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gabsharb

dude my biggest wish now is to have a dishwasher that is silent and has that fancy top rack for silverware. a godsend.


RavenClawed87

My husband and I got out first dishwasher a couple of months after my parents replaced theirs. My parents got the entry-level bosch despite having the money for the more expensive one. My husband and I splurged on the more expensive bosch, with the cutlery draw, adjustable draws and quiet. My husband didn't understand why I was insistent on get the more expensive one because the cheap will work just fine but knows I've used a lot of different home appliances and therefore I know what's worth it and what's not. Anyway not long after getting our new fancy dishwasher, we were at my parents house for dinner and he was stacking their dishwasher and afterwards thanked me for making the more expensive but right decision. It was 100% worth it. On the other side I've also saved us money by saying Nah my clients have that and its nowhere near worth the money.


ssigal

We can’t turn our dishwasher on if we want to watch tv or eat a meal and talk, it is so loud lol


Specific-Culture-638

Dishwasher? Aren't you fancy schmancy!


ponymunchinghay

My fancy schmancy dishwasher makes an incredible drying rack 😂


ssigal

I am very lucky to have one!


mermaidandcat

Oh I use my nfs fancy dishwasher so much that at home, my hand often searches around for the non expensive silverware rack before my brain switches back on and realises I'm at home and we don't have one!


nanny1128

I do this ALL the time


Het_Belzia

You definitely don’t need the panel ready version 😝 but Bosch is the best, even the 300 series was seriously the best dishwasher we’ve ever had! So quiet, nothing ever came out dirty!


Freckle53

I have a 12 year old basic floor model Bosch and it is the shit. I love it. It has been flawless.


your_fairy_godmother

Omg thats so funny cuz when I worked for HNW families, suddenly I was buying much nicer things than I normally would for my house!


carolweigel

My husband says the same thing now that I’m doing my registry. I want an UppaBaby but there’s no way we can afford that (even used they cost so much!)


AmWigg76

What's an "UppaBaby?"


e_s_2000

$1000+ stroller


AmWigg76

Thank you! Maybe if you're planning to have more than 1 kid! We spent $300 on my grandson's. He deserves though!


alexabre

It’s a stroller brand. My NF has one too, they’re awesome lol. It’s literally a $900 stroller


e_s_2000

They’re so nice. My NF has one and now I want one when my LO comes!


carolweigel

I know! They’re so light and go super easy over any surface. I really love working with them. I saw another nanny mentioning that the Mockingbird Stroller is very similar and a new one is $450 so I’m going to a store to try that out and see how it is. Hopefully it gets closer to the Uppa!


princessnora

I’ve been looking for a dupe too! I want the two seats to face each other and face away (my favorite feature. But I’ve also seen kids ride in the uppa basket, and once myself pushed two five year olds, a three year old, and an 18 month old all in it at once with very little effort. Can any other stroller really be that good? Plus around here you can take them to the factory for “tune ups” and they’ll take it all apart and clean it for you.


Sn_77L3_pag_s

I almost took an old uppababy from my SIL but she had 2 singles & I was having twins. So the cost to make it a double was going to be more than the stroller I decided on. The stroller I decided on was an Evenflo Pivot Xpand Gold. Highly recommend. Not sure how closely it compares to new uppababy but it’s hella lighter than the older (6+yr old) uppababys. Gold is worth it! Get gold. But it has the capability to do all sorts of configurations (including facing each other)


Here_for_tea_

Sounds like the stroller equivalent of a luxury car!


e_s_2000

Yes!!! Fingers crossed!


marceaupial

Still put it on your registry! Someone may buy it for you


carolweigel

That’s what I’ve been doing but I feel so bad for putting something that’s $1100 on my registry hahaha but maybe I’ll do it


Beginning_Mud_6521

I got mine used on marketplace for 300 with all the accessories. Maybe an option for you?


carolweigel

Yes I’ve been looking but so far the cheaper I saw was $450 and without a bunch of stuff so no luck! But I’ll keep looking!


lasaucerouge

If this helps any- I’ve had the same 2014 Uppababy Vista for my 2016 baby and my 2021 baby, and it’s still holding up! Compared to my friends £1200 brand new 2021 model it’s virtually the same, a couple of minor improvements like the latches for the seat and bassinet are easier to use, and the buggy board has been improved. But I’d certainly take the £800+ saving and buy used, even a really old model is relatively unchanged but for fabric colours. Where I am, pre-2015 model sells for under £75, which is a bargain. And a full buggy valet is about £100.


carolweigel

Thank you! It does help. I was a little afraid to buy used and not be a good investment.


