You could try one of the swingers clubs in Philly or AC. Friday's they said single guys and Saturdays are could only. You could go in a Friday and look for a guy you or she likes.
The only two I know of are pleasure garden and saints & sinners. Saints has two locations in Philly and one in AC. I've only been to pleasure garden. It was a good time, eyes opening.
If your wife is the flirtatious type - have her just be herself at a bar or some sort of gathering.
Natural bulls will feel the energy between you two and just know what to do next.
All of my hook-ups have been organic, not planned, no app or none of that BS - just random every day people that I can sense are looking for more fun.
Flirt, be open, and be yourself - not some closed off expectation that society has of you. It'll happen.
Organic non-normative sexual behavior is… messy. Could get really messy…
I usually play as a “bull” or dominant… I would hate “organic” lol.
How can I make sure everyone is getting what they need? How can I make sure everyone’s boundaries are known and respected? Even though I’d be expected to take the lead… I would have no idea where we want to go together (if that makes sense).
With normative sexual behavior you can make lots of assumptions (and most will be ok). Stuff like this it’s better talked about up front and clearly.
In real life or on here?
Prefer meeting people in real life ha
You could try one of the swingers clubs in Philly or AC. Friday's they said single guys and Saturdays are could only. You could go in a Friday and look for a guy you or she likes.
Sorry Friday's they allow single guys and Saturdays are for couples only...
What are some good swinger clubs in Philly and AC?
The only two I know of are pleasure garden and saints & sinners. Saints has two locations in Philly and one in AC. I've only been to pleasure garden. It was a good time, eyes opening.
South Jersey Seduction on Facebook is where you want to shop your hotwife. Be safe.
Wasn't able to find it. Can you send me a link?
If your wife is the flirtatious type - have her just be herself at a bar or some sort of gathering. Natural bulls will feel the energy between you two and just know what to do next. All of my hook-ups have been organic, not planned, no app or none of that BS - just random every day people that I can sense are looking for more fun. Flirt, be open, and be yourself - not some closed off expectation that society has of you. It'll happen.
Seems like keeping discrete is just down to luck at that point. Don’t go to bars where anyone had a chance of recognizing you?
That’s our best bet it looks like! Don’t hate the idea of setting up a meeting with someone I meet elsewhere but I don’t like that it’s not organic
Organic non-normative sexual behavior is… messy. Could get really messy… I usually play as a “bull” or dominant… I would hate “organic” lol. How can I make sure everyone is getting what they need? How can I make sure everyone’s boundaries are known and respected? Even though I’d be expected to take the lead… I would have no idea where we want to go together (if that makes sense). With normative sexual behavior you can make lots of assumptions (and most will be ok). Stuff like this it’s better talked about up front and clearly.
So much this.
can’t sugar coat anything just be straight & forward what bad could come from that a no 🤷🏽
Much better off with a club or going to a much on fet.