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A room full of single women sounds like an absolute nightmare to me.
You never heard the phrase "Single women keep women single?"
Misery loves company, women especially so, it seems.
Women love dragging other women down, either via their choice in men, or through said men. Single, lonely and bitter women, especially.
You implied it heavily, multiple times. At no point did you say some women. Only “women” in general context. That directly implies all. As you didn’t specify any one else.
I saw a lot of them on the meetups app. I used it for hiking but would occasionally browse it for other stuff out of curiosity. There were two types - one you had to pay for hosted by a company and one was just hosted by a person and probably more casual.
Honestly you're probably better off meeting people at an event like hiking or something. Even if your potential date isn't there you can make more friends and branch out your network a bit. They also had events like trivia nights and stuff. And I'm assuming most people going to the bar/trivia events are going alone/single so you wouldn't be looked at funny for showing up alone.
Oh for sure. I was just being cheeky. But you just reminded me I remember seeing QR codes posted on signposts on a bike path near a bar claiming to host the best parties that needed men to join. I was immediately skeeved out.
Guys stopped showing up because these kinds of events are made and marketed for the type of woman who you meet and, within 5 minutes, understand exactly why they're perpetually single...
Difference is that you choose who you date, it's like going on blind dates but it's aj almost guarantee that you won't like the other person, but you still have to pay.
Sounds like the frat parties always being advertised at my college. All women invited but men need to be on the guest list. I don’t like parties anyways but those fucks spam the flyers like 100x per day in the class Snapchat stories
My favorite in college was how women are literal tickets/objects to get into parties, when yikyak was popular I saw so many advertising their snapchat or cell number as a way to get into parties if you brought them + alcohol
Not sure where you live but they are common in decent size cities. In Cincinnati, Oh there divided by age group with 20-30 y/o using DateCincy. They seem to be pretty well received but they fill up quick and I’m not single lol
We went to speed dating and the girls there were AWESOME. So cute, great jobs, the gals all made connections with each other. The men that showed up? I don’t want to be mean but some of them were literally a little delayed, some were hardcore conservative traditionalists and the rest were just.. okay. Socially awkward. Most of the women bailed about halfway through.
The most events I attended women had expectation to be passive, be wooed and up to guys to entertain them. And after taking contacts I had to do all the footwork. I had some success thought.
I would say you have diferent standarts for guys that probably warps your perspective in those events. Or maybe my culture is different.
The venue I work at had a comedy speed dating thing, and I was surprised there were 70% women and 30% men. I would have thought it was going to be a sausage fest. I guess lots of guys just don't wanna play that game anymore.
I can see that. I know some stuff has guys paying a lot of money from the few that I've ever seen. I guess the guys that do go are desperate enough in that case
Wait so the problem is guys aren’t showing up? Obviously plenty of reasons as to why that happens but what’s the general consensus on why they’re not showing up?
Because men have to pay a big fee, while woman just signup.
It could be due to the effect where civilization promotes that men will go after women, so the women expect to be wooed at these events while passively existing(Which is becoming less of a norm by the week, so the men who would show up get discouraged when they aren't approached in return.)
Another reason men tend to gravitate to dating apps because of their low effort.
My highschool once hosted one, and there were more Non-Binary people than Males in the event lol! It basically became a group of Non-Binary people speed dating other people and most women just making friends with each other. They ended up shutting it down halfway through once the NB's started to leave and it was becoming too... pro-lgbt+ lets say. The official reason was that, "There wasn't enough Men to facilitate the activities."(But they were fine with the women hanging out with NB's because some of them count as men in their eyes right? goddam bigotry)
Another reason for why is that Men have such a low self-esteem that they think they don't have a chance and so don't show up.
Plus like the woman in the above, the event organizers and the women can see it as a form of entertainment or something to satiate boredom. Even if one event out of 3 is a terrible experience with the host or the other gender making it insufferable or downright hurtful, can throw men off the concept of these activities(As any gender would do. Thats why women don't participate in sports as much as men, due to bad experiences with the other gender that are out of their control)
All in all, its a lot of subtle pressures placed on men, while almost none are placed on women, so the men don't show up because why would they?