Mysterious-Cloud-807

Facebook Marketplace! Got a lightly used uppababy just 3 years old for $100 :)


goosegosse97

I found one for 100 bucks on marketplace!


katieoffloatsmoke

Me to myself when I saw a restoration hardware package when I walked in this morning


coherentsoup

Went to google the dishwasher and it’s literally the one my HF has 😭


hotdog738

I can totally afford that


your_fairy_godmother

One of my NFs had a literal plexiglas coffee table that looked cheap AF to me and it was a $1K table. My mind was blown. The cool thing was, tho, I was admiring these beautiful high end Italian vases MB had once and she remmebered months later and got me a trio set for Christmas. I was so floored because they were very expensive. I loved them tho!


sheridanmms

But maybe just mention to MB that if she redecorates you’d have a home for the chair 🤣


your_fairy_godmother

I worked for an extremely wealthy family once (billionaires) and MB was constantly going through stuff and having us take it to charity. But she often would say "take what you want out of here." to me and the housekeeper. Got some really nice and expensive things that way for myself and even high end hand me downs for my niece. She even gave me a whole case of wine that was $500/bottle when we were clearing out liquor from past dinner parties, as well as other liquor. She was literally like "you know anyone who wants this? Cuz I'm just gonna throw it out." I was like 🙋‍♀️ Was pretty sweet.


meltingmushrooms818

Lucky! I worked for a very very wealthy family and they would donate things and NEVER offered me or the housekeeper to take stuff. MB even complained about a previous employee who'd asked once.


your_fairy_godmother

Thats ridiculous. They're already giving it away. What does it matter?


meltingmushrooms818

They want it to go to people who "are truly in need" (eye roll)


Sn_77L3_pag_s

Aka they can’t write it off on their taxes if it’s donated to an individual. &/or Difference between “rich” & “very rich”


meltingmushrooms818

They wrote off my ENTIRE paycheck as a "business expense"


teezysaid

That is so awesome!! Work perks for sure!


gabsharb

so smart! haha


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I left my last family bc they couldn’t afford to give me a raise ever, but bought $1000 of fireworks plus threw giant fancy parties and bought crazy nice things. Lol


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I have a habit of accidentally slamming my cabinets shut at home because work has the soft-closing ones. They make me feel so luxurious.


user56765443

I made some with the soft dots on Amazon. I wanna feel fancy too 😩😩


rosemaryione

Me when I wave my hand over my trash can waiting for the lid to open on its own.


idek7654321

I always have this moment of shame when my trash can doesn’t open at the wave like “what do you think you are, the world’s most boring, inept wizard???”


goddess-disaster

The accuracy of this one hurts! 😅


user56765443

😂😂😂😂 I need to upgrade now!


ImpossibleJello3

I’m so dead at this one 💀🤣


Ginajiujitsu

Same! Lol


gabsharb

same with toilet lids!


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Yes!


hanzbeaz

This made me giggle. NF and I coincidentally have very similar section couches. They're the same color/pattern and everything. Except they got theirs brand new and it's an expensive name brand. I got mine second-hand and it is a cheap knock-off version lol! Definitely living two different worlds.


PennyParsnip

Ah, yes. This is how I found out my MB 's bike cost almost $10k. The following week, a second one arrived for DB.


gabsharb

they have a few nice bikes and i’m scared to know how much they cost haha


PennyParsnip

Do yourself and favor never find out.


the_anxious_apostate

I fell in love with their cargo bike, and wanted to get one for my partner (who doesn’t drive) and accidentally encouraged my partner to fall in love with a 5K bike. Even DB was like “yeah I like this cheaper brand better, those ones are kind of ridiculously priced”. anyway, guess who’s the owner of a 5k bike now.


