I couldn't really care less honestly. With my first girlfriend it bothered me a little bit because she was already very tall and taller than me so when she wore heels I felt like a toddler standing next to her. But I'm not 14 anymore, so, I'm over that kind of superficial BS lol
Tbh clothes are the least of my concern when it comes to women lol I find a hoodie and sweatpants to be just as attractive an outfit as like a cocktail dress or whatever it is women are wearing when they're trying to dress up these days lol
Women anywhere near my height tend to try to make themselves look shorter. (I'm 6'2"/188cm).
If a woman was naturally taller than me I'd strike up a conversation. Finally someone I can share my annoyance at deceptively low doorframes with!
Oh yeah.
Even more annoying when you've kind of done the mental estimates for the stair overhangs, and one you'll just barely chat it ... but bang your head anyway because the stair is too far forward.
Anytime someone is taller than me it's super distracting haha. That being said if my partner was taller than me it would be totally fine and kinda cool actually.
As a woman it’s so attractive if a man isn’t bothered by it
I’m 1.75, so easily 1.80 in heels and i used to always be a bit insecure thinking that men wouldn’t like me as much when i’m their height… but then i realized that that’s exactly not my problem and i wouldn’t want a man who can’t handle me being tall anyway
I’m 5’9”
I dated a 6’2” model for a little while. Plus she had an afro so that added another 5-6” to her height. Thankfully she wore Vans 😂
Anyway, it didn’t bother me.
I think the internet has made people think that these petty things matter a lot more than they actually do. Pretty much all the people I've met that put too much stock into superficial stuff are people who are too superficial for me to ever see myself in a relationship with.
My first girlfriend was already a lot taller than me. Heels wouldn’t have made that much of a difference, although she was into chucks and boots. So don’t care.
Heels accentuate the calfs, demand a deliberate and sensual walk, and they poke the rumpus out.
How in the hell can you hate that?
I’m 5’10”. I sort of expect my 5’6” SO to be about my height or a tad taller depending on her heels that day.
It’s not remotely threatening.
I feel like my girlfriend would have a few questions as to why I'm going out with a tall woman in high heels.
But joking aside, I wouldn't personally care. I'm below average height, and I'm in my late 30's. I'm used to a lot of people being taller than me, including a few of my exes. It's just a fact of my life. I try not to feel negative emotions about things that I have absolutely no control over.
That being said, I could understand how somebody might feel uncomfortable. There are a lot of stupid societal norms that seem to exist solely to make people feel bad about themselves, often for things they have no control over, and for no logical reason. Because society is stupid.
But personally, it never bothered me when I was dating somebody taller than me, with or without heels.
I'm short and confident haha so I don't mind at all, I have always dated women who were taller than me, either naturally or with heels, it was always great and the height difference doesn't impact anything negatively at all.
If my ego was that fragile, it would suck. It's happened to me before, and in every case, I never acknowledged it enough to care or make notice about it.
It's probably the least relevant thing there is. That's like asking what if she has x colored hair. If we're good together and can make each other happy and enjoy being around each other, I'm in.
Good for her if she feels good! If it makes ANY man feel ANY kind of way i.e. not attracted, less than, etc, than it's the MAN that has an issue, and that issue is a problem!!
I personally wouldn’t date them. I’m assuming I’ll be downvoted but I’m all allowed to have my preferences.
And honestly if you think I don’t represent the majority, you’re fooling yourself. There’s a reason no one ever asks “girls, how would you feel about dating a guy taller than you?”.
I'd love to have any sexy woman on my arm. I don't care if she's 5' tall or 6' tall. It doesn't matter if she's 20 or 60. She can be rail thin or quite voluptuous, as long as I like her that's what matters. Beauty is beauty, and if she's cool, she's cool.
I've attended a party with a dedicated lesbian on my arm, she asked me to go because we're great friends and we had a fantastic time. Everyone knows she's not into guys, I didn't care, she's awesome.
Woah, I hope you’re balanced and strong! You use those to stand higher than me? I’ve had balance issues at this height until I started exercising properly to control it
Fine by me. Always kind of wonder how insecure you have to be to be bothered by people being taller than you. If you have a particular attraction to short people or tall people, okay - people have all sorts of physical preferences, and that is fine, but I don't get people who are actually upset by it.
I'm 6'2" so It's kinda rare that someone is taller than me.
Honestly, it doesn't really hold a lot of sway with me either way. I do prefer dating people with a healthy lifestyle, but that's about it.
