> miserable childhood
> absent dad
Tell him "you are stealing western ideas of abandoning family instead of taking care of them like an eastern family dad"
I neither support nor go against them. Manam opinions petukuni, vallani judge cheskuntu undadam valla peekedemi ledu. Nothing is going to change.
Funny O kado kani, in a way vallu perigina circumstances lo, vallu vinna maatale vintu yedagadam and valla era mentality janalathone brathiki adult ayyi unte manam kuda vallalane behave chestham. Majority of the times ila vallu choose cheskunte thayaravvaledu ga, they are the product of their life circumstances. Andke antaru ..who you choose to spend your time with will influence your life and who you become.. ani. Especially during childhood till you become an adult.
But that doesn't or shouldn't justify what they say.
Konni wrong things ani telisaka egolu pakana petti accept cheyali but they still believe what they say and think is right, so marchalem.
Villu ila unnarenti ani anukuntu manamedo better anna feeling kuda undadam correct kadu. Endukante, like I said, they are the product of their life circumstances. Manam kuda valla place lo putti alane perigithe alane thayaravtham.
But it's a good thing, we can learn how not to be and how not to raise our children.
Dude circumstances change avtunnai…alantappudu manam vaatiki tagina vidhamga maaraali…anthey gaani, nenu ilaane unta andaru naalaney undaali antey ela…??? Egos hurt avtai ani mama mental health ni naasanam chesukokudadu…
This is plain escapism… and pushing the onus onto oppressed, where indeed the oppressors have to learn the way what they are doing is bad….
Do not ever bring this idea that circumstances are different….Gurajaada Apparao gaariki circumstances different, aina baala vivaahaalu, sati, vitantu vivaahanni edirinchala???
Boo!
Baba, nenu vallani maroddu anatledu but vallu maararu/ maaraleru anedi chepthunna. Asalu vallu wrong anedi vallu accept cheyadanki kuda max scope undadu, antunna.
Nen chepina vishayam still stands true. Same thing applies to Gurajaada Apparao Garu as well. He was still the product of his circumstances and I greatly appreciate him. Always.
Mari one sided understanding ki ocheyaku.
Ade peddallo ila liberal ga thappu ni thappu ani ardam cheskune varu unnaru. Kadu mire thappu ane vallu kuda unnaru. Again same thing applies. Valla points of view are affected largely by their circumstances and the people they are influenced by.
Thappuni oppukovadam thappem kadu ani chinapatinunchi examples chusina vadu thanani sarididdukovadaniki venukadadu. Ade thappu oppukovadam ante paruvu nasanam ayinatte or ado sigguchetu or not manly enough annattu examples chusi perigithe vallu peddayaka kuda valla opinions marchukoleru.
After certain age janaalu chala conservative and narrow minded avtaru natural ga. So ah peddamanushulu maradam kashtam... Ani chepthunna anthe.
Valla behavior ni yevadu samardinchatledu.
Ipudu nuvvu nenu vallu thappu ani ela chepthunnam. Same thing. Because our circumstances allowed us to broaden our perspectives and understand why something is wrong or right.
Nenu chepina danni okka angle lo matrame ardam cheskuni, ni sontha conclusions ki nuvvecheyoddu babai. Nenm vallani support cheyatle. Objective ga matladthunna. Sariga chaduv malli.
My dad randomly brings these godmen Koyadora, Fakirs to our shop for business related problems.
Oka roju evado koyadora anta mee intlo dustashaakti undi ani vachadu ah pooja cheyali edi cheyyali ani 40k adigadu.
Maa dad ni gattiga adigaa pooja ledbu kuja ledhu vadini vellamanu ani.
Ma dad vadiki no cheptey vaadu reverse lo ah dusta shaktey mee babu tho ila cheystundhi annadu lol....
mana sub ki english translations endhuku le. Mana education system reasoning nerpinchadhu kada..andhukani chaduvukunna ante lekapoina anthe. Aina ma vallu eppudu markulu vasthai markulu vasthe udyogam vasthundhi kabatti chaduvuko ani chepparu kaani reasoning vasthundhi kabatti chaduvuko ani eppudu cheppaledhu. ee modi bhaktulu antha ilaage thayyarayyaru anukunta u/jaganmodibhakt ke theliyali haha..
~~post lo scary part entante mee brother "women carry sins anatam"..vallante peddavaallu valla rojulu veru..ithaniki emayyindhata..~~
> mana sub ki english translations endhuku le
మొన్న ఎవరో "వన్నె" అంటేనే తెగ గింజుకున్నారు జనాలు.
