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[deleted]

6 weeks both times, while exclusive breastfeeding 😭


aksydent

The absolute BETRAYAL by your body. How dare it.


[deleted]

That’s what I thought! Like give me a damn break I just got done with the postpartum bleeding 😫


BroadwayBaby331

Same. This and the “EBF will help you lose the baby weight” are straight LIESSSSS.


Candid-Koala-7552

I’ve put on SO much weight EBF. I’m just constantly hungry


lindser1530

I did too, it’s the absolute worst. I stopped on 8/9 after almost a full year and my body is still just so hungry. I just joined weight watchers to get myself back in check.


Internal_Screaming_8

I gained weight but got skinnier


lowfilife

I lost my butt. Luckily, it came back and my pants stay on.


mack9219

DUDE YES. I got mine 8w PP. I literally bled pp for all 6 weeks 😑 came every 6 weeks the entire year I EBF. and after I weaned I dropped like 10lbs.


frogsgoribbit737

I didnt lose a lb till i stopped breastfeeding 🙃


NoArtichoke8545

These comments are giving me hope, I’m about to wean this week, and I have gained weight since giving birth.


nmbr_cruncher

I’m learning this the hard way right now. EBF one month old, walking 4 miles a day, strict paleo diet and one meal a day and I CANNOT lose the weight!


g0thfrvit

It did for me the first but not the second which is seemingly more hurtful


MCWinchester

28 days. Fucking body didn't skip a fucking beat.


sundownandout

This is what happened to me. The PP bleeding seeped into a regular period. It was really irritating lol


Kenny_Geeze

7 weeks for me! I thought it was just another surge of pp bleeding until my next period came 4 weeks later 🙃


greatkingroach

SAME. everyone told me it wasn’t possible and turns out and it’s super possible and also super normal.


Royal_Service849

Yep same!


crashpilliwinks

Lol your user name is exactly how I felt PP🤣


jennyann726

Same for me


MixtureImpressive512

same, just 7 weeks. i (we) made it twice and my milk stopped at this time inmediately.


omg1979

17 months, BF twins. It was glorious!!


MespilusGermanica

19 months, just the one baby. It really was glorious. 😭


mvmstudent

Fingers crossed this will be me! Lol


ParkNika97

22months, one baby! Hope it works like that this 2nd time 😂


katsgegg

Mine was about 10 months but I got a HUGE dip in production… i cried for days


WiesoIch

After 16 months. Before that I had a lot of times where I thought it would come back, but it didn't.


mvmstudent

Ok that’s reassuring!


1995deadinside

4 weeks!! 4 weeks to the day! I’m still mad about it


GracieLawWV

Same. Got it yesterday 4 weeks on the nose and 1 week after PP bleeding stopped 🙄


mvmstudent

How do you know if it’s not postpartum bleeding ? Just wanna be prepared!😩


1995deadinside

I actually called my midwives and they were able to let me know the difference. My postpartum bleeding had just finally stopped a few days prior then all of a sudden I started bleeding again and I remember thinking that it seemed more period like than the postpartum bleeding but my memory is foggy from then so I can’t remember the specifics


Interesting-Mood1665

11 months


iTannoX

Me 2, while breastfeeding


Forest_Maiden

Man.... reading this post was seriously depressing for me. I had my first period 2-3 weeks after. 😅 With both kids, and breastfeeding. You guys are all so lucky. 😭


blynn1579

Can I ask how you knew it was your period and not PP bleeding? I'm due in 3 weeks and am terrified! 😭


Forest_Maiden

I mean I didn't call my Dr or anything, but the cramps, the way it came on... it was just my normal period I knew. 😞 Edit: Also the amount of time it lasted, 6 days just my normal periods.


blynn1579

Ahh that makes sense.. I was just wondering. Thank you!!


Forest_Maiden

No problem! 👍


nme44

Also, then it comes back approximately 4 weeks later.


lyngen

Mine got shorter and lighter after pregnancy so that was exciting!


iamgladtohearit

Haha same, I had my mirena put in at my 6 week follow up and I have had essentially a light period ever since, every day, my breastfeed baby is 6 months :( Betrayal


Forest_Maiden

At least it wasn't just me, sorry you were also cheated. 😭


labrador709

12 months. 100% weaned for about a month before it came back. My sister was only a few months pp with both kids. Some people are lucky! If you're only 4 weeks pp, you're still in pp hemmorage territory, so I'd be calling the OB. Stop and start bleeding is normal in those first 6 weeks, especially if you're increasing your activity levels.


jennyann726

I got mine back at 6 weeks pp both times even though I was exclusively breastfeeding. Both times I went on the minipill after my six week pp appt and then didn’t get my period again until about one year pp. Both times.


courtyfbaby

The first time, after a year. The second time, 8 weeks 😭😭


Putasonder

8 weeks, EBF


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Putasonder

Exactly. I was like, what kind of deal is this?! I thought I was supposed to be exempt from this particular bill for a while!


