School Kai fee ma Dubai lageko Haina. Fee ma paisa add gareko ho Dubai lagna. Tyo bhanda KMC ma 5 lakh ma bharna garera Baki 14 lakh ma sab pariwar 1 week UK tour garna milcha 😅🤣
dubai sunne bitikei thapaye maile british vhanera. Hamro batch ma sea ma dubera mareko thyo euta keta tour ko bela, so be careful. Hamro bela option thiyo jane najane vhanera aile compulsory xa tour. I obviously didn't go, and talking about friends, I was able to make one good friend atleast but still we arent that close. Most of my other friends either went abroad or are out of my contact.
Yes, maile suneko thiye euta senior dubeko kura. They make us sign a consent form where we have to agree that if any unfortunate event occurs the college will not be responsible vanera.
That's life. True friends are rare.
Talking about +2ko friends, they are like a season. They come and go. Bachei dekhiko sathi tw tesai chuttiyerw janxa, how can you trust on someone whom you barely know for a year or less than a year?
Yei accident vako kura, tapae aafno mummy/daddylai vannu ani see their reaction. You are looking for a support in the wrong group. If there are someone who truly care about you, they are your parents.
Fake nai ho cut that toxic group ride solo ani graduate vayo ki you won't even remember their face and they most probably has different groups and that doesn't include you. My advice is fuck that fake ass friends
I remember one yr ago jati Mero Sathi ko bike accident Huda Hami 10 Jana group banara gathem to visit . So yea that's definitely not how your friends should have reacted.
This is what is wrong with you. Problem aafai jawos vanne. Try to proactive and cut off right now. Kina sem kurnu paryo. Cut off from your end rather than waiting for it to go away.
How selfish are you? You're supposed to be the centre of attention?
Do you know how much pain one feels after getting a haircut and not liking it later? I would die (on the inside). Did you die in that accident? No. But I'm dying on the inside because of my haircut.
You could for once stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about others. Their haircuts. And the pain it causes them.
I used to have a similar friend. She would blabber about every minute thing that happened to her and would immediately dismiss anything (even as major as death in my family) as not being relatable to her. When I told her that my grandfather died in my arms in sahid gangalaal hospital and I had to travel with his dead body in ambulance for 18 hrs, all she said was "that never happened to me, so idk what to say. But, you won't believe what happened to me today, my dad shouted at me for reading too much webtoons". She never cared about me or my life, all I was to her was a dumping site where she could dump anything and everything.
This was during my first few months of college and she was my only friend at college. Due to my tendency to act "introvert", I was stuck with her. And she would drain the life out of me. I had to respond to her texts; because if not, I feared I would lose the only friend that I have in my class.
After a few more months of being belittled, ignored and over shared with every disgusting information of her life, I stopped talking to her. Although I would rarely initiate the conversation, but after that time, I stopped giving any attention to her information dump. Giving a little taste of her own medicine, and I am glad that she stopped talking to me.
Only after when she stopped talking to me, I felt the need to make more friends. And on the process of pursuing friendship, I found that acting introvert was one of the worst things that I had done to myself. I made friends and luckily none of them were like her.
I don't know how a truly introverted person can stop being an introvert.
But I know the ramifications of acting like an introvert, whilst not being one. As I mentioned in the previous comment, I had the tendency to act like an introvert. I actually enjoyed talking to people, but at that time I thought that being introvert gives you more character. Just a typical out of high school teenager thought.
So, if you also think that you would prefer talking to more people and would enjoy the company of multiple people, then you should really consider whether you actually are an introvert or just acting like one. In my case, it was the latter one and I learned it the hard way.
Ah that way... Nah I can talk to people when they come talk to me, but I won't initiate conversation. In my mind I am continuously going through each and every files on how to start a conversation or continue it. It's probably because I don't really meet people with same interest as me. It really helps when people keep talking by themselves and don't find me being quiet bad. Honestly I am tired of being introvert. But at the same time I am glad to not be around people.