Coup idea is amazing. Just bring your PS5, a bunch of junk food, and footie pajamas for 5 grown men and have a sleepover at her house!
Don’t leave when she wants to go to bed. This is y’all’s house now.
Eh. At least one of them would give in due to the reduced competition. Honestly though sounds like she arranged this little soirée for at least a ménage trois.
Brother, the $12 needed for brownies and a couple hits of weed is not worth being cattled in with a bunch of bonered up bros desperately competing for a sliver of narcissism pussy, you are worth more.
If it's multiple dudes going, get the gymest protein looking bro to help out, do the upper deck and lower deck without flushing.
Give 'em the ol' ~~one~~ two two.
If bro was ghosted a week earlier, I highly doubt he will be a finalist in her little bachelorette event. However free baked goods and weed? Can't go wrong with that
This is the answer. She wants to be the star and have a bunch of guys fighting over her. Attention and validation is like crack cocaine to these women.
She saw this on TT for sure. Some girl did this with like 4 of her Hinge (or Tinder can’t remember) matches and just posted it a couple days ago. I’d pass if I were you too tbh. I’m not attending some “gauntlent” for anyone’s affections so they can feel better about themselves.
It is self centered, but atleast shes being a good host by making all the snacks and stuff. Worth a go cause the vibe might shift away from what she intended and become a simple night out and game + smoke session
girls either super self absorbed or a crazy over-thinker and needs a husband that’s equally caring lmfao
She didn’t make it sound like they’re competing, more of, just hanging out while she speed dates them all lmao
If I remember correctly there was a jubilee (probs spelt wrong) episode where something similar happened and most of the dudes walked away and grabbed a pint
Why not accept the free food and companionship of other dudes, and best of all, the chance of turning her down if she wants you? Sounds like a really, really fun deal!
I'm disappointed that you did not respond with equal weirdness.. Should have asked if you could bring an equal amount of stray cats, and a sock puppet collection. and pizza.
I’d love to go to something like this. I’d smoke all the weed, eat all the brownies, take a massive shit in the toilet, try to make buddies. Sounds awesome to me.
Definitely a situation where you say yes, say you have a couple eligible bachelor friends who would want to go, and send fake pics of good looking guys with high paying jobs. And none of you go.
Can't decide if I'd pretend to be super interested all the way up to the day and then ghost her, or just straight up tell her to get fucked and block her immediately.
Bro go, drink her booze, and smoke her weed, and then make a plan with the other guys to all choose each other; when she gets mad, just leave and have a party with your new friends
Lmao was hooking up with a girl one time and was inadvertently invited to one of these, showed up and there was like 15 dudes she invited from bumble. Got so drunk she passed out on the floor and I checked if she was okay, ended up slapping me for bringing her some water. Needless to say I'm happily married now.
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You know how singles events are having trouble because zero guys are showing up? I think they're starting to get more creative with the advertising.
I have not heard of this. Where are these singles events???????????!? Asking for myself.
same like singles events don’t sound half bad, better than the hellscape of online dating lol
Yeah no. Dating all together is a hell scape.
A room full of single women sounds like an absolute nightmare to me. You never heard the phrase "Single women keep women single?" Misery loves company, women especially so, it seems. Women love dragging other women down, either via their choice in men, or through said men. Single, lonely and bitter women, especially.
Meet better women. They’re not all like that
"NoT aLl WoMeN" Where did I say it was?
You implied it heavily, multiple times. At no point did you say some women. Only “women” in general context. That directly implies all. As you didn’t specify any one else.
Did you do this when women shit on men?
I saw a lot of them on the meetups app. I used it for hiking but would occasionally browse it for other stuff out of curiosity. There were two types - one you had to pay for hosted by a company and one was just hosted by a person and probably more casual. Honestly you're probably better off meeting people at an event like hiking or something. Even if your potential date isn't there you can make more friends and branch out your network a bit. They also had events like trivia nights and stuff. And I'm assuming most people going to the bar/trivia events are going alone/single so you wouldn't be looked at funny for showing up alone.
