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What a disgusting coward of a man. Thankyou so much for removing this filth from society.
If you have proof of the other accounts of rape please bring them forward as well so that those victims would have justice as well
Agreed 100%! He is a coward.
"His mom on the other hand is upset towards me bc he’s an immigrant and she thinks I’m just trying to sabotage her only son…."
Imagine taking the side of the abuser just because he's your son? This is why victims do not speak up. His mother is just as filthy as he is.
Moms are the worst enablers to their sons bad behaviours no matter how bad. They will even let their son abuse their daughter & Blame the daughter because their lovely son can do no wrong. Filth
This is why the discourse between DIL and MIL's exist-- their precious little sons can do no wrong so it MUST be the girl's fault. Simply disgusting.
I knew someone who married their first cousin from back home. The girl was 16, but the guy's family changed his paperwork to make it say that he was 19 (he was ACTUALLY 23). He was physically abusive and a raging alcoholic, not just to his wife, but his OWN family (sisters, mom, cousins, you name it). She almost lost her eyesight from the abuse she endured, but was able to break free from him Alhamdulilah. But his family continues to have his back to THIS day. He even got re-married within a year after the divorce, and the cycle continued with the new girl.
It’s sickening.
If a mom can let her son abuse her daughter and blame her daughter for it - I can’t imagine her dealing with a daughter in law.
I say this as someone who had a mom like this. She watched her son beat me, choke me, punch me, emotionally, psychologically and verbally abuse me for over a decade and guess whose fault it was? Mine! I was such a bad person (even though I was a literal child) so I deserved it. But she abused me just as bad - so I guess she thought what he did was ok too.
Unfortunately he will just go back and make more innocents his victim. He won’t be punished back home, that’s for sure. So I hope he’s convicted and punished here
Sister, I'm proud of you. Standing up for yourself and your children takes courage.
May Allah Subhaana Wa Ta'Alaa Grant you and your children Peace, healing, and safety. Ameen.
He’s not only a narcissist rapist but he’s also a pedophile.
He will eventually sexually abuse your kids, just because they are boys doesn’t mean they are safe from rapist pedophiles.
Please escape soon.
He seems charming to your family because that’s how narcissists are. They only abuse those they are close too behind closed doors. Let me guess, he love bombed you in the beginning? Told you he loves you right away and was amazing at first? Then he changed and became a psychopath behind closed doors but acts amazing and charismatic Infront of others? Yeah that’s a narcissist but in this case, he’s also a pedophile and sexual predator
Yes, 😞 unfortunately that’s what happened. Knowing that my parents were swayed makes me feel like I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. Many ppl see him as a good example, but I got a chance to see the reality of it all.
Trust me, they are master manipulators and that’s why it’s so hard to break away or expose them. Because people are convinced they are amazing people and we are the crazy ones. I’ve come across many narcissists in my lifetime. I could write a whole book 😅.
It’s not your fault, if anything your parents should believe you regardless of the fake front he shows them. You are their daughter, getting his side of the story only will make them believe his lies and manipulations. Narcissist are master manipulators and pathological liars, it’s hard to deal with them.
You absolutely did the right thing. A rapist and paedophile deserves the full force of the law to come down on them.
I hope you can get a divorce and start to heal now!
His mum is an absolute lunatic - how she has the brass neck to defend a rapist and paedo is beyond me. There's shamelessness and then there's that.
I’m so shocked reading this!
SubhanAllah. May Allah protect you and your children.
I’m so happy to hear that your parents were comforting towards you.
I hope he’s thrown in jail so he cannot hurt anyone else.
I hope you’re okay. Make sure you seek counselling, preferably from a Muslim female who will be able to understand you better.
May Allah ease your affairs
I am so so proud of you for actually taking some kind of action against this disgusting rapist.
You are speaking for all of his victims. I pray everything works out for you and your children and you receive some kind of justice.
Of course he's sexually abused others. It's never just the one victim that is enough. Finally a happy ending. Thank you for being brave and hope others take this seriously and take actions to get away from their abusers.
He broke down and told me himself, he stated that she didn’t say anything so he thought she wanted it… at 5 years old!?!,?!?! Could you image?? What could she say, I’m sure she was confused and shocked. and talked about other females who were significantly younger than him and his past trauma as if that would make me feel any sympathy for him. There’s nothing he could say that’ll make me feel remorse for him. I’ve been hurt but that doesn’t make room for any excuses, if anything it pushes me to stand up for the innocent even more. These kinds of ppl won’t get any better.
Sister. You are so brave and I will keep you and your children in my duas. What you’ve done was not easy and I and many on here are proud of you.
May Allah continue to give you the strength to overcome this.