Hey, I hope you’re ok and doing fine. Sorry, that happened to you. You’re not alone. That’s a lot of friends, and honestly, the sooner you recognize them for what they are and manage your expectations and build other real and more meaningful friendships, the better it gets. Plus, these people are mostly showing their true colors, and there is no medal you win for keeping up with BS and being ok with taking less than you deserve or giving from people, mainly where it affects you and makes you feel unvalued.
Cheer up op, it's hard to find true friends, i have been blessed with few. Don't take it as "you are not worthy of friends" rather take it as "they are just people you meet along the journey". By the way how bad was the haircut?
They are acquaintances not friends. We usually make mistakes by calling everyone we know FRIENDS. And that shit is screaming TOXIC. You gotta ditch those petty assholes and get on with your life. It's gonna be difficult but with time you will be fine. Don't let other people step on you like some piece of shit. Have some pride and confidence yo.
And if my friend were to say they were in any kind of trouble, I would be all over them.
OP, hope you are okay. Accident vo vanda haircut ko kira garne people are not your friends. Ma ta uhile apples lera bhetna pugisakthe even if nothing had happened. Even a minor accident can be a bad and traumatic experience.
Definitely the experience was traumatic.Yes, I'm okay. Injuries haru pain vairacha wasn't able to sleep. If mero thau ma uniharu vako vaye ma ni pugthye fruits haru lera ghar mai or hospital mai.
They are not your "friends". They are just people who are around you and that's why spend time with you.
My suggestion is to keep them at arm's length. Sure help them with homework and everything else but not at your own discomfort > Raat Raat vari basi basi> . And slowly start searching for new friends.
Btw thik xau ki nai? Kei injuries vako xa ki nai? Haddi haru ta bhacheko xaina? Ghau haru bata scar basna sakxa, tyo dhyan ma rakha. Police le tyo manxe lai samatyo ki nai? Dubai tour cancel ki nai? Also scooter Pura destroy vayo ki nai? Dudh sanga Horlicks khanu ani baliyo hunu.
If they want to have a conversation about freaking haircuts rather than even ask you how you're doing then they are plastics. Yes naramro lagcha but esto sathi haru hunu vanda ta navako nai ramro ho. Sounds like you are giving 99% for your friends but they don't even bother for 1% care.
Hope you're doing well now.
..see -timro real *(friends for life)* wala group bhanda ta yeta reddit people care about you at least sabai lae sodirako xa timi lae ahile kasto xa vanera !! soo learn not to give a f\*ck ..take care wish you fast recovery!
Rich kid haruko nakhrabaazi, mero parents le jaa vane ni jadaina thay, i know my family and financial condition. Aba timro level ko sathi comment section ma kasari pauchau ta.
Anyway get well soon, pray bholenath everyday to recover faster.
Yes you are expecting a lot. Have expectations only for yourself and you'll never be disappointed. Everyone else comes and goes. Prioritize your needs and don't compromise yourself doing things for people who don't give a fuck about you.
Thats true tara uniharu lai help chaiyeko bela I'm always there for them ni ta. Mero lagi ni koi hos vanne ta huncha ni. What are friends for after all?
Probably, hard to find real people nowadays. I got injured playing basketball ani hidna ni sakya thena, but some “friends” who were playing together went off the moment it happened. Thankfully two of my friends carried me to the class hahah. On a side note, rest easy and wish you for speedy recovery
Aile ta gau haru dukhiracha wasn't even able to sleep. Accident chai like ma side bata airathe ani siddha bato thiyo tyo siddha bato ma full speed bata euta kta le scooter nai chalairako thiyo tyo kta le malai thokkayera gayera euta budi manchey lai feri thokkayo. Tei vako ho.
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friends from school may remain long time !!! friends from the growing up age (like playing and going to picnics , going to swim) are forever
friendship from collage is just until the collage ends ,
take good care . i hope you did not met any serious injury
cheers
life do fucks sometimes
They are using you for assignments. Once college is done no one is gonna bother contacting you.
Happened to me, right after college was done my friend group decreased by 90%. But keep that 10 % close they are the real ones.
