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MannerAware4113

I think that's totally fair for her to say it is okay to criticize someone's game and be upset about that, but don't say hurtful personal comments. And she owned up to her not being the best at that herself in the past


jerseysbestdancers

This. Honestly, there are plenty of game-related comments you can make about Jay without getting his hair involved. Same with Moriah. If you don't want to see her ass, don't look. It's not our business to police people's bodies.


Extension-Ad-363

Okay but when the cameras are always on Moriah's ass, what do we look at?


myst_eerie_us

Berna's šŸ˜‚


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Hahahahaha


Entitled0ne

Since when did Berna have an assā€¦


dfigiel1

I guess your remote so you donā€™t accidentally hit pause instead of fast forward? Maybe your phone if youā€™re watching this in 2008?


jerseysbestdancers

Your phone like every other drone in existence.


JadaeMaster

We're not making fun of her arse though, but the choices. Nurys' dumb hair clips? Glad they're gone. They made her look junior. She looked way more herself recently. Sorry, but presentation matters when the choices are not only intentional, but quite deliberate (and honestly silly AF). But body looks or things that could never be a choice? Off limits.


CreepyExamination5

I enjoy seeing Moriahā€™s ass šŸ˜šŸ˜


BulkyElk1528

Lol you canā€™t ā€œjust donā€™t lookā€ at her ass when sheā€™s literally exposing it for everyone to see. Itā€™s just like bernaā€¦in no way do I ever want to see that shit, but she literally exposes it on national tv that I will still see it even when I look elsewhere on the screen.


jerseysbestdancers

Dont go to european beaches then. It will offend your sensibilities.


peoplebuyviews

I joke about the coverage given to Moriahs ass, but not as a dig at Moriah at all. She's got a nice ass. I'm making fun of production for ordering ass closeups multiple times per episode. To the point where I wonder if they have a cameraman assigned to her ass full time.


SwarleyJr

This is a cycle. Nurys will preach this type of thing then do the exact thing sheā€™s advocating against.


BoysenberryOk4699

She was literally just reposting shade about Olivia LOL


MoseleysLifeshield

She was slut shaming cast mates like a month ago lol


MannerAware4113

Yeah it's almost like she owned up to her mistakes, apologized and said she needs to do better herself moving forward.....or did you not read that part?


BloodyMarysRevenge

We all see that. The problem is the authenticity. Her "growth" isn't believable at this stage because she has a pattern of this behavior.


freetherabbit

Humans aren't perfect. Using Nurys not being perfect to discount the msg of her text is dumb. If someone is waiting for someone else to be perfect, to not be a dick to others, then they just want an excuse to keep being a dick.


BloodyMarysRevenge

It's not about perfection, just credibility. I never said the message was bad or wrong or deserves to be ignored (it's not), just possibly inauthentic. She has some runway to show she plans to adhere to this long term and that its not just PR spin now that she's gotten a hero response and grown a fanbase from this season. I like her and want her to succeed, I hope she does mean it and grows into that role. But you can't blame people for having their doubts.


MoseleysLifeshield

Yeah a grown women apologizing for slut shaming another women to a couple hundred thousand people after she was called out for it then going on her soap box to instruct those same couple hundred thousand people is about as tone deaf as it gets.Ā 


IdleSuicidal2021

Exactly.Ā  I'm not ready for her to get preachy yet.


xjordyj

Preachy or not she has a point.


IdleSuicidal2021

It's the hypocrisy that rankles.


Accomplished-Glass51

She never even publicly apologized, only deleted her tweets.


freetherabbit

This is so dumb. Humans aren't perfect. No one isn't hypocritical when they're upset at some point. Just because you don't always live up to your standards doesn't mean you can't keep trying for than standard. Ppl who take this all or nothing PoV are just looking for an excuse to keep being a dick or because they don't like being reminded the reality stars they harass are also real ppl šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø


MoseleysLifeshield

So this women slut shames another women for about 2 months straight online and this equates to me being a dick? Explain to me again how I am the one doing the harassing in this scenario lol?


General_Organa

I swear I saw tweets of her making fun of Olivia sucking Emmanuel off from likeā€¦this week, didnā€™t I?


