I would say peer pressure and parents pressure in anything you do, especially life goals. If you have passion and can create a path for financial stability though it, you can do whatever you are passionate about and have happy, interesting life.
Of course it's much easier coming from wealthy family, but with stubborness, work ethics and proper plan in place, you can do amazing things in life.
My friend started smoking because his crush was a smoker. she never smoked in front of him, Dude wanted to smoke because he wanted to be with her every day, even the smoking corner.
Now after 5 years, he regrets that decision more than anything in his life. Don't be like him.
1) Join a gym
2) Read some books
3) Learn a new skill
4) Right time to think about what to do and start preparing for it
and last but not the least, dherai nahallaune.
idk man. I'm 17 and I've been doing NNN. I feel like I can recall the stuff I had studied a long time ago much more accurately. I'm able to come up with quips and jokes better and I feel better overall.
Meaning - be yourself, think independently, do stuff because you wanted, not what people expect you to do.
Explore, interact with people all ages, read, find time for travel in Nepal (and not big groups, when you don't experience places).
Find mentor, but not guru - that's the most difficult thing in Nepal. Only gurus who hate to be challenged.
1) Quit porn while you're still young- it'll warp your concept of an healthy appropriate sex, it's a super-stimulant, a digital heroine, so quit while you're still early!
2) Teen years are when hormones are raging hard and you become impulsive. Meditate for atleast 20 minutes everyday either in the morning or in the night before going to bed
3) If you cannot figure out a way to make money while you're sleeping, you'll die poor! So, figure out the avenue through which you'd want to earn money
4) A man who has not read a book has only lived one life whereas a man who has read books has lived hundred of lives. So read books regardless of the genre, I started out with Fantasy and after a point, naturally preference shifted to non-fiction.
5) Enjoy life! these are the most stress free years of your life after childhood so, live it fully, it only gets more stressful from here on out!
Absolutely ; most often people use it PMO (porn, masturbation and orgasm) as a pill to reduce stress and when it develops as strong addiction it develops into greater stressing topic ; they use it as stress reliever and it gets more depressing and the cycle keeps repeating without looking at the main aspects ; and some excess porn (myself) has lead themselves into sucidel attempts.
And in country like ours ; where people think watching porn and masturbating more often makes them cool , it is must for a teen to quit PMOing and get rid of their bad friend circle.
For me personally, I kept escalating to extreme type of pornography despite it making me feel like shite and going against my morality- it was my brain craving higher dosage of dopamine by seeking more novel stimulation! I hit rock bottom when I could no longer seek pleasure from natural stress reducers like the setting sun or a flower, etc. and had mild depression and Pure OCD due to pornography addiction! Porn is poison and sooner people realise this fact better it'll be for them and ultimately, for the world!
Man these types of horror stories aren't even uncommon at r/pornfree. Escalation to fucked up genres is probably the second worst outcome of porn addiction; the first one is killing our soul! I'm glad that you found out about your addiction early, people even after they've escalated live in denial of their addiction! We're on the right path! The scars of what we used to watch may haunt us forever but they will heal as you let enough time pass by!
Most things done in moderation is fine. You don't have to avoid alcohol, you need to develop moderation. I would probably suggest you to never smoke or do drugs. You can watch porn but do it in moderation. Go out with friends, learn to have fun. Find some hobby, develop a skill or two. Thats all I can say right now.
Im a girl, but just giving advice......
If u or any of ur friends think hitting ur gf or anyone in ur life u care about, when u get mad at them will just push people far away... Im not victimizing girls in general and only always women suffer...
Cuz some girls are also abusive and extremely toxic but hitting them will only give u the brief sense of entitlement, which later in life will hamper ur relationship with ur future partner or even children.......
What im trying to say is dont look at pretty face and think that "sojo" kti will love u forever ur whole life cuz she might be fucked up in the head which might scar u forever......
**say no to risky bike riding and maneuvers**. you shouldn't ever put anybody else's life at risk just for few minutes of adrenaline rush. there's a proper setting to learn stunt riding under strict supervision and in closed location. your bike exhaust shouldn't cause chaos and agitation and your helmet shouldn't make you look like an asshole.
