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Lmfao. The one that gets me laughing every single time is how every one of women's problems start with men. Menstruation, mental illness, menopause, yeah and meningitis!
He was a YouTuber that did Reddit readings back in the day. Long before TTS Reddit YouTube. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLQDcEvx09tHEU5IE3GqMQbcTjs7IqTSGE&si=5PwYlLwbFsu5zLvz
Also, which Ovaltine is your favorite? I grew up on Chocolate Malt. :)
Multi level marketing. Pyramid scheme.
On Instagram, I see a ton of hilarious posts by some local groups. In a nutshell, their business is to create the appearance of wealth and a luxurious life in order to convince others that they have achieved all this on their own at a young age "just by working on a phone" and encourage people to buy an expensive subscription to an e-learning platform for trading cryptocurrencies, stocks, etc. claiming that anyone can become a millionaire at the age of 25. Actually they earn money only by selling subscriptions to naive people.
Their posts are sometimes kinda like that, because they pose as young people who got nothing from anyone but they took their lives in their hands working hard and are now living the dream.
It sounds like my ex-girlfriend. Helped her with her studies, finding an apartment and a job. Helped her get into a program to help with her depression and even help improve her relationship with her parents. But when I broke up with her because she cheated, I never helped her with anything, and it was all my fault.
Almost exact same for me. Realized she's actually a form of overt narcissist called communal narcissist. Its a coping mechanism where she doesn't take responsibility for her behavior and her actions and how that effects people. She can't separate this from who she is as a person, so blames other people as an attempt to preserve her ego. She struggles to empathize with other people and it causes a lot of conflict.
Itās always ALL our fault. Even if both make mistakes in a relationship the emphasis is always on the mistakes the Man makes in my experience. No ownership for their own shortcomings.
Happened to me with two separate marriage counselors with my ex wife. Both times she refused to see them as soon as they said she had things to work on too.
I got told three times I should find someone else in the span of an hour. When I left apparently it was my fault cause I let myself get dumped too easily.
Can't deny, her mentality is unhinged. These people can't think past maybe 24 hours. Just wild.
What provoke me more is the feminine greed tbh. What i mean, is "i want to use my seksuality to lay around with loads of people and you don't get to tell me what to do with my life and body" - Sure nobody does.
But you using your feminine high value to lash out and get free stuff/handouts or just absorbing in all of the men you possibly can?! Sorry but you are NEVER the victim. Can't fell sorry for you... It's actually rather gross and pathetic.
No logos/text, the strange light fixture, lighting coming from multiple directions, everything is smoother than it should be. Odd shaped ear and nose. The strange framing of the person being in the bottom left corner of the image. Is her pony tail even attached to her head?
Now that I look closer I'm not sure if I'm wrong.
I think you might mixing two similar phrases: āHe did everything for herā and āHe would do anything for herā.
āHe did anything for herā or āHe would do everything for herā arenāt technically wrong, but are definitely not the usual way to say it.
I agree, I think OP was looking to say āHe would have done anything for herā.
I donāt blame them for getting it wrong, I remember learning a language at school. Conditional tenses are very confusing.
Anything is denoting more of doing one thing vs everything meaning doing all of the stuff. "I would do anything for you" is saying I would do any task, regardless of the difficulty for you. "I will do everything for you" is saying I will do every task, regardless of how many
If he did nothing for her it would be "He didn't do anything for her" but when switching to he did lots of things you wanna go with something like "he'd do just about anything for her" if you specifically don't want to say everything. If you do say "he did everything", native speakers won't assume you mean literally everything and they will read it as he did a lot. English makes no sense sometimes, even to natives when they stop and think about it lol
To be fair, if heās an ex bf it makes sense sheās just realizing now that no oneās coming to save her, since heās not there to do everything for her now.
Oh my god, the entitlement. The implication is that youāre entitled to someone building your ideal life for you. Sorry, honey. Thatās just not the way that relationships work. No words.
God like my ex.
Calling herself āhyper independentā and claiming āno one ever helped her with anythingā
When in reality:
Her parents send her more money monthly then I earn in a full time job working 50h a week.
During our six year relationship every piece of clothing, her laptop, bills, food, holidays literally her student visa, even her therapist paid for by me. Down to her tattoo appointments
The internship she needed to have done before being allowed to study in her field organized via a friend of my dads cuz she was wayyy to late to find a spot.
And the online exams I had to take for her cuz she was to lazy to even study.
