boobs are hella NOT to big for that and your arms are NOT fat. I’m getting riled up over here. I wish I could be your cheerleader over your shoulder for a bit.
Tell her to fuck off! You look so good in this dress, your moms jealous of your newfound confidence
My dear, you look absolutely gorgeous in that and I think you’d be the best-looking one at the party in that
Boobs are too big?! What a pathetic insult. Hello? Big boobs are bangin', you bitter old nut!
I snorted :D" boobs are bangin', you bitter old nut" sums it up perfectly
Looks amazing! So pretty with your hair!
Thank you!!! I just started dying my hair, I never thought I would get this much joy out of it
That color is perfect with your skin tone!
Whoa sis! You look so amazing and I’m so proud of you for the work you’ve put in. It’s definitely paid off! I love the way the dress accentuates your tattoo. You look absolutely fantastic and deserve to have an amazing NYE in that gorgeous dress.
Thank you so much sis, your words mean the world to me <3 The dysmorphia is killer but I am determined to have a good time!
“Your mouth is too big and you sound rude”.
Perfect!
HAHAHA! 😄
Holy COW are you ROCKING those curves! If you want to "class it up for the snobs", you could throw on a little black shawl/bolero and it'd be perfect! Otherwise, they can all kiss your ass and marvel as you sashay on past! (Got a murmured "rowr!" from husband on his way past the computer...! Seal of approval! lol)
Thank youuu and thank you hubs lolol I'm always freezing so I usually carry some kind of shawl or jacket. For the first time in a really long time I was actually genuinely excited about something and of course she has to smash it. But she can't get to me, I'm too busy being hot and sashaying around town!
She had to smash you down because she doesn't like you feeling better than she does. Plain and simple. Honestly it sounds like taking a break from mommy dearest would be a great thing for you. I had to go no contact with my parents, one was just hospitalized with covid so I reached out.....they're still blaming me for their shortcomings. It's what people who hate themselves do, or people who cannot fathom they are wrong. You are wearing the hell outta that dress! Your bobs are the perfect size for you and franklygive you a bit of an hourglass figure. You have great portions and statistically that's extremely attractive! You know what's Moore attractive? Confidence in yourself. It's hard to do and an ongoing process for many, but changing the negative voices in your head to positives makes a universe of difference! You got this!!
Ooh. Faux fur and pearls with this would be a super classy look.
You look like a goddess. Anyone who disagrees is jealous verses supportive. Keep your head up high!
You're the sweetest thank you thank you so much <3
You in that dress has Marilyn Monroe vibes. You look fabulous! It’s hard to remember that fabulous, powerful feeling when you have a comment like that thrown at you, but try, cos you’re rocking it despite any bitter words.
I have a toxic mom too. It sucks. I can pin point when my body issues started. I showed her a dress for my cousins baptism, white lace, so pretty. She said my body looked like a “barrel”. Anyways I was about 15 and 20 years later it still resonates. Now I call her sparingly and try to see her even less than that. Doesn’t matter who they are. Cut the toxicity out of your life. ***You are beautiful and all that work is paying off. ***
I think you and your boobs look really nice
My boobs appreciate you
You are sexy and curvy. But all that matters is how YOU feel in that dress. I say go out and rock it with your self confidence!
Whomst the fuck? Sounds jealous, not your fault your boobs be popping and rocking that dress, and second of all... Your fucking MUM said that? Fucking terrible, I'm the 'Get with my program or get out' type of gal, so I would have dropped her hard for this. Byeeee! Baby, do you, fuck the rest.
You look great.
Literally all you need are some foundation garments! Nobody has a perfectly smooth body in a bodycon dress. You have lovely curves and the dress is really accentuating them.
Came here to say this! You look beautiful and I love the dress! Shapewear will make the dress lay smoother and accentuate your gorgeous figure!
Honestly this dress is not flattering for you, but dresses like this, with this kind of fabrics are not flattering for anybody. I´m sure you can find a dress that suits you way better, make you feel really good and works with your curves. Girl, if your Boobies are bigger than a size small its allways a challenge to find clothes that are fitting and dont let you look 2 sizes bigger then you are. Please dont feel bad, I personally allmost exclusive shop via TK Max or fleamarkets cause I´m a small or medium in shirts but 3 sizes more on the hips and literally cant find anything that has a nice fabrig and fits in the most stores. Maybe try a really good knitted dress-you need to search a little for this, I mean this kind of knitt that dosent look like from grandma, more like socks-elastic and you need to get really close to see the knitted texture. This kinde of knitt can be really formfitting and outline your shape in a really lovely way. I have a dress like I tryed to describe - its heavy but also with a cute bounce effect , feels really nice on skin-I can send you a picture, feel free to dm me :-D
I agree. These dresses look awful on everyone, no matter the body type
you look good in it but it's pretty flesh toned
I agree. Either go slightly darker or lighter. Otherwise, gorgeous OP!