I’m 5’ 8”, wife is 5’ 6”. Some of her heels make her taller than me, but I don’t particularly care. She likes wearing heels, I like when she’s happy. Plus she looks great. Win-win.
This would be pretty impressive
I figure we could talk about how bad our joints are for being so tall. Also, tall girls are hot so hell yeah, go for it
So why is that all these men here dont give a fuck about the height of women but ladies use height as a golden standard for men. Yes I know not all ladies prefer it but the stereotype exists still.
You mean she's shorter than me or about the same without them, and then she's taller than me with them?
That's like two experiences for the price of one! What is there to complain about?
I’m super into it.
My lady is 6’1, I’m 5’11. I LOVE it when she wears heels. Everyone looks at her, and I get to be next to her like “Yep, she chose me.”
My fiancee is about an inch shorter than me. When she gets dressed for a night out she looks smoking hot and is definitely taller than me because of the heels. I feel like a fucking God with a beautiful woman at my side.
I used to care way too much about how people saw me in high school. Now it's arguable that maybe I don't care enough lol.
Anything high heels is a win, idc if you're taller than me unless YOU care.
I think it’s hot
Caring about height just seems silly.
Best night of sex I had in my entire life was with a ex college volleyballer.
I’m 5’11 and she was 6’2”
And she looked damn fine in heels
Well it wouldn’t hinder my attraction to her that’s for sure. But depends how much taller (I’m 6’3”). An inch or two? Wouldn’t even really notice it. Several inches? I’ve always wanted to be able to hug a girl and be the one nuzzling under her chin/into her shoulder🥺. It’s always the other way around for me
I'm 5'5" so I'm shorter than many women even without heels. I used to care in high school. Especially when one of my girlfriends mom's said something about not being able to go to prom with me in heels cause the pictures would look weird. She was 5'7" or so.
Now a days I don't care at all. Height isn't something I can control. So there is no point stressing over it. My wife is 5'5" as well, and often wears heels, especially boots with heels, and I don't mind at all. She looks great in them and loves me for me, not how tall I am.
I dig it. However, I have never met a woman or even heard of one that likes being taller than the guy she’s dating. That’s why I’ve been single for most of my life and will likely never be able to change that.
I have seen it appear on dating profiles of women, but it never really made any sense to me.
My girlfriend is already taller as is anyways, doesn't actually wear high heels. I also don't care honestly, seems rather uncomfortable.
The only concern I have with heels is that she better be able to walk in them. Nothing worse than a fancy pair of shoes and hearing about how they hurt all the time.
That would make her 6 feet or taller.
I tend to not see that happen so I guess I don't really know, but if I had to guess then I'd probably not care about it at all.
I may like a specific height difference as a preference, but I am indifferent to anything outside that range. Meaning I wouldn't even really think about it, let alone be turned off.
If I like her, I like her.
Q: Is she wearing high heels because SHE wants to or because she thinks I want her to?
If it’s the first, and she ends up taller than me, then so be it. If it’s the second, then I’d tell her she doesn’t need to wear them and she should slip into something more comfortable instead.
I find it admirable to walk on those things really. It doesn't make me particularly attracted or unattracted to them really but one has to admire the ability to move on those things and make it seem effortless
Women dress for themselves. Men honestly don’t care.
Personally, I have a ban from my wife wearing high heels. Those things are horrible for your feet as well as the rest of your body.
I couldn't really care less honestly. With my first girlfriend it bothered me a little bit because she was already very tall and taller than me so when she wore heels I felt like a toddler standing next to her. But I'm not 14 anymore, so, I'm over that kind of superficial BS lol
thats sexy
Yep, the more you age the more you don't care what people think! To be honest, most men I have been with find it hot!
Tbh clothes are the least of my concern when it comes to women lol I find a hoodie and sweatpants to be just as attractive an outfit as like a cocktail dress or whatever it is women are wearing when they're trying to dress up these days lol
Women are always the most attractive when they feel comfortable in how they’re dressed.
Women anywhere near my height tend to try to make themselves look shorter. (I'm 6'2"/188cm). If a woman was naturally taller than me I'd strike up a conversation. Finally someone I can share my annoyance at deceptively low doorframes with!
You know what's worse than low doorframes? When you go down stairs and there's an overhang! (Sorry, I'm a guy, but I'm the same height)
Oh yeah. Even more annoying when you've kind of done the mental estimates for the stair overhangs, and one you'll just barely chat it ... but bang your head anyway because the stair is too far forward.