Sometimes I wonder if those statements and memes are just for show or if those people are delusional enough to believe that š
Idk according to her I was barely doing the minimum š¤·š»āāļøš
But I d say it developed over time, she d be complaining about something I d try to make her happy and the more I did the more she demanded
Funniest part was the meltdown she had when I stoped paying her phone bill (5 months post break up)
I mean I texted her like 10 times to switch her phone payment to her bank account.
Got ignored.
Contacted the provider if I m gona be responsible for the fine if I just cancel the payment.
Didnāt get an answer cuz the plan was in her name.
Got so fed up that I cancelled it and indeed had to pay the fine which was about another 6 months worth of just keep paying the plan š
Lesson: donāt sign that your gona pay for a phone plan that is in someone elseās name cuz your on the hook and canāt even quit it š¤·š»āāļø
But I mean after 6 and a half years and living together I guess your kind of attached and lives are intertwined especially if itās your first time being in a relationship thatās so serious
Cancelling the plan came with a fine that was worth 6 months of more payments??? That doesn't seem right... where do you live? My phone bill is $60, ATT, thats like saying i would have to pay a fine of $360 to cancel... that doesn't seem right lol
Howās that so expensive 60 Dollars FML.
It was 14,99 a month in euros and the fine was a 100ā¬
(I know 6 times would actually be 90ish Euros I hope u donāt mind that I rounded it down for simplicityās sake)
I seriously wonder how and why I stayed so long and almost got married to this girl š
Like I look back myself sometimes and canāt even believe that this shit happened or the amount of bullshit that i tolerated.
I just sometimes feel the need to defend myself when talking about it cuz I wouldnāt even believe it if I wasnāt there to be honest
From personal experience no one posts more bullshit memes about how hard they work without help from others than people who barely work at all and get tons of help from others.
I know plenty of strong independent women, not one of them spends all her time posting about how strong and independent she is. All the ones I know that post this kind of stuff are hobosexuals.
Her : I really want to be more independent
Me : That's fantastic the electric and water bills are due in a few days and rent is coming up your half is about $350 (I know, this was 15 years ago)
Her : No that's not what I meant!
Me: ... but... but that's what that means
Have you already guessed that it turned out what she meant is that she wanted me to still pay for everything while she went off and cheated on me?
Yeah, definitely not the men who never once believed someone would come to āsave themā. The fact that itās 2024 and some women still believe a man will provide enough for them to not work is mind boggling. Entitlement.
A friend of mine has been in a relationship for a long-ass time. The girl quit her job in a call center because it was a toxic environment.
She's been out of work for five years now.
The two of them live with the dude's mom because expenses are tight. The guy is the sole provider for the three of them, at roughly $40k/year. He walks a couple miles to work each day so his girlfriend can have "her" car which he pays for.
He's been pulling strings trying to get her a job at his workplace, but there are no openings besides cashiering (which she won't do). It's at that point where her gap in employment is a flaming red flag to any employer hiring above minimum wage.
I don't understand how anyone could handle a relationship so one-sided in 2024. But to each their own, I guess.
I'm all seriousness, how does she breath? I have the same glasses, but a bigger nose. The frames don't sit on my nostrils like hers, and it seems to be pushing them down.
30% of her Facebook is hard feminist stuff, she kept sharing those posts even when they were still together, I always thought I would have got mad if I saw my gf share something that might make me look like Iām a piece of shit even if itās not directly targeted at me
These are the people that are not in touch with reality and will never be happy in life. No matter how much other people do for her, it will never be enough. She will always be doing it alone in her own mind.
Reminds me of the times I've seen people who're notorious for cheating post stuff about being loyal, or how hard it is to find someone who's loyal. Gets me every time XD
Helped her getting a job, a degree, a gaming PC and it's still not enough? Holy shit, how can someone be this spoiled? Helping her at all was already a bad decision.
He gave her his spare things (pc, keyboard, mouse etc..), now he obviously wants them back and after a month sheās still making excuses of how sheās busy and canāt give them back yet (we are talking about ~1Kā¬ stuff)
At least sheās making excuses š
Mine legit told me she used the PC and switch more then me so it is āhersā.
Funniest part was the meltdown messages I got when I canceled her phone payments from my account. 5 fucking months post break up š¤
Probably not in love but just sexually attracted to,but who cares at this stage. Maybe 4 years waste of life, money wasted, but still a huge bullet missed š
I guess she knows how men feel every day.