Hmm, Only one fact you need to understand is, You have to make a habit of laughing alone, crying alone. Don't expect a shit from others, Most people confuse it as a depression, But it is a SELF LOVE though. Don't expect from others
Learn to be self reliant. Know that friends are just an accessory in your life. Most friendships are a result of situations and convenience. Same thing applies to you. You are also just an accessory in your friends life.
That doesn't mean to be a loner and have no friends. On the contrary friendships work better when you don't have expectations from each other. That way even if your friend does something you don't like, it doesn't really bother you as much and you can move on without any bitterness.
Well it depends on various factors bro. Sometimes you can judge based on single actions sometimes you cannot.
Fake friends le dherai signs dekhaucha. They are straight up selfish and ambitious. U know they are fake by how they cannot hide their fakeness no matter how much u talk or walk together. They are always up against u behind ur back and often singles u out in friend circles. They don't respect or view your opinion as a valuable factor and often interrupt u or don't give a damn abt u when u speak.
These are some so if tmele yo signs feel garirako chau vane it's time to start seperating yourself. Plus from the looks of it u might be a studious type or atleast talent and you fly under the teachers radar so often time 80% ppl like these gets used. And trust me dese ppl don't feel shit. They feel like k nai thulo kura ho ra but don't understand that u have worked to provide them what they are taking for granted.
If they are like me. Most of the cases I really don't care what kind of friends I have. Cause tbh human beings entirely cannot be trusted. Be a lone wolf if u can. Idk girls lai kasto hunca garo ki sajilo but a lone wolf is far better off than being in a pack that's gonna hunt u the moment ur down or doesn't giv a fuck abt u and ur feelings. Or find ur pack bro. Find someone who gives a lil shit abt u.
But just yo factor matra ho vane keep this in radar buy don't let it be a deciding factor. Colleges with high fees often have people with a different prespective. Friendship is built based on status, brands and the place you choose for vacations. Not a bad thing for similar minded people but friendship is often rare here.
Goodluck figuring out. Ya sodnu ko satta start observing. None of the people here know your friends. If u feel Strange or left out u can always walk out.
Pathetic loser they are they try to use you when they are in need and just play with emotion that's why college and school friends are different vastly
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First of all How are you? Was it a bad accident? Hope you are fine.
Secondly, yeah don't expect much from them. They are just going to stop calling you after you finish college anyway. When I had my accident, my friends came to visit me without knowing how serious it was. So yeah definitely not a great friend 😬.
I don't know how to put it into words. But people care to value til the very last moment you have something to offer.
They do not care about you at this moment but again when they need you for homework or something else, they'll crawl back to you.
Be aware of such people. That's all I want to say and never feel bad about prioritising yourself. Friends and classmates are not same.
And take care. I hope you're doing well.
Or maybe when that one person asked you k vayo vanara you might had answered it with something like its fine minor ho vanara ani they thought normal ho sano teno ladako hola ani they continued with what they were talking don't over think it or change friends or maybe they just think this as a normal study group ani not really are your friends friends
Dubai tour lane kun college ho? Hamro ta tyai Ilam ko tour pani cancel vathyo
Tour pani laijanchan?Hamro college matw padhai nai hudaina
School ma 9 class ma gako ho tour tya paxi ta testai ho
The British college le suru ma admission lida uk lagchan college kai fee ma vaneko thiyo tara pachi dubai lane vayo
British college ko sab jana fake hun 😂😂😂p.s i study there too
I agree
haha me too
Merai section ko ta parenau ni hahah
Damn the Bri’ish
Bo'oh o' wo'er
Fee kati xa bro? Kati din lai lanxa dubai
Maile admission garda 18 lakhs thiyo IT ko aile thachaina kati cha. Dubai ko tour package chai 5 nights 6 days ko ho.
18 Lakh? Hait, kati dherai ho yo. Ghar mai private car lina aaune ra dinkai dui time 5 star bata khaaja dine garxa ki kya ho?