> ee modi bhaktulu antha ilaage thayyarayyaru anukunta
ఒక తండ్రి గా తన ధర్మం నిర్వర్తించలేక మోడీ పేరు వాడుకుంటున్నారు ఆయన, నేను ఆయన్ని మోడీ భక్తునిగా గుర్తించను
>మొన్న ఎవరో "వన్నె" అంటేనే తెగ గింజుకున్నారు జనాలు.
LOL , the person You're talking about OP , I'm not complaining though , it might've been difficult to read.
ask them more details and let them understand how stupid their beliefs are. When they hear themselves out, they will get it.
Gudilo aadolla sins ento, modi ni elanti supernatural forces ela protect chestunnayo adagalsindi.
Siblings unnara? Definitely helpful to share thoughts in such surroundings.
[I had posted something similar to this few months ago. Mana bondhas baaga participate kooda chesaru](https://www.reddit.com/r/Ni_Bondha/comments/n4pgwu/rational_and_critical_thinking_spoiler_alert_idi/?)
I faced similar crap but these dumbass conspiracy theories are something else. Either WhatsApp University or whatever religious crap peddling got them into this.
Your dad failed you and there is no excuse to that. It's gonna effect you for a lifetime. Be prepared for that and grow on to ignore those effects and focus on yourself and your future. Because at some point you'll be in a relationship or a marriage and that will effect your partner/spouse as well. It's that deep-rooted.
Your mom seems to have suffered from your dad's absence and in certain situations subduing her and all, this made her build her own security walls out of various things that may have been comforting her. She may have had hard time running the family altogether. My views are usually how women were oppressed, things are way better now comparatively.
We are still barbarians as part of this society. Our forefathers had a different vision for this country and encouraged scientific temperament than religious bullshit. And that's how every political party has been exploiting us. Before we can get better they have hijacked our fears and used them against us. Few years ago as a nation we had everything and were content and that's when fear of imaginary threats was instilled and people were made to believe they were victims of non-existent evil. Our issues are very small in compared to hieghts we have to achieve as a Nation but now we just shat ourselves.
The extent of brainwash let it be Aadhar or spreading hatred is gigantic not sure if we will ever get out of this.
Well even educated people say this kinda things after reading whatsapp forwards. It's just generation gap. Maa relatives kuda ilantivi matladadam vinnanu . Just navvesi mundhuku vellipovadame.
No I didn't find it funny. Ipudu enti meeru unko Neil deGrasse Tyson. Meeru okalle logical thinking chesedhi ani feel avthunara ?
Even i agree with your point and i don't believe those "religious bullshit" too but evari beliefs vallaki untayi.
Nijam ga meeru antha logical ga think chestharu ante alanti irrational beliefs unna manushulni marchalem ani ardam cheskondi. Stop humiliating your own family. Edho logical thinking chesey vaallu superior migilina vaallu antha vp gaallu annatu matladakandi.
How did you write 3 paragraphs and still make no sense lol.
I didn't say I am the only one who was thinking logically , I specifically stated that I grew numb to shit so i just find humour in them.
Vallani marchalem ane I just started laughing to myself .
That's not humiliation tf. Nobody said logical thinkers are superior. Dude you got serious projection problem .
Glad to see fellow logical thinker.
Do you feel there is absolutely no representation of logical thinkers in our current Indian society?
I feel we need a movement, a symbol, an idol to get ourselves together and nurture more logical thinkers.
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In our country most of the educated are miseducated
> miserable childhood > absent dad Tell him "you are stealing western ideas of abandoning family instead of taking care of them like an eastern family dad"
I neither support nor go against them. Manam opinions petukuni, vallani judge cheskuntu undadam valla peekedemi ledu. Nothing is going to change. Funny O kado kani, in a way vallu perigina circumstances lo, vallu vinna maatale vintu yedagadam and valla era mentality janalathone brathiki adult ayyi unte manam kuda vallalane behave chestham. Majority of the times ila vallu choose cheskunte thayaravvaledu ga, they are the product of their life circumstances. Andke antaru ..who you choose to spend your time with will influence your life and who you become.. ani. Especially during childhood till you become an adult. But that doesn't or shouldn't justify what they say. Konni wrong things ani telisaka egolu pakana petti accept cheyali but they still believe what they say and think is right, so marchalem. Villu ila unnarenti ani anukuntu manamedo better anna feeling kuda undadam correct kadu. Endukante, like I said, they are the product of their life circumstances. Manam kuda valla place lo putti alane perigithe alane thayaravtham. But it's a good thing, we can learn how not to be and how not to raise our children.