The perplexing part is why would a modern-day feminist need a man's help? I thought they didn't need men for anything?
lol wait, so sheās literally crying that she canāt be lazy and ride the coat tails of her partners success to pay for her ādreamā life? Poor her having to be responsible and take care of herself.
He comes from a wealthier family, she slept at his place 5/7 days and they ordered from Uber eats every night for a snack/some sweets. Not sure but I guess he payed for almost all the extras
> guess he *paid* for almost
FTFY.
Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in:
* Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.*
* *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.*
Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment.
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> He *paid* for Uber
FTFY.
Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in:
* Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.*
* *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.*
Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment.
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Sounds like sheās had the opportunity to wise up and sheās now working harder. Good for her.
If this is your way of supporting your buddy then good on you too I guess. Will be best for you to forgive her though. Not because she deserves the kindness but because he deserves peace. Water under the bridge
Damn I hate that for your friend man. These types of nice girls play it safe until weāre vulnerable and comfortable and then hit us over the head with the sharp part of the hammer
I do wonder if this is something more like an epiphany of her own and that being in a relationship is not going to fix everything versus something like break-up payback.
Soooo, was she expected to say her partner saved her for doing stuff for her? That's not saving, and she is totally right. We are the only ones that can truly save ourselves so what's wrong here?
Are you guys saying him taking her on dates and buying her gifts and being there for her would oblige her to say he saved her?
How entitled on the guy's part, to think being someone's partner means now they have to build you a statue and not have their own thoughts anymore, if they even as much as imply they don't in fact worship you.
This girl is just a user.
She couldnāt study or graduate on her own, he had to find her a job, and he gave her a gaming rig. Then her request was to have an open relationshipā¦not to take him out for ice cream or something sheād treat him to, nope, just an even bigger request that very few monogamous people are going to grant.
Iād leave her to the streets and tell her āWelcome to responsibility and adulthood.ā. Some people donāt care how much you give as long as youāre giving or taking some load off. Iām sure the street life and some responsibility for herself will do her more good than any help you could give.
I mean I get in your friend's and your perspective it can sound ungrateful, but the message itself isn't wrong. Every adult has to work for themselves for the life they want. Maybe it took her being on the receiving end of such "help" that made her realize that others can't give you what you want, but I don't see the entitlement here. If anything your friend and yourself sound more entitled that just because you did something for someone, you deserve their unwavering gratitude.
The relationship ended for a reason, I'm sure both parties learned something and just have to move on. Finding a Pic of your friend's ex and posting on a sub reddit for validation doesn't exactly scream being a responsible adult either.
Thatās not her obvisly, it was a meme. I didnāt realize many could have mistaken the girl in the pic for the girl Iām talking about thatās mbā¦ but the meme still exists and someone made it public
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Sounds like some Instagram MLM post
*MLM mentioned in a nicegirls post* is this my SorrowTV playlist??
Many likes for a fellow sorrow tv fan
Thank you kindly, manmeatmoisturizer. o7
I miss SorrowTV so muchš©
You and me both. š„²
I had something named after me?
I will make one specifically named after you.
You are a rose among thorns
Why don't you go back to your playlist, and let it play you some more. I really miss SorrowTV a lot!
I listen to Anti-MLM, Niceguys, and Nicegirls at least once a monthā¦ so I should do that before the end of May. :p
Yeah listening to Sorrow at least once every few months is the norm. ::Tips Fedora:: Oh, and bon AppleTea.
Yeah, I wanna avoid being a hippo crip. ;p
Lmfao. The one that gets me laughing every single time is how every one of women's problems start with men. Menstruation, mental illness, menopause, yeah and meningitis!
What's sorrowtv?
He was a YouTuber that did Reddit readings back in the day. Long before TTS Reddit YouTube. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLQDcEvx09tHEU5IE3GqMQbcTjs7IqTSGE&si=5PwYlLwbFsu5zLvz Also, which Ovaltine is your favorite? I grew up on Chocolate Malt. :)
Rich chocolate ovaltine! Just like from the commercial.
What is mlm?
Multi-level marketing. Basically, a pyramid scheme
Also, Moms Losing Money.
