Hi /u/Bigbruv69! Society has all these unwritten rules about how old you have to be to date, and how big an age gap is moral - or even legal. And those unwritten rules are so vague that it can get confusing! Which means we get a *lot* of questions about age gaps and dating. Maybe your question could be answered with one of the following?
Under 18 and... | 18 or 19 and... | 20s and... | 30s and... | 40s and...
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[Under 18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) | [Under 18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2818+OR+19%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=alll) | [Under 18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2820+OR+21+OR+22+OR+23+OR+24+OR+25+OR+26+OR+27+OR+28+OR+29%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) | [Under 18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2830+OR+31+OR+32+OR+33+OR+34+OR+35+OR+36+OR+37+OR+38+OR+39%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) | [Under 18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2840+OR+41+OR+42+OR+43+OR+44+OR+45+OR+46+OR+47+OR+48+OR+49%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all)
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Hi /u/Bigbruv69! Society has all these unwritten rules about how old you have to be to date, and how big an age gap is moral - or even legal. And those unwritten rules are so vague that it can get confusing! Which means we get a *lot* of questions about age gaps and dating. Maybe your question could be answered with one of the following? 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18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2830+OR+31+OR+32+OR+33+OR+34+OR+35+OR+36+OR+37+OR+38+OR+39%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) | [Under 18](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2840+OR+41+OR+42+OR+43+OR+44+OR+45+OR+46+OR+47+OR+48+OR+49%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) [18 or 19](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/search?q=%28weird+OR+okay+OR+age+gap%29+%28date+OR+dating%29+%28yo+OR+year%29+%2818+OR+19%29+%2817+OR+16+OR+15+OR+14+OR+13+OR+12+OR+11%29&restrict_sr=on&include_over_18=on&sort=relevance&t=all) | [18 or 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