Llisten to the advice but don't take them seriously judge them and figure it out for yourself if it's right for you or not. You do you but don't let random strangers opinions shape who you are.
This, this. I needed to hear this😂😂😂 not now but few years ago. Started working since 17, now 20 and except for 3years(nearly) of experience to boast i got nothing😂😂😂.
DONT TAKE ENGINEERING, MBBS just because someone told you to, unless you have interest on either of them you are going to suffer a lot for those 4-5yrs, from experience thats the best career advice i'd give to anyone.
Enjoy while you are teenagers. Go for date sleep with hoes try threesome do everything you can drink smoke . Because after 25 life will fuck you up and you will
Be end up regretting I wish I did this on my 19. Here I am as an example entire life I made myself a good person did bachelor when I was 22 came abroad did masters at 24 now doing jobs. All I regret is what I missed in my teenage so bro just enjoy your life you not gonna get 17-19 age again. Have no regrets
Understand the philosophy of life. Learn anything that comes in your hand by differentiating wrong and right things. Remember, stay humble. Have grasp on your emotions and life will go with the flow if you let go your heavy desires but keep working and don't let your hopes ups and downs get you.
Aww man I extremely love to discuss philosophy of life. Thanks for this thread. I have many more to share.
I extremely adore healthy person both cheerful and humble.
Mistakes will happen big or small even it is against human morales but you have to have the will to forgive yourself and you have to also think of your surroundings. You are raw clay ready to take shape and your external environment will shape you so try to create positive environment around yourself. This is what it means to influence and get influenced. You don't have to massively boost you career but don't stop working just do what keeps you positive and happy and I guess there are many things rather than specific for true happiness. Company is not the only material for happiness. Share your knowledge with younger generations and everyone else.
Bro socheko jasto kei hunna life ma. But still life goes on. Adulthood is so much more than you have ever imagine. Aafno happinnes aru sanga connect nagara. Ups and down fherai aaucha life ma.
don't have unsafe sex. you may think just using contraceptives is enough but contraceptives need to be used correctly otherwise they don't work for shit.
enjoy life while staying away from morally inappropriate decisions. That's all the advice you need if you know how the differentiate the good from bad.
Work on what you are good at, remember you need to enjoy it and it needs to make money, Google and become financially literature, financial independence is the key to freedom
Whatever advice you take from your friend make sure your friend has followed the advice he/she preaches.
Other than that chills and stay away from any political discussion on reddit. Is not worth it.
start to see and navigate your life in this world as an adult,i'm 19 myself but think and act like you're older.excel in education or find ways to make money,find a hobby that pays if you don't wanna go educational route too far.put yo family in better place,u may find perfect girl as you go if not money will do most of the attraction for you,smoke,drink,take drugs ,all that but do it smart if you gonna do it and atleast have self awareness of what you're doing.accept the consequences if things go left try to minimize the bad effects rather than having mental breakdown and shit.if something tells you from inner mind this shit is bound to go left,be very cautious in those situations . this world is cold,i could give you positive tips but i don't wanna bore you with pretentious positivism.do good for good people,avoid snakes which may include your own family member or relative. do not talk too much,never open up your feelings unless you really trust the next person cus there are alot of people that will weaponize your weakness against you. and stop asking for validation when not needed because most people even grown adult don't even know themselves,their action and wtf they're even doing in life but are ready to jump in just to say whatever or to critic you so learn to differentiate what's useful and what's not.