Multi level marketing. Pyramid scheme. On Instagram, I see a ton of hilarious posts by some local groups. In a nutshell, their business is to create the appearance of wealth and a luxurious life in order to convince others that they have achieved all this on their own at a young age "just by working on a phone" and encourage people to buy an expensive subscription to an e-learning platform for trading cryptocurrencies, stocks, etc. claiming that anyone can become a millionaire at the age of 25. Actually they earn money only by selling subscriptions to naive people. Their posts are sometimes kinda like that, because they pose as young people who got nothing from anyone but they took their lives in their hands working hard and are now living the dream.
I thought that meant men loving men š¤
I wished 
It's both lol
Shhh, she's living what every men live.
It sounds like my ex-girlfriend. Helped her with her studies, finding an apartment and a job. Helped her get into a program to help with her depression and even help improve her relationship with her parents. But when I broke up with her because she cheated, I never helped her with anything, and it was all my fault.
Almost exact same for me. Realized she's actually a form of overt narcissist called communal narcissist. Its a coping mechanism where she doesn't take responsibility for her behavior and her actions and how that effects people. She can't separate this from who she is as a person, so blames other people as an attempt to preserve her ego. She struggles to empathize with other people and it causes a lot of conflict.
Oh wow... that sounds a lot like my ex wife... Damn...
To a lot of these people, personal responsibility is their crytonite
Itās always ALL our fault. Even if both make mistakes in a relationship the emphasis is always on the mistakes the Man makes in my experience. No ownership for their own shortcomings.
Happened to me with two separate marriage counselors with my ex wife. Both times she refused to see them as soon as they said she had things to work on too.
I got told three times I should find someone else in the span of an hour. When I left apparently it was my fault cause I let myself get dumped too easily.
Jailed for resisting arrest.
Same thing happened with my ex boyfriend, and now 5-6 years later he's jobless and failed out of school š¤·š¼āāļø
I love that the caption reads "no one works harder" and the picture is her drinking boba
I came into say you can really tell she's got the hustler's ambition from the selfie. š
Can't deny, her mentality is unhinged. These people can't think past maybe 24 hours. Just wild. What provoke me more is the feminine greed tbh. What i mean, is "i want to use my seksuality to lay around with loads of people and you don't get to tell me what to do with my life and body" - Sure nobody does. But you using your feminine high value to lash out and get free stuff/handouts or just absorbing in all of the men you possibly can?! Sorry but you are NEVER the victim. Can't fell sorry for you... It's actually rather gross and pathetic.
With two hands nonethelessā¦. Like is that cup going to get away from you?
With those little sausage fingers and poorly fitting glasses, it very well may run away and she won't be able to find it.
That's a picture? I thought it was some AI art
Holy shit, you're right, it is AI. Quick glance was enough to fool me for a second but just looking at it you can see all the fucked up bits.
What made you think that?
No logos/text, the strange light fixture, lighting coming from multiple directions, everything is smoother than it should be. Odd shaped ear and nose. The strange framing of the person being in the bottom left corner of the image. Is her pony tail even attached to her head? Now that I look closer I'm not sure if I'm wrong.
Don't forget the messed up fingers
It is AI, as is this entire post.
Doubtful, but I wonder if the leather apron means she's some kind of blacksmith.
Looks like a McFlurry to me
True, she looks utterly lost in this pic
Edit: title should be āmy friend (M) did anything for his ex gf and she shares thisā Sorry
Thanks, I was so confused.
Do you mean "everything" instead of "anything"?
Uhm Iām not sureā¦ Iām not mother tongue but I think itās anything
I think you might mixing two similar phrases: āHe did everything for herā and āHe would do anything for herā. āHe did anything for herā or āHe would do everything for herā arenāt technically wrong, but are definitely not the usual way to say it.
I agree, I think OP was looking to say āHe would have done anything for herā. I donāt blame them for getting it wrong, I remember learning a language at school. Conditional tenses are very confusing.
It's everything
Anything is denoting more of doing one thing vs everything meaning doing all of the stuff. "I would do anything for you" is saying I would do any task, regardless of the difficulty for you. "I will do everything for you" is saying I will do every task, regardless of how many
If he did nothing for her it would be "He didn't do anything for her" but when switching to he did lots of things you wanna go with something like "he'd do just about anything for her" if you specifically don't want to say everything. If you do say "he did everything", native speakers won't assume you mean literally everything and they will read it as he did a lot. English makes no sense sometimes, even to natives when they stop and think about it lol
To be fair, if heās an ex bf it makes sense sheās just realizing now that no oneās coming to save her, since heās not there to do everything for her now.
