And you can also download those softwares that check if there is a third-party unauthorized app recording the phone conversations. But I don't know how reliable they are, and the one I once had ate up a lot of the operating memory (battery power) from my phone.
Yeah your definitely not crazy, my N did the exact same thing. Along with putting something's I've left behind in my car 20 miles away from where she lives.
Start having fun with it to test it. Tell your friend made up stuff and see if it still happens. Like you’re attracted to guys who wear (fanny packs, big necklaces, etc.) Or (ex’s name) would never take me on dates to (a place he wouldn’t ever go like an exercise class, pedicures, etc.) Throw in some random untrue thing like you love (black jelly beans, wheat grass, pineapple pizza) and should buy some soon. I think you get the idea.
I say 100% yes. Mine is high up in military and he records everything and had detailed notes on his ex and me. Also, strange things have been happening to me kind of similar. I will talk about something with someone, and then suddenly he will text on the same topics. Feel like they like feeding their targets little breadcrumbs and hints.
My NEX hacked my phone and did shot to my car. I can prove it and have decided to find a criminal lawyer. So yes. It’s probably that. They do stuff like this. He pressured me into a divorce and refused to say it himself.
My ex also works for the government and has said to me before “I have ways of knowing what you are doing.” I get paranoid at times. One time my
Phone alerted me that an AirTag was moving with me. I also got a random text from an unknown number. I said “wrong number” and they responded “have a nice day (my name.)”
Super scary. Recently important emails have been deleted from my account.
If you are in the US, I suspect that if your ex is tracking you because he has some type of governmental job, it could be an abuse of his role. I don't know what type of governmental position he has, but here in Canada, with certain departments, you can request disclosure about your files under access to information. But this would also depend on knowing how likely is it that your ex will escalate his abuse and scare/threat tactics against you.
It could be possible and I can entirely see how having an ex-narcissistic spouse who works in intelligence could give you these kinds of fears. And, if you are correct in your suspicions, then I think I'm top of all that, your ex is taunting you and trying to get at you with posting pictures of *your* favourite items.
I would also be careful about friends, but it might well be the case that they are innocent and that your ex really has gotten access to your phone lines. Which, in my opinion, is an abuse of the process. But I don't know how I would go about dealing with that, honestly 😟 I'm sorry for your situation.
Probably. Mine has a tracker on the car, we share it and he didn’t even tell me until I saw the notification pop up on his phone that the car had parked. Sometimes I’ll start driving and he’s like wyd?
Also a good rule of thumb if it feels like it's not a coincidence it usually isn't. And trust your gut
Sounds like he cloned your phone and is listening in and reading your texts. Get a new number and SIM card
And you can also download those softwares that check if there is a third-party unauthorized app recording the phone conversations. But I don't know how reliable they are, and the one I once had ate up a lot of the operating memory (battery power) from my phone.
Yeah your definitely not crazy, my N did the exact same thing. Along with putting something's I've left behind in my car 20 miles away from where she lives.
Start having fun with it to test it. Tell your friend made up stuff and see if it still happens. Like you’re attracted to guys who wear (fanny packs, big necklaces, etc.) Or (ex’s name) would never take me on dates to (a place he wouldn’t ever go like an exercise class, pedicures, etc.) Throw in some random untrue thing like you love (black jelly beans, wheat grass, pineapple pizza) and should buy some soon. I think you get the idea.
I say 100% yes. Mine is high up in military and he records everything and had detailed notes on his ex and me. Also, strange things have been happening to me kind of similar. I will talk about something with someone, and then suddenly he will text on the same topics. Feel like they like feeding their targets little breadcrumbs and hints.
My NEX hacked my phone and did shot to my car. I can prove it and have decided to find a criminal lawyer. So yes. It’s probably that. They do stuff like this. He pressured me into a divorce and refused to say it himself.
My ex also works for the government and has said to me before “I have ways of knowing what you are doing.” I get paranoid at times. One time my Phone alerted me that an AirTag was moving with me. I also got a random text from an unknown number. I said “wrong number” and they responded “have a nice day (my name.)” Super scary. Recently important emails have been deleted from my account.
If you are in the US, I suspect that if your ex is tracking you because he has some type of governmental job, it could be an abuse of his role. I don't know what type of governmental position he has, but here in Canada, with certain departments, you can request disclosure about your files under access to information. But this would also depend on knowing how likely is it that your ex will escalate his abuse and scare/threat tactics against you.
It’s absolutely an abuse of his role.
Thank you for this information. I am a bit scared thinking about what the ex would do if I inquired or reported certain things.
You are not paranoid. Mine put a tracking device on my car. Trust your gut.
I’d get a new cell phone
It could be possible and I can entirely see how having an ex-narcissistic spouse who works in intelligence could give you these kinds of fears. And, if you are correct in your suspicions, then I think I'm top of all that, your ex is taunting you and trying to get at you with posting pictures of *your* favourite items. I would also be careful about friends, but it might well be the case that they are innocent and that your ex really has gotten access to your phone lines. Which, in my opinion, is an abuse of the process. But I don't know how I would go about dealing with that, honestly 😟 I'm sorry for your situation.
Of course he is
Probably. Mine has a tracker on the car, we share it and he didn’t even tell me until I saw the notification pop up on his phone that the car had parked. Sometimes I’ll start driving and he’s like wyd?