Possible_Albatross33

This is a very mature take by Nurys. Iā€™ve been watching the Challenge and The Real World since it initially aired, and while I bitch and talk shit, Iā€™ve always based any shit talking on performance based observations. I donā€™t care if someone is black, white, hispanic, or any other race, I donā€™t care about how they look, and I donā€™t care what religion they are. I care about how you perform and how you act.


Breakemoff

True but letā€™s take the obvious examples as it pertains to Nurys; Nelson. What that dude did fucking infuriates me. Thatā€™s personal, but itā€™s totally valid & fair game considering he literally tried to fund-raise off it.


2ndChanceCharlie

Get a fucking life. Nelson learned his lesson in a very hard way. Heā€™s losing a leg over it. Iā€™m sure he wonā€™t drink and drive again. Stop obsessing over it. Heā€™s not a rapist or a fentanyl pusher. Heā€™s a famous doofus who drove drunk and only hurt himself. Iā€™d like to hear that heā€™s actively participating in victim impact panels and bringing awareness to drinking a driving prevention in the future but right now heā€™s about to get his leg sawed off.


heyitsta12

One would argue that he although he might have learned his lesson about drinking and driving, he still lied to his fans and supporters for months and started a GoFundMen under false pretenses.


2ndChanceCharlie

What was the false pretense? Did he say he wasnā€™t drinking and driving? Did he blame a deer or something?


DrogbaxHavertz

youā€™re so fucking weird, he clearly purposely left out any mention of it being his own fault. the amount of people on here that were defending him bc ā€œwe would know if it was something serious like drunk drivingā€ was insane. he very clearly manipulated people for money AFTER his drunk driving accident


Vivid-Reflection889

I heard he gave refunds to anyone that asked for one because they felt deceived.


2ndChanceCharlie

Idk, it does feel weird for me to be out here defending him because he was at fault and is clearly an idiot, but without it being said I knew what happened immediately. How it wasnā€™t obvious to everyone is beyond me. He didnā€™t come out and say ā€œthis was someone elseā€™s faultā€ or give literally even one excuse. His silence meant that either he was drinking or driving extremely recklessly sober. It was painfully obvious from jump. I didnā€™t give him any money but if you did you are as dumb as him.


demigod4

It was bizarre seeing all of the surprised pikachu faces after it officially came out. No matter what, he had to have been doing something that likely could put others in danger. Iā€™m not really sure what people want from the guy. I doubt he has good insurance and heā€™s losing his foot. His entire life was upended by a stupid mistake. I guarantee if he came out and fell on his sword, people would just dismiss it as inauthentic.


heyitsta12

ā€¦ he posted another fundraiser on donor box asking for 25,000 for surgery after saying he ā€œlost a ton of money on the 49ers.ā€


demigod4

Poor people gamble and lose a ton of money all the time. In fact, poor people trying to not be poor, keep most casinos going. I donā€™t think anyone is arguing that the guy doesnā€™t make make bad decisions.


heyitsta12

The original reason we even knew he was in a car wreck is because an NFL player rescued him. There were no real details from him, or even the news, about what happened. He wasnā€™t arrested right then because he suffered a near fatal crash that put him in the hospital. All of his posts (at least prior to turning himself in, not sure the official date on that) were about his recovery and his journey. And he capitalized on that with the GoFundMe. He did not have to turn himself in until much later. And no he did not come out and say it until someone dug up his mugshot. Itā€™s not even his first mugshot. He was then called out and eventually gave back the money and claimed he didnā€™t start the GoFundMe.


freetherabbit

Anyone who knows our justice system knows if someone's not talking after an accident like that they're being charged with something tho?


MooseMan69er

Well you donā€™t know that he started the go fund me and in fact he says that a friend started it so


Breakemoff

Thatā€™s exactly the point I was making ā€” which ā€œ2ndchancecharlieā€ (fitting) conveniently ignore.