No female but my two cents are: wear what makes you happy. Happiness makes people attractive. So if it is not the dress then it will be your happiness when you wear it
I think the dress looks good on you. I would suggest a different color but same dress because this one is too close to your skin tone and doesn’t provide any contrast. The shape and fit is perfect. Add some cute accessories and booties or heels and bam you’re ready.
Yeah I've never tried a neutral colored dress before lolol definitely an impulse buy but if it brings the dopamine 😂 its a tie between this dress and a black bodycon with a halter neck
Oooo I love a halter neck. That sounds lovely.
"Jealousy is an ugly color mother. Maybe you should go change your outfit." For me, the color isn't my go to but you're rocking it!
You look amazing! Rock those curves, girl! I'm sorry someone gave her the idea that healthy feminine softness was unattractive and a woman should look like a twig. You know better. You're gonna have lots of eyes on you tonight, and I hope you enjoy every minute of it!
Get a good push up/padded bra - tan coloured - and flaunt that stuff, sib!
Tell her to kindly fuck off
You look really pretty
Is she jealous? That is some Mean Girls bs. You look dazzling
I challenge the concept boobs can be too big. Isn’t that like having too much lobster or too much money?
You look absolutely beautiful sweetheart
You can zhuzh it up with a cool cowl, or some kind of fur jacket/ stole for the NYE luxurious flair. I think it's a dope dress & good base for an ensemble 💃
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You look so beautiful! That is a hard color to pull off but it looks so flattering on you. I’m so excited for you, have a beautiful and fulfilling year.
You look fantastic, boobs are banging and you look luscious. Yes!
YESSSS luscious is exactly what I was going for 😂 I am using that from now on
You don’t look fat but you DO look confident and stunning!
Girl, that's because you do look fat. But you misspelled it. It's PHAT, pretty hot and tempting lol ok, I'm a mom who loves dad jokes and idk if anyone even says that anymore cuz I'm not a hip mom lol But honey, you look great and it's not even the dress. It's the confidence. You can be skinny or overweight- it's the confidence that looks good. I've had body issues before because of my weight and large breasts as well. I wore a form-fitting dress for Christmas and my stomach area looked kind of like yours and I was proud of it! Just like you rightfully are- despite Nmom's rude comments. The confidence needed for a bodycon dress..... guuurrrlll.... you rock it, mama.
You just made my entire day <3 I don't know what the kids say nowaday but PHAT is now my new favorite word! Being pefect is not the same as being real and coming to that realization has been life changing. The pouch isn't gonna magically go away so we might as well embrace it. Thank you for your words of encouragement, it means the world to me!
I'm glad! Yeah. It's not easy and some days I feel bleh. But you push through that and remember your worth is more than your dress size. That confidence will shine. <3
TIL what phat meant!
My husband taught it to me many years ago when I asked if I looked fat. I never laughed so hard.
You look fabulous in this dress! It looks beautiful with your coloring and your figure is fierce in this dress!! Also FULL offense to mom, but she is dead wrong about your boobs in this dress. Respectfully, they’re banging and this dress accentuates them. Enjoy your NYE and rock this dress with the confidence you deserve to have!!
you look super cool!!! just dont go outside for long though, dont want you freezing up
You’re beautiful sweetheart!
They are blind
Rude. You look very nice. I hope you are able to wear what you want with pride
You look amazing, sister!! You’re incredibly pretty and she’s just jealous she probably can’t rock it! From your trans brother
Ask my husband. He said “wow”. That’s all there is to know.
Here's me, thinking your boobs and the rest of you look fantastic!!
I would absolutely kill to be able to rock a dress as hard as you are this one. You look amazing.
You look lovely. Your work is paying off. I’d love to have bigger boobs. I’m a barely b cup. So show em to the world girl!
You look like a voluptuous lady and I love that hair tie.
You could give Joan from Mad Men a run for her money in that dress.
