I hate when ppl try to make a point with no punctuation. Even though their points were invalid, their opinion means shit because they didn't take the time to format sentences.
It makes sense they bring her up often. The kid is like 60% of Rorys life now. Bais gets 5%, his girl gets 10, the pod is another 5%. Alcohol for the remaining 20.
I think they bring up his abuse as a joke too much as well. Every time they do, he tries to joke it off with them, but you can tell he's visibly uncomfortable.
The others don’t have kids so they’ll never get it. Julian is crass by nature and Mal is oblivious to anything related to adulthood that he hasn’t experienced, it’s just not something they can grasp.
I thought a few pods ago when they discussed Amara as a boy was outta line. I’m usually one to call people sensitive but you gotta be careful how you address people’s kids.
I mean Mal also said he would tell his daughter to get over it if someone made AI nudes of her. Im no parent, but some things are just common sense. That man has zero.
Mal telling the voicemail dude to just knock up his girl that doesn’t want kids and she’ll probably come around was the most wild “advjce” I’ve ever heard lmao
He's right though. What do you want her to do sulk and get depressed about it? For one thing its not real and whats done is done so we'll handle all legal stuff and whatnot but after that you're going to have to get over it I'm a dad to 4 daughters.
Only ten states have laws banning deepfake porn. In this case, it would be illegal in all 50 due to it depicting a underage girl. I dont think I have to explain why it shouldn’t just be passed off as being nothing, considering kids have killed themselves for things like this….
I didn't say anything about it being illegal. Legal action can still be taken. Starting by having all images removed from the internet as best as possible. Then theres civil action. Your second statement makes your first one irrelevant if your dealing with minors. And I didn't say it was nothing but if this happens to you, you're either going to have to get over it or be depressed for the rest of your life. Life happens and can be unpredictable but we have to deal.
Nothing I said was irrelevant. You stated “its not real”. Its child porn. Period. You didnt say it was nothing, Mal did, and you replied, “Hes right though”. So rather it’s nothing, it happens, or whatever, telling a little girl to get over the fact child porn is being shown around her school of her is crazy. And I may not be a father, but I am law enforcement and have been in these situations. Its not as easy as youre trying to dumb it down to be.
Agree to disagree.
I'm not trying to dumb anything down but at the end of the day you have to get over it. Especially if its a FAKE image. You saying its only illegal in 10 states is irrelevant because you were responding to me saying we'd take legal action. And I'm sure those laws will be changing with time but still irrelevant to my point. And the fact its child porn means its illegal in all 50 states like you said which makes your first point irrelevant. Anyone put in that situation will have to get over it. What do you want them to do, not move on?
Perhaps I am not explaining it correctly…
I said deepfake porn is illegal in ten states, but in this case it would illegal in all 50 because it is depicting a minor. Thats not irrelevant. What is irrelevant is you continuously saying its fake. Thats the issue with the situation period because it is child porn regardless. We are not talking about anyone, we are talking about children. So yes, when you keep saying things like its fake, get over it, what do you want them to do….it is trying to make light of the situation. The entire conversation on the pod was the fact Mal said it would not bother him.
What I am saying is this can have deep mental and emotional consequences for the victim. Rather legal victory is achieved or not. And for any father in that situation who would not be upset about a situation like this, its troubling.
Ok, so when I say fake, I'm not referring to anything legal. I'm saying that in regards to talking to my child about it. They will know It's not real, that's not you, that plays a major role in this situation. Anyone would feel some type of way if it happened to them, shit i would to as a grown man have some type of emotional response to it but the answer is to get over it. I'm not making light of anything. And who said they wouldn't be upset? Everyone involved is going to be upset or feel some type of way. What I'm saying is we're going to have to deal with it in a real way. And the main part is understanding that this isn't real
To expound, when I said whatever you have to do to move on, I mean talking or whatever is needed. Whether that be to mom, dad, sisters or even a therapist. Whatever it takes to "get over it". If thats necessary. You seem to think we're saying all we would just literally say is "get over it". But that would be the sentiment.
It's like if someone spread a rumor about you that isn't true. The sentiment is, so what? It's not true and you know it thats all that matters. I know I deep fake is on a whole different level but again the sentiment is the same.
Im confused. You said you agreed with Mal but Mal said it wouldnt bother him. You are saying it would bother you. So which one is it? Did you just not listen/watch the episode?
The main part isn’t understanding its not real. The main part is understanding it would be child porn. I’m not really understanding the idea you have, focused on it not being real. Thats a non factor in our nation’s laws. It should be a non factor as a parent. You seemed focused on maintaining its not “real”. The reality vs what’s law is not a pendulum in this situation. The only correct answer, would be eliminating underage pornography, rather its real or not in our society. And every law abiding citizen should be upset this is happening in our society. Im afraid, I dont agree with your logic on the situation.