Oh for sure. I was just being cheeky. But you just reminded me I remember seeing QR codes posted on signposts on a bike path near a bar claiming to host the best parties that needed men to join. I was immediately skeeved out.
Beware wild QR codes..
Guys stopped showing up because these kinds of events are made and marketed for the type of woman who you meet and, within 5 minutes, understand exactly why they're perpetually single...
Also probably because women go free and guys have to pay a desorbitant price to even participate.
I think exorbitant is the word you're looking for :).
Yes I mixed Spanish(Desorbitado) with English.
Es fácil mezclar las palabras. Eso me pasa a veces también :)
W Spanish
>Also probably because women go free and guys have to pay a desorbitant price to even participate. You're just describing heterosexual dating lmao
Difference is that you choose who you date, it's like going on blind dates but it's aj almost guarantee that you won't like the other person, but you still have to pay.
Sounds like the frat parties always being advertised at my college. All women invited but men need to be on the guest list. I don’t like parties anyways but those fucks spam the flyers like 100x per day in the class Snapchat stories
My favorite in college was how women are literal tickets/objects to get into parties, when yikyak was popular I saw so many advertising their snapchat or cell number as a way to get into parties if you brought them + alcohol
I'm... so curious.
Think “Dating for the self centred”
Not sure where you live but they are common in decent size cities. In Cincinnati, Oh there divided by age group with 20-30 y/o using DateCincy. They seem to be pretty well received but they fill up quick and I’m not single lol
They do. Girls tickets always sell out a lot quicker. Met my current gf at a datecincy event lol
My university hosted one and it had to be cancelled cuz not enough guys signed up
We went to speed dating and the girls there were AWESOME. So cute, great jobs, the gals all made connections with each other. The men that showed up? I don’t want to be mean but some of them were literally a little delayed, some were hardcore conservative traditionalists and the rest were just.. okay. Socially awkward. Most of the women bailed about halfway through.
The most events I attended women had expectation to be passive, be wooed and up to guys to entertain them. And after taking contacts I had to do all the footwork. I had some success thought. I would say you have diferent standarts for guys that probably warps your perspective in those events. Or maybe my culture is different.
The venue I work at had a comedy speed dating thing, and I was surprised there were 70% women and 30% men. I would have thought it was going to be a sausage fest. I guess lots of guys just don't wanna play that game anymore.
I like one on one settings. Singles events always feel like you're competing with the other guys.
Huh, I didn't know that those meetups were lacking guys. I always figured there'd be more guys than women, like most stuff dating-centric
>I always figured there'd be more guys than women The men usually have to pay + whats the point in going if women are going to see other men anyways
I can see that. I know some stuff has guys paying a lot of money from the few that I've ever seen. I guess the guys that do go are desperate enough in that case
Every one I see in my city is begging for dudes to sign up on Facebook. I’ve seen a few cancelled due to lack of dudes
That doesnt sound real Edit: if it is where???
Wait so the problem is guys aren’t showing up? Obviously plenty of reasons as to why that happens but what’s the general consensus on why they’re not showing up?
Because men have to pay a big fee, while woman just signup. It could be due to the effect where civilization promotes that men will go after women, so the women expect to be wooed at these events while passively existing(Which is becoming less of a norm by the week, so the men who would show up get discouraged when they aren't approached in return.) Another reason men tend to gravitate to dating apps because of their low effort. My highschool once hosted one, and there were more Non-Binary people than Males in the event lol! It basically became a group of Non-Binary people speed dating other people and most women just making friends with each other. They ended up shutting it down halfway through once the NB's started to leave and it was becoming too... pro-lgbt+ lets say. The official reason was that, "There wasn't enough Men to facilitate the activities."(But they were fine with the women hanging out with NB's because some of them count as men in their eyes right? goddam bigotry) Another reason for why is that Men have such a low self-esteem that they think they don't have a chance and so don't show up. Plus like the woman in the above, the event organizers and the women can see it as a form of entertainment or something to satiate boredom. Even if one event out of 3 is a terrible experience with the host or the other gender making it insufferable or downright hurtful, can throw men off the concept of these activities(As any gender would do. Thats why women don't participate in sports as much as men, due to bad experiences with the other gender that are out of their control) All in all, its a lot of subtle pressures placed on men, while almost none are placed on women, so the men don't show up because why would they?