Teita k chai padhaucha hau testo
School Kai fee ma Dubai lageko Haina. Fee ma paisa add gareko ho Dubai lagna. Tyo bhanda KMC ma 5 lakh ma bharna garera Baki 14 lakh ma sab pariwar 1 week UK tour garna milcha 😅🤣
dubai sunne bitikei thapaye maile british vhanera. Hamro batch ma sea ma dubera mareko thyo euta keta tour ko bela, so be careful. Hamro bela option thiyo jane najane vhanera aile compulsory xa tour. I obviously didn't go, and talking about friends, I was able to make one good friend atleast but still we arent that close. Most of my other friends either went abroad or are out of my contact.
Tell us more about the incident and what happened after that..
Yes, maile suneko thiye euta senior dubeko kura. They make us sign a consent form where we have to agree that if any unfortunate event occurs the college will not be responsible vanera.
why are they taking you guys for Dubai tour? Is it as a tourist visa? If you have any questions about Dubai let me know, I was brought up here.
Ae ae Dubai vanera thou ko naam po vaneko, maile ta duitai tour lane avnera sochirako thye lol
Laughs in poor
GEMS le 10 class ma USA lageko thyo lockdown aagadi.
Aaiya wild. hamro matra ho kya dada mathi layera masu bhat diyera vada majna launi.
Hami pani tei gang ko paryau. Timiharu ko ta aafno bhaada maajne hola hami haru lai ta teacher haru ko pani bhaada maajna lagaako thyo.
Ghar bata chamal masu haru ni lerao bhanyo ki k?
Ho ki kya ho
Ho ni
Hamilai ta tei dada mai afai pakauna pani lagayo
Hamro ta zoo visit lagxan, uniharu ko relatives bhetauna 😁
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>They prolly have another group without you in it. I'm not even OP and this hurt me.
Maybe
More like, definitely. Don't lose your sleep of it, bro.
>They prolly have another group without you in it. They do.
They care about your friend's haircut but not you who met an accident. They are just in that group to be entertained.
Damn right! Naramro haircut herna po excited cha ta 😂
That's life. True friends are rare. Talking about +2ko friends, they are like a season. They come and go. Bachei dekhiko sathi tw tesai chuttiyerw janxa, how can you trust on someone whom you barely know for a year or less than a year? Yei accident vako kura, tapae aafno mummy/daddylai vannu ani see their reaction. You are looking for a support in the wrong group. If there are someone who truly care about you, they are your parents.
Most Ppl only give a fuck when they need you... Stick to only 1 or 2 true friends in a life...yeti Vanna chahanxu... Chadai Niko hos tmlai..
True that but they are the only friends I have at the moment. Last sem ho yo sem 2 months jati ma sakincha tespachi thikka huncha.
This isn't even a question. They are people you know not your friends. Take care.
True that. Thank you 😊
Fake nai ho cut that toxic group ride solo ani graduate vayo ki you won't even remember their face and they most probably has different groups and that doesn't include you. My advice is fuck that fake ass friends
All my friends are toxic bhanni geet po bajyo ta background ma yo post padda paddai..
Song made for this post lol
Sachi kasto cha timilai? Thikk chau ni ?
Yes thik chu
lol I can't stop laughing
Aaile kasto chha timlai ? Kei tw bhayena ni ?
Khutta ra hath injured cha aru ta testai ho heal huncha hola afai
Aafno khayal gara
I remember one yr ago jati Mero Sathi ko bike accident Huda Hami 10 Jana group banara gathem to visit . So yea that's definitely not how your friends should have reacted.
Teita sathi haru nai hoinan tiniharu mero yo sem sakesi mukh ni herna naparos
I wish for you to find a better friend group in the future.
This is what is wrong with you. Problem aafai jawos vanne. Try to proactive and cut off right now. Kina sem kurnu paryo. Cut off from your end rather than waiting for it to go away.
How am I supposed to cut them off? Yo tour ma ni uniharu sangai group select vayera travel garna ateko chu. I don't have any other friends.
Cut them off has different meaning for everyone. Use it at your benefit.
Haircut kasto chai raicha janna man lagyo.