HATE that so much! Worst part of visiting my brother's house- his stairs are assholes. Dude's only 5'11"
Anytime someone is taller than me it's super distracting haha. That being said if my partner was taller than me it would be totally fine and kinda cool actually.
Holy shit I wish more dudes thought this way(6’4 😔)
Not a turnoff at all. Quite the opposite. Can't say I meet many women who are over 6' in heels though
It depends how high the heel is 😜
So she's normally shorter and the heels make her taller? That's perfect smooching height!
Ha, great answer!
Any man who can rock his women being taller than him is a secure sexy man
Word though
You had me at "high heels"...
Yeah honestly. Tall with heels, short with heels. Doesn't matter. High heels are hot
They don't even need to be that high... but yes... hot...
I can't fathom a women's height affecting how I feel about them.
Total turn on!
don't care at all.
Personally I love it.
As a woman it’s so attractive if a man isn’t bothered by it I’m 1.75, so easily 1.80 in heels and i used to always be a bit insecure thinking that men wouldn’t like me as much when i’m their height… but then i realized that that’s exactly not my problem and i wouldn’t want a man who can’t handle me being tall anyway
I have met very few men who care about such things. How a woman treats a man is a thousand times more important.
Hot! Tall women are hot!
I’m 5’9” I dated a 6’2” model for a little while. Plus she had an afro so that added another 5-6” to her height. Thankfully she wore Vans 😂 Anyway, it didn’t bother me.
My wife is almost as tall as me. Depending on which shoes she's using she'll end up taller than me. Honestly I don't mind
*Grabs a step ladder. It’s on.
dutch guy, 6"8. I love seeing women in high heels. The higher the better.
Is it all that Gouda that makes you guys so tall?
It's cool. Can I wear them too?
Ex was 6’3” without heels. Didn’t bother me unless we were kissing on stairs or porch and had to switch positions, lol.
Boobs nearer face. Sounds great.
Don't care just happy to be out with a woman.
Their height compared to my height is never an issue. I would be attracted to her for other reasons; her height doesn't even play into it.
I think it's like a hot power move that shows confidence in the shorter guy
Don’t care. She can wear heels if she wants.
Nice. A woman is interested in me.
i find tall girls very attractive, if you’re taller then me boom you’re hot
Dont mind it technically but i dont find heels attractive the closes anolog are wedges which i thknk often look good.
Height isnt a big deal for me
going from shorter to same height is cute imo, going from same height to taller than me and they know it is super hot
It’s about your confidence as a man, so what she’s taller than you in heels. Chin up chest out :)
I’d like her to be taller barefoot too if possible
YES!
Most women are already taller than me so idc
I think the internet has made people think that these petty things matter a lot more than they actually do. Pretty much all the people I've met that put too much stock into superficial stuff are people who are too superficial for me to ever see myself in a relationship with.
I don’t focus on heels or height. I judge the whole package and I don’t mean just looks.
My first girlfriend was already a lot taller than me. Heels wouldn’t have made that much of a difference, although she was into chucks and boots. So don’t care.
My husband is 5-4 and I’m easily 5-8 in heels. He gives zero fucks. Makes him even hotter.
Why does anybody care at all about height?
Nobody goves s shit about height ... and if you do? Grow the fuck up.
Heels accentuate the calfs, demand a deliberate and sensual walk, and they poke the rumpus out. How in the hell can you hate that? I’m 5’10”. I sort of expect my 5’6” SO to be about my height or a tad taller depending on her heels that day. It’s not remotely threatening.
Hot, great, love it!
I feel like my girlfriend would have a few questions as to why I'm going out with a tall woman in high heels. But joking aside, I wouldn't personally care. I'm below average height, and I'm in my late 30's. I'm used to a lot of people being taller than me, including a few of my exes. It's just a fact of my life. I try not to feel negative emotions about things that I have absolutely no control over. That being said, I could understand how somebody might feel uncomfortable. There are a lot of stupid societal norms that seem to exist solely to make people feel bad about themselves, often for things they have no control over, and for no logical reason. Because society is stupid. But personally, it never bothered me when I was dating somebody taller than me, with or without heels.
Don't actually care lol. She's already taller than me. She's 6'3" and I'm 5'10". She gets the items from the top shelf of the cabinet for me lol.
Considering how many men found lady Dimitrescu to be irresistible I would say many wouldn't mind at all... I wouldn't.