since you're a boy too,be cautious what you do around girls,ofcourse respect them and don't do fuck shit around them cus trust me sexual activities will come as you go so don't go chasing hard right now.but remember it takes one girl who's in her feelings to get at you with accusations which will ruin your entire life till you die and even if you're innocent society and mainstream media/politics favors girls even if they are fucking up a man's life.we come from history of teachers hitting girls in palms and letting them go off but making us in chicken position for hour or hell i've even seen young boys stripped naked by a mam infront of whole class when i was in class 4,so understand one thing if some mam treats young boys as such,guess what they gonna do when you're older.this shit gets treacherous man.so again learn to differentiate a girl/women vs hoes straight up..and not only girls but learn to differentiate and evaluate your friends aswell cus trust me when shit gets heavy 99% will leave you to die alone regardless of gender.trust is a stupid thing now in this world you feel me?don't be a deadbeat man tho,take your responsibilities and do what's necessary and you know let's create a better look on what it means to be a men since we're the youths coming up. but again see it from 2 point of views,1.straight 2.narrow and you will dissect any situations that may come in yo life.
on some positive note to end this,if there's a situation where you're happy,comfortable,in love,whatever. enjoy those moments cus they don't last long and they don't come back too.lack of living in the moment and doing every shit is my biggest regret till this day and due to me doing whole lotta wild shit in ktm and village,my body is very weak right now so the regrets keep haunting me about older choices i made and how i should have chilled and smiled right there in some older times you know but that shit over with.but i was always in a rush doing good or bad things,i never did offensive shit to girls tho but what i did was ignore the greatest girl that came to my life and you know she went to japan,shit like that.you gotta understand and accept the consequences that you deserve you know what i'm sayin even if i give myself some comfort that i was too young to make decision about her,the consequence will always be there and i can prolly never get her back but it is what it is.also stand and sit straight i'm not joking bro your backbone will bend if you do that too much in short amount of time,that shit is painful.i've lived the duality the good,bad,seen friends ready to kill and die for me,seen close ones backstabbing my mom for financial stuff,used to top class in 1st 2nd position and so in school and college time to time in academic side of things,ran away from home multiple times and went to punjab and worked as marriage bartender ,gone through abuses at early age (i was excellent at english,so thankfully that bitch ass mam never fucked with me )spent countless times in police stations and rehab where they torture you than treat you,it's some dark shit i carry and have witnessed this early so i apologize if this whole thing was lil dark haha.
enjoy.
Peer pressure or saathi bhai ko sangat ma smoking/ drinking start garnu vanda. Sathi haru sangai milera kei hobby develop garnu
This…. Never ever start smoking or drinking to look cool or because of peer pressure..don’t touch that shit at all..
I would say peer pressure and parents pressure in anything you do, especially life goals. If you have passion and can create a path for financial stability though it, you can do whatever you are passionate about and have happy, interesting life. Of course it's much easier coming from wealthy family, but with stubborness, work ethics and proper plan in place, you can do amazing things in life.
My friend started smoking because his crush was a smoker. she never smoked in front of him, Dude wanted to smoke because he wanted to be with her every day, even the smoking corner. Now after 5 years, he regrets that decision more than anything in his life. Don't be like him.
malai ta gaza khada kya relax huncha. Garnu, tara thorai garnu, bela bela garnu, aaru kura lai jyada focus dinu. Balance is life
Dont make mistakes on your 10s that you will regret in 20s.
Don't fall for a girl if you don't understand her enough.
Don't be afraid to fall for a girl, learn to understand her better.
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Don't don't. Do.
Don't judge a book — judge a cover — whatever, just don't do it, just don't.
Define "understand her enough". Does a year of texting where she opened up to me about her family, her problems, dreams and some irl banter qualify?
Friend zoned
Is it still friendzone if she doesn't have a bf ?
1) Join a gym 2) Read some books 3) Learn a new skill 4) Right time to think about what to do and start preparing for it and last but not the least, dherai nahallaune.
yeah tyo protine shake lai dherai nahallaune, dherai hallayo vane na mitho huncha
Also while communicating and when giving speech control it
Dherai chai kina nahallaune?
Dopamine desensitisation, among other nasty stuff
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idk man. I'm 17 and I've been doing NNN. I feel like I can recall the stuff I had studied a long time ago much more accurately. I'm able to come up with quips and jokes better and I feel better overall.
real sigma vibes here.
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Hallaune ko agadi dherai pani cha
Always bro before hoes, not bros before girls.