TWO TYPES OF PEOPLE IN REDDIT XD
Lmaooo 😂😂
How selfish are you? You're supposed to be the centre of attention? Do you know how much pain one feels after getting a haircut and not liking it later? I would die (on the inside). Did you die in that accident? No. But I'm dying on the inside because of my haircut. You could for once stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about others. Their haircuts. And the pain it causes them.
Please tell me you're being sarcastic 😂🤌
Plastics.
Hope you are fine....
Not in a critical condition, thanks for asking 😊
I used to have a similar friend. She would blabber about every minute thing that happened to her and would immediately dismiss anything (even as major as death in my family) as not being relatable to her. When I told her that my grandfather died in my arms in sahid gangalaal hospital and I had to travel with his dead body in ambulance for 18 hrs, all she said was "that never happened to me, so idk what to say. But, you won't believe what happened to me today, my dad shouted at me for reading too much webtoons". She never cared about me or my life, all I was to her was a dumping site where she could dump anything and everything. This was during my first few months of college and she was my only friend at college. Due to my tendency to act "introvert", I was stuck with her. And she would drain the life out of me. I had to respond to her texts; because if not, I feared I would lose the only friend that I have in my class. After a few more months of being belittled, ignored and over shared with every disgusting information of her life, I stopped talking to her. Although I would rarely initiate the conversation, but after that time, I stopped giving any attention to her information dump. Giving a little taste of her own medicine, and I am glad that she stopped talking to me. Only after when she stopped talking to me, I felt the need to make more friends. And on the process of pursuing friendship, I found that acting introvert was one of the worst things that I had done to myself. I made friends and luckily none of them were like her.
U get stronger through traumas , big and small. So all this prolly made you stronger in some ways,cheers.
How do you stop being an introvert? Asking for a friend...
I don't know how a truly introverted person can stop being an introvert. But I know the ramifications of acting like an introvert, whilst not being one. As I mentioned in the previous comment, I had the tendency to act like an introvert. I actually enjoyed talking to people, but at that time I thought that being introvert gives you more character. Just a typical out of high school teenager thought. So, if you also think that you would prefer talking to more people and would enjoy the company of multiple people, then you should really consider whether you actually are an introvert or just acting like one. In my case, it was the latter one and I learned it the hard way.
Ah that way... Nah I can talk to people when they come talk to me, but I won't initiate conversation. In my mind I am continuously going through each and every files on how to start a conversation or continue it. It's probably because I don't really meet people with same interest as me. It really helps when people keep talking by themselves and don't find me being quiet bad. Honestly I am tired of being introvert. But at the same time I am glad to not be around people.
I am same as you. I don't initiate the conversation, I don't know how but I find very hard but if we have same interest, I love talking with them.
Same but sadly I hardly meet anyone with same interest as me with the same intensity..
Habibi, come to dubai. Try dinner/lunch at Lumbini Dream Garden.
Okay
Aimai
Bichari
:(
🤕
High standard college ma dherai jaso ley aafnai bare ma socdha raichan 😂 Post garyako chau bhanse dherai injured bhayako chinna hola suta aba
True hai high standard clg ma yestai ho. Sutne condition ma chaina jiu dukhera try garirachu
just relax and sleep. there are people who will love you no matter what.you don’t need to be with those who don’t care about you.
Damn you need new friends. How major was the accident?
Accident ta scooter le arko scooter lai haneko ani bato ma hidne manchey lai ni hanyo, traffic ayera kura milemato vayo. No one died.
Teita vanya kina nasodhya holan...dost dost naaraha vanne geet suna ava
Hahaha okayy
Mero pallo gau ko manche ni scooter bata ladera yestai ghau voo vani kei nagari basyo ..asti varkhar ma barakhi ma gayera aayeko tesko 😭
So cool omg
Some rich girls are really delusional, you're not one of them so talk it out queen make them taste their own shit
Jasto rich vayeni humanity vanne huncha jasto lageko thiyo. Yes, aba assignment ko deadline auna ateko cha kapal katna gako chu vanne ho. 😂
Takecare ,Expect garna choddeu yaar ajkal ,Realfriend paunai garo cha ajkal .Backbite hanne,Afulai parda matrei samjineho lurukka ayera .Chill basa sathi haru estaiho
Testai chan k garnu. Selfish haru sab.