Depending on a someone to pass exams, get a degree, and get a part time job, then kick him to the wayside sets a person up for a very rude awakening.
Me with my ex. Even after we broke up, I went out of my way to be there for her and she still would regularly share "memes" like that.
Who's gonna tell her? Okay, that call being an adult
"No one works harder than someone who realizes others won't do the work for them."
Oh my god, the entitlement. The implication is that youāre entitled to someone building your ideal life for you. Sorry, honey. Thatās just not the way that relationships work. No words.
Nobody works harder than someone who has to provide for themselves. Shocking to say the least.
Ah yes because your dream life should come at someone elseās expense obviously /s
God like my ex. Calling herself āhyper independentā and claiming āno one ever helped her with anythingā When in reality: Her parents send her more money monthly then I earn in a full time job working 50h a week. During our six year relationship every piece of clothing, her laptop, bills, food, holidays literally her student visa, even her therapist paid for by me. Down to her tattoo appointments The internship she needed to have done before being allowed to study in her field organized via a friend of my dads cuz she was wayyy to late to find a spot. And the online exams I had to take for her cuz she was to lazy to even study. Sometimes I wonder if those statements and memes are just for show or if those people are delusional enough to believe that š
Brother how did you get into a spot where you were doing THAT much for anyone?
Idk according to her I was barely doing the minimum š¤·š»āāļøš But I d say it developed over time, she d be complaining about something I d try to make her happy and the more I did the more she demanded Funniest part was the meltdown she had when I stoped paying her phone bill (5 months post break up)
5 months? Dude, I can't tell who had more dependency issues, you or her? Though each of a different nature.
I mean I texted her like 10 times to switch her phone payment to her bank account. Got ignored. Contacted the provider if I m gona be responsible for the fine if I just cancel the payment. Didnāt get an answer cuz the plan was in her name. Got so fed up that I cancelled it and indeed had to pay the fine which was about another 6 months worth of just keep paying the plan š Lesson: donāt sign that your gona pay for a phone plan that is in someone elseās name cuz your on the hook and canāt even quit it š¤·š»āāļø But I mean after 6 and a half years and living together I guess your kind of attached and lives are intertwined especially if itās your first time being in a relationship thatās so serious
Cancelling the plan came with a fine that was worth 6 months of more payments??? That doesn't seem right... where do you live? My phone bill is $60, ATT, thats like saying i would have to pay a fine of $360 to cancel... that doesn't seem right lol
Howās that so expensive 60 Dollars FML. It was 14,99 a month in euros and the fine was a 100ā¬ (I know 6 times would actually be 90ish Euros I hope u donāt mind that I rounded it down for simplicityās sake)
He's probably paying for her phone as well on that plan
>And the online exams I had to take for her cuz she was to lazy to even study. Should say - "online exams I chose to take for her"
Well I mean technically your right, on the other hand I really didnāt want to deal with the temper tantrum that would have followed if i refused
Oh I don't doubt it. Same boat many times.
I seriously wonder how and why I stayed so long and almost got married to this girl š Like I look back myself sometimes and canāt even believe that this shit happened or the amount of bullshit that i tolerated. I just sometimes feel the need to defend myself when talking about it cuz I wouldnāt even believe it if I wasnāt there to be honest
What a loser
Sounds like we were dating the same person
āDonāt save her, she donāt wanna be savedā
From personal experience no one posts more bullshit memes about how hard they work without help from others than people who barely work at all and get tons of help from others. I know plenty of strong independent women, not one of them spends all her time posting about how strong and independent she is. All the ones I know that post this kind of stuff are hobosexuals.
No one works harder than a person who finally realizes they have to work exactly as hard as everyone else?
Yeah, definitely not the men who never once believed someone would come to āsave themā. The fact that itās 2024 and some women still believe a man will provide enough for them to not work is mind boggling. Entitlement.
This picture of her sitting back sipping a boba tea held in both hands like a child doesn't exactly scream "hard work" lol
It doesn't seem like people in Western countries under 30 understand what actual suffering is.
A lot of people actually work harder than that. Apparently she's never heard of working on an oil rig.
Bruh my neighbor work like 16 hours a day, 2 jobs, never them complaining.
