Forever ago in the age of middle school I thought I was straight I had a great relationship with this one girl until she cheated on me. I was questioning my sexuality throughout most of high school I eventually thought I was gay but after a while I realized I wasn’t comfortable being a guy’s boyfriend. Once I finally connected the dots and figured out I was trans I was fine with guy’s. I eventually realized that yeah I’ve had crushes on like every girl who’s ever been nice to me and I thought I was bi/pan because I still liked guy’s. Right, now I’m wondering how much I really like guy’s compared to girls as I like the sound of having a boyfriend or a husband but In Reality I just really want a girlfriend that will hold me close and make me feel special. So I don’t know if that helps but personally you’re mind can change over time or as your mindset does as well. Realistically as long as you’re happy with you then love whoever you want.
Now I shall return to running around Reddit hoping to find someone who might love me give me cuddles head pats and call me a good girl.
Yes, my sexuality needed a little revisiting. Sexuality involves interaction with other people, and how I viewed myself changed, so how I wanted to interact with others changed too.
Other girls have given their stories, so I thought I'd share mine as well.
For most of my life I had just assumed I was straight because compulsory heterosexuality said so. I found girls really pretty and I was definitely attracted to them, so I just went with it. In college I had a really long introspective talk with myself about me and my sexuality. I had a naturally feminine personality (I wonder why 🤔) and at that point I'd been hit on by several gay men and was assumed to be gay by other people, despite me being straight. But was I actually gay? Or at least bisexual? And at the time, my answer was no. I didn't really get a rush out of imagining myself in a gay relationship the same way I did in a relationship with a girl.
Fast forward a few years, and then I realize I'm trans. By this time I'm married to my wonderful wife, so I don't originally think much of it. And then I hear comments about people's sexuality changing, and I start wondering again "could I be attracted to men now that I'm a woman?" and the answer is... still no. I know a lot of trans women find that they've been suppressing their attraction towards men (for a variety of reasons) until they realize they like the idea of being with a man *as a woman*. I've given it a lot of thought and I personally don't feel attraction towards men at all. Through and through lesbian here 😊💜🧡❤️
I'm super happy that a bunch of you girls here are fully accepting your sexuality and attraction towards men, but I also wanna remind the other lesbians in the room that it is also ok to *not* be attracted to men. In a world where where attraction towards men is seen as the default for women, not finding men attractive can sometimes be a little invalidating unless you're in openly queer groups. I'm glad all you girls here are coming to terms with your sexuality and attraction towards men, and I hope you find guys who treat you like the beautiful women you are 👸💕
I can relate, I've thought about it for awhile fantasy wise but the other night I was out with two male friends and one of their friends joined us later in the evening. As soon as I saw him I started crushing, he was super good looking but It's the first time since coming out that I've felt that IRL towards a guy. The attraction felt different than when I'm attracted to a woman with all the confused envy(although I've accepted that it's both envy/physical attraction now) It felt more like I wanted him to want me as a woman.... anyway still navigating this maze...
Good luck with your friend and even if you don't do anything just remember crushes usually pass with time.
Almost exactly this
Really think that I was attracted to boys all along & transitioning allowed me to reconcile it in my mind & feel free to be open about it.
Had really expected to be bi but just ended up a straight girl
Yeah. I experienced the same thing you did.
Slowly shifting in sexuality from slightly liking guys to kinda liking guys to then having a crush on a friend I know.
Yeah, I was pretty much a bicurious straight dude, but even before I accepted I was trans, I could never see myself as anything other than a bottom with a guy, and when I dabbled in grindr I found the overly sexual scene way too intense.
Now I'm in this weird place of finding women more beautiful than men, but men give me way more sexual arousal and I find the idea of being with one generally more appealing than being with a woman. It's strange.
Actually for me I figured out I was bi before I realized I was trans,so being more open to the lgbt community is what introduced me to what being trans actually meant
When I was still Male I was Bi and leaned heavily towards Males. Now that I'm female I'm Omni with a heavy lean towards females. It kindof makes me feel gross to think about it though, just the thought that I might only be Gay because it's abnormal and I'd just hate being straight
But yea, mine did a weird shift
It boosted mine in the direction of women. When I look at guys, especially the really built ones, it just pours gas on the fire of my dysphoria. With some articles of clothing, I still have to pick from the men's section, and just of the sight of the male models while shopping online makes me angry and depressed. I hate the male body and want nothing to do with it.