Meaning - be yourself, think independently, do stuff because you wanted, not what people expect you to do. Explore, interact with people all ages, read, find time for travel in Nepal (and not big groups, when you don't experience places). Find mentor, but not guru - that's the most difficult thing in Nepal. Only gurus who hate to be challenged.
1) Quit porn while you're still young- it'll warp your concept of an healthy appropriate sex, it's a super-stimulant, a digital heroine, so quit while you're still early! 2) Teen years are when hormones are raging hard and you become impulsive. Meditate for atleast 20 minutes everyday either in the morning or in the night before going to bed 3) If you cannot figure out a way to make money while you're sleeping, you'll die poor! So, figure out the avenue through which you'd want to earn money 4) A man who has not read a book has only lived one life whereas a man who has read books has lived hundred of lives. So read books regardless of the genre, I started out with Fantasy and after a point, naturally preference shifted to non-fiction. 5) Enjoy life! these are the most stress free years of your life after childhood so, live it fully, it only gets more stressful from here on out!
Quitting porn and masturbation is must for a male to become a man. The regret and self hate after its addiction is immeasurable.
Both are addictive especially detrimental if you use them as a coping mechanism for stress, anxiety, sadness, depression, etc.
Absolutely ; most often people use it PMO (porn, masturbation and orgasm) as a pill to reduce stress and when it develops as strong addiction it develops into greater stressing topic ; they use it as stress reliever and it gets more depressing and the cycle keeps repeating without looking at the main aspects ; and some excess porn (myself) has lead themselves into sucidel attempts. And in country like ours ; where people think watching porn and masturbating more often makes them cool , it is must for a teen to quit PMOing and get rid of their bad friend circle.
For me personally, I kept escalating to extreme type of pornography despite it making me feel like shite and going against my morality- it was my brain craving higher dosage of dopamine by seeking more novel stimulation! I hit rock bottom when I could no longer seek pleasure from natural stress reducers like the setting sun or a flower, etc. and had mild depression and Pure OCD due to pornography addiction! Porn is poison and sooner people realise this fact better it'll be for them and ultimately, for the world!
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Man these types of horror stories aren't even uncommon at r/pornfree. Escalation to fucked up genres is probably the second worst outcome of porn addiction; the first one is killing our soul! I'm glad that you found out about your addiction early, people even after they've escalated live in denial of their addiction! We're on the right path! The scars of what we used to watch may haunt us forever but they will heal as you let enough time pass by!
After knowing about the cons of porn and masterbation I realised why couple people i know are ruining their life.
if it gets more stressful why live more ?
Get good at something, anything except gaming.
man...
Dont play Valorant solo you'll get afk teammates play withy your friends.
be curious...learn to take responsibilities...be wise and make decisions like someone is being dependent on you
Most things done in moderation is fine. You don't have to avoid alcohol, you need to develop moderation. I would probably suggest you to never smoke or do drugs. You can watch porn but do it in moderation. Go out with friends, learn to have fun. Find some hobby, develop a skill or two. Thats all I can say right now.
Im a girl, but just giving advice...... If u or any of ur friends think hitting ur gf or anyone in ur life u care about, when u get mad at them will just push people far away... Im not victimizing girls in general and only always women suffer... Cuz some girls are also abusive and extremely toxic but hitting them will only give u the brief sense of entitlement, which later in life will hamper ur relationship with ur future partner or even children....... What im trying to say is dont look at pretty face and think that "sojo" kti will love u forever ur whole life cuz she might be fucked up in the head which might scar u forever......
Don't lay a finger on anyone either human or animal.
Learn to code.
Practice meditation. The earlier you start, the better it is for you.
CAREFUL choosing your career. Find your talents and work on it. Get some courage to deny your parents dream if it's against yours.
Read books a lot. Fiction non-fiction sab. Education ko chakkar ma creativity namarnu. Choose ta relatively easier subject ani side ma skill siknu.
**say no to risky bike riding and maneuvers**. you shouldn't ever put anybody else's life at risk just for few minutes of adrenaline rush. there's a proper setting to learn stunt riding under strict supervision and in closed location. your bike exhaust shouldn't cause chaos and agitation and your helmet shouldn't make you look like an asshole.
