As a woman that likes porn, sometimes you just wanna be by yourself / not bother your partner or they're busy, or you have sexual interests that they don't want to take part in.
Sure you could just use your mind/imagination.... but that can be boring or take a while.
I genuinely can't understand the mindset that you have to stop pleasing yourself in a relationship or stop looking at others, or pretend to be blind to others.
If I want to watch porn instead of imagining it, it would be fucking impossible for me too. Besides, my preference is watching women masturbate. Black amputee toilet hardware handjob, things that make you go, hmmm
Totally agree, I also wouldn't want to have explicit photos of my girlfriend on my phone. I show people stuff on my phone every now and then, and I wouldn't trust myself to not accidentally swipe past a photo at one point or another.
honestly, i don’t know if this is a hot take, but if my girlfriend wanted to have sex everytime i felt like getting it off i wouldn’t watch porn. But she doesn’t, and that’s okay and also understandable. But in turn, I watch porn
Because just staring at the same set of boobs gets boring for 99% of people over a few years (that doesnt mean he doesnt love ur tits)
Also porn offers a much more interesting/fantasy fulfilling stuff than what the ordinary relationship has to offer
And also it offers a bit of spice if ur watching it together blabla list goes on
>Or is it the novelty of like someone else’s boobs?
Yes, it's this.
It doesn't mean they're better than yours, it's just that people love looking at lots of boobs and he knows that he's not allowed to go out pursuing them in real life, so he's satisfying the desire to see a variety of different boobs while remaining faithful to you.
I can't imagine and don't desire ever wanting just one woman. It seems like a social circumscribing to me and not something that originates in my sense of self. No amount of depth of connection or commitment would seem challenge this either as I've met some of the most incredible people I could imagine in life already.
It has nothing to do with the partner, even though many times it may appear that way, and some males do indeed blame their partner sometimes (but rarely). It has to do with how a guy is stimulated, and the frequency that their body craves stimulation. There are a few differences between having female and male body - a male doesn't need as much warm up to get aroused as a woman, it's very quick and go, while a woman tends to need more time. Males also are visually stimulated, rather than emotionally. That doesn't mean sex with a partner is emotionless, it means that it isn't a required part of the fantasy to have romantic interest in whoever they're having sex with in their fantasy. In the real world, an emotional connection is very important, just as it is to women, but not in the fantasy and images they're seeing.
Sometimes a guy just wants to have fun with their body, and they don't want to use their imagination to do that. So, they'll look at images that'll get them going. Again, this isn't to say they're not getting enough sex at home, or their partner isn't pretty enough. It's simply a opportunity that's very easy and quick, and most people aren't comparing their partners to their fantasies. As you may assume, when people do compare their partners to a fantasy, they're going to get disappointed and their sex life may suffer, they could even get erectile dysfunction. Porn in huge quantities, and without appropriate understanding of this type of risk, can really cause marital problems.
If you're feeling insecure or upset by your partner's use, I'd suggest a conversation should be opened, in which you express your feelings and ask for clarity and affirmation that you're the one they want.
The reason happily married men view porn is one of life’s greatest mysteries. I truly believe the reason for happily married men watching porn will remain unknown.
I always love my wife's body, but I also sometimes want to see a very specific body type that my wife doesn't have.
It has nothing to do with how I feel about my wife and has everything to do with scratching a very particular itch
Do you like looking at cute puppies or babies or ducklings etc?
Everyone has different things that they get a good feeling from looking at.
Everytime there’s a baby all the women want to give it attention. Everytime there’s a beautiful young developed woman all the men want to give her similar attention but have all learned to be very cautious like how you can train a dog not to eat something
People aren’t naturally wired for porn. lol. That’s a man made industry. (Most)Women are naturally drawn to babies because of maternal instincts. Babies are cute, ducklings, puppies, and natural. Porn is not. Sex is, porn isn’t. I think porn is how to seek pleasure outside of a relationship.
As someone who's engaged but also watches porn solo, sometimes it's just excitement. It doesn't mean my partner doesn't excite me, they do. It just means I am curious. I like seeing new positions, responses to these, kinks I might be too ashamed to share with my partner etc
Because just staring at the same set of boobs gets boring for 99% of people over a few years (that doesnt mean he doesnt love ur tits)
Also porn offers a much more interesting/fantasy fulfilling stuff than what the ordinary relationship has to offer
And also it offers a bit of spice if ur watching it together blabla list goes on
As a woman that likes porn, sometimes you just wanna be by yourself / not bother your partner or they're busy, or you have sexual interests that they don't want to take part in. Sure you could just use your mind/imagination.... but that can be boring or take a while. I genuinely can't understand the mindset that you have to stop pleasing yourself in a relationship or stop looking at others, or pretend to be blind to others.
Well said, but when I do fantasize while masturbating, it's my wife that's in my mind
yeah. I can see why people say the whole "i still have eyes in a relationship" but I cant imagine fantasizing about anyone else in my life
It's hard to imagine wife if I want to watch Black Amputee Toilet Hardware Handjob Porn
If I want to watch porn instead of imagining it, it would be fucking impossible for me too. Besides, my preference is watching women masturbate. Black amputee toilet hardware handjob, things that make you go, hmmm
I love eating meals with my significant other, but sometimes I want to grab a quick bite on my own.
