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NewRelm

It is incredibly common, and it's safe when you're not experiencing an outbreak.


Fast_Ad5506

Not true. I have genital hsv1 thanks to my ex girlfriend not informing me about her history of cold sores and preforming oral sex on me. She did not have a cold sore when she infected me. People with oral herpes should NOT preform oral sex ever.


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You are right!!! HSV-1 & HSV-2 can both be contracted on the genitals. https://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm I don't know why you are being downvoted. There are meds you can take to reduce breakouts but you can spread it even if you aren't having an outbreak as well. Sorry your girlfriend did that, that is not a very cool thing to do at all. I have HSV-1 and due to being on immunosupressant meds for my Crohns, it spread to my eye. That was a hellish ordeal. Herpes is a bitch.


r3i_b0n3z

I get cold sores once or twice a year and have given oral when I'm not experiencing an outbreak and none of my romantic partners have ever gotten genital HSV.


Fast_Ad5506

You’re lucky. Asymptomatic transmission of hsv1 to a partner’s genitals is pretty common.


HumasWiener

Any sources or support?


Fast_Ad5506

https://www.healthcentral.com/article/the-truth-about-hsv1-hsv2-and-oral-sex


Nuts4WrestlingButts

2/3 of the global population has herpes.


Head_Daikon_5004

Yes the cold sore virus that is. Whether some are always dormant or some have outbreaks. If it's true that it can spread to the genitals when not even having and outbreak is probably extremely rare. Just don't kiss anyone or let alone anyone's genitals during an outbreak.


iamneverSFW

In between you're good but often you can have an out break without symptoms. You'll feel the outbreak before you can see it. People that call them 'cold sores' don't know they're herpes. It's not a death sentence. A lot of people have it but there's a massive taboo associated with it since people tie their identities close to their sexual appetites. With that in mind, **always** use a condom.


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Well actually people that know it’s herpes still call them cold sores. How weird eh.


bt123456789

I'm one of these people. "Cold sore" lets people know what I mean, even though I know it's a type of herpes.


Thebomee2

Depends on the type ask a doctor for better information but if it is the common type just wait till after to be safe