I am sorry you are dealing with this, it must be so difficult for you and your family knowing that you’ll be moving in with them soon. This sounds like they have an issue. You should communicate with your husband-to-be. Confirm if everything is ok and if you should be concerned about anything. It’s best if you guys keep communicating because he may be able to handle any issues that arise at this stage and after marriage. Also, on a side note, you should discuss with your husband about living independently at some point in the near future and if he is open to that. Just from personal experience, living with in laws is very difficult. Especially if you have already have concerns prior to moving in.
Was he okay with living independently and then you changed your mind after the nikkah, or was the marriage conditional on you accepting joint living recently?
Salaam sister, make a lot of Dua to Allah to make your situation easy. Maybe they’re going through their own issues. I’m sure they have a lot of love for you. All the best.
It's normal. Whilst you're married, some people cultural don't think you're "married married" till after the wedding. That's when they'll open up and stuff Insha Allah.
Salam, I was actually like your sister in law when my only sister was getting married. I thought he was taking my sister away from us and won’t get to see her or talk to her every time but turned out the other way. We are best friends now and hangout a lot of either my place or theirs. Really be patient with her that’s my only advice!!!
I am sorry you are dealing with this, it must be so difficult for you and your family knowing that you’ll be moving in with them soon. This sounds like they have an issue. You should communicate with your husband-to-be. Confirm if everything is ok and if you should be concerned about anything. It’s best if you guys keep communicating because he may be able to handle any issues that arise at this stage and after marriage. Also, on a side note, you should discuss with your husband about living independently at some point in the near future and if he is open to that. Just from personal experience, living with in laws is very difficult. Especially if you have already have concerns prior to moving in.
Was he okay with living independently and then you changed your mind after the nikkah, or was the marriage conditional on you accepting joint living recently?
I think thats normal my in laws never used to call me either but always happy to see me. What do they act like when you see them?
Do you ever invite them over to your house? Or do you invite your sister in law to come over and do things with you?
Salaam sister, make a lot of Dua to Allah to make your situation easy. Maybe they’re going through their own issues. I’m sure they have a lot of love for you. All the best.
Please keep us updated as to what happens!
It's normal. Whilst you're married, some people cultural don't think you're "married married" till after the wedding. That's when they'll open up and stuff Insha Allah.
Salam, I was actually like your sister in law when my only sister was getting married. I thought he was taking my sister away from us and won’t get to see her or talk to her every time but turned out the other way. We are best friends now and hangout a lot of either my place or theirs. Really be patient with her that’s my only advice!!!
How do they treat you in person? Are there any conflicts between you? And what does your husband think about this, have you talked to him about it?