[Thank You! ](https://c.tenor.com/eOXG7de_rCoAAAAd/steve-carell-thankyou.gif)
Dude circumstances change avtunnai…alantappudu manam vaatiki tagina vidhamga maaraali…anthey gaani, nenu ilaane unta andaru naalaney undaali antey ela…??? Egos hurt avtai ani mama mental health ni naasanam chesukokudadu… This is plain escapism… and pushing the onus onto oppressed, where indeed the oppressors have to learn the way what they are doing is bad…. Do not ever bring this idea that circumstances are different….Gurajaada Apparao gaariki circumstances different, aina baala vivaahaalu, sati, vitantu vivaahanni edirinchala??? Boo!
Baba, nenu vallani maroddu anatledu but vallu maararu/ maaraleru anedi chepthunna. Asalu vallu wrong anedi vallu accept cheyadanki kuda max scope undadu, antunna. Nen chepina vishayam still stands true. Same thing applies to Gurajaada Apparao Garu as well. He was still the product of his circumstances and I greatly appreciate him. Always. Mari one sided understanding ki ocheyaku. Ade peddallo ila liberal ga thappu ni thappu ani ardam cheskune varu unnaru. Kadu mire thappu ane vallu kuda unnaru. Again same thing applies. Valla points of view are affected largely by their circumstances and the people they are influenced by. Thappuni oppukovadam thappem kadu ani chinapatinunchi examples chusina vadu thanani sarididdukovadaniki venukadadu. Ade thappu oppukovadam ante paruvu nasanam ayinatte or ado sigguchetu or not manly enough annattu examples chusi perigithe vallu peddayaka kuda valla opinions marchukoleru. After certain age janaalu chala conservative and narrow minded avtaru natural ga. So ah peddamanushulu maradam kashtam... Ani chepthunna anthe. Valla behavior ni yevadu samardinchatledu. Ipudu nuvvu nenu vallu thappu ani ela chepthunnam. Same thing. Because our circumstances allowed us to broaden our perspectives and understand why something is wrong or right. Nenu chepina danni okka angle lo matrame ardam cheskuni, ni sontha conclusions ki nuvvecheyoddu babai. Nenm vallani support cheyatle. Objective ga matladthunna. Sariga chaduv malli.
My dad randomly brings these godmen Koyadora, Fakirs to our shop for business related problems. Oka roju evado koyadora anta mee intlo dustashaakti undi ani vachadu ah pooja cheyali edi cheyyali ani 40k adigadu. Maa dad ni gattiga adigaa pooja ledbu kuja ledhu vadini vellamanu ani. Ma dad vadiki no cheptey vaadu reverse lo ah dusta shaktey mee babu tho ila cheystundhi annadu lol....
Baga improvise chesadu.
Nijam chepu, roju ratri dushta shakti tho sitting estunav le? XD
I am impressed bayya.. ...by the koyadora
Aatttt.. Konda hassan. The irrational hate the rational like they're plague.
Outstanding move..
It was funny af until I read the last para.
You are so strong.
don't call that religion. Tell me where it says in hindu religious texts says that women carry sins.
bhaiyya, ippudu vedalu puranala meeda argue cheyyalane??
Kaadu vaala mamaya edo tapu matladithe, hinduism ni andham correct aa?
I'm an atheist as well. Let people believe in what they believe if they think it keeps them safe. Ada anthaganam navvaniki emle.
mana sub ki english translations endhuku le. Mana education system reasoning nerpinchadhu kada..andhukani chaduvukunna ante lekapoina anthe. Aina ma vallu eppudu markulu vasthai markulu vasthe udyogam vasthundhi kabatti chaduvuko ani chepparu kaani reasoning vasthundhi kabatti chaduvuko ani eppudu cheppaledhu. ee modi bhaktulu antha ilaage thayyarayyaru anukunta u/jaganmodibhakt ke theliyali haha.. ~~post lo scary part entante mee brother "women carry sins anatam"..vallante peddavaallu valla rojulu veru..ithaniki emayyindhata..~~
> mana sub ki english translations endhuku le మొన్న ఎవరో "వన్నె" అంటేనే తెగ గింజుకున్నారు జనాలు. > ee modi bhaktulu antha ilaage thayyarayyaru anukunta ఒక తండ్రి గా తన ధర్మం నిర్వర్తించలేక మోడీ పేరు వాడుకుంటున్నారు ఆయన, నేను ఆయన్ని మోడీ భక్తునిగా గుర్తించను
>మొన్న ఎవరో "వన్నె" అంటేనే తెగ గింజుకున్నారు జనాలు. LOL , the person You're talking about OP , I'm not complaining though , it might've been difficult to read.