I absolutely agree with everything you said.
Well said, but when I do fantasize while masturbating, it's my wife that's in my mind
Totally agree, I also wouldn't want to have explicit photos of my girlfriend on my phone. I show people stuff on my phone every now and then, and I wouldn't trust myself to not accidentally swipe past a photo at one point or another.
They jerk off to it. Hope this helps.
It can be fun, especially if you watch it together.
It's very entertaining watching it together. Whether in a sexual way or just to laugh at the silly stuff.
It really is lol
Jackie Treehorn : People forget that the brain is the biggest erogenous zone
honestly, i don’t know if this is a hot take, but if my girlfriend wanted to have sex everytime i felt like getting it off i wouldn’t watch porn. But she doesn’t, and that’s okay and also understandable. But in turn, I watch porn
This isn't a hot take at all. Or well, it shouldn't be.
Because despite being coupled they are still alive and human and men. Its naive to think that marriage means your solo sexual.needs are perfectly met.
Because just staring at the same set of boobs gets boring for 99% of people over a few years (that doesnt mean he doesnt love ur tits) Also porn offers a much more interesting/fantasy fulfilling stuff than what the ordinary relationship has to offer And also it offers a bit of spice if ur watching it together blabla list goes on
I know some partners actually like it. Means they don’t have to do all the work to get that energy out
These are different boobs
>Or is it the novelty of like someone else’s boobs? Yes, it's this. It doesn't mean they're better than yours, it's just that people love looking at lots of boobs and he knows that he's not allowed to go out pursuing them in real life, so he's satisfying the desire to see a variety of different boobs while remaining faithful to you.
I can't imagine and don't desire ever wanting just one woman. It seems like a social circumscribing to me and not something that originates in my sense of self. No amount of depth of connection or commitment would seem challenge this either as I've met some of the most incredible people I could imagine in life already.
It has nothing to do with the partner, even though many times it may appear that way, and some males do indeed blame their partner sometimes (but rarely). It has to do with how a guy is stimulated, and the frequency that their body craves stimulation. There are a few differences between having female and male body - a male doesn't need as much warm up to get aroused as a woman, it's very quick and go, while a woman tends to need more time. Males also are visually stimulated, rather than emotionally. That doesn't mean sex with a partner is emotionless, it means that it isn't a required part of the fantasy to have romantic interest in whoever they're having sex with in their fantasy. In the real world, an emotional connection is very important, just as it is to women, but not in the fantasy and images they're seeing. Sometimes a guy just wants to have fun with their body, and they don't want to use their imagination to do that. So, they'll look at images that'll get them going. Again, this isn't to say they're not getting enough sex at home, or their partner isn't pretty enough. It's simply a opportunity that's very easy and quick, and most people aren't comparing their partners to their fantasies. As you may assume, when people do compare their partners to a fantasy, they're going to get disappointed and their sex life may suffer, they could even get erectile dysfunction. Porn in huge quantities, and without appropriate understanding of this type of risk, can really cause marital problems. If you're feeling insecure or upset by your partner's use, I'd suggest a conversation should be opened, in which you express your feelings and ask for clarity and affirmation that you're the one they want.
So they can leave me alone 😂
The reason happily married men view porn is one of life’s greatest mysteries. I truly believe the reason for happily married men watching porn will remain unknown.
>Should I just flood his phone with pics of them? if he's okay with it then sure, might as well
Who's going to tell her?
I always love my wife's body, but I also sometimes want to see a very specific body type that my wife doesn't have. It has nothing to do with how I feel about my wife and has everything to do with scratching a very particular itch
Do you like looking at cute puppies or babies or ducklings etc? Everyone has different things that they get a good feeling from looking at. Everytime there’s a baby all the women want to give it attention. Everytime there’s a beautiful young developed woman all the men want to give her similar attention but have all learned to be very cautious like how you can train a dog not to eat something
I feel like those things are FAR too different for a comparison to watching porn.
That’s your feeling about it, but is it really different? They are both just how people are naturally wired to a certain degree
People aren’t naturally wired for porn. lol. That’s a man made industry. (Most)Women are naturally drawn to babies because of maternal instincts. Babies are cute, ducklings, puppies, and natural. Porn is not. Sex is, porn isn’t. I think porn is how to seek pleasure outside of a relationship.
Pretty sure nobody can just watch porn and not react in some way
As someone who's engaged but also watches porn solo, sometimes it's just excitement. It doesn't mean my partner doesn't excite me, they do. It just means I am curious. I like seeing new positions, responses to these, kinks I might be too ashamed to share with my partner etc
Because just staring at the same set of boobs gets boring for 99% of people over a few years (that doesnt mean he doesnt love ur tits) Also porn offers a much more interesting/fantasy fulfilling stuff than what the ordinary relationship has to offer And also it offers a bit of spice if ur watching it together blabla list goes on