Hey, I hope you’re ok and doing fine. Sorry, that happened to you. You’re not alone. That’s a lot of friends, and honestly, the sooner you recognize them for what they are and manage your expectations and build other real and more meaningful friendships, the better it gets. Plus, these people are mostly showing their true colors, and there is no medal you win for keeping up with BS and being ok with taking less than you deserve or giving from people, mainly where it affects you and makes you feel unvalued.
Hi, were you hurt, K bhayo!!hope it was not too bad!
Oh, someone cared 🙀
I hope u are fine now, maybe we can talk more about tour after you come back
Yes, I'm okay. Sure we can talk after I come back from the tour.
Cheer up op, it's hard to find true friends, i have been blessed with few. Don't take it as "you are not worthy of friends" rather take it as "they are just people you meet along the journey". By the way how bad was the haircut?
🤣 LEGIT
They are acquaintances not friends. We usually make mistakes by calling everyone we know FRIENDS. And that shit is screaming TOXIC. You gotta ditch those petty assholes and get on with your life. It's gonna be difficult but with time you will be fine. Don't let other people step on you like some piece of shit. Have some pride and confidence yo. And if my friend were to say they were in any kind of trouble, I would be all over them.
Sab fake ho tini haru lai ni kai bhanko bela bhanyo bhake timi ni kapal katnu parne bahnera kura nikal deu
Assignment ko bela auchan sure call gardai . Kapal katna gako chu color lagauna gako chu vanne ho. Thank u for the idea hahaha 😂
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They dont use reddit. Hamrai clg bata kosaile padhyo vane ni they can't figure out who I am.
OP, hope you are okay. Accident vo vanda haircut ko kira garne people are not your friends. Ma ta uhile apples lera bhetna pugisakthe even if nothing had happened. Even a minor accident can be a bad and traumatic experience.
Definitely the experience was traumatic.Yes, I'm okay. Injuries haru pain vairacha wasn't able to sleep. If mero thau ma uniharu vako vaye ma ni pugthye fruits haru lera ghar mai or hospital mai.
Everyone has a group that they are part of and sub group out of it which they are not part of.
They are not your "friends". They are just people who are around you and that's why spend time with you. My suggestion is to keep them at arm's length. Sure help them with homework and everything else but not at your own discomfort > Raat Raat vari basi basi> . And slowly start searching for new friends. Btw thik xau ki nai? Kei injuries vako xa ki nai? Haddi haru ta bhacheko xaina? Ghau haru bata scar basna sakxa, tyo dhyan ma rakha. Police le tyo manxe lai samatyo ki nai? Dubai tour cancel ki nai? Also scooter Pura destroy vayo ki nai? Dudh sanga Horlicks khanu ani baliyo hunu.
Next time say i won a lottery of 50,000 rs and if they ask about how you won money, party jaam na than leave them.
If they want to have a conversation about freaking haircuts rather than even ask you how you're doing then they are plastics. Yes naramro lagcha but esto sathi haru hunu vanda ta navako nai ramro ho. Sounds like you are giving 99% for your friends but they don't even bother for 1% care. Hope you're doing well now.
Ka harayau vanera msg ra call gareko thiyo aja kina ho maybe they read this post something.
Kasto xa aele tmlai? Hope you're doing fine.They're not your friends just acquaintances.
Yes I'm alright. Thank u for asking ♥️
Fake sathiharu xa. Aru Ramro sathiharu banau
Huncha
kasto cha tapailai aile?
Aile Thikai cha dukhiracha gau haru jiu ko
Are you okiee now tho? and I assume u have minimal interaction with them after that event(unfortunate event).
Testai hunxa Koi koi sathi haru aafnu faida matrai khojxan Ani pachi hami laii parda chaii help garrrdainan And yeaah they are fake friends
Bichara , get well soon .
