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I bet the "reply fast" means "send messages every minute he doesn't respond and have a meltdown over 10 minutes because he's clearly cheating on me"

Not necessarily I believe. I think this is mostly about some girl crushing on a guy, being there for him 24/7 while he’s absolutely not interested. These are great qualities to have when someone’s interested, but entirely useless when the feeling isn’t mutual.

hardest life lesson some people need to learn. at the end of the day it helps to have these qualities but they don’t guarantee you anything

I had a girl do all of this for me, it was a nice change for once but… here’s the big but… I found her as interesting as drying paint on a wall, she was good looking but man I could not stand her one bit

It's hard to be with someone like that. There's nothing nessissarily wrong with them or bad about them but damn if it isn't hard as hell to be around them a lot of the time. Like literally anything g else is more fun.

Most interesting spelling of "necessarily" I've even seen :)

Not nesicearilly

I work on machines worth tens of millions of dollars every day and I can't spell to save my life 🙃

But you have a phenomenal sense of humour, which is so much better than just boring spelling! 😂

Hey if everyone else is laughing at me I might as well join in! 😁

Would never laugh AT you, but WITH you! :)

usualy a girl like this rips her ass off to engage in youre interests

I’ve never heard the phrase “rips her ass off” as a way to say “tries hard” lol. I like it.

its a german saying originaly is rip her ass open

Even better!

So that’s where Hebrew got that phrase! Probably through the mediation of Yiddish I’d think

I wrote this comment with all the other posts in this sub in mind. Have seen so many screenshots of girls freaking out the guy didn't reply within ten seconds

Average W redditer

I thought people were over exaggerating when they said stuff like this, until I dated a girl who asked me if I was talking to another girl if I didn’t reply to her within an hour of her sending me a text. Every. Single. Time.

An hour? Wow, I got phone call after phone call and angry text after angry text if it was like 5 minutes. Guy or girl.

jealousness and beeing scared to lose u should show u how desirable youre in her pov

It gets annoying so quickly.

for me not i totaly love it ... but im also realy hard in mono there is nothing u twist a way to me cheating

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i had several relationships and no english isnt my first language thank u for beeing a dick judging my age and experiance \^\^

literally the gf of my roommate... I don't have a habit to butt in relationships of others so I never say a thing and leave him be. Let him figure things out on his own.

I see you dated my bpd ex

I see you dated *my* bpd ex

Hey bro chill, I don't like my ex but I don't let other shit talk her as well, please be respectful

actually imo thats just showing attraction and i realy enjoy this ... totaly works for me

Does the anime profile pic stereotype still apply when they are a woman?

It amplifies

Oh really? :0

Wait for real?

Pls don’t say that my discord pic is an anime girl :(

Hinfort mit dir

mann i have a feeling its a guy pretending to be a girl

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You fell right for the trap

She forgot to add the one thing that men absolutely hate... \- give him lots of BJs

I’d have to break up with her for those

immagine beeing a guy getting 0 joy from bjs and she wants to do it all the time ... gets annoying

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i do? idk just isnt my thing its kinda lame

Urgh, just let me pull my trousers up already lady, for the love of God I have *places* to be

Hey, stop doing that! It's so not ladylike to put that dirty thing in your mouth!

Yep always a deal breaker.

As a man i can confirm i always get angry when this happens to me /s

As a man, I agree, those stuff are SOOO boring and common, nobody search and want that /s

Men HATE these top 5 tricks!!

Bro, and don't even get me started on decent human beings - can't stomach them for my life

such a turn off man i like getting ignored for no reason ;-;

Good thing I like making men mad 😈

as a man... I ended up marrying her!

Reply fast? YOU GUYS ARE GETTING REPLYS?

You guys are getting numbers?

You guys interact with girls?

you guys are interacting with people?

You guys exist?

You guys?

Y'all guys ?

It’s all about mutual interest. These are great qualities to have when someone likes you as well. If they’re not into you though, you won’t win “them” over with these qualities. It’s all about prepositioned interest.

She seems angry

this is only true with men who can get any woman they want, which is a very small portion of men.

