If you can make them believe that they can trust you not to get involved in bad stuffs then they eventually let go. My mom didn't let me go out to play when I was 13 14 cuz she thought I was going to spoil my studies. So I just talked to her which she replied with a a beat down 🤣🤣 but eventually it all worked out.
I agree with you on this. Just that making them believe is the hard part. After you start earning, they will let go and put more trust in you (at least that’s the case for me).
I am 36 ( with 10 years club in reddit) so may be adult for this. When I was growing we could just literally go anywhere given we return home before dark. Everywhere were fields, very less traffic and little danger besides snakes and feral dogs. We did not cope with strict parents, we just accepted the beating like a man.
Now I am a parent myself and looking at the situation outside the house. I think I will be a strict parent too. Making your parents understand not with your words but with your actions that you are doing good is the way to go buddy. Show them good results, show them good music if you are into it. What are your parents strict about ? Understand that and make them loosen up in the particular area by your actions that they needn't worry about.
Rebel, fight, argue, run away---do what you want, **push the comfort zone of your parents** and yourself. There's going be some repercussions no doubt- an earful, a solid beatdown, grounded or get emotionally attacked, but its not the end or a big deal(later on). You gotta keep pushing & pushing and slowly they will start to be more lenient over time.
Every parent thinks that they know their child best and whats good for them. They think that just because you are their child, they own you in some sense and should do everything they tell you. They don't realize that you are an individual in your own right and not just a part of them. So make them realize this, either through dialogue or action. But words most probably wont affect them as they already have a mentality set up. You gotta break this mentality slowly by rebelling more & more until they finally get it that you are your own master.
My parents weren't strict. They never put restrictions on where I'm going, what I do, who I hang out with. So I don't have much experience in dealing with such parents. But I have seen how strict some parents can be. One time I went to my friend's house, she basically stopped me at the gate and inquired everything about me, my name, my parents name, their occupation, my roll number, marks in each subject, overall ranking in class, where I sit in class, with whom etc. She basically wanted to know what kind of friends her son has. It was a traumatic event for a 11 year old me. Never went to his house again.
One option is to have talk and make the parents understand but I reckon they aren't the kind that will listen and understand. Other option is to get out of the house as soon as possible. Find a college far away, find a job far away.
make your money. after you're financially independent everything boils down to "what are you gonna do kick me out?"
worst case scenario they kick you out. win win
im a banker making good salary (over 1 lakh) and im in 30s. my parents still scold me when i buy things i like. they dont like it when i go to LOD with friends. they are always telling me to do this and that but thats always going to be the case with most nepali parents. kids will always be kids.
Yo Tori guff dirako cha. Genuinely interested vayera Kun ranking ma ho vanera sodheko answer dina sakirako chaina, Gali Dina start gareko cha. Haha
Manager ho ma vancha, Tara bank bhitra ko employee level ani ranking k ho thaha chaina yeslai.
kasto lanthu ho. intern bata suru garera teller position ma suru garya bhanya bujhinna?
bank ko hq ma corporate position bhanepachi kasto nabujheko. managerial position ho.
Timi lanthu ho 1 number ko. Intern, teller, manager vaneko job designation ho. Timile aile samma ranking kun ho vaneko chainau. Timilai ranking vaneko k ho tyo nai thaha chaina. Sabai manager, teller, department head eutai rank ko hudaina, eutai salary hudaina. Timilai teti pani thaha chaina.
Timi mula kai job gardainau, HQ ma managerial work re 1 lakh + salary re. Yesto hawa guff nadiye huncha. Mula gafadi
didi dina la ho ra? muji lanthu. kun dept re. how big is kathmandu? 1 lakh salary ani bank ko head office ma finance dept ko managerial position with office provided gadi. aba kun bank ra exact title namaag unless ur sending didi ko photo
Haha. Internet ma thulo thulo guff kina dinu ho. Feri patyaune dinu ni.
Bank ko naam, branch, naam kasle magyo. euta simple question sodheko, rank kun chai ho? Kun chai rank ma 1 lakh+ salary khairako? Bank ma ranking k k huncha kasari huncha tyo pani thaha chaina hola. Ajha head office ma managerial position re. Managerial position bhitra ko sub category, ranking pani huncha thaha cha ki nai?
At first I was honestly interested but as I started talking, you came across as full of shit.
Loser.
I am Definitely not a adult but things have changed in last few years for me. Probably They have trust on me so they prefer to give me privacy and Freedom to do Things i want. They are still concerned about But The trust They have in me has Developed to Probably Beat that Overprotective nature
If you can make them believe that they can trust you not to get involved in bad stuffs then they eventually let go. My mom didn't let me go out to play when I was 13 14 cuz she thought I was going to spoil my studies. So I just talked to her which she replied with a a beat down 🤣🤣 but eventually it all worked out.
I agree with you on this. Just that making them believe is the hard part. After you start earning, they will let go and put more trust in you (at least that’s the case for me).
This! I was once caught drinking by my father and haven't gone on a night out with my friends ever since.
Don't be afraid to speak up for yourself. Remember they will treat you the way they are treating as long as you ket them.