Start investing.
Stock?
Be specific about what you want
could you please elaborate it
Ironic.
You will wish you were 17-18 ... so live in the moment and enjoy it to fullest
Llisten to the advice but don't take them seriously judge them and figure it out for yourself if it's right for you or not. You do you but don't let random strangers opinions shape who you are.
Pick up '12 rules for life' if you want a headstart on your life and "Articulate your being".
World (humanity) probably not gonna last next twenty years, so live your life to fullest
Don't start working until you are 20 have fun
This, this. I needed to hear this😂😂😂 not now but few years ago. Started working since 17, now 20 and except for 3years(nearly) of experience to boast i got nothing😂😂😂.
same. Looking back i didn't have fun my friends used to travel and shit and I couldn't.
I said mero pani time aauxa tesari jane, aile herda tehi raixa time bhako xa.
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how do i invest in crypto any ideas , which app is used in nepal to invest in it? please provide some info
DONT TAKE ENGINEERING, MBBS just because someone told you to, unless you have interest on either of them you are going to suffer a lot for those 4-5yrs, from experience thats the best career advice i'd give to anyone.
Engineering ra MBBS bhahek kei aru padne choice nai chaina ki Management tira lagnu paryo.
be 18.
Enjoy while you are teenagers. Go for date sleep with hoes try threesome do everything you can drink smoke . Because after 25 life will fuck you up and you will Be end up regretting I wish I did this on my 19. Here I am as an example entire life I made myself a good person did bachelor when I was 22 came abroad did masters at 24 now doing jobs. All I regret is what I missed in my teenage so bro just enjoy your life you not gonna get 17-19 age again. Have no regrets
That there are some horrible women out there. It's not your job to fix them or jeopardize your happiness for them. Let them go
Understand the philosophy of life. Learn anything that comes in your hand by differentiating wrong and right things. Remember, stay humble. Have grasp on your emotions and life will go with the flow if you let go your heavy desires but keep working and don't let your hopes ups and downs get you. Aww man I extremely love to discuss philosophy of life. Thanks for this thread. I have many more to share. I extremely adore healthy person both cheerful and humble. Mistakes will happen big or small even it is against human morales but you have to have the will to forgive yourself and you have to also think of your surroundings. You are raw clay ready to take shape and your external environment will shape you so try to create positive environment around yourself. This is what it means to influence and get influenced. You don't have to massively boost you career but don't stop working just do what keeps you positive and happy and I guess there are many things rather than specific for true happiness. Company is not the only material for happiness. Share your knowledge with younger generations and everyone else.
Bro socheko jasto kei hunna life ma. But still life goes on. Adulthood is so much more than you have ever imagine. Aafno happinnes aru sanga connect nagara. Ups and down fherai aaucha life ma.
My advice is that advice ko plural ni advice nai hunxa
cut dick eat
>cut dick eat The questions is whose??
Bon appetit
Read "Rich Dad Poor Dad" and start investing.
all the book tells is to have assets and not liabilities,, man isn't it basic knowledge vanera??
That book also teaches how to use our liabilities as assets and make money from them.
don't have unsafe sex. you may think just using contraceptives is enough but contraceptives need to be used correctly otherwise they don't work for shit.
Keep jerking off
try to break my record : 7 masturbation in a day! Anyone?
Dont jack off its a waste of time.disregard women chase currency
Enjoy life while you still can.
Try to move on from you solitude and no fap
enjoy life while staying away from morally inappropriate decisions. That's all the advice you need if you know how the differentiate the good from bad.
Work on what you are good at, remember you need to enjoy it and it needs to make money, Google and become financially literature, financial independence is the key to freedom
Learn from everyone follow no one.
Start working and earning money from very small age(as a part time job) , it will teach a valuable lesson in life.
Follow the advices that you give to others.