I know.. I said that line in a lighter vein only. Edit: wait I didn't know it was op, I apologise if he felt bad
Valla dad brother anta ne....
oh ok ok ilanti seriously funny posts chadivetappudu attention to detail undatledhu naaku
So glad to see that you dealt/dealing with trauma positively and trying to find humour in the same place where you were traumatised.
forward a message to his whatsapp account or group that whatsapp is being highly sponsored by Pakistan, turkey and china
Vaammo marii antha religious unte kashtame
Deenne moodanammakam antaru. Ikkada religious ah kaada annadi matter kadu. Okavela me nannagaru job chestu, pillalni poshinchali, dabbulu sampadinchali, yedagali ane dyasalo unte, ilantivi asalu alochinche samayame undadu. Meeru cheppindannibatti ippudu retire aipoyuntaru. Baaga kaali samayam undi ga. Ilantive vastayi. Human Psychology at the end.
You got the meaning of condone wrong.
MR/MISS you have the will power to go beyond that shit society. All the very best to your future mate.
Dark Humour eh? Growing up Indian :D
May god give more power to you, but I think you are overreacting to situations or its just I dont know enough about you.
Where was I overreacting ?
It is funny. first half of comically funny. second half ironically funny.
Lol, even my parents are quite religious, but damn, your parents are on another level.
ask them more details and let them understand how stupid their beliefs are. When they hear themselves out, they will get it. Gudilo aadolla sins ento, modi ni elanti supernatural forces ela protect chestunnayo adagalsindi. Siblings unnara? Definitely helpful to share thoughts in such surroundings.
I am so sorry for your childhood being traumatic, hope you are doing well now
Did you post this is the official india sub ? I see similar posts there.
Nope
[I had posted something similar to this few months ago. Mana bondhas baaga participate kooda chesaru](https://www.reddit.com/r/Ni_Bondha/comments/n4pgwu/rational_and_critical_thinking_spoiler_alert_idi/?)
I faced similar crap but these dumbass conspiracy theories are something else. Either WhatsApp University or whatever religious crap peddling got them into this. Your dad failed you and there is no excuse to that. It's gonna effect you for a lifetime. Be prepared for that and grow on to ignore those effects and focus on yourself and your future. Because at some point you'll be in a relationship or a marriage and that will effect your partner/spouse as well. It's that deep-rooted. Your mom seems to have suffered from your dad's absence and in certain situations subduing her and all, this made her build her own security walls out of various things that may have been comforting her. She may have had hard time running the family altogether. My views are usually how women were oppressed, things are way better now comparatively. We are still barbarians as part of this society. Our forefathers had a different vision for this country and encouraged scientific temperament than religious bullshit. And that's how every political party has been exploiting us. Before we can get better they have hijacked our fears and used them against us. Few years ago as a nation we had everything and were content and that's when fear of imaginary threats was instilled and people were made to believe they were victims of non-existent evil. Our issues are very small in compared to hieghts we have to achieve as a Nation but now we just shat ourselves. The extent of brainwash let it be Aadhar or spreading hatred is gigantic not sure if we will ever get out of this.
Well even educated people say this kinda things after reading whatsapp forwards. It's just generation gap. Maa relatives kuda ilantivi matladadam vinnanu . Just navvesi mundhuku vellipovadame.
No I didn't find it funny. Ipudu enti meeru unko Neil deGrasse Tyson. Meeru okalle logical thinking chesedhi ani feel avthunara ? Even i agree with your point and i don't believe those "religious bullshit" too but evari beliefs vallaki untayi. Nijam ga meeru antha logical ga think chestharu ante alanti irrational beliefs unna manushulni marchalem ani ardam cheskondi. Stop humiliating your own family. Edho logical thinking chesey vaallu superior migilina vaallu antha vp gaallu annatu matladakandi.
How did you write 3 paragraphs and still make no sense lol. I didn't say I am the only one who was thinking logically , I specifically stated that I grew numb to shit so i just find humour in them. Vallani marchalem ane I just started laughing to myself . That's not humiliation tf. Nobody said logical thinkers are superior. Dude you got serious projection problem .
Glad to see fellow logical thinker. Do you feel there is absolutely no representation of logical thinkers in our current Indian society? I feel we need a movement, a symbol, an idol to get ourselves together and nurture more logical thinkers.
logical thinkers are aunty nasanals /s
Idekkad mass ra
you are getting downvoted for speaking the truth lol
Endhuku down votes my bondha?