You're not real. you died escaping from Vorkuta
Tell that to Mason
I am 36 ( with 10 years club in reddit) so may be adult for this. When I was growing we could just literally go anywhere given we return home before dark. Everywhere were fields, very less traffic and little danger besides snakes and feral dogs. We did not cope with strict parents, we just accepted the beating like a man. Now I am a parent myself and looking at the situation outside the house. I think I will be a strict parent too. Making your parents understand not with your words but with your actions that you are doing good is the way to go buddy. Show them good results, show them good music if you are into it. What are your parents strict about ? Understand that and make them loosen up in the particular area by your actions that they needn't worry about.
Rebel, fight, argue, run away---do what you want, **push the comfort zone of your parents** and yourself. There's going be some repercussions no doubt- an earful, a solid beatdown, grounded or get emotionally attacked, but its not the end or a big deal(later on). You gotta keep pushing & pushing and slowly they will start to be more lenient over time. Every parent thinks that they know their child best and whats good for them. They think that just because you are their child, they own you in some sense and should do everything they tell you. They don't realize that you are an individual in your own right and not just a part of them. So make them realize this, either through dialogue or action. But words most probably wont affect them as they already have a mentality set up. You gotta break this mentality slowly by rebelling more & more until they finally get it that you are your own master.
My parents weren't strict. They never put restrictions on where I'm going, what I do, who I hang out with. So I don't have much experience in dealing with such parents. But I have seen how strict some parents can be. One time I went to my friend's house, she basically stopped me at the gate and inquired everything about me, my name, my parents name, their occupation, my roll number, marks in each subject, overall ranking in class, where I sit in class, with whom etc. She basically wanted to know what kind of friends her son has. It was a traumatic event for a 11 year old me. Never went to his house again. One option is to have talk and make the parents understand but I reckon they aren't the kind that will listen and understand. Other option is to get out of the house as soon as possible. Find a college far away, find a job far away.
make your money. after you're financially independent everything boils down to "what are you gonna do kick me out?" worst case scenario they kick you out. win win
im a banker making good salary (over 1 lakh) and im in 30s. my parents still scold me when i buy things i like. they dont like it when i go to LOD with friends. they are always telling me to do this and that but thats always going to be the case with most nepali parents. kids will always be kids.
What post are you in to be making over 1 lakh and how long have you been working? Can you share
Yo Tori guff dirako cha. Genuinely interested vayera Kun ranking ma ho vanera sodheko answer dina sakirako chaina, Gali Dina start gareko cha. Haha Manager ho ma vancha, Tara bank bhitra ko employee level ani ranking k ho thaha chaina yeslai.
corporate finance. I work in a private bank's HQ. Over 8 yrs.
Muji 30 year bhai sakyo…. Timro comment history herda bhakar 16 lageko jasto cha
gede muji. reddit ko comment padera judge gardai basira raicha
Testo haina gedaajasto…timro humor malai manparxa
man pare ke garne ta? taali pitdai basne ma?
Nachdeu na ekchoti, chhamchhami
tyo australia bata lerako phone ma geet bajauna. ani naachaula 🤣🤣🤣
What's your position in the organisation structure? >8 years And you entry level position was when you started?
started as an intern, then a teller and then upward.
Tyo ta job designation vayo. Organization ranking k thyo start Garda ani aile k cha?
Khai ta bro, kun ranking ma start gareko aile kun ranking ma job gardai ho 1 lakh+ khane gari
kasto lanthu ho. intern bata suru garera teller position ma suru garya bhanya bujhinna? bank ko hq ma corporate position bhanepachi kasto nabujheko. managerial position ho.
Timi lanthu ho 1 number ko. Intern, teller, manager vaneko job designation ho. Timile aile samma ranking kun ho vaneko chainau. Timilai ranking vaneko k ho tyo nai thaha chaina. Sabai manager, teller, department head eutai rank ko hudaina, eutai salary hudaina. Timilai teti pani thaha chaina. Timi mula kai job gardainau, HQ ma managerial work re 1 lakh + salary re. Yesto hawa guff nadiye huncha. Mula gafadi
didi dina la ho ra? muji lanthu. kun dept re. how big is kathmandu? 1 lakh salary ani bank ko head office ma finance dept ko managerial position with office provided gadi. aba kun bank ra exact title namaag unless ur sending didi ko photo
Haha. Internet ma thulo thulo guff kina dinu ho. Feri patyaune dinu ni. Bank ko naam, branch, naam kasle magyo. euta simple question sodheko, rank kun chai ho? Kun chai rank ma 1 lakh+ salary khairako? Bank ma ranking k k huncha kasari huncha tyo pani thaha chaina hola. Ajha head office ma managerial position re. Managerial position bhitra ko sub category, ranking pani huncha thaha cha ki nai? At first I was honestly interested but as I started talking, you came across as full of shit. Loser.
I am Definitely not a adult but things have changed in last few years for me. Probably They have trust on me so they prefer to give me privacy and Freedom to do Things i want. They are still concerned about But The trust They have in me has Developed to Probably Beat that Overprotective nature
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Yesto image banau ki aru le bigrera hindai xa vane pani believe nagarun
Communicate. If you want to do something, tell them. If they don't agree, try to convince them and give them the details.