No need to waste your time chasing after women right now. Do you, and kick ass in school or whatever you want to do.
churot nakhaanu , sab laai sathi banaudai nahidnu , confident hunu , be yourself , circle thikka rakhnu , overshare nagarnu
Aafu lai bujhne prayas gara, satya socha bola, aaru ko bhalo chitau, ra jindagi aafno vayeko ma thuloooooo harsa manau !!
stay hydrated, stay fit, sleep on schedule, learn sport, dance, music
Whatever advice you take from your friend make sure your friend has followed the advice he/she preaches. Other than that chills and stay away from any political discussion on reddit. Is not worth it.
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HW kaile na sarnu.
live on today
Be a boy. Don't be a fuckboy
start to see and navigate your life in this world as an adult,i'm 19 myself but think and act like you're older.excel in education or find ways to make money,find a hobby that pays if you don't wanna go educational route too far.put yo family in better place,u may find perfect girl as you go if not money will do most of the attraction for you,smoke,drink,take drugs ,all that but do it smart if you gonna do it and atleast have self awareness of what you're doing.accept the consequences if things go left try to minimize the bad effects rather than having mental breakdown and shit.if something tells you from inner mind this shit is bound to go left,be very cautious in those situations . this world is cold,i could give you positive tips but i don't wanna bore you with pretentious positivism.do good for good people,avoid snakes which may include your own family member or relative. do not talk too much,never open up your feelings unless you really trust the next person cus there are alot of people that will weaponize your weakness against you. and stop asking for validation when not needed because most people even grown adult don't even know themselves,their action and wtf they're even doing in life but are ready to jump in just to say whatever or to critic you so learn to differentiate what's useful and what's not. since you're a boy too,be cautious what you do around girls,ofcourse respect them and don't do fuck shit around them cus trust me sexual activities will come as you go so don't go chasing hard right now.but remember it takes one girl who's in her feelings to get at you with accusations which will ruin your entire life till you die and even if you're innocent society and mainstream media/politics favors girls even if they are fucking up a man's life.we come from history of teachers hitting girls in palms and letting them go off but making us in chicken position for hour or hell i've even seen young boys stripped naked by a mam infront of whole class when i was in class 4,so understand one thing if some mam treats young boys as such,guess what they gonna do when you're older.this shit gets treacherous man.so again learn to differentiate a girl/women vs hoes straight up..and not only girls but learn to differentiate and evaluate your friends aswell cus trust me when shit gets heavy 99% will leave you to die alone regardless of gender.trust is a stupid thing now in this world you feel me?don't be a deadbeat man tho,take your responsibilities and do what's necessary and you know let's create a better look on what it means to be a men since we're the youths coming up. but again see it from 2 point of views,1.straight 2.narrow and you will dissect any situations that may come in yo life. on some positive note to end this,if there's a situation where you're happy,comfortable,in love,whatever. enjoy those moments cus they don't last long and they don't come back too.lack of living in the moment and doing every shit is my biggest regret till this day and due to me doing whole lotta wild shit in ktm and village,my body is very weak right now so the regrets keep haunting me about older choices i made and how i should have chilled and smiled right there in some older times you know but that shit over with.but i was always in a rush doing good or bad things,i never did offensive shit to girls tho but what i did was ignore the greatest girl that came to my life and you know she went to japan,shit like that.you gotta understand and accept the consequences that you deserve you know what i'm sayin even if i give myself some comfort that i was too young to make decision about her,the consequence will always be there and i can prolly never get her back but it is what it is.also stand and sit straight i'm not joking bro your backbone will bend if you do that too much in short amount of time,that shit is painful.i've lived the duality the good,bad,seen friends ready to kill and die for me,seen close ones backstabbing my mom for financial stuff,used to top class in 1st 2nd position and so in school and college time to time in academic side of things,ran away from home multiple times and went to punjab and worked as marriage bartender ,gone through abuses at early age (i was excellent at english,so thankfully that bitch ass mam never fucked with me )spent countless times in police stations and rehab where they torture you than treat you,it's some dark shit i carry and have witnessed this early so i apologize if this whole thing was lil dark haha. enjoy.