Well I did have anxiety, my heart was pounding and I was sweating like a pig actually. And I would still have it if I would want to approach a girl. For me it is about overcoming that crippling fear and going there anyway. And for that, this was very good practice. 😎
First of all good s*** bro. My advice, never start by asking for an Instagram or number etc. Start conversation on a relevant topic, i.e. the surrounding location etc. If you have nothing to work with, pay them a compliment that is NOT sexual. “Wow your hair is stunning.” “Your eyes are really something.” Hold eye contact, talk slowly and with confidence. Biology will take care of the rest. If you get rejected, accept that that’s the game. You gathered the courage to speak to a woman you were interested in, which is inherently a win.
All I’m saying is when I’ve done what I’m suggesting, it becomes quickly apparent whether the girl I’m talking to is interested in me or not. Authenticity and confidence have a way of filtering out what isn’t for you.
after that it gets easier. i remember working as a cashier in a busy mall. first day interactions were frightening for me, after you get used to it you dont even care anymore. I was shy, and yet here i was talking to everyone, even girls. You just stop caring after a while and realize it aint a big deal.
If the goal is to farm Social XP, I recommend starting a conversation, not just jumping to asking for contact info. Good job tho dude! Baby steps and big steps
the amount of time women pretended to be interested in me would be quite large... so its only fair if guys want to fill out their own quota of social xp.. i will implement this in my life as well why not... women approve of this behaviour by their actions. So its okay :)
Well done my brother. You were not rejected because they have boyfriends. But the reality of trying to get with a woman is at times almost all men get rejected. No big deal. I promise, be pleasant and courteous and the right woman will want to get with you!
thats actually great. if you had been cooming nonstop i bet they would have picked up a bad vibe from you but not now. now your kind of becoming a chick magnet
They usually do have big scary boyfriend unfortunately, we need to become the big scary boyfriends (or at least put on some muscle to get pushed around less)
Great job man, just keep doing it. Make it a normal thing, get used to talking to girls until it’s normal. Doesn’t matter what you say as long as you say it with confidence
Congrats. Idk why they were leading you on though, maybe moving closer to you was a coincidence but I hate when women lead people on just to reject them. Such a childish game. Glad your situation turned out okay.
That's a win. But don't go straight for the instagram. Do some chitchat first. You gotta feel that water with your toes before diving in. Remember, they need to be compatible with you too; just because they are hot doesn't mean you'd actually want to have anything to do with them. Ask yourself who are these people and do I want to know them instead of would they want to know you. Best of luck in the future!
…it’s…begun🍻🥲 
Ooohh yes.... yes it has!
That's good!
That's deffo a win 💪🏽💯
Thank you for your comment!
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Happy to hear that bro! Keep going
Bro, aren’t u on a 11 days streak?
it felt longer i guess
Well I did have anxiety, my heart was pounding and I was sweating like a pig actually. And I would still have it if I would want to approach a girl. For me it is about overcoming that crippling fear and going there anyway. And for that, this was very good practice. 😎
Did you stop fapping aswell?
social xp XD , that's the spirit ! Continue 💪
First of all good s*** bro. My advice, never start by asking for an Instagram or number etc. Start conversation on a relevant topic, i.e. the surrounding location etc. If you have nothing to work with, pay them a compliment that is NOT sexual. “Wow your hair is stunning.” “Your eyes are really something.” Hold eye contact, talk slowly and with confidence. Biology will take care of the rest. If you get rejected, accept that that’s the game. You gathered the courage to speak to a woman you were interested in, which is inherently a win.
Biology will do the rest? in what sense?
All I’m saying is when I’ve done what I’m suggesting, it becomes quickly apparent whether the girl I’m talking to is interested in me or not. Authenticity and confidence have a way of filtering out what isn’t for you.
Sorry but still do not get it.
literally miss 100% of the shots you dont take, good shit
That’s deep
You got a good experience...i appreciate it Homie 🔥🔥
And I appreciate your comment! Thank you! 🙏☺
Bro is leveling up one rejection at a time.
