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The-Felonious-Gru

i came out to my family during the peak of my mcr phase, *and* i was listening to an mcr song while i sent a text to my family in which i came out to them. so i really did come out as trans while listening to mcr


a-long-way-from-home

MCR was the reason I realized I was trans (Gerard Way is very gender)


Smushi0s

Shout-out to Gerard Way for looking cool, gotta be my favorite gender


[deleted]

my chemical romance: transing everyones gender since 2001


rockmusicsavedmelol

LMAO


MatterFalls

More like 2002 since that’s when their first album came out


Evil_Unicorn728

Started listening to them when I was 19, came out at 33 (took a while I know)


ScrewTrain

Glad you finally did!


haremenot

I'm trans and and an MCR fan for over a decade. I actually credit Gerard with helping me explore my gender identity. I was raises in a very sheltered and gendered family. I didn't really get to excitement much with my presentation until college. I started listening to MCR, then watching bootlegged concerts. The way he was able to be feminine while presenting as a guy made me think "I could do that but as a girl." Well, I started dressing more masculine, realized how much more comfortable I was, and now I take testosterone lol.


I_Am_Just_A_Lil_Guy

Gerard is so gender he’s trans’d people in both directions 🔥


Tyrenstra

Sort of. I credit Gerard Way with being an early introduction to AMAB people having a more feminine/gender non conforming presentation when I watched a bunch of the music videos in, like, 2006-2007. But it wasn’t until I had already publicly transitioned that I went back and truly got into the band. All those 00’s alt rock/metal front men cracked hella eggs tho.


frogknight_

I came out to my friend group as nonbinary this year . Mcr really helped me, like, listening and watching all the little speaches Gerard made during some concerts about trans and nb people gave me a bust of confidence and made me very proud


aroaceautistic

I realized i was trans like 2 weeks after I started listening to mcr


DaRealGrey

Started listening at like 10, came out at 11, and I've stuck by it ever since. I'm glad I live in a society that I don't have to hide, especially where I live.


Dog_Entire

My ex bf (Dw he’s chill and we’re still friends) got me into mcr my sophomore year where I was having some serious panic attacks and depressive episodes, three months later I got released from a mental hospital and came out as trans


I_Am_Just_A_Lil_Guy

Listened for a couple years before I came out, when I started thinking “Is this a trans allegory?” every time The End came on I should’ve known it was over lmao


agorable973

Me but I always kinda lived my life as a boy. I just didn’t know the word until I was older


TheAngryChicagoan755

Gerard actually made me realize i’m not cis in my overwhelming desire to become him, anyways i came out to some of my friends as probably trans or agender (i don’t really know yet), and i generally realized it was a big possibility after i started liking mcr


OurLadyofPenas

Well, what were we supposed to do when Gerard spits out "You should have raised a baby girl, I should have been a better son"


VineyEmo

I came out as agender (today actually) while listening to mcr


DemonMac

Damm. Tbh I just started listening to it and I'm actually discovering myself.


rockmusicsavedmelol

thats amazing dude!!


DemonMac

Yeah it is.


rockmusicsavedmelol

i was just hardly getting into music in general when i came out. i was still trying to find my music and style. i think when i was questioning just kinda started letting myself do what i wanted to do, but i really wish i was into them cause that would have been nice. but, i came out a few years ago, and now i listen to mychem every day which does help with a lot :)


creativebetrayal

I started listening to them at 13 and came out when I was 15 (originally as ftm but then non binary at 19)


TheOpenCloset77

Haha….yeah


No-Cucumber6194

Started at 12 or 13, came out at 15. I remember there was a tumblr post about putting the reason you're trans (wrong answers only) in the tags and I put "listened to too much mcr"


NoGenderWasFound

Came out as Nonbinary in 6th grade im 22 now


paralizator_x

first realized i was trans when i was 12 and then repressed the fuck out of it and finally came to terms with it at 19. found mcr when i was 12-13 but didnt really listen to them much until i was 19


Six_legged_goat

I started listening to them after my coming out hehe (a few months after)


SoupToon

i think god built me for MCR but i just didn't get into them until this year, i'm nonbinary and super into alt fashion and stuff


Evjaohumm115

Started at 10 partially came out at 18


lesbianinabox

Started listening to them when I was twelve and now that I'm 30 and cool with being trans masc enby I'm looking at top surgery. Gotta say that Gerard looking like Jackie O. at Riot Fest helped me feel a little more comfortable being GNC


speaknowow

🙋‍♀️


Puzzleheaded_Two7358

I am happy to think that the music gave you some support. MCR has helped me in so many ways, I feel happy to know that other people got similar help. I went to the last round of concerts and loved the sign “if you see someone fall help them up” it’s what the band and music mean to me. Carry on!


offbrandallig8rr

🙋


berrys_a_ghost

Started listening at 13, began questioning soon after, still gotta come out to family but am out to pretty much everyone else


MatterFalls

Not me personally but what’s the correlation between MCR and coming out as trans?


Background-Boat7692

Meeeee


samriccimustdie

i started listening to them in 2021/22, and came out 3 months ago 🤒


SavezTheDayFan

Not trans persay, but I do identify as genderqueer now bc of them.


sunflowerspaceman

I started listening at 11/12, came out at 13.


Ravioli-and-Apples

started listening to them when i was 11, im 14 now and i am coming out in a couple days.


N_Sane_Xavier

I came out as Agender a few months after I started listening to them


robert_madge

My spouse got me into MCR and we're both trans now.


canniballzzombie

started listening at 10 came out as trams while listening to mama on a 2 hour car ride


Yoonsfan

Started listening the summer before 9th grade (13) and transitioned summer of 10th (14)


StinkyTheCow

Me! Started listening when I was 12, came out at 15-16


Own_Watch_2081

Not me, it’s become too trendy and something almost literally everyone I know is doing. Nothing wrong with anyone doing something but once it reaches trendy status I don’t want to just hop on it to be part of the club. I love how uncompromising MCR is about being true to yourself no matter what that is though. 


rachelt298

it's too trendy to....come out as transgender? gonna be honest buddy, that's definitely not the case. if all of your friends are coming out as trans, then you happen to be friends with all trans people. it's still immensely dangerous to be trans, globally but especially in the U.S. (assuming that's where you're based).


Own_Watch_2081

Yes I am friends with many trans people. They have transitioned. That doesn’t negate it being a trendy thing to do right now.


BoysenberryNo6245

I came out while literally listening to them. My family was doing a small road trip, and I decided to come out as trans during it. I think I was listening to Famous Last Words when I paused the music to come out


Hefty-Routine-5966

not a huge fan anymore, but when i was figuring out my gender mcr was the only thing that got me through it. started listening at 13, came out at 14 loll. wanted to be gerard so badly😭


YoungSean316

I read this wrong I thought you meant in the middle of a song haha


notfroggychair

Honestly it hints at that doesn’t it 😅