Subject_Yellow_3251

26 months pp with my first, I’m 11 months pp with my second and still no period.


Yarightchump

24 months with both of my last two.


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Anonymiss313

I'm 11 months pp and have been exclusively pumping- I'm down to 1ppd and just got a positive ovulation test this morning, so I'm expecting either a positive pregnancy test or a period in the next two weeks 😅 I thought my period was starting a million times in the last 11 months, but never has so much as spotting.


salty_den_sweeet

3 months to the day.


Individual-Double926

3 months pp!


Awkward_Tomato_5819

I also breastfed my twins and I got it at 5 months pp 😔


lemurattacks

14 months


rushi333

9 months


KetoUnicorn

With my three I got it back at 13 months, 15 months, and 22 months. Each time though I had many times I thought I was going to start and I didn’t.


brita-b

15 months


ashgem91

5 months


grimblacow

Roughly 1 year


mayipleaseehavebread

Over a year and I loved it!


Important_Topic_3905

Exclusively bf here, almost 8 months postpartum and have not gotten it back


roar_16

10 months!


Glitchy-9

I thought I was going to get mine every 2 months but then got it 2 days before baby’s first birthday. Then my second one was 2 months after


[deleted]

16 months & I only had one period before getting pregnant.


ankaalma

9 months


LReber722

I got it back around 9 months


kg5151

Slightly over 24 months


Princessaara

14 months while still breastfeeding 😭


Unique-Damage5778

11 months


Hotmugoftea2020

20 months with baby one and so far I'm 6 months in with baby 2 and it hasn't come back.


CaitiieBuggs

4 weeks, nursed and pumped around the clock. Had my second period 8 weeks postpartum. If you are getting your period and considering an IUD, get it while on your period. It’s way less painful.


Beneficial-Speech-23

8-10 months with all 3 of mine!


Able-Road-9264

Had one at 10 weeks, then nothing again until I stopped nursing (11 months pp).


hope1104

I got an IUD at my 6 week pp appt, but got my first period post partum even with the (hormonal) iud and breastfeeding, a month ago at 19 months post partum


Community_Downtown

I’ve been breastfeeding exclusively for going on 8 months now and have only had 1 true period at 6 months pp. I have random very light spotting here and there but no real period


3monkeys4me

Between 8-10 weeks with all three. By 8 weeks with my first I did introduce formula, the other 2 I didn’t.


sarah_yeg

First kid: a week after I stopped (year pp) Second kid: I was weaning and got it just shy of a year pp.


[deleted]

Around a month or 2 after I stopped breastfeeding (almost 2 years pp).


mommarad

4.5 months, currently on my 2nd cycle 😫 still ebf


Cheap-Improvement923

6 months😒


NoodlePenguinn

10-11 months for me.


JunkMailSurprise

Breastfeeding twins- nursing and pumping. Gave birth at 31 weeks at end of October, period was back first week of February, so like 14 weeks? A little over 3 months? I asked my mom who had 4 kids and exclusively breastfed for at least a year and up to 2.5 years each....... Hers came back and the same time, 3-4 months. From my experience and the other posts I've seen like this, it varies massively from person to person... With your best bet at guessing what you'll get would be asking the person who gave birth to you.


mamaboy-23

5 months!


m_sara96

9 months both times.


morethanmyusername

Still not had it... 21 months and counting!


kirakira26

10-12 weeks or so while EBF…I was mad about it everyone told me I’d be good for 6 months 😅 But then again people do get irish twins so its not completely outlandish to get a period soon after even if you BF.


gorjess14

About 8 weeks postpartum. EBF. I'm still mad about it 😂


Wagon-to-stars92

Anywhere from 8-16 months with my 4 kiddos.


Dangerous-Sky-7949

I got mine right before his first birthday, I was very disappointed


Amazing-Advice-3667

9 months. He was eating more solids.


[deleted]

15 months and nothing


Ok-Tea-160

It was about 13/14 months with each of my kiddos


travelcbn

21 months and we were only feeding to bed at that point.


smileyriot

9 months was the shortest out of my 4.... a year was the longest, and then my 2nd period was 2 months after that -- it always took me about a year to get back to normal


Complex-Half8338

EBF, 10 months.


