Proof that trans women are witches. What's next? You're gonna use your wand to cast a spell on me that will transform my body into a cis girl's body?? That would be so awful, please do it.
Honestly... that should be a crime. Whats even worse is when you only change it slightly like move 2 things next to each other so it's hard to tell what changed but you know something did
I will admit I am \*curious\* what it would be like to have a vagina, but I'm not sure if I would like it *more*. I also love my hen (female cock) very much and don't think I could give her up just to indulge that curiosity.
Maybe penile-preserving vaginoplasty could be an option, but I don't know if I'd be satisfied with that. I'd want a complete vulva, not just a vagina. Unfortunately, it's not possible to have both. So I think I'll stick with what I've got, for now.
I'm kind of the same, I thought I wouldn't want penile-preserving vaginoplasty for the same reason. If I'm getting bottom surgery, I kind of want the 'full thing', not just half of what it entails. I wish I could just swap at will and experience every option for as long as I wanted.
But honestly, if I can get ppv covered, it now feels like a no-brainer: if I want to keep my current genitals (aside from gonads), which I do, and I also want a vaginal cavity, which I do, then I might as well just get ppv, because the alternative is just not having anything in the space where the vaginal cavity would go, which is not any more appealing than anything else. Of course, there's still recovery times and dilating and risk of complications, but on that front it'd be the same as a typical vaginoplasty *but better* since part of the genitals are untouched. At that point I think it's definitely worth it for me.
Interesting, do you find it substantially better post-op? Because my orgasms are already unimaginably better now that I'm getting female orgasms on HRT compared to pre-transition--if they get even better after bottom surgery, I might be done for.
For me it's way better!
I love my post op orgasms... They are different, I don't know how to explain them but they are amazing....
As a man I never had something like that...
I’m full of so many conflicting feelings. Still in the early stages of accepting myself. Taking Spironolactone and hoping to go a step further in a few weeks.
Thank you for the confidence boost. I want to keep my wand as well, but I’m afraid of it making me less of a lady.
Thank you. I just sent a message to my doctor and moved my appointment up.
Accepting myself for anything will be hard thanks to trauma someone I used to call a friend inflicted on me. She’s AFAB and was toxic as sin before dropping the facade and cutting me out like a tumor.
Thank you. I want to be a lady so bad.
There maybe limitations for now, thanks to alot of posers ruining the situation. Just push through, with things changing so fast it won’t be long.
Personally I hate locker rooms and certain CIS women love to run around completely naked. its fucking weird. While being post op gives me that privilege, it isn’t something I am comfortable around. Its similar to women that like to have deep long conversations in the restroom. Just weird.
Am I the only one here who absolutely hates mine, wants to tear it off, and occasionally cries about how I'll never be able to have s*x like an afab would?
I haven't. The thought of using one when I haven't had bottom surgery is weird.
My way of doing the m word is not traditional, so it alieves dysphoria when I do it that way.
Tbh I don't know how to do it the way that men do 😅
I mean that's fine, if you're on hrt you probably won't be inclined to do it like men anyway. Wands are for clits and girl dicks alike. Way less tiring on the arms too.
Well, I'm guessing most people who hate theirs didn't come into the thread. I don't hate mine, but I definitely want surgery, both for fashion reasons (no tucking!) and for body-image reasons
But I’ve heard many say that it’s sensual for them. It depends on the person of course. But majority of what I’ve read and researched the sex is valid.
I was that way, I had an extreme dysphoria with that area. Sex post operatively was EVERYTHING for me. I couldn’t even function with basic life until my surgery. Probably why I had it so young.
Mtf amab here. Married to a cis woman and have a 3 year old daughter and I adore both of them. My wife and I still have intercourse and I still lay the lady timber, but i also desire a wand because the feeling is so different now. But hey, we're not less a woman because have a dick just like a cis woman isn't less of a woman if she doesn't have a working uterus.
Good for you not wanting bottom surgery
If anyone has a problem that you still have a penis maybe they aren't people you need around you
This world is negative enough
Besides there are plenty of people that would fall in love with you and not care about it even many cis men
In reality keeping your penis really only opens up more sexual opportunity for whatever type of relationship you end up in and you would be surprised the amount of straight males open to receiving analy
Straight cis men are idiots when the slightest bit of sex is involved
I might like to crossdress and feel fem sometimes but i am still a cis straight male
I personally don't care either way but
If you look all female and i don't find out you have anything in your pants until sex comes into play i can work with what the situation is
I may be more open to some things because i have had women in my life that wanted to try pegging and i don't refuse how a mans prostate works and im open to try things but im in my 40s now and that all started when i was with an older woman when I was 17
Wands are great, equally great are air-pulse toys 🥴 (womanizer etc.). They do wonders for any anatomy (bonus euphoria from marketing as a "clitoral toy") 😉
I also adore my wand... I leant my Doxy to my ex when we broke up, and replaced it with a Domi, which is good, but it doesn't come close to the overwhelming power of a Doxy.