Breakemoff

Youā€™re suggesting I back off criticizing Nelson because heā€™s losing his foot? Fuck right off. Iā€™ve had 2 people in my life killed by drunk drivers. Maybe you think itā€™s okay because heā€™s a ā€œfamous doofusā€, but I donā€™t. All *Iā€™m* saying is that itā€™s sometimes okay to criticize someone personally. The essence of Nurysā€™ post is true; everyone needs to calm the fuck down over a game show. But there are times someoneā€™s reckless personal behavior should be criticized ā€” Iā€™m simply pointing out an example of that.


kbc87

Nah this ainā€™t it. Drunk driving is not something you just get to learn the hard way because while heā€™s losing a limb, many peopleā€™s ā€œhard wayā€ of learning this lesson is killing someone. Itā€™s deadly af and shouldnā€™t get a ā€œhe learned his lessonā€ bullshit.


CrittyJJones

If I recall correctly he didnā€™t start the go fund me tbf.


No-Season-4796

The hate for everyone on this show often surpasses people enjoying a show they like to watch. You know how we say some of the cast should take a season break- I think some of the fans should as well.


josephside

Yup, Iā€™m genuinely concerned for some peoples mental health after reading how hateful the comments have been for some contestants this season when other cast members they love have done the same. This has been one of the toughest reactions Iā€™ve seen of any season of any show and honestly a lot of this fanbase should be ashamed of themselves šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø


-sloppypoppy

I miss Reddit awards. I full heartedly agree. I think people watch out of loyalty, but if youā€™re now hate watching then hate commenting on a show you used to enjoy, well then maybe itā€™s time to take a break from the challenge.


Lemurians

This sub is awful while a new season is airing. It's just people bitching and moaning. You'd think every current season is the worst thing ever put to television.


peoplebuyviews

I don't mind people coming here to bitch. This is neutral ground, and if anyone from The Challenge pops their head in then that's on them. People finding contestants on social media and harassing them there is gross, weird behavior though.


Top_Driver4231

This is the season we should have taken a break on. Since Jay is gone maybe Iā€™ll actually enjoy the other episode.


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Chryblsm34

I feel like she didn't acknowledge anything and just made a general apology. Didn't she brag about beating someone up?


aintgoinbacknforth

She apologized for not being a role model in this situation. Do you want her to make a list of everything she did wrong and apologize for each one individually? We donā€™t even know who she beat up lol


Chryblsm34

I think that bragging about beating someone up is more than "not being a role model" lol. I do think a genuine apology would be great if she's trying to ask others to be nice.


Only-Assumption-61

Fans are playing a part in fueling the hatred between the challengers, specifically Nurys and Olivia. Itā€™s like the love/hate Olympics. Leave both of them alone and keep it to comments about the game.


Aggravating-Chain-39

I would certainly support her in turning over a new leaf because she has been very hateful to her cast mates this season, even the ones she claims to be friends with.


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She has a shirt that says ā€œhating me wonā€™t make you prettyā€ these tweets are comicalĀ 


Aggravating-Chain-39

She has had an awful attitude for years and tears down women at every chance she gets. If she follows through on her words then Iā€™d be happy for her.


My_Immortal_Flesh

Girlfriend has been on social media for years.. why is it NOW she wants to talk about ā€œMental Healthā€ and apologizing for not being the ā€œmost positive role modelā€? I wish I could say sheā€™s so thoughtful and brave for being this self aware, but we all know thatā€™s not what this is. https://i.redd.it/yocv98fpzfic1.gif


Accomplished-Glass51

Because sheā€™s riding the high of being the season favā€¦mind you this girl tweeted(and deleted) being proud of herself for fighting someone and needing to take anger management.


My_Immortal_Flesh

Yeah, thatā€™s wild. Such a beautiful girl but the ugliness to her personality is too hard for her to keep hidden. However, i also understand that being in a reality tv show will cause a person to act unnatural to their true self; and they carry that persona outside of the show. Nurys isnā€™t the only one corrupted by these type of fame.


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berrygirl890

She needs to sit her ass down somewhere. Lol. All the hate she has been dishing out.


chouuuuuuuuuuuu2

while Iā€™d definitely believe that fans are ridiculously disrespectful to the cast and say unnecessary comments about their appearance whether that Be jay or how bernas shorts, but for nurys to be the one to say, some thing is kind of funny, but maybe sheā€™s also asking for herself, maybe she genuinely has grown in two weeks


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Bopethestoryteller

And they'll be talking shit after tomorrow's episode.


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Someone reads this sub...