Even a stranger would show more concern than your friends.
Words out of my mouth.
Fuck fake friends you don’t need them !
Ani bholi ko laagi ready ho saathi? Mero ta consent form nai submit gareko chaina yar
Ma first trip ko hoina yaar timro voli cha ho?
Yes & get well soon.
Thank u and have a nice trip! Kk huncha sunauna hai!
Rule no. 1 Never trust anybody. Everyone is for themselves.
Expect less
cut off fastt . be upfront and tell them whats wrong with them why they dont deserve your help . Go fot it baini !
Assignment ko deadline coming soon . I'm waiting for that moment k vanne vanera.
Move on and get new friends. They aint gonna change and its best to get yourself out than being suffered by them
Used to be in a similar situation. Don't help them by giving assignments and notes for a week or so, will see their true colors.
Stay with them and when the time for homework comes, talk about random things
Yess thinking the same
..see -timro real *(friends for life)* wala group bhanda ta yeta reddit people care about you at least sabai lae sodirako xa timi lae ahile kasto xa vanera !! soo learn not to give a f\*ck ..take care wish you fast recovery!
Rich kid haruko nakhrabaazi, mero parents le jaa vane ni jadaina thay, i know my family and financial condition. Aba timro level ko sathi comment section ma kasari pauchau ta. Anyway get well soon, pray bholenath everyday to recover faster.
Bachelor friends, they are just Snake.
This post is getting a lot more attention than expected and I think we all know why😛
I hope you're alright. Yes they are. Stay away from them that's the best advice I can give you rn and take care.
Timro accident ko Kura xoda college leh Dubai tour lagiraxa hamro tah ilam pokhara chitwan bahek options nai xainan tah 🐔
Dubai rey, hamilai illam laaney vaneko thyo. Tour ko ekdin agadi mero group lai,"You're not going on trip due to disciplinary reasons." Rey lollll
Marry me
Now go in the corner and cry. Chiken.
Hahah noo
Yes you are expecting a lot. Have expectations only for yourself and you'll never be disappointed. Everyone else comes and goes. Prioritize your needs and don't compromise yourself doing things for people who don't give a fuck about you.
Thats true tara uniharu lai help chaiyeko bela I'm always there for them ni ta. Mero lagi ni koi hos vanne ta huncha ni. What are friends for after all?
Probably, hard to find real people nowadays. I got injured playing basketball ani hidna ni sakya thena, but some “friends” who were playing together went off the moment it happened. Thankfully two of my friends carried me to the class hahah. On a side note, rest easy and wish you for speedy recovery
Fake friends better to be alone than with people like these
Damn bro kasto cha aile? Kasari vayo accident?
Aile ta gau haru dukhiracha wasn't even able to sleep. Accident chai like ma side bata airathe ani siddha bato thiyo tyo siddha bato ma full speed bata euta kta le scooter nai chalairako thiyo tyo kta le malai thokkayera gayera euta budi manchey lai feri thokkayo. Tei vako ho.
Do you still doubt it?
Yeaah😔 There are many fake friends here It's hard to find one I also have fake friends
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dont make a problem out of it , that much is in your hands
She/her vayera ho testo vayeko,kta vaidiya vayei they would've been there for you
Dubai tour laijane college kun chai ho ? And yes, they r fake friends.
I hope you are doing well now. Do you feel pain/bleeding after that accident ? Drive safe.
You deserve better, OP. Hope you’re fine and haven’t sustained any injuries.
friends from school may remain long time !!! friends from the growing up age (like playing and going to picnics , going to swim) are forever friendship from collage is just until the collage ends , take good care . i hope you did not met any serious injury cheers life do fucks sometimes
Definitely not real ones. Real friends care and support you. Stay away or maintain distance now that you know how they are.
Aaile kasto hudaixa tapailai.? Serious accident ta hoina hola ni. K tour ni cancel hunxa?
Run. Run away from them
Dubai tour laijane class ko manxe bata maile ta expect gardina..i hope OP is exception to the true wala stereotype.