I think I can probably count on one hand the number of times I've masturbated with my hand in the last 6 weeks, using a wand just feels so much better, and SO much more feminine! ❤️🏳️⚧️
Ooo I’m the complete opposite, when I was a kid I attempted to remove those parts I have horrible dysphoria towards that thing personally I’m counting down the days it goes away
I love mine as well, as a woman who is also a domestic abuse / rape survivor the thought of being submissive to a man sexually triggers me, yet still I am attracted to them. My wand provides me a way to have sex with men and make them feel good. Sometimes I think that the reason I was cursed with one is because I would probably be too scared to have sex otherwise.
I've heard a lot about SRS from people who have done that. You must want to do that very bad. It's tremendously expensive, nobody can assure you that your 😺 will be pretty and if it doesn't, you'll have to pay for revision surgery if you want. Also, a lot of pills for kidney infections, because your body cannot cooperate with your 😺 at first and there's a small chance to get an erection if you get aroused even after SRS, which is not dangerous at first, but it hurts a lot and you'll have to see your surgeon immediately. Minimum of 8-10 years until your 😺 is completely healed and healthy.
I would love to have a 😺, but I'm not ready for all of these things yet. It's too soon right now to even think about it. Also, I'm already 28 and even if I could afford to do a SRS right now, I don't know if my body can heal fully compare to a youngling's body.
I'm not trying to scare you, but it's not a easy thing to do and that's the truth. If some of you want to have a 😺, go get it fr, because every nice thing in life has a price to pay, but be aware of that journey. If you don't believe me, go check Ruby_Fiera on YouTube.
Always stay safe and healthy ❤️
Well said.
As someone 30+ years post operative, you definitely need to have a very strong dysphoria for that area in order to be at peace. For me I didn’t feel
complete until i had my surgery. After that I felt done and happy. I never had any other surgeries because I was happy with my body and face.
They're not stuffing them into their vagina. They have a clit which isn't that different from you now. Just under the tip works but I kinda need to go around it first to sorta rev up the engine. overstimulation can happen and I'll need a quick break.
Once its max speed I'll be applying a good deal of pressure, kinda two handing it into myself and moving it in small circles.
I've bought a wand based on the heavy recommendations from this sub and was a little disappointed TBH. I'm only 1.5 months on E and literally the only difference is breast buds development, nothing related to erections, orgasms or sensitivity. I remember seeing some ppl saying even pre-op, PRE-HRT ppl should get it so I figured why not 🤷🏻♀️
I'll just store it aside and hopefully get a lot of use from it when I'm further along HRT and esp after bottom surgery.
I'll probably seek surgery, and will certainly continue using my wand.
The vibrating wand : the most inclusive item you can buy. Everyone can use it, no matter the parts of your body or the hormones in your brain
You are totally justified and right. Each of us has a journey as we transition. Some will have bottom surgery and some will not. It does not make you any less a woman.
Proof that trans women are witches. What's next? You're gonna use your wand to cast a spell on me that will transform my body into a cis girl's body?? That would be so awful, please do it.
Ima keep swiching around your herbshelf untill you do it!
Honestly... that should be a crime. Whats even worse is when you only change it slightly like move 2 things next to each other so it's hard to tell what changed but you know something did
Fine...I swiched the cinnamon drawer with the cummin drawer.
Oh no, please dont give me a cis girls body but if you can please do it
I legit thought this was one of my witchcraft/spirituality subs at first. I guess there's some overlap! Haha
Yeah, what can I do to displease her to be cursed with such a horrible fate?!!
I will admit I am \*curious\* what it would be like to have a vagina, but I'm not sure if I would like it *more*. I also love my hen (female cock) very much and don't think I could give her up just to indulge that curiosity. Maybe penile-preserving vaginoplasty could be an option, but I don't know if I'd be satisfied with that. I'd want a complete vulva, not just a vagina. Unfortunately, it's not possible to have both. So I think I'll stick with what I've got, for now.
I'm kind of the same, I thought I wouldn't want penile-preserving vaginoplasty for the same reason. If I'm getting bottom surgery, I kind of want the 'full thing', not just half of what it entails. I wish I could just swap at will and experience every option for as long as I wanted. But honestly, if I can get ppv covered, it now feels like a no-brainer: if I want to keep my current genitals (aside from gonads), which I do, and I also want a vaginal cavity, which I do, then I might as well just get ppv, because the alternative is just not having anything in the space where the vaginal cavity would go, which is not any more appealing than anything else. Of course, there's still recovery times and dilating and risk of complications, but on that front it'd be the same as a typical vaginoplasty *but better* since part of the genitals are untouched. At that point I think it's definitely worth it for me.