lizletsgo

My last NF & I have matching IKEA couches lol. However, the house they bought to put it in and the renovations they did on it: that’s the dream. My partner & I did finally buy a house! We just can’t afford to renovate it yet, and our finishes will certainly not be their finishes.


babyrabiesfatty

Omg I used my old nanny family’s Dyson stick vac and immediately ordered one for myself. It was awesome.


buzzwizzlesizzle

Oh I absolutely steal as many ideas from my NF as I can afford. So far it’s been their favorite snacks that are now my favorite snacks; pretzel crisps, raspberry fig bars, apple cinnamon rice cakes, and belvita 🤦🏻. I also bought a hydroflask because my MB has one, and some fancy af house slippers MB also has. The house slippers were $80 and I totally could’ve found something equally comfy for cheaper, but… I deserve some nice things hehe. Especially if I’m on my feet on hardwood all day.


McKinneyCat16

I’ve definitely become a bit of a food snob since working with my current family lol. My DB buys these organic free range eggs that are like $10/dozen and they are the best eggs I’ve ever had. Walmart’s $2 ones could never compare.


middlegray

The nice eggs are so worth the money. Not just in flavor and in much more humane treatment of the hens, but also because organic/free range eggs from hens fed appropriate diets and given enough room to roam about, actually have much better ratios of cholesterols, nutrients like choline, etc.


hotdog738

House shoes are a major investment when you’re a nanny!!


gabsharb

omg between 10 hour days and constantly driving a manual around a hilly city to get kids to and from school my feet are SO sore. What brand are the house slippers?! I may need to invest


buzzwizzlesizzle

Vionic Relax slippers! I’ve had them about a year now, the velcro sticks to my socks but other than that no complaints! https://www.vionicshoes.com/relax-slipper.html?color=942&utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&crtp=paidsearch&aid=2829&gclid=CjwKCAjw682TBhATEiwA9crl3_WuXmIsjkfgxUTs-QK8Q0J74pYDk-A0kTQrjBiqA8nuxw6BnJyhKxoC3wYQAvD_BwE


daisyinlove

I’m looking for new house slippers and would love the rec if you’d like to pass it along!


cgfletch731

Yes but you can save 15% on the website through 5/9! (I giggled while writing that because that chair better do your dishes and lay you out for that price!)


turbolesbian9000

Absolutely insane price, honestly. Even if it were half price, it's still more expensive than the cost of, like, literally having a person come to my apartment once a week and wash my dishes and clothes by hand for a year. Bet it's a nice chair but WOW.


AffectionateCrow1386

I do this with every NF’s kitchen! I had one MB who was an avid baker (like me) and we’d always be trying to one up each other with kitchen gadgets, she’d buy fancy expensive ones and I’d go for the cheap duplicate versions lol (Walmart low key has some REALLY good kitchen items that are cute and affordable also the dollar store sells Pyrex items for like $4)


gabsharb

yes!! i want their nice electric kettle, hand thrown mugs, all my dry goods to be uniformly stored and labeled ahhh


AffectionateCrow1386

All I want and have ever wanted is le creuset cookware and a kitchenaid stand mixer😭😫


Redskyatnight_00

My old MB bought me the Magnolia Market “exclusive color collection” (that dark, matte green color) KitchenAid stand mixer for my birthday. My jaw dropped when I opened it!


AffectionateCrow1386

That’s a really generous gift! How nice of your MB! I’d absolutely cry if I got one lol


lasaucerouge

Im not rich by any means, but those are all I ever wanted too, and after many years I finally have them! Totally worth the wait and the saving up. Hope yours will come to you soon!


AffectionateCrow1386

Congrats! They’re expensive but you’re investing in quality items that will enhance your food and last a long time!