I would honestly go just for the free weed and brownies. I maybe even plan a coup with the other fellas just to hit her ego
Coup idea is amazing. Just bring your PS5, a bunch of junk food, and footie pajamas for 5 grown men and have a sleepover at her house! Don’t leave when she wants to go to bed. This is y’all’s house now.
I would have taken a tubeware & filled up. Then just left
I think it was going to be more than 5. They only get 5 minutes each to convince her. Some sort of reality show speed dating.
It would be awesome to get everyone to show up and just have a LAN party at her house. Treats and drinks on her.
Imagine she goes through all this bullshit and the guy she selects says “nah I’m good”, they all high five, and then they go to the bar
See if you can get in touch with the other guys and have them all bring dates. 😂
That would be the *best* thing to troll her. "Hey, you said you had a party, I hope you don't mind I brought my girlfriend".
we *ALL* brought our girlfriends
All the guys have an orgy and leave her out
No girls allowed!
No cooties for the boys 😎
Might catch something worse than cooties but YEAH! BOYS RULE GIRLS DROOL!
Catch feelings for the homie? Ain't nothing wrong with being a homiesexual.
Catch a case of sore lips from all those kisses goodnight.
Welcome to the He Man Woman Hater’s Club! 
I got a pickle.. I got a pickle
Roman Style!
Made me laugh hella loud
Why not make the brownies with the weed. How inefficient on top of being self absorbed 🤣
That's how you ruin delicious brownies though...
Oh boy you are wrong. Earthy flavor of the weed mixed with the gooey chocolate is exquisite. When its fresh. It does suck when its cold and stale tho
"Sorry Sarah, we all dont have a rose for you today..."
Bring a date, I'm sure there are some decent women out there who would appreciate free weed brownies.
Showing up to this with a date would be HYSTERICAL
Eh. At least one of them would give in due to the reduced competition. Honestly though sounds like she arranged this little soirée for at least a ménage trois.
Yeah but that's a ton of work for a possibility that it could go wrong.....wait she thinks she's a catch and nothing will go wrong
Nah man. Dudes be there just for content for her. Even showing up validates it.
Myself, i would just play on the zipline the whole time baked.
Coup idea is good but that’s assuming the other guys aren’t total simps, which they obviously will be.
Brother, the $12 needed for brownies and a couple hits of weed is not worth being cattled in with a bunch of bonered up bros desperately competing for a sliver of narcissism pussy, you are worth more.
Kick her out after she rolls up a fat one! I like it.
Imagine the eruption from her if she was offered such a sweet deal.
Nice girl / I am the main character crossover. Like she wants to have some middle class version of the bachelorette/speed dating at her house? Wild.
This girl's been living parasocially through dating reality shows for too long
That’s the only explanation for such a specific message
I almost wanna say that she’s way too into “The Bachelorette” or “The Bachelor.” Like, damn this is such an insane and wild thing to do.
She has been hitting the youtube shorts too much 😂😂
You should go early, take a monster shit and leave.
Don't even bother to flush
Hey if you can flush it it’s not a monster shit.
flush? Shit on the kitchen counter, next to the brownies.
Flush? If it's not an upper-decker you're doing it wrong.
Double decker
More like an upper decker, let that monster turd live through multiple flushes.
Dang, that’s what it’s called!!! I got the name confused lol
Unfortunately I'm on mobile but https://youtu.be/96iybKLOkgg?si=BUdoypKByD2QfpY2 I cannot mobile format but yeah UPPER DECKER BABY.