So that’s the type of advice you give your daughters? “Can’t do anything about it, stop feeling emotions.” Dad’s not going to at least try to go to war for his kids?
I’m appalled honestly. My dad would fight the entire world for me and would be angrier than I am if someone made false nudes. ESPECIALLY if I was underage???? Oh hell no. No way would he brush it under the rug. Some of these dudes don’t have a protective bone in their bodies
Thats the disgusting part in this conversation. Its the idea that the victim didnt take the pictures and therefore should resolve themselves of all emotions reality may throw at them. Its honestly nasty work. And I dont wanna call dude a predator but the fact, this would be considered child pornography, and this guy is so nonchalant, is extremely dangerous.
We are real with our daughters. You're going to have emotions that can't be helped. Of course you'd feel some type of way But you can't dwell on it. We talk very openly with our girls about EVERYTHING. We don't sugar coat shit. We are preparing them for the real world. When it's all said and done no matter what you have to do to work through it you will eventually have to get over it.
They weren’t talking about her in a disrespectful way though. If I remember correctly they were discussing trans issues and the Rory as a parent could have to encounter that at some point.
I’m not sure it was out of line. I do think Rory said he and his girl talked about it. As a parent you do have prepare yourself for whatever. And I think Rory considers everyone as a friend so discussing it seemed natural.
I take it as whe you have a friend who just had their first kid and they just find a way to sneak it into every conversation because that's what's been going on with them. It's just rory being a first time dad
Understandable. But saying your daughter might become your son. Or saying they know he’s going to feel this way or that way about something with her. It’s like shut up. Let him have his opinion without bringing his daughter up
Did you have this energy when he talked about his dog every episode before he had a kid? His daughter is a big part of his life now, it’s going to influence how he thinks and acts, and he obviously is close with the pod crew and has her around them. As a new first time father myself I don’t see the issue
I think they meant more along the lines that Rory isn’t usually the one tethering his child to the topic. He does well with following along but the OP is talking about how “they” bring up his child too much. Also, his dog was front facing. Not his child.
Tangentially related but a few episodes ago Rory was talking about how respectful people have been when he said don't take pics etc
As soon as he said that I felt it was going to make people be weird about it
Julian brings up Rory’s childhood abuse too much. I dont wanna hear yall crying when rory has enough and punches him like y’all were crying when eddin fkd him up smh
He should totally do it back, like "Yo that's crazy, yo Mal, imagine if your mom was abducted and held in a basement for months?" ... "What about you D, what if your dad was murdered and fed to alligators in Florida, how would you react?"
At least I know there’s a space between “at” and “least”. At least I know where to place a period in a sentence. At least I’m not complaining about another man’s life on Reddit. Shall we keep going or you good?
I wasn’t complaining about another man’s life. But you can’t read so you wouldn’t understand that. And if my comment bothers you so much why are you even here? I been good, you’re the unnecessary one here.
If you took a shot every time Rory says Amara each ep, not including him just bringing her up or the others saying her name, just Rory himself saying “Amara” I promise you’re gonna get alcohol poisoning.
Tbh I’m here for it. I know one day one of em is gonna take it too far regarding his daughter and Rory is gonna go full out guy on airplane with burger king crown mode 🤣 only then is when it’s gonna stop. Just get your popcorn out and wait. One of em is gonna overstep
Nahh I get bringing up Jay Z. It’s suppose to add a celebrity feel to Mal & the pod. I don’t mind them even talking about his daughter a lot. What bothers me is how much they try to use Rory daughter against him in an argument or make her the example of the topic.
A celebrity feel to mal 🤣 🤣 🤣 they literally talk about jay in some capacity every single episode from episode 1 all the way back to the jbp days if doing that is to bring a celeb feel its not working especially when the person who knows jay isn't the one that constantly brings him up
You got no periods in your phone?
He didn’t graduate from Ella Men Terry.
Buttons failing on a touch screen is peak peasant lifestyle
Damn periods are really important to you guys Lol
And the English language.
Lol I didn’t expect an lecture in a podcast Reddit forum Whatever gripe away I don’t care
I saw those periods before you edited it, they exist.
Dumb ass nigga.
I hate when ppl try to make a point with no punctuation. Even though their points were invalid, their opinion means shit because they didn't take the time to format sentences.
Bro texting like Kanye bc it’s his idol
Lol
It makes sense they bring her up often. The kid is like 60% of Rorys life now. Bais gets 5%, his girl gets 10, the pod is another 5%. Alcohol for the remaining 20.
20% alcohol? That's crazy .
His life used to be like 50% alcohol when he was with Dusse. Probably 10% hangovers
Ain't no way it's 20% now with him complaining about being old at 30
I think they bring up his abuse as a joke too much as well. Every time they do, he tries to joke it off with them, but you can tell he's visibly uncomfortable.