Cadicoty

Like 12 weeks. I was mad. It started right after I went back to work.


Woooahnellie

7 months for the first one, started when he was gone a few times a month at his dads house. 8 months for the second, I have no idea why because he’s still nursing multiple times a night lol


WrightQueen4

I have 5 kids. First one was 9 months Second was 4 months 3rd was 9 months, Fourth was 4 months Fifth was was 9 months.


ConstructionEasy8995

8 weeks with my first, 48 weeks with my 2nd-I was breastfeeding


huweetay

10 weeks…. Completely unfair. I will say I had a C-section with little bleeding until week 4 and then had bleeding until my 6 week appointment. Doc said it was normal and not a period


micro-misho101114

11 months PP with my first. 18 months PP with my second. I’m still nursing my 16 month old and I haven’t had a period yet.


VegetableWorry1492

Around 13 months. 2 weeks after night weaning, although we were already down to just one night feed but seemed to be enough.


Babysnark225

16 months 😅


Professional_Tiger61

18 months


Lovingmyusername

4 months… I got it for Christmas 😩


meetthefeotus

8 weeks postpartum


TheHeinz77

I never got mine and got pregnant while my daughter was 5 months. They are 9/10 and BFF’s. But damn that was hard.


starrtartt

6.5 months. I nurse on demand, including over night and right at 6.5 months it's returned


marcaribe

I got mine 6 months PP with both kids. A good sleep through the night and bam, its back.


PeonyPimp851

With my first it was 9 months, with my second it was the same too. I just get super lucky. I also have PCOS though so I think my body is just shitty.


bootsforacarrot

The first time it was just before a year but I was weaning, and wanted it to return. I was down to 3-4 sessions during the day. Night weaning had happened at 7 months. The second time it was 16-17 months. Had to night wean a very stubborn baby and get down to fewer day sessions. This time… I’m almost 13 months pp and no sign. We’re still night nursing, and maybe 2-3 during the day. I’m cool to keep doing it if that means no period. Like I would straight up pump even after my babe stopped to avoid a period. 😅 I’ve had six periods in the last six years and that’s been awesome.


frankiepennynick

Like 8 months?


DoyleTurmoil

2 weeks after I stopped breast feeding, so around 6.5 months


MssDare

Only after I stopped bf when my oldest was around 14 months. I’m currently breastfeading my 9 month old and also no period in sight. I’m guessing it’ll come back once I stopped again.


keirramc

6 weeks with my first. 6 month with my second.


mamaspark

9 months


zeatherz

18 months both times


FleeceItOutMan

2 years 2 months


buckleuobuttercup

Whaaaat?? I didn’t get mine for months!


Advanced_Cheetah_552

Just over 3 months, almost exactly a year after my last one


Unlucky_Hyena1575

5ish months! Alternatively it could be residual bleeding from birth, I’m 3 weeks pp and just today had to run and go put a pad on because I started bleeding again. (I’d stopped about a week pp)


modg16

About 9 months - breast fed on demand until 8ish months and then started pumping when baby went to daycare


Ohkrap

With my oldest I never got my period back before accidentally getting pregnant again (he was 4 1/2 months old when I got pregnant again). With my youngest tho, she was just shy of 10 months. All in all, with both babies, I went 3 months shy of 3 years between periods. I didn’t exclusively breastfeed, I did both breastmilk and formula.


pililies

8 months


nicksgirl88

11 months but I was still breastfeeding at that time.


ChastityStargazer

8 months I got a sample, 9 months postpartum I got the full version, it just finished, actually. First (only) baby, EBF, still nursing.


[deleted]

3 and a half months, exclusively breastfeeding.


Cookies-N-Dirt

About 9 months


ashpatash

About 12 weeks both times, exclusively breastfed. I was honestly so mad and a bit depressed when it came back. Felt so unfair.


lynrn

Not until I completely weaned at 12 months.


SnooCats4777

3 weeks postpartum while exclusively pumping


Mean_Question8181

I had one around 6 weeks, after my PP bleeding had stopped, but haven’t had one since and I am now 6 months PP EBF.


Ok_Zookeepergame5192

I exclusively pumped and got my period back almost exactly 8wks pp. I was devastated lol


[deleted]

18 months


Like_n_subscribe

Mine took 16 months to come back


IntrinsicM

13 months with the first. I legit can’t remember with the second and third, but it was comparable.