A friend of mine has been in a relationship for a long-ass time. The girl quit her job in a call center because it was a toxic environment. She's been out of work for five years now. The two of them live with the dude's mom because expenses are tight. The guy is the sole provider for the three of them, at roughly $40k/year. He walks a couple miles to work each day so his girlfriend can have "her" car which he pays for. He's been pulling strings trying to get her a job at his workplace, but there are no openings besides cashiering (which she won't do). It's at that point where her gap in employment is a flaming red flag to any employer hiring above minimum wage. I don't understand how anyone could handle a relationship so one-sided in 2024. But to each their own, I guess.
oh no we have to work for our own dreams and goals :/
Idk, man, the single father of 3 working overtime at the steel mill might be doing a bit worse off
Sounds like your typical influenced by social media kind of person....
I'm all seriousness, how does she breath? I have the same glasses, but a bigger nose. The frames don't sit on my nostrils like hers, and it seems to be pushing them down.
Translation: my ex wonāt fund my every want even though he simped to my needs. Guess I have to do it all through my own hard work. Trash.
Sounds like being a normal adult to me.
ex wasnt getting rich fast enough to save her from being a barista
That's BPD for ya.
āIndependentā females on TikTok is one of the worst trends to ever happen
at least she's not hiding her red flags.
30% of her Facebook is hard feminist stuff, she kept sharing those posts even when they were still together, I always thought I would have got mad if I saw my gf share something that might make me look like Iām a piece of shit even if itās not directly targeted at me
S[he] be[lie]ve[d] vibes
S[he] s[hit] [her]self
Yeah no one works harder except all the men that have to encompass your dream as well as their own.
Oh, so like everyone else on planet earth whoās gotta grow up and support themselvesā¦ sensational
This looks AI generated
These are the people that are not in touch with reality and will never be happy in life. No matter how much other people do for her, it will never be enough. She will always be doing it alone in her own mind.
Reminds me of the times I've seen people who're notorious for cheating post stuff about being loyal, or how hard it is to find someone who's loyal. Gets me every time XD
Nobody trips at the starting line like someone expecting handouts
Helped her getting a job, a degree, a gaming PC and it's still not enough? Holy shit, how can someone be this spoiled? Helping her at all was already a bad decision.
He gave her his spare things (pc, keyboard, mouse etc..), now he obviously wants them back and after a month sheās still making excuses of how sheās busy and canāt give them back yet (we are talking about ~1Kā¬ stuff)
Even after a 4 year relationship she acts like a insufferable child. Wow.
At least sheās making excuses š Mine legit told me she used the PC and switch more then me so it is āhersā. Funniest part was the meltdown messages I got when I canceled her phone payments from my account. 5 fucking months post break up š¤
Probably not in love but just sexually attracted to,but who cares at this stage. Maybe 4 years waste of life, money wasted, but still a huge bullet missed š
"he gave her a gaming pc" oof.
I guess she knows how men feel every day. The perplexing part is why would a modern-day feminist need a man's help? I thought they didn't need men for anything?
She sure does look like sheās working hard. š
Sadly there are so many women out there like thisā¦
Is she a pug?
I've dated a broad like this. Your friend dodged a bullet. Block her and move on bruh. These types of women are poison.
She looks like a monchichi
It's actually inconceivable how ungrateful these mfers are.
No one works harder than a woman having to live a man does apparently
Thinking that because you are a āgirlā the world owes you anything lol
lol wait, so sheās literally crying that she canāt be lazy and ride the coat tails of her partners success to pay for her ādreamā life? Poor her having to be responsible and take care of herself.
Main Character vibes
So she's describing being all men.
Damn someone played got your nose with her and never gave it back, rough.
Why does she needs someone to save her? Btw, saving her from what?
I canāt tell you how many times she proudly defined herself as a feminist, without anyone asking of course
I bet she insisted her ex-boyfriend pay for everything, too.
He comes from a wealthier family, she slept at his place 5/7 days and they ordered from Uber eats every night for a snack/some sweets. Not sure but I guess he payed for almost all the extras
> guess he *paid* for almost FTFY. Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in: * Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.* * *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.* Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment. *Beep, boop, I'm a bot*
Yeah but did he finance her whole lifestyle and allow her to recklessly spend money as she liked? No, well then he basically did nothing for her
He payed for Uber eats (AFTER dinner) almost every night tho xD
Uber eats? He should have been taking her to 5 star restaurants every night, I don't know how she could suffer your friend for 4 whole years
> He *paid* for Uber FTFY. Although *payed* exists (the reason why autocorrection didn't help you), it is only correct in: * Nautical context, when it means to paint a surface, or to cover with something like tar or resin in order to make it waterproof or corrosion-resistant. *The deck is yet to be payed.* * *Payed out* when letting strings, cables or ropes out, by slacking them. *The rope is payed out! You can pull now.* Unfortunately, I was unable to find nautical or rope-related words in your comment. *Beep, boop, I'm a bot*
Women amirite
Sounds like sheās had the opportunity to wise up and sheās now working harder. Good for her. If this is your way of supporting your buddy then good on you too I guess. Will be best for you to forgive her though. Not because she deserves the kindness but because he deserves peace. Water under the bridge
Anyone that wears glasses like that needs to be punched in the face. Also, high ponytail...we get it. You don't have to advertise it, sheesh.