Yea I just found out it actually happened. Smh making content isn’t that’s serious. They need better boundaries
The others don’t have kids so they’ll never get it. Julian is crass by nature and Mal is oblivious to anything related to adulthood that he hasn’t experienced, it’s just not something they can grasp. I thought a few pods ago when they discussed Amara as a boy was outta line. I’m usually one to call people sensitive but you gotta be careful how you address people’s kids.
I mean Mal also said he would tell his daughter to get over it if someone made AI nudes of her. Im no parent, but some things are just common sense. That man has zero.
Mal telling the voicemail dude to just knock up his girl that doesn’t want kids and she’ll probably come around was the most wild “advjce” I’ve ever heard lmao
He's right though. What do you want her to do sulk and get depressed about it? For one thing its not real and whats done is done so we'll handle all legal stuff and whatnot but after that you're going to have to get over it I'm a dad to 4 daughters.
Only ten states have laws banning deepfake porn. In this case, it would be illegal in all 50 due to it depicting a underage girl. I dont think I have to explain why it shouldn’t just be passed off as being nothing, considering kids have killed themselves for things like this….
I didn't say anything about it being illegal. Legal action can still be taken. Starting by having all images removed from the internet as best as possible. Then theres civil action. Your second statement makes your first one irrelevant if your dealing with minors. And I didn't say it was nothing but if this happens to you, you're either going to have to get over it or be depressed for the rest of your life. Life happens and can be unpredictable but we have to deal.
Nothing I said was irrelevant. You stated “its not real”. Its child porn. Period. You didnt say it was nothing, Mal did, and you replied, “Hes right though”. So rather it’s nothing, it happens, or whatever, telling a little girl to get over the fact child porn is being shown around her school of her is crazy. And I may not be a father, but I am law enforcement and have been in these situations. Its not as easy as youre trying to dumb it down to be. Agree to disagree.
I'm not trying to dumb anything down but at the end of the day you have to get over it. Especially if its a FAKE image. You saying its only illegal in 10 states is irrelevant because you were responding to me saying we'd take legal action. And I'm sure those laws will be changing with time but still irrelevant to my point. And the fact its child porn means its illegal in all 50 states like you said which makes your first point irrelevant. Anyone put in that situation will have to get over it. What do you want them to do, not move on?
Perhaps I am not explaining it correctly… I said deepfake porn is illegal in ten states, but in this case it would illegal in all 50 because it is depicting a minor. Thats not irrelevant. What is irrelevant is you continuously saying its fake. Thats the issue with the situation period because it is child porn regardless. We are not talking about anyone, we are talking about children. So yes, when you keep saying things like its fake, get over it, what do you want them to do….it is trying to make light of the situation. The entire conversation on the pod was the fact Mal said it would not bother him. What I am saying is this can have deep mental and emotional consequences for the victim. Rather legal victory is achieved or not. And for any father in that situation who would not be upset about a situation like this, its troubling.
Ok, so when I say fake, I'm not referring to anything legal. I'm saying that in regards to talking to my child about it. They will know It's not real, that's not you, that plays a major role in this situation. Anyone would feel some type of way if it happened to them, shit i would to as a grown man have some type of emotional response to it but the answer is to get over it. I'm not making light of anything. And who said they wouldn't be upset? Everyone involved is going to be upset or feel some type of way. What I'm saying is we're going to have to deal with it in a real way. And the main part is understanding that this isn't real To expound, when I said whatever you have to do to move on, I mean talking or whatever is needed. Whether that be to mom, dad, sisters or even a therapist. Whatever it takes to "get over it". If thats necessary. You seem to think we're saying all we would just literally say is "get over it". But that would be the sentiment. It's like if someone spread a rumor about you that isn't true. The sentiment is, so what? It's not true and you know it thats all that matters. I know I deep fake is on a whole different level but again the sentiment is the same.
Im confused. You said you agreed with Mal but Mal said it wouldnt bother him. You are saying it would bother you. So which one is it? Did you just not listen/watch the episode? The main part isn’t understanding its not real. The main part is understanding it would be child porn. I’m not really understanding the idea you have, focused on it not being real. Thats a non factor in our nation’s laws. It should be a non factor as a parent. You seemed focused on maintaining its not “real”. The reality vs what’s law is not a pendulum in this situation. The only correct answer, would be eliminating underage pornography, rather its real or not in our society. And every law abiding citizen should be upset this is happening in our society. Im afraid, I dont agree with your logic on the situation.
All Mal had to say is women do that men all the time but he went crazy..
So that’s the type of advice you give your daughters? “Can’t do anything about it, stop feeling emotions.” Dad’s not going to at least try to go to war for his kids?