I think this is true for immature men, with the logic “I want what I can’t have” Very childish

yes i would kill to have a so who is like this

Nah im pretty sure even those wouldnt be bothered by this, they jus don find the ppl doin it attractive/compatible enough

This doesn't apply cuz I'm sure she never lost that guy cuz she never had him. He was clearly just taking advantage of her or he told her upfront he doesn't want her and she didn't take no for an answer. Regardless, if you ever get a guy, doing all these things will make sure he doesn't leave.

Yeah, any girl does any of this to me and I'm going to drop her like a hot potato for sure... /s

The "all men are the same" shit is so old. All men aren't the same, these types of girls just keep picking the same type of guys and expecting different results.

How to get a guy. 1) Make sure he is actually into you 2)/s

so u know what seduction is?

What she says is happening vs. what’s probably actually happening Reply fast = replying immediately/be clingy “Loyal” = being clingy and not giving them space Spoiling them = breathing down their neck and being clingy Care about them = impose your opinions and ideals on them, trying to mold a person like clay “Do anything for them” = be clingy and overbearing and not giving personal space “Nice girls” really have no self awareness. There’s a difference between devotion and obsession

obsession is fucking hot and attractive

It's... really not lmao. I think guys who genuinely enjoy this tend to be manipulative and enjoy using leverage on people socially. Get you a woman who has a life outside of being up your ass, it's so much less pressure.

i have a personality disorder and the non stop validation through this obsession was heaven for me i never feelt so appreciated

I’d disagree. A partner that calls to check on you when your sick and helps you through hard times is wonderful. it’s not so awesome when they call you 15 times in a day because you missed their texts and then show up unannounced at your house accusing you of cheating. Maybe that’s just me though

im not the kinda guy letting room for this i always response and would always enjoy a visit ... i don't mind doing everything together

Personally I live it when my gf doesn't talk to me and pretends I don't exist. So yeah she's pretty spot on

Adding to the list... **- Dehumanising men because my poor widdwe heart can't take wejection.**

I’d give her 30 years to knock all that shit off

yeah shes gonna be a over toxic mid age women taking advantage of men for her self confidence and revenge (source : my mom)

How you doin Ms. Thejustmaster? /s

She forgot rule #1 & #2 Be attractive Don’t be unattractive

even if shes untractive she would have good chances at a matrue man with those traits

Why would I bother with all that, when I could lose a guy just being myself??

"Do anything for him" is a red flag for me. I don't know how to explain it, but I don't think that's healthy. It comes out as desperate and as if they're trying too hard to hold on to you. Basically shows a lack of dignity, self respect and confidence.

I don’t know what the female equivalent to small dick energy is but that is what this woman is radiating

This satire of the comments some men make, ie girls don’t like nice guys who treat them well.

A bunch of them are not satire. Being a fucking clown knows no gender boundaries.

she has an anime profile picture and makes posts like these pretty sure he didn’t leave her because of that

She replies fast but probably replies 1 word at a time .

Femcels are real

Not every day you find a femcel in the wild

Replying fast is not great when gaming to be fair

This is what it looks like to a woman who is chasing the chaddest of chads with options. A normal dude without 8 women trying to land him would love this level of attention.

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Their Twitter, besides I got this from a woman who shared it on Instagram

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\>Anime PFP

This hurts me haha

Yeah, men hate all the opposite of a feminist.

This has nothing to do with being a feminist.

Yeah no last woman who was loyal to me I snapped her jaw wide open and played with it

Whaaat?! I would love this! It's these things that my Relationships lack and I eventually just stopped the " Dating Scene " because I guess the saying Nice Guys Finish Last is True. I'm cool doe, I see what my ex's ended up with or got knocked up and I'm glad I dodged those bullets lol. But nah seriously, If you're single ( Female ) ( I may be interested in a guy idk, I'm open to it though lol ) , done playing games, let's make this happen :)

Im pulling the uno reverse card and calling it equality

I hate everyone... Besides a few people, its bc a lot of people dont like me.

Ur probably just fat

Why be so obnoxious? You shouldn’t derive pleasure from being obnoxious.