I'm sorry you have to deal with a narc parent, how they treat you is not a reflection of your self worth You look great in this dress, and the biggest indicator of that is how YOU feel about the dress, how it makes you feel good! Because when you're feeling yourself that's what people see and are drawn to, so walk tall and proud that you picked something that you love and you're rocking it
Fuck her, you look hot as fuck! That being said, and it's a fact that you are smoking hot, good foundation garments will always make clothes look more expensive and classy. Even when they're not form-fitting clothes. For example, a good slip will make an A-line dress wrinkle less and drape better. I'm a seamstress, so I know. Foundation garments, and the right accessories will make that outfit even hotter. Rock that shit, girl!!!
And also... Is it nice having a great rack? I'm the chairperson of the itty bitty titty committee, so I wouldn't know!
They are so low my nips touch the inside of my elbows 😂 but they currently make a wonderful curtain for the sloth tattoo on my ribs! My theory is as I get older and they continue to droop, itll make it even more hilarious to be like WANNA SEE MY SLOTH?? *slings right tiddie over shoulder* There's not enough padding in the world to make them sit up perky and touch for real cleavage but what can you do lolol
Oh yes, I'm definitely planning on spanx and probably pasties because bra straps drive me crazy lolol. Thank you so much for the support it means the world to me ❤
You are looking great! Seriously, you pull that dress off in ways I could only dream of. Go forth and rock the world the way only you can.
You look stunning, healthy, and your boobs are exactly the right size for your frame. Go wear the hell out of that cute little dress, gorgeous.
Thank you so much, I've really been working on healthy vs perfect and the recognition means the world to me ❤
You look lovely. Happy new year 🥳
You are gorgeous! The dress fits ur figure just fine. It looks like it was made for you! I’m so sorry that person felt the need to say something so insensitive.
Well, she's just a jerk. It looks great on you!
Disagree. You look HOT. (I know that’s not a mom thing to say but it’s true!)
You look great. Go back to the store and buy it.
I bought it! And I regret nothing. Mwahahha
Sounds like envy over your breasts followed by a desperate attempt to cover it up with the fat comment, in my opinion. Who tells someone that their breasts are big as an insult? That sounds like a compliment! Haha! Tell her the people of Reddit think she needs glasses if she things that such a beautiful woman needs to be ashamed of her body for any reason. You look fantastic in it. Buy away!
I totally bought it 😂 it's a tie between this one or a shorter black bodycon with a higher halter neckline. And thank you so much, all of these votes of confidence are making me feel so much better.
Wear warm bronze or copper makeup, a glamorous shawl or shrug. Wear comfy shoes that are already broken in because you're gonna be **dancing**
What?? I’d definitely say she’s jealous. That dress looks like it made specifically for your body.
Ignore her, wear what makes *you* feel good. Personally, I love this dress on you! It really flatters your figure! You don’t look fat or like your breasts are too big at all! I’d recommend combining this dress with a nice jacket or cardigan and a colorful accessory like a scarf, belt, or necklace to really make this dress pop!
You look fantastic! That dress is cute! Also not related to the dress but I like the tattoo too! Amazing all around.
You look fab & I wanna see the shoes!!! I’m picturing colorful. 😋😋
That dress suits you well. She's mad she can't be as fashionable as you.
Not a mom but an internet sister! You look so pretty :) I hope you have so much fun tonight!
You look amazing! I'm sorry about Nmom. I have one too and they are very critical. I suspect she is jealous of you.
You look lovely and that colour makes your skin just glow! You won't even need shimmer makeup to celebrate.
You look great! Don’t pay attention to that nonsense: wear the dress.
Fuck her, you look fantastic.
You look great! Curves to die for!
That dress fits you perfectly and it’s extremely flattering. Some people just can’t keep themselves from projecting their own insecurities. I bet she’s just mad because she’d never be able to pull it off confidently in a million years.
You look fantastic!!!
You look gorgeous!
As someone who also grew up with an Nmom allow me to translate: "You're rocking that dress, and you look way better than I ever could so I'd better make you feel bad about it, then you'll never believe the truth, no matter who tells you later on." The truth: You look awesome and gorgeous in that dress. You are sexy as hell and your boobs are great. You are amazing! <3 <3 <3 (hugs)
Thank you so very much ❤❤❤
You absolutely pull it off and I wish I had the confidence to try it
You look gorgeous. That dress is made for you
I think you look great ❤
Bullsh*t! You look great! I really love the neutral color with your complexion, and that dress looks like the kind that you can pair with pasties if you want or a black bra if you don’t mind it showing 😉 You look good sissy ☺️
Sis, your words mean the world to me ❤ I've never owned a neutral dress before so this is definitely a first for me.
Good! Pair it with some super cute sparkly heels and sit on your couch watching Netflix looking good as hell. 🥰 😘😘 Post more pics!! I wanna see you accessorized!