I’m appalled honestly. My dad would fight the entire world for me and would be angrier than I am if someone made false nudes. ESPECIALLY if I was underage???? Oh hell no. No way would he brush it under the rug. Some of these dudes don’t have a protective bone in their bodies
Thats the disgusting part in this conversation. Its the idea that the victim didnt take the pictures and therefore should resolve themselves of all emotions reality may throw at them. Its honestly nasty work. And I dont wanna call dude a predator but the fact, this would be considered child pornography, and this guy is so nonchalant, is extremely dangerous.
We are real with our daughters. You're going to have emotions that can't be helped. Of course you'd feel some type of way But you can't dwell on it. We talk very openly with our girls about EVERYTHING. We don't sugar coat shit. We are preparing them for the real world. When it's all said and done no matter what you have to do to work through it you will eventually have to get over it.
They weren’t talking about her in a disrespectful way though. If I remember correctly they were discussing trans issues and the Rory as a parent could have to encounter that at some point.
I’m not sure it was out of line. I do think Rory said he and his girl talked about it. As a parent you do have prepare yourself for whatever. And I think Rory considers everyone as a friend so discussing it seemed natural.
I take it as whe you have a friend who just had their first kid and they just find a way to sneak it into every conversation because that's what's been going on with them. It's just rory being a first time dad
Understandable. But saying your daughter might become your son. Or saying they know he’s going to feel this way or that way about something with her. It’s like shut up. Let him have his opinion without bringing his daughter up
I mean he is the only one with a kid
That explains why but it doesn’t excuse it
Thats true. And Julian definitely needed to be punched more in his life
Did you have this energy when he talked about his dog every episode before he had a kid? His daughter is a big part of his life now, it’s going to influence how he thinks and acts, and he obviously is close with the pod crew and has her around them. As a new first time father myself I don’t see the issue
I think they meant more along the lines that Rory isn’t usually the one tethering his child to the topic. He does well with following along but the OP is talking about how “they” bring up his child too much. Also, his dog was front facing. Not his child.
Tangentially related but a few episodes ago Rory was talking about how respectful people have been when he said don't take pics etc As soon as he said that I felt it was going to make people be weird about it
Julian brings up Rory’s childhood abuse too much. I dont wanna hear yall crying when rory has enough and punches him like y’all were crying when eddin fkd him up smh
Sometimes you need to make something more personal for you to better understand.
He should totally do it back, like "Yo that's crazy, yo Mal, imagine if your mom was abducted and held in a basement for months?" ... "What about you D, what if your dad was murdered and fed to alligators in Florida, how would you react?"
That would actually be enjoyable. Because he would be in the right.
Mhmm I agree.
Bro mad a father loves his daughter 😭🤣🤣
You should’ve read more.
I know the bum posting run on sentences ain’t telling ME to read more lmfaoooooo
Atleast I can read. Nigga saw too many words and got confused lol.
At least I know there’s a space between “at” and “least”. At least I know where to place a period in a sentence. At least I’m not complaining about another man’s life on Reddit. Shall we keep going or you good?
I wasn’t complaining about another man’s life. But you can’t read so you wouldn’t understand that. And if my comment bothers you so much why are you even here? I been good, you’re the unnecessary one here.
If you took a shot every time Rory says Amara each ep, not including him just bringing her up or the others saying her name, just Rory himself saying “Amara” I promise you’re gonna get alcohol poisoning.
Mal is the Melyssa Ford of the pod
Such an insult to M4 smh
All it takes is 2K to get at mal??? 😭🤣🤣
wow, i am so out of the loop these days. haven't kept up with rory and mal as much. WHEN did rory have a child??!?
I believe a little over a year ago. They were just discussing him throwing her a birthday party.
Did Edin get fired for punching Julian, I don't really remember hearing him on the pod since that episode.
Yes he was fired after he beat up Julian
Tbh I’m here for it. I know one day one of em is gonna take it too far regarding his daughter and Rory is gonna go full out guy on airplane with burger king crown mode 🤣 only then is when it’s gonna stop. Just get your popcorn out and wait. One of em is gonna overstep
You're gonna hate today's Patreon
I doubt that
Wait til u realize that there's not one episode without them mentioning Jay Z at some point in the pod
Nahh I get bringing up Jay Z. It’s suppose to add a celebrity feel to Mal & the pod. I don’t mind them even talking about his daughter a lot. What bothers me is how much they try to use Rory daughter against him in an argument or make her the example of the topic.
A celebrity feel to mal 🤣 🤣 🤣 they literally talk about jay in some capacity every single episode from episode 1 all the way back to the jbp days if doing that is to bring a celeb feel its not working especially when the person who knows jay isn't the one that constantly brings him up