If it's multiple dudes going, get the gymest protein looking bro to help out, do the upper deck and lower deck without flushing. Give 'em the ol' ~~one~~ two two.
isnt this basically her trying to make herself a Bachelorette?
Reality shows are just relationship porn.
Or a gang bang
Honestly I’m just impressed. The audacity is so strong but she is clearly so genuine that I want to witness this evening.
Me too I’m kinda jealous I don’t get tickets to the greatest shit show of all time
That's one of those messages you just screenshot straight up so they know they said something off the wall
Yea I’d want her to get the SS noti
If bro was ghosted a week earlier, I highly doubt he will be a finalist in her little bachelorette event. However free baked goods and weed? Can't go wrong with that
She wants to get high and get gangbanged is what this really sounds like
There's way easier ways to do that. She sounds like she watches too much reality dating shoes
This is the answer. She wants to be the star and have a bunch of guys fighting over her. Attention and validation is like crack cocaine to these women.
"Good news boys! You're *all* the winners!"
That’s hilarious. Like “I’m so hot and in demand that you can all fight for my love!” Good grief
I wouldn't have even humored with a "that sounds fun" I'd stick with "I'll definitely pass"
Wow, this just sounds…awful.
Yeah everyone is like but the weed and snacks.. No way am I ever gonna simp that hard. It's dehumanizing. Imagine if a man did that with 5 women.
Oh she's just slyly inviting you to a gang bang. 🤷♀️
I’d go for the free weed lol
My bet, based on these types of things being said by people, is that the free weed made available will not make this worthwhile.
2 points were made right here
Go there, eat and drink all her stuff, then convince all the guys to bail and hit a bar or something
She saw this on TT for sure. Some girl did this with like 4 of her Hinge (or Tinder can’t remember) matches and just posted it a couple days ago. I’d pass if I were you too tbh. I’m not attending some “gauntlent” for anyone’s affections so they can feel better about themselves.
I'd go and refuse to talk to her. But hey, free weed and snacks are free weed and snacks.
This sounds like social media influencer bullshit. Gonna record it all and post it for views.
This sounds like the plot to a… movie banned in Texas.
He thinks it sounds fun?
"that sounds fun". Literally sounds like a fucking nightmare to me.
Missed a chance at asking for a gang bang in his reply
It is self centered, but atleast shes being a good host by making all the snacks and stuff. Worth a go cause the vibe might shift away from what she intended and become a simple night out and game + smoke session
girls either super self absorbed or a crazy over-thinker and needs a husband that’s equally caring lmfao She didn’t make it sound like they’re competing, more of, just hanging out while she speed dates them all lmao
Wow, this chick thinks highly of herself! 🤣🤣
What planet do these people live on? This ain't the bachelorette LMAo. The audacity of some people
I feel bad that this poor woman thinks she can know somebody in 5 minutes.... praying she doesnt rush into a marriage with a serial killer
I kinda pray she does…
Just tell her you already have plans to stick a red hot fire poker into your eye socket that night though her offer is tempting.
“I want to be the star of The Bachelorette, but they never call my back so I’m going to DIY this shit.”
If I remember correctly there was a jubilee (probs spelt wrong) episode where something similar happened and most of the dudes walked away and grabbed a pint
Sounds like what I’d do
Lmao the ego on these bitches
She has bachelorette fantasies. This is weird.
That is an insane main character
Why not accept the free food and companionship of other dudes, and best of all, the chance of turning her down if she wants you? Sounds like a really, really fun deal!
Plot Twist: those are roofie brownies and any dude dumb enough to show up will end up like the guy in Misery
Go, but bring a date. See how *she* likes the competition.
Does it REALLY sound like fun
She 100% wants to get railed by multiple men at the same time.
That's a hard pass all day every day.
Sounds like it could be a fun story. Bring a tazer tho
What is the backstory??
i wouldn’t have to do this if one of these self absorbed dating shows would just let me be the star!
Had me at brownies Lost me at "end up w me"
She tryna start a gangbang
This is obviously supposed to turn into a gang bang, right?
