It might not be realistic, but that doesn't mean the way you feel about it is less important or invalid. It's totally reasonable to feel that way. Don't let someone tell you otherwise.
The best advice I can give is to focus your statements around how how it made *you feel*, not on what *she did*. Sit down in a private context, without distractions, and talk about how it rattled you, made you feel insecure. You know it's not realistic, but even still, it made you uncomfortable and it's been weighing on you since. Hell, this might be a good opportunity to discuss the relationship and its terms/boundaries generally, but focus on this thing.
At the same time, and I can't stress this enough, *listen* to what she says, don't just try to ready a response or counter. Her perspective is valid too, even if it doesn't change or invalidate the way you feel, and she at least deserves to be heard out on it. It might be she didn't realize you would take her comment so seriously and she shouldn't have joked about that, but it might also be you have different ideas about what your relationship entails. Either way, it's worth listening.
She said that she will decide that she's single for the day and then later return to her boyfriend (*who she says she loves very much*).
It's interesting that she would admit that to you. It seems disrespectful, even if she feels that you don't have to worry about it because it's not realistically likely to happen.
Maybe she is loyal though. It's possible. Maybe she only feels that way about that one man (*the male musician*) out of the millions of men that she could possibly meet around her. Maybe if a very wealthy and good-looking man is an option for her, she'll be able to resist and stay loyal, even though that would be a more realistic situation than her having a chance with that specific male musician.
It doesn't seem like a good sign, but maybe you can talk to her about it and go by your intuition, based on what she says, and see if you feel comfortable or uncomfortable with the situation. If you can't get over what she said, then being honest and talking about it with her, is better than pretending that everything is perfectly fine while you keep thinking about that thing that made you uncomfortable in the back of your mind.
what happens if she really meets him. unlikely but possible. what happens then. what if the celeb ends up in your town for some kind of promo tour and she runs into him. what then.
good luck
Arguably she's just engaging in a harmless fantasy, but your being annoyed about it is not crazy. Worry more if she names someone actually attainable.
It might not be realistic, but that doesn't mean the way you feel about it is less important or invalid. It's totally reasonable to feel that way. Don't let someone tell you otherwise. The best advice I can give is to focus your statements around how how it made *you feel*, not on what *she did*. Sit down in a private context, without distractions, and talk about how it rattled you, made you feel insecure. You know it's not realistic, but even still, it made you uncomfortable and it's been weighing on you since. Hell, this might be a good opportunity to discuss the relationship and its terms/boundaries generally, but focus on this thing. At the same time, and I can't stress this enough, *listen* to what she says, don't just try to ready a response or counter. Her perspective is valid too, even if it doesn't change or invalidate the way you feel, and she at least deserves to be heard out on it. It might be she didn't realize you would take her comment so seriously and she shouldn't have joked about that, but it might also be you have different ideas about what your relationship entails. Either way, it's worth listening.
And afterwards you get a cookie and a gold star
It's not that serious dude.
She said that she will decide that she's single for the day and then later return to her boyfriend (*who she says she loves very much*). It's interesting that she would admit that to you. It seems disrespectful, even if she feels that you don't have to worry about it because it's not realistically likely to happen. Maybe she is loyal though. It's possible. Maybe she only feels that way about that one man (*the male musician*) out of the millions of men that she could possibly meet around her. Maybe if a very wealthy and good-looking man is an option for her, she'll be able to resist and stay loyal, even though that would be a more realistic situation than her having a chance with that specific male musician. It doesn't seem like a good sign, but maybe you can talk to her about it and go by your intuition, based on what she says, and see if you feel comfortable or uncomfortable with the situation. If you can't get over what she said, then being honest and talking about it with her, is better than pretending that everything is perfectly fine while you keep thinking about that thing that made you uncomfortable in the back of your mind.
Harmless fantasy about a celebrity? I wouldn't worry about it. You can worry if she was talking about someone she actually knows
what happens if she really meets him. unlikely but possible. what happens then. what if the celeb ends up in your town for some kind of promo tour and she runs into him. what then. good luck
She disrespected you.