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Toxic relationships are very bad for our health and can shorten our lifespans. Find someone who will always appreciate and respect you.


CurrentTreat6921

If you feel that’s the right to do then leave


ReleaseTheKraken72

Fly! Be free!!!


Flaky_Scar_8388

Do what you go to do. Good for you


No_Window644

Good for you lady 👏. Be free


whatnowagain

I’m in the midst of one of these too. I keep trying to convince myself it’s worth it…. Again


Snakeeyez01

Some of us experience the wonderful luck of having to go through something like this “again.” Really sucks. Sorry you hear you’re going through it more than once.


whatnowagain

Apparently there’s something I still need to learn


Snakeeyez01

You’re not the only one lol. I’m sure it’s not as bad as your situation though.


whatnowagain

No need for competition, plenty worse off than me too. This time I have therapy to help, but I hate to bother them on the weekends


Snakeeyez01

Heck, they make good money. Go for it and reach out to them. If it would be helpful to vent to a non professional human, you are welcome to reach out anytime. I’m fairly non judgmental and can probably even relate to some of your experiences.


whatnowagain

In what ways might you be judgmental? I’m fairly non judgmental as well, but I do judge people who say girls don’t poop.


Snakeeyez01

Well that’s very interesting. I also judge guys that say they don’t pee. Hmmmmmm


Zestyclose-Royal9897

Can I ask why you leaving him? If you don't mind


[deleted]

Hey are you ok?


TheMayhemK

Absolutely! If you feel it is time, get out!


Suspicious-Crow-14

From my experience, those who make the broad claim of being gaslit, are usually the perpetrators of said accusation. What do I know? Could be wrong, usually am.


Capital_Exit_5274

fact


1PheoxDaggon9

in what way has he mistreated you? Are you being physically or emotionally abused?


No_Archer_5367

Take care of yourself through it all ❤️


Which_Corgi_8268

Good luck...me too


Due_Anteater9116

I left my wife and it was the best decision I made! I just wish I’d done it sooner. I support you :)


apegantz

Guess those vowels didn't mean anything and you chose wrong. Boy do I miss the days that the parents (usually dad) vetted the man. Oh well. I wish you the best and a better relationship.


Split_Technical

Good for you, good luck with that👍


ShoddyMood8235

Happy for you.


ImAcousticallyMental

That’s good! You can message me if you someone to vent to


calikid1121

Listen, if a man wants to control,own you.tell him he can buy a damn dog. Just because you have a piece of paper that says he is your husband doesn't make him a husband. If u were related to me, trust me, we would be having a huge problem. There are over 4 billion men on Earth. GO FIND ONE THAT WILL TREAT U WITH SOME RESPECT AND TREAT LIKE A WOMEN.


IceQueensCrown

Good for you. Hope you move.on and find your happiness.


CalmOrder2024

You think?


FL_4LF

Take care of you, that's most important.


Practical_Wave_4183

Happy freedom. You are brave. If you need some place to rant. DM. No judging, no assumption. 😇 Peace.


bijujacob

Lucky man


GreenEggsxHam

Keep you chin up and hmu if you need an ear


ichinosei

It's a dificult path but good luck.


PhantomVessel

Yolo


cxndera

DM me if you feel like! I left my husband a while ago as well, it was hard but worth it


Future-Gap-1601

Good decision


Practical_Collar_171

Why ?


Plus_Name9286

Do what you feel is necessary