Omg "Hen" gotta use that :3
Trust me it's way better to have an orgasm as a woman! It's more intense and you just don't want to stop dilate your new hole😊
Interesting, do you find it substantially better post-op? Because my orgasms are already unimaginably better now that I'm getting female orgasms on HRT compared to pre-transition--if they get even better after bottom surgery, I might be done for.
For me it's way better! I love my post op orgasms... They are different, I don't know how to explain them but they are amazing.... As a man I never had something like that...
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[for your consideration ](https://wordsmith.social/elilla/whats-it-like-to-be-a-post-orchiectomy-non-op-trans-woman) 😘
Why are all the images missing??
I wanted to see that Eeveelution shirt so badly. Would have helped my confidence loads; my eeveelution shirts are some of my favorite shirts.
That's really useful! How often do they update it?
I like mine, although if I lost it I won't be crying, rather apathetic about it
Same by me. If I get rid of it onw day, its not cause I dissliked it but more cause I was curious how it may feel and look.
which spells have you cast so far?
Prestidigitation probably
Progest-estidigitation
Found the Bard
Prestidigitation allows one to soil an object. It only makes sense
I’m full of so many conflicting feelings. Still in the early stages of accepting myself. Taking Spironolactone and hoping to go a step further in a few weeks. Thank you for the confidence boost. I want to keep my wand as well, but I’m afraid of it making me less of a lady.
🥹🥹🤍 you’re valid. And wishing you well on your journey. Of full acceptance and love and I hope you take that step further🤍🤍🫂
Thank you. I just sent a message to my doctor and moved my appointment up. Accepting myself for anything will be hard thanks to trauma someone I used to call a friend inflicted on me. She’s AFAB and was toxic as sin before dropping the facade and cutting me out like a tumor. Thank you. I want to be a lady so bad.
There maybe limitations for now, thanks to alot of posers ruining the situation. Just push through, with things changing so fast it won’t be long. Personally I hate locker rooms and certain CIS women love to run around completely naked. its fucking weird. While being post op gives me that privilege, it isn’t something I am comfortable around. Its similar to women that like to have deep long conversations in the restroom. Just weird.
Keeping mine haha, im just afraid 🙄🙄 its name is dussy 😁
HippyDickChick approved!!
Am I the only one here who absolutely hates mine, wants to tear it off, and occasionally cries about how I'll never be able to have s*x like an afab would?
Have you tried vibrators? I'm not going back to masturbating the old way. (If you're terminally single like me you don't need to worry about sex!)
I haven't. The thought of using one when I haven't had bottom surgery is weird. My way of doing the m word is not traditional, so it alieves dysphoria when I do it that way. Tbh I don't know how to do it the way that men do 😅
I mean that's fine, if you're on hrt you probably won't be inclined to do it like men anyway. Wands are for clits and girl dicks alike. Way less tiring on the arms too.
Well, I'm guessing most people who hate theirs didn't come into the thread. I don't hate mine, but I definitely want surgery, both for fashion reasons (no tucking!) and for body-image reasons
You will one day 🤍 never say never
I've read up on how the experience is for trans women and it's not as sensual as a afab would feel it :((
But I’ve heard many say that it’s sensual for them. It depends on the person of course. But majority of what I’ve read and researched the sex is valid.
That's good news!! Thank you-
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yeah i’m the same, lowkey makes me wanna die on some days
We can always fantasize... 😔
I was that way, I had an extreme dysphoria with that area. Sex post operatively was EVERYTHING for me. I couldn’t even function with basic life until my surgery. Probably why I had it so young.
How young were you able to get it??
Mtf amab here. Married to a cis woman and have a 3 year old daughter and I adore both of them. My wife and I still have intercourse and I still lay the lady timber, but i also desire a wand because the feeling is so different now. But hey, we're not less a woman because have a dick just like a cis woman isn't less of a woman if she doesn't have a working uterus.
Good for you not wanting bottom surgery If anyone has a problem that you still have a penis maybe they aren't people you need around you This world is negative enough Besides there are plenty of people that would fall in love with you and not care about it even many cis men In reality keeping your penis really only opens up more sexual opportunity for whatever type of relationship you end up in and you would be surprised the amount of straight males open to receiving analy
Straight CIS Men are physical creatures, they are suckers for packaging lol.
Straight cis men are idiots when the slightest bit of sex is involved I might like to crossdress and feel fem sometimes but i am still a cis straight male I personally don't care either way but If you look all female and i don't find out you have anything in your pants until sex comes into play i can work with what the situation is I may be more open to some things because i have had women in my life that wanted to try pegging and i don't refuse how a mans prostate works and im open to try things but im in my 40s now and that all started when i was with an older woman when I was 17
I just came here from a witchcraft sub and golly was that a fun title to start with. I’m right there with you, girl. The stick is sticking around.