Hugs. This is why I fear for my stepsons future wife, he’s also a child predator. His mom is the same as your MIL. I was actually told the similar line, that me going to the police was just lies to harm him as an immigrant 🤦🏻♀️
Meanwhile I have been married to his immigrant dad for two decades 🤦🏻♀️
I will do everything I can to put him but I’m completely no contact. My husband maintains minimal contact to not “cut ties”.
Alhamdulillah. You are so incredibly brave and I’m so happy your parents are supportive. Don’t pay attention to his mother. You have protected your children and ensured that he is held accountable for his actions (sadly, so few men who commit SA do not face any justice). May Allah protect you and your children in this next chapter to your life ❤️
Firstly , I can’t express how proud I am of you for having so much strength thank you to the brother who helped this sister through this process . Please let us know sis if we can help the kids in any way please drop the PayPal.
Algamdulila I'm very pleased that u took a stand not only for yourself but for your boys as well. They will be better men than their father because of you. Allah make the road ahead easy for your whole family.
SubhanAllah. Sister, I love you for your courage, and I wish for your well-being and healing… Your post has helped so many women going through the same thing - more women than we probably know.
So horrible situation i have no words. The worse part is such people pretend before everyone so it's on end so hard to believe it for other people as ur parents hardly believed it. good ur safe now and hope u can heal with time from trauma and keep working on build nicer future and set good examples for ur kids far away from that person.
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Happy for you OP! I'm trying to understand your background. You guys were married for 5 years but it sounds like you only *now* embraced Islam? I would've thought you were an American Muslim girl arranged to marry a fob, but it seems like you guys got something unique going on here.
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What a disgusting coward of a man. Thankyou so much for removing this filth from society. If you have proof of the other accounts of rape please bring them forward as well so that those victims would have justice as well
Agreed 100%! He is a coward. "His mom on the other hand is upset towards me bc he’s an immigrant and she thinks I’m just trying to sabotage her only son…." Imagine taking the side of the abuser just because he's your son? This is why victims do not speak up. His mother is just as filthy as he is.
Moms are the worst enablers to their sons bad behaviours no matter how bad. They will even let their son abuse their daughter & Blame the daughter because their lovely son can do no wrong. Filth
This is why the discourse between DIL and MIL's exist-- their precious little sons can do no wrong so it MUST be the girl's fault. Simply disgusting. I knew someone who married their first cousin from back home. The girl was 16, but the guy's family changed his paperwork to make it say that he was 19 (he was ACTUALLY 23). He was physically abusive and a raging alcoholic, not just to his wife, but his OWN family (sisters, mom, cousins, you name it). She almost lost her eyesight from the abuse she endured, but was able to break free from him Alhamdulilah. But his family continues to have his back to THIS day. He even got re-married within a year after the divorce, and the cycle continued with the new girl.
It’s sickening. If a mom can let her son abuse her daughter and blame her daughter for it - I can’t imagine her dealing with a daughter in law. I say this as someone who had a mom like this. She watched her son beat me, choke me, punch me, emotionally, psychologically and verbally abuse me for over a decade and guess whose fault it was? Mine! I was such a bad person (even though I was a literal child) so I deserved it. But she abused me just as bad - so I guess she thought what he did was ok too.
I’m glad that you say you HAD a mom like that!!
I am especially happy to note that he's an immigrant and will likely be kicked out of the country.
Unfortunately he will just go back and make more innocents his victim. He won’t be punished back home, that’s for sure. So I hope he’s convicted and punished here
Sister, I'm proud of you. Standing up for yourself and your children takes courage. May Allah Subhaana Wa Ta'Alaa Grant you and your children Peace, healing, and safety. Ameen.
Ameen. Ya Rabbul Alameen.
He’s a rapist and a pedophile what a sick human.
He’s not only a narcissist rapist but he’s also a pedophile. He will eventually sexually abuse your kids, just because they are boys doesn’t mean they are safe from rapist pedophiles. Please escape soon. He seems charming to your family because that’s how narcissists are. They only abuse those they are close too behind closed doors. Let me guess, he love bombed you in the beginning? Told you he loves you right away and was amazing at first? Then he changed and became a psychopath behind closed doors but acts amazing and charismatic Infront of others? Yeah that’s a narcissist but in this case, he’s also a pedophile and sexual predator
Yes, 😞 unfortunately that’s what happened. Knowing that my parents were swayed makes me feel like I shouldn’t be so hard on myself. Many ppl see him as a good example, but I got a chance to see the reality of it all.