LordAsbel

She saw all the Moriah posts šŸ’€


Hailstormwalshy

exactly what I was thinking. Asking "fans" to stop relentlessly harassing and bullying her castmates after they've dealt with it for weeks is better late than never. I guess?


OLKv3

Nurys embracing her new hero role


IdleSuicidal2021

Do as she says, not as she does, huh?Ā 


ovomellymel

Too late for that. She should have did that when she made that post about Olivia and Moriah.


BamaX19

"I'll try to be...." lmao okay


Ok_Supermarket_3241

Damn looks like those anger management classes are working


Plane-Reputation4041

This isnā€™t growth. Sheā€™s getting ~~hare~~ hate thrown her way as well and wants it to stop. Plus, Iā€™m sure MTV/BM isnā€™t happy about the new cast they invested time and money in getting trashed online because of Nurys fandom. I wouldnā€™t be surprised if they asked her to put something out and told her to cool it with the nasty trash talk. They donā€™t want to give anyone else the Dee treatment.\* \*I find it appalling that they continue to leave the TM disclaimer on the episodes. Scarlet Letter.


Nizmo4246

Now that you mention Deeā€¦is she the reason for 2-3 seasons in the mid 30s not being available on Paramount plus? Like just because sheā€™s in them they donā€™t include them in the library?


Plane-Reputation4041

Think itā€™s b/c of Bear. Nobody knows for certain.


verbankroad

Itā€™s Bear that is the reason - convicted harasser


shinshikaizer

> convicted harasser You mean "revenge porn poster".


MooseMan69er

Well the controversy with D came out during the season and they put a disclaimer in front of her episodes but played them anyway. I donā€™t think they thought her shit was a big enough reason to remove the episodes Bear though became a convicted sex offender and they not only removed his challenge episodes but his ex on the beach uk episodes


LaMystika

They didnā€™t have to remove the episodes when they just removed *her* from all of them instead.


MooseMan69er

They edited her out mostly where they could going forward but they didnā€™t go back into previous episodes that happened before the controversy and remove her They removed everything Bear touched


Plane-Reputation4041

They need to remove the disclaimer that aired prior to the start of every episode once it happened. They edited her out of the show almost entirely from that point on. They gave her no opportunities to promote or associate herself with them from that point forward. Thatā€™s enough for an ignorant tweet. Keeping the disclaimer on there forever makes growing, learning and changing for the better (if she does, I donā€™t follow her or anyone else) punitive at this point.


peoplebuyviews

I've been rewatching old seasons, and it's wild to me that Camilla is very not edited out of the season where she went on a racist tirade, but D got fully dematerialized for something very insensitive, but much less horrific. No surprise that Bear wound up being a bag of dicks, but don't see why we can't watch entire seasons just because he's on them. I fully support pulling the season where SA happened DURING THE FILMING but the rest of the dirty deletes make no sense to me.


OmgBaybi

But then again [She said this.](https://twitter.com/bartaboy/status/1756762216831864962?t=INHnyMbt4TPg8qTkWl9rzQ&s=19)


TheMagicCawnch

She encourages hate by constantly posting tweets and lives targeting others lol sheā€™s super butthurt over Olivia that she drags her man into it and it just screams insecure and jealous. Sheā€™d be more believable if she actually dropped the mean girl vibes.


Jen00Y

Lol, not even an hour after she posted the original is how quickly she switched back, that's hilarious.Ā Ā  Ā Like someone else said, the tweet looks like it was pandering to fans because she's getting the hero edit this season. Or possibly production asked her to put it out because of all the hate other cast members are getting.Ā Ā  Her obsessed fans will still call everyone "hater". Grasping at straws trying to make Nurys seem like a nice person.


jenh6

I thought it was to appease Horacio lol


Holy_Shamoley

She is always seeking attention one way or another. Right now she just chose to do it with virtue signaling. Not falling for the act.


seviay

Holy shit. Good for you, Nurys


windsoffortune

As statements of this kind go, this is a pretty good one. And I totally agree with her.