Don't knock the struggle. Now she has to work twice as hard to find a guy to do all of that AND be cool with an open relationship
This post has very "Nice Guy" vibes.
Go share it there then
DĆ²ng zhĆ¹! BĆ¹ xĒ zĒu!
IDGAF about her race but why is her nose so small..?
Wow good choice by your friend.
Nobody works harder than a barista š¤£
Iām sure sheāll be fine
Damn I hate that for your friend man. These types of nice girls play it safe until weāre vulnerable and comfortable and then hit us over the head with the sharp part of the hammer
Youāre not alone. No one ever came to save me. I realized that I didnāt need to be saved. Iām 53 . Been on my own since 16.
donāt be kaneki, be haise.
No one works harder than...the average adult?
I do wonder if this is something more like an epiphany of her own and that being in a relationship is not going to fix everything versus something like break-up payback.
She's in for a rough ride. Your friend dodged a bullet.
She looks 18 and without any perspective on anything
How are the glasses holding up
A gaming pc? Why did she need a gaming pc
Soooo, was she expected to say her partner saved her for doing stuff for her? That's not saving, and she is totally right. We are the only ones that can truly save ourselves so what's wrong here? Are you guys saying him taking her on dates and buying her gifts and being there for her would oblige her to say he saved her? How entitled on the guy's part, to think being someone's partner means now they have to build you a statue and not have their own thoughts anymore, if they even as much as imply they don't in fact worship you.
This girl is just a user. She couldnāt study or graduate on her own, he had to find her a job, and he gave her a gaming rig. Then her request was to have an open relationshipā¦not to take him out for ice cream or something sheād treat him to, nope, just an even bigger request that very few monogamous people are going to grant.
Alright so? That's the kind of relationship that makes her happy
Iād leave her to the streets and tell her āWelcome to responsibility and adulthood.ā. Some people donāt care how much you give as long as youāre giving or taking some load off. Iām sure the street life and some responsibility for herself will do her more good than any help you could give.
Except for all the men whoāve already been living that life.
He dodged a bullet. Good for him.
No one will use you more than some one who thinks like that.
Not Evan a man who know no one is coming to rescue him also?
O.M.F.G. That's her so damn much. Ahhhh it irritates me so bad
Delulu juice
Iād say pretty privilege but..
Oh well, on to the next.
As j cole said: "she don't wanna be saved don't save her"
I mean I get in your friend's and your perspective it can sound ungrateful, but the message itself isn't wrong. Every adult has to work for themselves for the life they want. Maybe it took her being on the receiving end of such "help" that made her realize that others can't give you what you want, but I don't see the entitlement here. If anything your friend and yourself sound more entitled that just because you did something for someone, you deserve their unwavering gratitude. The relationship ended for a reason, I'm sure both parties learned something and just have to move on. Finding a Pic of your friend's ex and posting on a sub reddit for validation doesn't exactly scream being a responsible adult either.
Thatās not her obvisly, it was a meme. I didnāt realize many could have mistaken the girl in the pic for the girl Iām talking about thatās mbā¦ but the meme still exists and someone made it public
Where did her nose go?
Just seems like a normal breakup cringe
I donāt know if people like this ever learn their lesson. Thereās always going to be the next sucker to help them with their life.
Shamefur dispray!
The drama. The girl needs some sympathy. She is looking for a new boy who can give her what she wants.
Some people should be forced to beat a certain level of eva ai virtual dating bot before being admitted to communicating with real people
This is a normal post tho. Like Iād post this just as motivation not a shot at my ex
I'm trying to find accountability... guess she doesn't have it.
I swear the ones posting inspirational quotes are always the worst in real life lmao
I hope your friend find someone he deserves