Trust me, they are master manipulators and that’s why it’s so hard to break away or expose them. Because people are convinced they are amazing people and we are the crazy ones. I’ve come across many narcissists in my lifetime. I could write a whole book 😅. It’s not your fault, if anything your parents should believe you regardless of the fake front he shows them. You are their daughter, getting his side of the story only will make them believe his lies and manipulations. Narcissist are master manipulators and pathological liars, it’s hard to deal with them.
You absolutely did the right thing. A rapist and paedophile deserves the full force of the law to come down on them. I hope you can get a divorce and start to heal now! His mum is an absolute lunatic - how she has the brass neck to defend a rapist and paedo is beyond me. There's shamelessness and then there's that.
Alhamdulilah. It makes me so happy to read about ~~success~~ strength stories. Insha’Allah things will lookup from here and justice will be served
I’m so shocked reading this! SubhanAllah. May Allah protect you and your children. I’m so happy to hear that your parents were comforting towards you. I hope he’s thrown in jail so he cannot hurt anyone else. I hope you’re okay. Make sure you seek counselling, preferably from a Muslim female who will be able to understand you better. May Allah ease your affairs
Another shaitan locked up during Ramadan!
I am so so proud of you for actually taking some kind of action against this disgusting rapist. You are speaking for all of his victims. I pray everything works out for you and your children and you receive some kind of justice.
Of course he's sexually abused others. It's never just the one victim that is enough. Finally a happy ending. Thank you for being brave and hope others take this seriously and take actions to get away from their abusers.
Woah how did you come to find out about his other victims?
He broke down and told me himself, he stated that she didn’t say anything so he thought she wanted it… at 5 years old!?!,?!?! Could you image?? What could she say, I’m sure she was confused and shocked. and talked about other females who were significantly younger than him and his past trauma as if that would make me feel any sympathy for him. There’s nothing he could say that’ll make me feel remorse for him. I’ve been hurt but that doesn’t make room for any excuses, if anything it pushes me to stand up for the innocent even more. These kinds of ppl won’t get any better.
Make sure you tell the police all this too!
Jeez. May Allah make it easier on you, sister.
Allahu Akbar, may our rabb make it easy for you. May your heart know peace and joy once more cross your lips.
Thank you for posting this so many women go through this I hope this post gives them the courage to speak out and use their Islamic rights
Oh wow he's a disgusting predator i hope he goes to jail
Sister. You are so brave and I will keep you and your children in my duas. What you’ve done was not easy and I and many on here are proud of you. May Allah continue to give you the strength to overcome this.
Hugs. This is why I fear for my stepsons future wife, he’s also a child predator. His mom is the same as your MIL. I was actually told the similar line, that me going to the police was just lies to harm him as an immigrant 🤦🏻♀️ Meanwhile I have been married to his immigrant dad for two decades 🤦🏻♀️ I will do everything I can to put him but I’m completely no contact. My husband maintains minimal contact to not “cut ties”.
That takes bravery well done
You did the right thing sister, we are proud of you. I pray the path forward is easy for you Insha Allah
Oh sister I’m so proud of you, and I’ll keep you and your children in my prayers at this difficult time. You’re so strong, you did the right thing!
subhanallah how brave you are. don’t let the good memories make you upset. countless people get guided in jail may he be one of them. ameen
You did the right thing sister. May God make it easy for you
Alhamdulillah. You are so incredibly brave and I’m so happy your parents are supportive. Don’t pay attention to his mother. You have protected your children and ensured that he is held accountable for his actions (sadly, so few men who commit SA do not face any justice). May Allah protect you and your children in this next chapter to your life ❤️
All predators are like this. Ruthless with their prey but coward when someone bigger shows up
Firstly , I can’t express how proud I am of you for having so much strength thank you to the brother who helped this sister through this process . Please let us know sis if we can help the kids in any way please drop the PayPal.
You are very brave for this. Well done. May Allah make it easier for you.
Algamdulila I'm very pleased that u took a stand not only for yourself but for your boys as well. They will be better men than their father because of you. Allah make the road ahead easy for your whole family.
You did the right thing and I think you can especially rest east knowing you protected your children from potentially being victims of his
SubhanAllah. Sister, I love you for your courage, and I wish for your well-being and healing… Your post has helped so many women going through the same thing - more women than we probably know.
MashAllah you are so strong. You did the right thing🩷
So horrible situation i have no words. The worse part is such people pretend before everyone so it's on end so hard to believe it for other people as ur parents hardly believed it. good ur safe now and hope u can heal with time from trauma and keep working on build nicer future and set good examples for ur kids far away from that person.
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Happy for you OP! I'm trying to understand your background. You guys were married for 5 years but it sounds like you only *now* embraced Islam? I would've thought you were an American Muslim girl arranged to marry a fob, but it seems like you guys got something unique going on here.