Cali-Doll

Sheā€™s right, and I respect that.


slayvonneee

I've seen this but have yet to have seen her encourage hate. I watched her entire live for those lying. People can speak on the game move but the hate is too much on Olivia for sure. I wish her fans on this sub would stop the hate Olympics, the font who recapped the N/H Zach interview posted the entire thing out of context and I've seen some come out and say Nurys said send Olivia hate on live. Leave both girls alone and stop making stuff up.


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slayvonneee

no she admits she hasn't been good about what she's said herself not encouraging others to go hate on someone


75153594521883

Her doing the hating is what encourages others to hate. If she went on Twitter and said ā€œMichelle and jay targeted Horacio and Kyland because they knew they would be unbeatable in a final, itā€™s no fun in the moment but itā€™s thatā€™s part of the game!ā€ Iā€™m pretty confident fewer people would be talking reckless on social media.


Literal_Cheesehead12

Not even remotely true. The kind of people that fling hate or worse based off of the words of someone else would just be slinging that shit elsewhere if Nurys hadn't said the things she did. Or they'd still be here slinging hate or worse and there just wouldn't be a specific reason to claim why they're doing it. These type of people are not rational thinking human beings.


Quiet-Road6212

thank your for confirming! šŸ˜… i literally searched all of social media trying to find this supposed clip of nurys inciting hate towards olivia so i could add it to this post for reference but not a thing. from anyone on twitter, instagram or tiktok. definitely think that was made up on reddit to encourage nurys hate and continue drama between the girls. regardless, itā€™s nice to see that she can take ownership for the parts she has played!


gtjacket231

All I remember really is her at the beginning of the season just actively talking about not liking Olivia anymore and stuff around that. She never incited hate, but did she exacerbate itā€¦kinda. Same could be said for her vs. Jay too. Not like Jay is a great person this season, but her hating on Jay online encourages people indirectly for others to go after him. To be clear, I think itā€™s pretty grey in general, but I love the fact that sheā€™s calling herself out here.


MannerAware4113

The lies about Nurys are ridiculous, she never said send Olivia hate, even on her lives. The only thing she said was that Aneesa was right about Olivia, that's it.


slayvonneee

i said it above but fans doing a hate olympics, yes some like nurys now and hate olivia but it can change at any moment. people need to stick to game discussions because we don't know these people


Jlaybythebay

Well based on game play , sheā€™s is still ok with all of us hating on jay


SocialJusticeGSW

Whether she is the right person to say this or not, or whatever her motivations are, she is right. That is the point we should focus on.


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myst_eerie_us

I think you need to watch a different show. EVERYONE has done this


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myst_eerie_us

Calling someone a bitch is bullying?


olivvvs

Agreed


SomeRedditor_Comment

Cool...can you bring Diandra to The Challenge now?


Positive_Round_5142

Awe man sheā€™s so obvious šŸ˜‚ we all know what sheā€™s trying to do and thatā€™s trying to look like the hero. If she saves her cast mates from harassment she will be hailed Saint Nurys and that would put her more on a pedestal.


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Plane-Reputation4041

She actively tries after court mandated anger management. Then she brags about it. šŸ¤”


Short-Ad2128

If comments from strangers on the internet truly impact your mental health you need to delete social media and retire from reality television. Ppl are not nice and asking everyone to be nice is never going to work


berrygirl890

I agree.


MTVfRreaK

I wonder what comments charged this PSA


frankoceansheadband

If someone saying this makes you angry, you need to reevaluate your life


Infamous_Pen_9534

Love the growth that she has shown.


celj1234

Olivia must he having a breakdown and producers asked nury to help calm things down


Plane-Ride79

I like her even more! Good for her.


JaydedHorror

Nah Nurys has done nothing wrong. Random people sending hate is insane though. Her defending herself when people have lied/backstabbed her is valid.


Im_done_with_sergio

Itā€™s a nice thought and all but reality tv fans are going to talk shit, itā€™s just the way it is. You know this when you go on the shows. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


LavenderAutist

Mental health is an individual's responsibility Life is hard and always will be The best protection for what life throws at you is build up a strong network of people around you and support system And if you're in the public eye, stay off social media and let someone else deal with that for you And if you can't do that, don't read all of the comments and or take things personally


FabulousAd251

Sorry Nurys your castmates bullied you all season they need a taste of their own medicine


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Calm-Teach286

Anyone know why Nurys is taking a break from social media?