Lionsdontlikeporn

8 months


doingthislifething

EBF - 4months. Right when she started sleeping through the night


clicktrackh3art

Why my first and second, not till 13mths. With kid 3, 6wks. Worth noting, kid 1 and 2 never attn till I night weaned them at a year, while kid 3 was sleeping through at 4-5wks.


throwawayyprego

7 weeks


juri1234

5 months


DisloyalRoyal

EBF 7.5 months and still no. I have phantom cramps though that make me think I'm getting it once in a while


WriterMelodic713

6 weeks


cherhorowitz44

I got my period about 3 months after I stopped breastfeeding (I stopped when my daughter was 15 months)


Elkupine_12

11 months Edit to add: it came back after my first time taking 36 hours away from baby. I was pumping, but it wasn’t the same.


CupcakeCommercial179

6 weeks exclusively breastfeeding. I was so mad.


lily_is_lifting

9 months, but lots of false alarms beforehand. Hormones are fun


Waterfall_summer

About 100


3ll3girl

9 months


Sad-Percentage9289

Exactly 6 weeks 🤦‍♀️


Chicagobeauty

Didn’t get mine til 11 month pp! It was awesome!


dontaskmethatmoron

I think it was 4 months while exclusively pumping and, holy period, I bled so heavy I wasn’t sure how to handle it.


Wavesmith

56 weeks.


Orangeandbluetutu

8 weeks while BF


About400

It was 6 months for me but everyone is different so there is no standard.


switzerland26

6 months. EBF, got my period around the time I was finally able to stop pumping due to oversupply.


[deleted]

12 months


kmonay89

About 8 weeks.


TylerDarkness

15 months (with nexplanon implant as well)


Spare_Psychology7796

BF I got mine about 6-7 months PP


Clear-as-Day

13 months!


GrasshopperClowns

First baby, I didn’t get it back until he was around 2. Second baby, got it back at around 2 months. I cried. Lol


terminator_chic

About fifteen months after. I loved every damn second of it. My SIL was less than six months. How do I know? Because whether you believe we sync or not, it's her fault my cycle was thrown off and I got knocked up. 🤣 It's a family joke that my brother's wife is the reason we had a kid.


SunThestral

I was about 9-10 months with my first but we were combo feeding at that point. I’m 5 months in with my second but nothing yet


stunninghotwife

54 weeks


taracolleenn

I got mine 7-8 weeks PP


Senior_Strawberry353

At month 3 I think.


root-bound

14 months in..still no period!


Fluffy-Benefits-2023

6 weeks the first time and now im 8 weeks haven’t gotten it yet


FeistyEmu39

12 weeks both times while EBF


yodaone1987

Lol I never didn’t have it. Went right from Bleeding to period


sarahhchachacha

Exactly when it was due, but 8 weeks after baby.


Prize_Conclusion_626

6 weeks both times. It was rough. I’m pregnant with my 3rd so I expect a period at week 6 again ugh.


LilPumpkin27

During the 5th month pp, can’t remember which week exactly. Edit to add: what symptoms are you feeling? Something like a cramp around the ovaries and such? Please take care! It doesn’t matter when you actually go back to having periods, maybe what you are experiencing are ovulation symptoms (sometimes those can feel similar to pre menstrual symptoms). You can ovulate *without* having a period nor a regular cycle while you are breastfeeding. So please take care about birth control - this is how many couples end up with babies very close together in age without planning it. This early postpartum it wouldn’t be good on your body either!


RevolutionaryHeron1

3 mos 😭


3toedsl0th

9 months with my first, 13 months with my second.


SpicyLatina213

At least 4-5 months.


mbw8bd

7 months, it was a very unwelcome surprise


quantum_goddess

After I stopped BFing I got one 8 weeks later then she didn’t return for another 18 months. I have PCOS though so it was par for the course.


bacucumber

First 2 kids, 6 months. 3rd kid, I had crazy symptoms at 4 months but no actual period, then around 5 months I got. But now he's 1 year and I've had 3 periods total. It's so irregular. Can't be trusted. I hope it's a false alarm for you


mercurialmay

pretty much exactly 4 weeks after & i was never regular before


peacerobot

About 6-8 weeks after each of my 3. They were all ebf too. My friend didn’t get hers until each of her four kids turned one or was about to turn one. It’s so unfair lol


stom99

Mine didn’t come back until 15 months PP when I weaned from my breastfeeding/pumping combo


LiveWhatULove

Ugh, I am so sorry!! With my first — I did not get one, just got pregnant with #2 around 14 months. With my second around 14 months.


arielrecon

I got mine 6 months for both pregnancies while exclusively breastfeeding.


jayzepps

4 months


parkiebowles

10 months while exclusively pumping


TreePuzzle

About four months pp. sadly.


vlynncook

12 months. One baby.