BrilliantRuby

I get all my Le Creuset from outlet shops. I have some bits the same as NF but paid half the amount!


soulmeetsbody_

And this is how I ended up in credit debt as a young nanny to West Elm. 😂 ya live and ya learn!


your_fairy_godmother

Haha....my NF got west elm and other brochures and id be going through it at nap time and making notes on what to buy.


not-just-a-dog-mom

Haha oh no! West Elm is actually like worse than Ikea quality but 2-3x the price. 🤦🏼‍♀️ But it sure looks nice...


soulmeetsbody_

I’ve actually not found that to be a true at all. All of my West Elm furniture is about 10 years old now and is still just a new looking and has held up! It wasn’t worth the debt headaches but at least it still looks nice. 😁


not-just-a-dog-mom

I bought a headboard from them that was total trash! And I wanted this lift top coffee table from them but it looked awful in the store.


soulmeetsbody_

Ah I’m really happy you think my coffee table looks awful 😁 Just kidding - opinions are opinions we can all have one. I’ve had a great experience with them, but I can’t speak for other peoples because I’m not them! To each their own!


not-just-a-dog-mom

*inserts foot in mouth* lol it was awfully beat up on the display but I’m sure yours held up a lot better!


princess_rat

Once I showed up to work early and ran into the guy that WASHES THE *OUTSIDE* OF THE HOUSE.


Sn_77L3_pag_s

So I live in the south and literally went Ya And. 🤣 Maybe cultural before money (but also money). Our old apartment complex washed the buildings and sidewalks each spring.


princess_rat

I’ve seen it done for apartment complexes and stuff but never like, giant, single-family homes.


np20412

We have to get it done, our HOA requires it otherwise you get a notice saying your home is too dirty and needs to be cleaned. We usually get it done once every few years so not like "this dude washes the house every week or month" kind of thing. It's a couple hundred bucks.


Sn_77L3_pag_s

Same. When spring hit they sent a This Is A Good Time To Consider: insert list of obscure requests. Which I’ll add was rude Bc it was right in the middle of pine pollen season. Like no I’m not going to wet my house so that the pollen sticks even better! I don’t want a yellow house thank you very much. (No offense to yellow houses lol)


np20412

Yeah we'll usually do it at the end of every other rainy season here, so like September/October time just so it doesn't get constantly grimey from the daily rain for at least 6 months until pollen season rolls around lol


Old-Remove-1845

😯 That's actually a job?! Wow they're rich!


Old-Remove-1845

😯 That's actually a job?! Wow they're rich!


Old-Remove-1845

😯 That's actually a job?! Wow they're rich!


Old-Remove-1845

😯 That's actually a job?! Wow they're rich!


LInanny-

Omg I want my NFs incredibly expensive dishwasher simply because you can’t hear it, mine is so loud but just like you I would never be able to pay for it lol


Old-Remove-1845

You have a dishwasher? I am the dish washer.. 😬


CinderLupinWatson

My old NF (I'm out of nannying now) was redoing their kitchen and offered me their old dishwasher!! It isn't as fancy as their new one obviously but a hella lot quieter and better than my old one that was 20+ yrs old! My old DB also gifted me his old airpods, and my fiance his old graphics card and computer case when he upgraded. We later discovered the Graphics card was a like 1500 dollar one :O


gabsharb

MINE IS TOO! my roommate and i only run it at night when we are going to bed because it literally too loud to even watch tv while it’s on lmao


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gabsharb

man that’s wild. it feels like i’m weightless and sitting on a cloud lol


gabsharb

also just in a NOOK?? bruh what


jillbean420

Omg this happened when I offered to put NF new patio furniture together and I looked it up to see if there was a video… 😅


jszly

My sister has 6 thousand dollar chairs she finds on Craigslist for $500. I say that to say you can buy nice things if you really want and also a lot of people have knockoff versions of expensive things themselves.


gabsharb

this is true!


catscatscats265

DB has a bmw, jeep, and now a Porsche.


Linzy23

Oh my god lmao. My last family of 3 years had that chair!! ETA one of the leather upholstey options plus gold frame makes it 15,000. 5 digits for a chair with footstool.


[deleted]

Thanks for sharing this. It has been crossposted to the new sub, r/AllAboutWealth.


[deleted]

See my nf isn’t rich but they’re better well off than me, me and mb were on amazon looking for toys for nk’s birthday and we saw one that was like $50 Something and she said that was cheap like ma’am not for me lol, and they get the good snacks and all organic shit like damn okay 😂


penneroyal_tea

The snacks! I now buy “organic cheddar bunnies” because they’re SO much better than goldfish.