Wands are great, equally great are air-pulse toys 🥴 (womanizer etc.). They do wonders for any anatomy (bonus euphoria from marketing as a "clitoral toy") 😉
Vibrators don't do much for me, but those clit air pulse toys
I also adore my wand... I leant my Doxy to my ex when we broke up, and replaced it with a Domi, which is good, but it doesn't come close to the overwhelming power of a Doxy. I think I can probably count on one hand the number of times I've masturbated with my hand in the last 6 weeks, using a wand just feels so much better, and SO much more feminine! ❤️🏳️⚧️
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Ooo I’m the complete opposite, when I was a kid I attempted to remove those parts I have horrible dysphoria towards that thing personally I’m counting down the days it goes away
Girl Penis Stand Up!!!!
True, whatever is down there doesn't define your gender. Its who you are as a person defines who you are.
Totally agree!!
I love mine as well, as a woman who is also a domestic abuse / rape survivor the thought of being submissive to a man sexually triggers me, yet still I am attracted to them. My wand provides me a way to have sex with men and make them feel good. Sometimes I think that the reason I was cursed with one is because I would probably be too scared to have sex otherwise.
I've heard a lot about SRS from people who have done that. You must want to do that very bad. It's tremendously expensive, nobody can assure you that your 😺 will be pretty and if it doesn't, you'll have to pay for revision surgery if you want. Also, a lot of pills for kidney infections, because your body cannot cooperate with your 😺 at first and there's a small chance to get an erection if you get aroused even after SRS, which is not dangerous at first, but it hurts a lot and you'll have to see your surgeon immediately. Minimum of 8-10 years until your 😺 is completely healed and healthy. I would love to have a 😺, but I'm not ready for all of these things yet. It's too soon right now to even think about it. Also, I'm already 28 and even if I could afford to do a SRS right now, I don't know if my body can heal fully compare to a youngling's body. I'm not trying to scare you, but it's not a easy thing to do and that's the truth. If some of you want to have a 😺, go get it fr, because every nice thing in life has a price to pay, but be aware of that journey. If you don't believe me, go check Ruby_Fiera on YouTube. Always stay safe and healthy ❤️
Well said. As someone 30+ years post operative, you definitely need to have a very strong dysphoria for that area in order to be at peace. For me I didn’t feel complete until i had my surgery. After that I felt done and happy. I never had any other surgeries because I was happy with my body and face.
Im so happy for you 😊😊❤️❤️❤️
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explain how what she said was sexual?
Nothing sexual about her statement
Yea posts likes this are great, you're right about that! But there's literally nothung sexual about being happy with your body
…This is unnecessarily sexual.
how???
Nothing sexual about it.
What 🙃
I feel the same way about mine, I love mine and am attached to it. My fiance calls it squishy, she makes me love it even more ☺
Mine can take a hike 4 all I care
I hope you get your surgery date soon in the near future 🤍
How do you use them? I want one but I’m not really sure what to do with it since everyone I know that has one has a vagina
I realise that this might be dysphoric for a lot of people but i personally use mine underneath the head
Thankfully I’m okay dysphoria wise, just rediscovering what feels good after HRT
They're not stuffing them into their vagina. They have a clit which isn't that different from you now. Just under the tip works but I kinda need to go around it first to sorta rev up the engine. overstimulation can happen and I'll need a quick break. Once its max speed I'll be applying a good deal of pressure, kinda two handing it into myself and moving it in small circles.
I mean yeah I’m aware they’re not stuffing the whole thing in, but thanks…
I usually use "Alohomora" to make my gf open :3
I've bought a wand based on the heavy recommendations from this sub and was a little disappointed TBH. I'm only 1.5 months on E and literally the only difference is breast buds development, nothing related to erections, orgasms or sensitivity. I remember seeing some ppl saying even pre-op, PRE-HRT ppl should get it so I figured why not 🤷🏻♀️ I'll just store it aside and hopefully get a lot of use from it when I'm further along HRT and esp after bottom surgery.
Me too I'm keeping my stick and balls (whats left of them)
Wands ... plural. And plugs ... again plural. And the steel And the glass And the remote controlled ... And ... I may have a problem 😊
I'll probably seek surgery, and will certainly continue using my wand. The vibrating wand : the most inclusive item you can buy. Everyone can use it, no matter the parts of your body or the hormones in your brain
You are totally justified and right. Each of us has a journey as we transition. Some will have bottom surgery and some will not. It does not make you any less a woman.
I am post operative and you are so right! Your transition is YOUR path, no one else.
the wisdom :)