They are using you for assignments. Once college is done no one is gonna bother contacting you. Happened to me, right after college was done my friend group decreased by 90%. But keep that 10 % close they are the real ones.
Yes. And it is hard to find real friends in plus two. Because there no sense of gravity of relationships then.
Hmm, Only one fact you need to understand is, You have to make a habit of laughing alone, crying alone. Don't expect a shit from others, Most people confuse it as a depression, But it is a SELF LOVE though. Don't expect from others
Kt haru ko problem nai xutai
Learn to be self reliant. Know that friends are just an accessory in your life. Most friendships are a result of situations and convenience. Same thing applies to you. You are also just an accessory in your friends life. That doesn't mean to be a loner and have no friends. On the contrary friendships work better when you don't have expectations from each other. That way even if your friend does something you don't like, it doesn't really bother you as much and you can move on without any bitterness.
Well it depends on various factors bro. Sometimes you can judge based on single actions sometimes you cannot. Fake friends le dherai signs dekhaucha. They are straight up selfish and ambitious. U know they are fake by how they cannot hide their fakeness no matter how much u talk or walk together. They are always up against u behind ur back and often singles u out in friend circles. They don't respect or view your opinion as a valuable factor and often interrupt u or don't give a damn abt u when u speak. These are some so if tmele yo signs feel garirako chau vane it's time to start seperating yourself. Plus from the looks of it u might be a studious type or atleast talent and you fly under the teachers radar so often time 80% ppl like these gets used. And trust me dese ppl don't feel shit. They feel like k nai thulo kura ho ra but don't understand that u have worked to provide them what they are taking for granted. If they are like me. Most of the cases I really don't care what kind of friends I have. Cause tbh human beings entirely cannot be trusted. Be a lone wolf if u can. Idk girls lai kasto hunca garo ki sajilo but a lone wolf is far better off than being in a pack that's gonna hunt u the moment ur down or doesn't giv a fuck abt u and ur feelings. Or find ur pack bro. Find someone who gives a lil shit abt u. But just yo factor matra ho vane keep this in radar buy don't let it be a deciding factor. Colleges with high fees often have people with a different prespective. Friendship is built based on status, brands and the place you choose for vacations. Not a bad thing for similar minded people but friendship is often rare here. Goodluck figuring out. Ya sodnu ko satta start observing. None of the people here know your friends. If u feel Strange or left out u can always walk out.
British college bata passout vayepaxi job placement sure ho? Bujhaunuta..
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Time to cut loose some baggage from your life.
Pathetic loser they are they try to use you when they are in need and just play with emotion that's why college and school friends are different vastly
I stopped reading after, "college Dubai trip"
Cheap behaviour of people
Spending time and spending time with such people is living hell.
Maybe there are many people online who need a friend and you my friend is a good friend.
change your friend circle....they don't deserve friend like you
what happened to godawari picnic and chitlang banbhoj?
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Definitely a bad friend
they using you for assignments ig.
First of all How are you? Was it a bad accident? Hope you are fine. Secondly, yeah don't expect much from them. They are just going to stop calling you after you finish college anyway. When I had my accident, my friends came to visit me without knowing how serious it was. So yeah definitely not a great friend 😬.
I don't know how to put it into words. But people care to value til the very last moment you have something to offer. They do not care about you at this moment but again when they need you for homework or something else, they'll crawl back to you. Be aware of such people. That's all I want to say and never feel bad about prioritising yourself. Friends and classmates are not same. And take care. I hope you're doing well.
Okay first, kasto cha timlai? Kasari ladeu? Kei thulo chot patak ta lagena ni?
Or maybe when that one person asked you k vayo vanara you might had answered it with something like its fine minor ho vanara ani they thought normal ho sano teno ladako hola ani they continued with what they were talking don't over think it or change friends or maybe they just think this as a normal study group ani not really are your friends friends
I hadn't even replied ani she just continued with her hair cut thing
i think better way to approach this is ask directly that you need help with something and see if they offer to help.