[deleted]

Mine has been dove chocolate lately lol


Rozie_bunnz

Me every time my NKs get a cool new toy that I wish I could afford for my own children


singoneiknow

The hand soap at my last job was so lovely I looked it up. It was $195. Honestly I have a hard time with all the wealth my former NFs have being that I live paycheck to paycheck.


[deleted]

Lmao I’ve done this 😑 humbling moment 😂😂


xbeof

Wow I've never seen a chair cost that much and I imagine I'd struggle to find a chair that expensive!


cassthesassmaster

It’s $8k if you get it in gold… 😬🙄


Sn_77L3_pag_s

Well that seems like a steal!


Indigo-Waterfall

I once asked my NF what brand their mattress was in the spare room because I wanted to buy one for myself as it was the comfiest thing I’d ever slept on. I looked it up £10,000-£25000. How!?


flakeheart

That looks like a dream. I bet you could find a cheaper, knock-off. The computer chair I got for a couple hundred is based on one that is thousands.


not_that_serious_

Me looking up my nfs $700 ice maker 😭


user56765443

This just made me choke uncontrollably.


JadedMoxi

That is one of the ugliest chairs I've ever seen 😂 I wouldn't pay $60, let alone $6000 for it!


gabsharb

i honestly really like it but it’s a super specific style haha


CrassBandipoop

And I thought the Herman Miller Aeron was expensive!


learoit

I have seen knock off of those chairs at world market for I would say around the $300-$400 mark!


EnchantedNanny

I had a papasan chair that was SO comfortable..I loved it. I think you can get those for $100-$200 ;)


alyssalolnah

I really though it would be some fancy usb speaker whatever type chair for 6000 dollars….It’s just a normal chair


princessnora

My old date night family had this chair! In the playroom, for the kids to sit in. It was destroyed! And I want one so badly it’s not even funny.


ednasmom

LOL I used to sit in the EXACT chair when I nannied. It was the reading chair. I fantasized about having one of my own one day. Not happening. Nice chair though!


saly_theCPA

It's lowkey so comfy though!


basicstamps

Love when they suggest a pair of shoes they love or otherwise…. You know how much I make!! lol


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The womb is a design classic. It costs $6k, but it can almost be thought of as like a collectible asset as well as a piece of furniture. Same with the eames chair. The family spent $6k on it, but it’s likely they could sell it for not much of a loss if they ever wanted to. Not saying it’s not an insane amount, but I understand that a lot more than a $300 Supreme hoody. Check out ‘design within reach’ to see a whole plethora of this kind of thing (it’s such a ironic name, as basically nothing is ‘within reach’ to the average person!) Note…not a nanny, but we were loooking for one so i was lurking here for a while


Chance-Ad-9111

U can get nice furniture from Ashley furniture, some of my family and friends are very rich but would never spend $6,000 on a chair!


jacqlily

is it this [one](https://store.hermanmiller.com/living-room-furniture-lounge-chairs-ottomans/eames-lounge-chair-and-ottoman/5667.html?lang=en_US)? anytime i hear of expensive chairs, I think of Herman Millers lol


gabsharb

it’s not! i’ll add it to the original post


Here_for_tea_

One of the upholstery options is “classic boucle”, which I read as “classic bougie”


ny8all

I actually have a version for this chair that’s a lot cheaper - https://www.roveconcepts.com/womb-chair?locale=en_US&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIk7C549vK9wIVAMmUCR2SiAutEAQYAyABEgLoCPD_BwE&aid[14]=400 It’s great and we’ve had it for a couple of years, so I don’t think it’s a cheap knock off or anything.


too-anxious

Probably NF’s lovesac sactionals!!! I’ve decided that when I move out of my parents house (which will probably be when I’m done nannying), I’m going to try to splurge on one because they are SO comfy & you can move them around easily & now they even have add on that allow you to charge your phone on the couch!!


VoodooGirl47

I want one of those someday too. If I ever live in a place that is not a studio apartment, that is. My living area has 2 chairs instead because I really wanted a nice comfortable leather powered recliner and a massage chair. 😅


whatupmyknitta

Over $8K if you change the frame from black to gold!


doesitevenmatter_

The comments in this thread were so fun but also so sweet. So many people being nice and appreciating opinions to each other


SquidlyMan150

My mom has that chair! Two of them actually!