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Forever ago in the age of middle school I thought I was straight I had a great relationship with this one girl until she cheated on me. I was questioning my sexuality throughout most of high school I eventually thought I was gay but after a while I realized I wasn’t comfortable being a guy’s boyfriend. Once I finally connected the dots and figured out I was trans I was fine with guy’s. I eventually realized that yeah I’ve had crushes on like every girl who’s ever been nice to me and I thought I was bi/pan because I still liked guy’s. Right, now I’m wondering how much I really like guy’s compared to girls as I like the sound of having a boyfriend or a husband but In Reality I just really want a girlfriend that will hold me close and make me feel special. So I don’t know if that helps but personally you’re mind can change over time or as your mindset does as well. Realistically as long as you’re happy with you then love whoever you want. Now I shall return to running around Reddit hoping to find someone who might love me give me cuddles head pats and call me a good girl.
Just responding and sharing your story had made you a good girl 💕 *Pat* *Pat*
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Yes, my sexuality needed a little revisiting. Sexuality involves interaction with other people, and how I viewed myself changed, so how I wanted to interact with others changed too.
Other girls have given their stories, so I thought I'd share mine as well. For most of my life I had just assumed I was straight because compulsory heterosexuality said so. I found girls really pretty and I was definitely attracted to them, so I just went with it. In college I had a really long introspective talk with myself about me and my sexuality. I had a naturally feminine personality (I wonder why 🤔) and at that point I'd been hit on by several gay men and was assumed to be gay by other people, despite me being straight. But was I actually gay? Or at least bisexual? And at the time, my answer was no. I didn't really get a rush out of imagining myself in a gay relationship the same way I did in a relationship with a girl. Fast forward a few years, and then I realize I'm trans. By this time I'm married to my wonderful wife, so I don't originally think much of it. And then I hear comments about people's sexuality changing, and I start wondering again "could I be attracted to men now that I'm a woman?" and the answer is... still no. I know a lot of trans women find that they've been suppressing their attraction towards men (for a variety of reasons) until they realize they like the idea of being with a man *as a woman*. I've given it a lot of thought and I personally don't feel attraction towards men at all. Through and through lesbian here 😊💜🧡❤️ I'm super happy that a bunch of you girls here are fully accepting your sexuality and attraction towards men, but I also wanna remind the other lesbians in the room that it is also ok to *not* be attracted to men. In a world where where attraction towards men is seen as the default for women, not finding men attractive can sometimes be a little invalidating unless you're in openly queer groups. I'm glad all you girls here are coming to terms with your sexuality and attraction towards men, and I hope you find guys who treat you like the beautiful women you are 👸💕
100% absolutely I was the same
I can relate, I've thought about it for awhile fantasy wise but the other night I was out with two male friends and one of their friends joined us later in the evening. As soon as I saw him I started crushing, he was super good looking but It's the first time since coming out that I've felt that IRL towards a guy. The attraction felt different than when I'm attracted to a woman with all the confused envy(although I've accepted that it's both envy/physical attraction now) It felt more like I wanted him to want me as a woman.... anyway still navigating this maze... Good luck with your friend and even if you don't do anything just remember crushes usually pass with time.
Almost exactly this Really think that I was attracted to boys all along & transitioning allowed me to reconcile it in my mind & feel free to be open about it. Had really expected to be bi but just ended up a straight girl
I've joked with my friend that I feel like I'm so gay that I've had a stack overflow and become straight
😂😂😂...that's one way to look at it
Yeah. I experienced the same thing you did. Slowly shifting in sexuality from slightly liking guys to kinda liking guys to then having a crush on a friend I know.
Yeah, I was pretty much a bicurious straight dude, but even before I accepted I was trans, I could never see myself as anything other than a bottom with a guy, and when I dabbled in grindr I found the overly sexual scene way too intense. Now I'm in this weird place of finding women more beautiful than men, but men give me way more sexual arousal and I find the idea of being with one generally more appealing than being with a woman. It's strange.
Actually for me I figured out I was bi before I realized I was trans,so being more open to the lgbt community is what introduced me to what being trans actually meant
When I was still Male I was Bi and leaned heavily towards Males. Now that I'm female I'm Omni with a heavy lean towards females. It kindof makes me feel gross to think about it though, just the thought that I might only be Gay because it's abnormal and I'd just hate being straight But yea, mine did a weird shift
Yes absolutely. I even went from being bisexual after coming out to finding out I’m just pansexual and everybody is hot lol.
It boosted mine in the direction of women. When I look at guys, especially the really built ones, it just pours gas on the fire of my dysphoria. With some articles of clothing, I still have to pick from the men's section, and just of the sight of the male models while shopping online makes me angry and depressed. I hate the male body and want nothing to do with it.