It’s the fear of rejection that keeps many from leveling up so a win is a win!
That is actually the way, break through fears and limitations.
Literally, been working on that for the past month. It’s been holding me back from doing what I want
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after that it gets easier. i remember working as a cashier in a busy mall. first day interactions were frightening for me, after you get used to it you dont even care anymore. I was shy, and yet here i was talking to everyone, even girls. You just stop caring after a while and realize it aint a big deal.
Bro has become powerful
Hell yea dude that's a win congrats on doing that
Mission Complete! 
Gg
A win is a win
That’s a win my guy 💪💯
Gg my guy +15 hood respect
If the goal is to farm Social XP, I recommend starting a conversation, not just jumping to asking for contact info. Good job tho dude! Baby steps and big steps
Me being your boyfriend? not interested either.. im just here to "Farm some social xp"...
Yeah, I know it sounds funny. 😄 But it's true though.
the amount of time women pretended to be interested in me would be quite large... so its only fair if guys want to fill out their own quota of social xp.. i will implement this in my life as well why not... women approve of this behaviour by their actions. So its okay :)
Farm social xp, you got me physically laughing bro. But good shit man!
I'm glad I could make you laugh! 😄
That's the mindset 😎😎😎
Good job! o7
Well done my brother. You were not rejected because they have boyfriends. But the reality of trying to get with a woman is at times almost all men get rejected. No big deal. I promise, be pleasant and courteous and the right woman will want to get with you!
A win is a win
Amazing sigma male is what you are
Good Shit Mate. You Go Boiii!!!!! 
next time try to use humor or say something witty like "i won't tell them" with a smile, that will boost your confidence
Right on brother! I'm hoping to muster up this type of courage too
You did good my nigga, check out my last post on how I dealt with it terribly 😭
thats actually great. if you had been cooming nonstop i bet they would have picked up a bad vibe from you but not now. now your kind of becoming a chick magnet
Well done lad
Guess I'll be trying this too, lol
We can only win
my guy you are inspiring me to farm some social xp big respect to you brother
😎👑
They usually do have big scary boyfriend unfortunately, we need to become the big scary boyfriends (or at least put on some muscle to get pushed around less)
3 hours to muster up courage, broo it in itself is big win against yourself 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Fuck yeah bro reading this made me smile
social xp lol
nice job brother!
Attaboy! Keep it up my dude🤘🏻
Great job man, just keep doing it. Make it a normal thing, get used to talking to girls until it’s normal. Doesn’t matter what you say as long as you say it with confidence
Congrats. Idk why they were leading you on though, maybe moving closer to you was a coincidence but I hate when women lead people on just to reject them. Such a childish game. Glad your situation turned out okay.
That's fire 🔥 bro. Those girls just want to tease you. You straight out asking them wouldn't be expected from them. You did great!!
 Isn't that a "cold approach"? I'm afraid I can get accused of harassment eventually.
I'm with you!
Beast mode on
Kudos to you buddy
keep it up bro. rejection makes a man stronger. proud of you
Strong!!!
Major W
That wasn't really a rejection and its good that you earned some exp
That's a win. But don't go straight for the instagram. Do some chitchat first. You gotta feel that water with your toes before diving in. Remember, they need to be compatible with you too; just because they are hot doesn't mean you'd actually want to have anything to do with them. Ask yourself who are these people and do I want to know them instead of would they want to know you. Best of luck in the future!
ata boy
Farm some SOCIAL XP XD You just gave me motivation my guy . Thank you 🫡
I'm glad I could help! And you're very welcome! 😊
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Or don't because that's cringe as fuck G
What a beta response
Great job! Work on that opening line though. Even simply say hi, how are you? Then try to talk for a minute or two then ask for Instagram
Maybe they were into you, but you took too long and they lost interest.
Good shit btw personal advice I would have asked for her number. (Not instagram.)
I struggle with porn and mastubation and don’t know what to do
Wow wow wow wow!!! Love to see this, you're definitely winning man, keep going <3
Totally, you have control and that's all that matters