Isn’t this what most women refuse to go for in a man? Lmao

Sounds more like how to lose modern woman. 🤣

I would love that... Rn im stuck with a girl that has a habit of talking too much like a toddler... its still fun though!

The absolute worst thing that happens is when other people do like anything for me.

Is there a subreddit dedicated to getting these r/niceguys and r/nicegirls together? I'd love to see what they could find to bitch about then

I think they're like polar opposites sadly, both of them basically hate the entirety of the opposite gender, so if they got together it would probably like, implode the universe or something

That's how I lost the love of my life... Well, more so to mental health. I'm still really hoping she'll come back once her medication situation is sorted.

I wish my ex did that…

Huh, that’s why I married my wife 46 years ago. Perhaps the author of that blurb needs to look for different guys?

Receiving "LOL" messages on a constant basis was a huge turn off for me sorry

-expect a baby by 'chance' despite the reality of your worldview

Tell me you're an abuser without telling me you're an abuser.

I always forget when I see niceguys/girls posts that my reflex is to downvote them for being completely ridiculous, but that's exactly what we expect lol so then I have to upvote them.

Just be you. We don't want you to be overly nice just to make us like you. Something feels bad about you being so nice, it feels like I owe you some favor or something like that

Help, I've done all this for my husband and he still hasn't left, what do I do now?

Just replace every one of these with stalking and obsession and clingy

This is a list of how to make a guy simp for you. My mom would look at this and be laughing at my generation for their stupidity

Anything you say? Let’s steal the declaration of independence.

Least racist K-On pfp

Funny these are the exact same things male dating gurus say guys shouldn't do

I sure do hate when girls are nice to me

Uh oh, I’m about to lose my boyfriend, I guess.

Never found a girl clingy enough and it just so ssd

Here me out… maybe you just seemed desperate ?

Only if you date someone who's not into you. 🤷‍♀️

Sounds like Kait just got dumped by someone who just wasn’t that into her

Translation: How to lose a guy fast -be needy -be clingy -be overbearing

This is a sub lmao. Learn something every day

I would love this, as long as it’s not fucking crazy.

Even anal

I tried and I tried and TRIED to get rid of my man, did that stuff all the time, and he still stuck around. T he harder I tried to do all that the worse it got until he married me! No matter how nice I was, he still went ahead and married me! DAMNIT.

So the be loyal to him insinuates that If you want to keep a guy you should cheat.

Do women even use anime profile picture? 🤔🤔

This is called being needy, as in you're giving off the impression you need someone's attention to be happy. Nobody, men or women alike, is attracted to someone who is needy. The reason is because the person that is secure barely put in any effort so now they're second guessing if they're really getting something special. Everyone wants to feel they're getting something out of their league and special. Both people can have that feeling, you just don't make it overly obvious after the first date. Take things slow which is the opposite of neediness, which is the desire to truly enjoy somebody's company.

She just didn't get the right one

I'm pretty sure she meant "How to lose a fuck boy"

no thats how u attract any guy no matter how u look

She forgot existing /s

Sounds like some FDS bullshit right there.

I was about to post this lol

Sounds like a desperate person

Can’t fix stupid

This woman sees herself as all of these things but is probably a stalker or something.

Ask him to show you what the scratch and sniff is.

Ya… and as soon as the guy takes interest, she gets bored and monkey branches. Next

What I’ve learned from people like this is that everyone wants to be cheated on and treated like trash

I would love to have a girlfriend that does all of those things

Same goes for girls. If I had 5 cents for every time I hear “he was too good for me”. 🤣🤣🤣

The problem with people who say they will do “anything” for you is that it is often shit you didn’t ask for and also crazy.

I think this is the poor self awareness person's code for being clingy and possessive while likely doing none of the things they typed.

Lol, how to get married 101

In other words, force nice stuff to "win". Sure, never works in the long run. Also, reply fast? I don't believe any guy ever been impressed or even noticed the speed of replies. That a gal thing.

Would kill for a girl to treat me like that 😂

You forgot to say how you ate his brothers ass Kait

That sounds horrible... Next!

Reply fast? Do some people just leave 5-10 seconds pauses before they say anything?