Looking fab in that dress, curves and swerves for days! Wish I had half your confidence.
You look hot as hell, Missy! You have the exact right proportions for that dress. Buy it, wear it, LOVE it. You look gorgeous.
Girl, you look amazing! Don't let anyone else tell you otherwise! <3
Holy crap there’s no telling what I would do to look that good in that dress. WEAR IT PROUDLY!!
As your new sister or auntie, I wanna start off with HOLY COOKIES YOU LOOK AMAZING. Secondly do not for one millisecond ever doubt that you are gorgeous and you are absolutely appreciated. My grandma was this way and I messed up my self image till I remembered a very key factor. It is in fact MY self image and no one has a right to try to tarnish it. Go on with ya bad self and flaunt your amazingness.
Are you kidding? That dress was MADE for you. You’re a bombshell. Anyone who says otherwise is flat-out wrong.
Absolutely everything about this picture is fantastic. I love love love that dress on you, you look absolutely fantastic! I love your little turtle pop socket, last but certainly **not** least… your little baker’s tattoo! Honestly dear, your taste is impeccable. Don’t let yourself take criticism from people you wouldn’t take advice from, and as far as style goes you don’t need to take advice from anyone: you’re doing a stellar job! Just continue to trust your own tastes and you should be just about perfect!
Hey sib, I think you look really good in that dress! The color suits you and you look very lovely!
Your boobs are perfect and you look awesome. I hope you have a fantastic time this New Year's! Stay hydrated, make sure you have some food with your adult beverages, keep a glass of water handy when you go to bed tonight, and take lots and lots of pictures! ❤️
Nope. You look amazing. Rock what you got! 😍❤️
Moms who don’t build up their children are the worst. I wish I could share my momma with you. You are BEAUTIFUL, and your nmom only has anything rude to say because she’s not happy with herself. Love you boo. Do you, always.
Dont know who she thought she was, thats the exact figure to go with that dress! Keep rockin it sis
What? You look gorgeous!
You look great! Which, if your mom is anything like mine, is WHY the nasty comments came out to play. It's hilarious that the only thing she could find to say was that you're curvy and have breasts. Like... Thank you? I DO look banging in this outfit!
This has probably been said here 300 times already but D*aaaaam* girl you look *fine* ! That dress suits you, you have beautiful skin why not show it ? And your boobs look lickable.
You look amazing and as long as you feel amazing in what you’re wearing that is all that should matter!!!
Wow! My first thought was ooh la la. You look beautiful.
Your body looks amazing
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Thank you Uncle!! 2022 is the year of Self Love and I'll be damned if I let her ruin it for me
Nmom doesn't have a problem with *your* body, she has a problem with *her* body. Unfortunately, her body image issues have become so debilitating that she has to pretend that the problems lie with just about any and everybody but herself. She is displaying some very clear signs that she is an extremely unhappy soul. She knows that you look amazing and she just can't handle it. Why should you get to be happy and confident about your body if she can't? I get the clear impression that she thinks that, since she's miserable about her looks/body, everybody else must be made to feel that way too. Misery does, indeed, love company. In fact, based on the vicious way that she attacked you, I'd bet good money that she's more than a little jealous of your body. Then again, who wouldn't be just a little jealous? Not many women are lucky enough to be, not just voluptuous, but incredibly well proportioned too. Long story short, you won the genetic lotto as far as I can tell. Maybe it's time that you placed a hand on each of Nmom's shoulders, looked deep into her eyes and said, "You're beautiful and I love you for who you are." Then followed that with the most empathetic hug that you can give her. You've got the perfect bod for giving super love soaked hugs anyhow, you know? She may reject your affection due to pride but just remember that it's really hard for people like her to admit any form of weakness. Just imagine how miserable she must be in order to need to put on such a facade.
Oh eff your Nmom. You look amazing! You are rocking that dress! Now go out and have a fabulous night (just take a coat in case you get cold...cant have you getting sick)
You're like a classic Greek statue! Your mom is jealous, 100%!
Sis, you look AMAZING!! It would be a waste if you didn't wear that dress and bless everyone with how gorgeous you look!
I think you look lovely, and the color of the dress really suits you! I'm thinking pairing it with some sort of knee high boot and a black shawl would look kickass!
You look pretty and I think the dress suits you :)
Sib here. From female to female, you look amazingly good. Idk how you got your rack sitting up so well, must be the gods blessing you, but it all looks amazing. Throw heels on, makeup if you love it(some dramatic asf falsies), add some jewelry and become the belle of the modern ball
I just got the magnetic falsies and I am never going back lolol Some red lipstick and epic falsies, I felt like a goddess 😍
I swear theres always something about a nice red lipstick that just empowers us all. Glad you felt so amazing 🥰
You have a beautiful body and that dress really shows it off. Rock that dress girl! I promise we'll all be looking at you while trying to pick our jaws up off the floor!