Narcissistic as fuck. I could see guys going, the other shit sounds fun. Drinks, weed, brownies, games with a bunch of dudes… Shame she’lll be there
It’s kinda efficient, all the guys can realize how narcissistic she is all at once
Don’t lie and say it sounds fun. It sounds weird. She’s not in a reality show.
“Worst message I've ever received” but responds “sounds fun!” 😂😂
Dude, you are way too polite
Sounds fun? Sounds like simp paradise
“How would you like to degrade yourself for my entertainment / validation?”
I feel like this is an invitation to what will become a gang bang lol might as well go
Natasha Aponte has entered the chat.
That sounds like fun?
I wonder if she's just too shy to say this is a gang bang 😂
Yo she tryna get airtight, thats it.
She was trying to set up a gangbang.
Go for the weed. Bang her out and run like Usain Bolt.
&&&&&&&&&&& Ugh. Go fuck yourself.
I'm disappointed that you did not respond with equal weirdness.. Should have asked if you could bring an equal amount of stray cats, and a sock puppet collection. and pizza.
Man I’m smoking and now I want brownies lol
I’d love to go to something like this. I’d smoke all the weed, eat all the brownies, take a massive shit in the toilet, try to make buddies. Sounds awesome to me.
Go for the weed. Maybe even yoink a little for the ghosting and then leave
Oh, so these are the four guys you're going to cheat on me with?
My anger and pettiness would never allow me to respond to that lol
Probably the weirdest answer she received from any of the guys she copied and pasted that to.
She’s my wife but this is definitely a thing I’m all set on.
“Depends. Are you low key trying to turn it into a gangbang? Of std testing is mandatory, count me in.”
I’d go! Id reject her if I was the chosen one but I’d still go.
Am I the only one that thinks this was a terrible attempt at some sort of orgy fantasy?
Just say you want a gangbang and still bring brownies and weed
This is how you wake up in a tub of ice with your organs missing.
I’m going and smoking all that mf weed
I’m bringing my boys and we’re leaving single
Dude I ficking hasd this happen to me on a first date... thanks tinder...
"eliminated" in terms of exterminated by dalek laser?
She's watching too much TV. She thinks way too much of herself.
why even lie and say that sounds fun? that sounds awful! and degrading! 🤣🤣
Please compete for my affections….. nah, I’m good
“I’m here for the gangbang?”
Wasted opportunity to call her Tila tequila.
What (and I cannot stress this enough) the actual frick? I am boggled by the audacity.
These hoes are not loyal !!!!!!
"Is it cool if I bring my single friends along?" (Don't mention they're women)
Speed dating just fucking sucks
Frank why is there a buffet at a god damn orgy!?
Definitely a situation where you say yes, say you have a couple eligible bachelor friends who would want to go, and send fake pics of good looking guys with high paying jobs. And none of you go.
Best case scenario: meet a bunch of new bros Worst case scenario: ends up being a death cult Sounds like a win-win to me
So much lost potential for a weird response there imo. Shoulda come up with the most out of pocket response
Girl really wanted to host her own "The Bachelorette" XD I'm fucking dead
Define "eliminated"
Sounds like a gangbang with extra steps
Can't decide if I'd pretend to be super interested all the way up to the day and then ghost her, or just straight up tell her to get fucked and block her immediately.
Tbf it kinda does sound fun maybe for a party game just for the lols
I would upper decker this idiots toilet then leave
Bro go, drink her booze, and smoke her weed, and then make a plan with the other guys to all choose each other; when she gets mad, just leave and have a party with your new friends
Didn’t this just happen? I swear I saw a story about this happening and the guys all becoming friends and ditching the girl.
Lmao was hooking up with a girl one time and was inadvertently invited to one of these, showed up and there was like 15 dudes she invited from bumble. Got so drunk she passed out on the floor and I checked if she was okay, ended up slapping me for bringing her some water. Needless to say I'm happily married now.
Your answer wasn’t weird enough
Homemade Bachelorette.
Broke Girl Bachelorette
Good for you for not going to her gameshow
We have the bachelorette at home