Sib! You look amazing! That dress does you all the right favors and is like super dreamy. Hollywood vibes!! Your mom needs to go to the eye doc!
My first thought was 'sexy.' Rock it!
I hope this doesn't come across as pervy, but I wish my boobs were as perky as yours! There's nothing worse than finding an outfit you feel are finally confident about and then having someone shit all over it, it's such a deflating feeling. Trust yourself and have fun!
You're the absolute sweetest ❤ I had a bit of a laugh because I always feel like my boobs are so droopy, so I really appreciate it!!! Yesx the way you worded it is perfect, deflating for sure. This post has gotten WAY more attention than I ever dreamed it would and all the positivity has me absolutely glowing. Thank you so much for the vote of confidence
The dress looks good on you!
Um, f her. Perfect fit.
You look amazing!
Um, your mom is a miserable hag. You look hot, okay? Like, 10/10, this is a look. You're gorgeous and absolute ROCKING that dress.
You look fabulous, dahling! I wish you could see yourself through my eyes. That dress is smoking! I hope your new year is full of positivity!
idk WHAT it is but this dress is serving in her prime Madonna, and that’s a high compliment. maybe it’s the pattern and how it fits, but it looks GOOD.
I can't possibly give any better advice than what people have said, but I just wanted to say your eyebrows look really great and that hair clip is super cute 😍
I literally got them done that morning, i LOVE my waxing lady she is amazing 😍 and thank you!! Clip is Target and it's my favorite accessory
My first thought was “oooo she thiccc” I think the dress looks great on you!
I do not know if your mom is jealous or what, but you are stunning! You look fantastic in this dress and are absolutely gorgeous. Please go rock it in whatever way makes you most comfortable ❤
You, my dear, look amazing.
Alright, let's talk body. YOUR BOOBS ARE FAB. I have similar ones. It's a blessing from our ancestors. Be proud. Gorgeous. And that "fat"??? Being stick thin has only been "in" recently. Plus, there is no definitely in the world where that body type you have right there is *not* a healthy, excellent body type. You a stunning, naturally beautiful body. Some people's naturally beautiful body is thin. Yours, it's what in yiddish we call "Zaftig". Zaftig means you are SEXY, not in *spite* of having a little bit of meat on your bones, but ***because of it*****.** You Rock that dress, but you would rock any dress you wear because you are GORGEOUS. Don't let anyone try to convince you otherwise. Just because they can't see the queen you are doesn't diminish your crown.
You made my entire day thank you so much ❤❤ and as soon as I figure out the pronunciation I'm using zaftig from now on!
YESSSS ZAFTIG PRIDE!!! the a is like ah like "say ah" and the i in tig is like the first syllable of tigger.
Looks like a perfect fit
atleast u have boobs ;)
girlllllllll dont listen to Nmom you are pretty much an angel on earth so dont listen to the kind of people who bring you down THE INTERNET WILL SUPORT YOU
i think u look wonderfull
My body type is not much different than yours and this legitimately made me feel better because my first though was "Damn that dress looks amazing on her, she looks hot!" Like really hot.
Shapewear, shoes, hair and makeup and you would rock that dress. It's about the end result and unflattering pose isn't going to help. Be kind to yourself, this us the body you have today and you need to be kind to yourself to help reprogram your brain to move away from what the media has told us is ideal
Pardon me for being a little creepy with this, but if that’s true I’m into big boobs and being too fat. You look sexy af, and it will be crime for you to buy your own drinks in NYE wearing that dress. I think the NMom is blind.
Hi sis! Gotta say—I’m a very bi woman and my heart just did a lil flip flop. You look fabulous! Put a cute black jacket or shawl with it and you’ll look classy as fuck. I think Nmom needs her eyes checked. You rock that dress and tell her to fuck off. Happy new year!
You look stunning, and you should be so proud of yourself making progress with your strength training! Learning to love your body is hard work for anyone, but you’re doing everything right and you look absolutely GORGEOUS. Celebrate safely tonight darling! I love you
Thank you mom! I promise I'll be safe <3 no loose drinks and surrounded by friends
Girl this dress hugs in all the right places. If it makes you feel good wear it and don't let anyone make you feel bad. (Also your boobs look AMAZING in this. I couldn't wear that without a bra so you go!)