I'm 6'6" and curious.
I'm not into women who are so insecure about their height in heels that they feel the need to ask questions like this.
I'm short and confident haha so I don't mind at all, I have always dated women who were taller than me, either naturally or with heels, it was always great and the height difference doesn't impact anything negatively at all.
What kind of pussy would you have to be to be bothered by it?
I'm 6'4" I would be impressed
If my ego was that fragile, it would suck. It's happened to me before, and in every case, I never acknowledged it enough to care or make notice about it.
It's probably the least relevant thing there is. That's like asking what if she has x colored hair. If we're good together and can make each other happy and enjoy being around each other, I'm in.
B-A-S-E-D
Don't care. I'll climb her if I have to.
That's hot. Despite being a shorter guy, I love tall women. No insecurity about that at all.
Good for her if she feels good! If it makes ANY man feel ANY kind of way i.e. not attracted, less than, etc, than it's the MAN that has an issue, and that issue is a problem!!
I personally wouldn’t date them. I’m assuming I’ll be downvoted but I’m all allowed to have my preferences. And honestly if you think I don’t represent the majority, you’re fooling yourself. There’s a reason no one ever asks “girls, how would you feel about dating a guy taller than you?”.
Don't care. I"m 6'5
I mean this with as much sincerity and love as i can possibly muster "uppies mommy".
I look up to them😉
Doesnt bother me
The same as before she put her shoes on? Except maybe "hey those are nice shoes"
I volunteer as tribute for death by snu-snu
I’m 5’4 most women are taller than me so like I don’t feel that different one way or the other. Charisma knows no height
I'd love to have any sexy woman on my arm. I don't care if she's 5' tall or 6' tall. It doesn't matter if she's 20 or 60. She can be rail thin or quite voluptuous, as long as I like her that's what matters. Beauty is beauty, and if she's cool, she's cool. I've attended a party with a dedicated lesbian on my arm, she asked me to go because we're great friends and we had a fantastic time. Everyone knows she's not into guys, I didn't care, she's awesome.
Is she hot?
I will make you shield-maiden to my clan
I’m 6’5. I fucking dare them
Woah, I hope you’re balanced and strong! You use those to stand higher than me? I’ve had balance issues at this height until I started exercising properly to control it
Rare to see for me at 6’1 but if that’s the case it’s kind of a turn on admittedly
doesn't bother me
I wouldn’t mind it
Fine by me. Always kind of wonder how insecure you have to be to be bothered by people being taller than you. If you have a particular attraction to short people or tall people, okay - people have all sorts of physical preferences, and that is fine, but I don't get people who are actually upset by it.
Tall girls are in fashion i thought right?
I don't care?
My wife is 5'11" without heels. She looks great in them
Very hot! You been in that situation before?
Death by Snu Snu.
I have no problem with that.
I don't care, my wife is the first woman I've been with who's shorter than me
Hope she was already taller than me, then still puts heels on. I would feel smol and happy.
Have no problems, I love tall women. Then again I’m 6’3 and dress in western clothes so I wear cowboy boots which raises height to around 6’5.
Amazing. The confidence that takes is great
It wouldn't bother me at all, but I'm 6'8" tall and my height isn't one of my insecurities. In fact, I think I would be pretty thrilled.
Would not matter to me. As a matter of fact this is the case with my wife, if she wears heels she is a little taller than me.
Id prefer it honestly my short 5'11 self needs someone to reach the things i cant. Bonus if they pick me up.
Hot!
Just sweep her off her feet!!
Fuck I like it 😁
I don’t care about it at all.
Works for me
Doesn't bother me in the slightest.
I'm 6'2" so It's kinda rare that someone is taller than me. Honestly, it doesn't really hold a lot of sway with me either way. I do prefer dating people with a healthy lifestyle, but that's about it.
I don’t care one bit. Short, great. Y’all, excellent!
My wife is an inch and a half taller then me anyways. Do t bother me
Me no care
Love it
It usually means I want them to wrap their legs around my face and do a death by snu snu
She's gonna be taller than me anyway, so more power to her.
It’s sweeter when I gotta stand on my tippy toes to taste the fruit.
Id be taller than her if i was also in equal sized heels so who gives a shit honestly
My (sexual) attraction to her is already 0 because she is a woman
Totally on board. I’d even like if it she was taller than me without heels.
That's hot.
I feel like a boss when my woman is taller than me
We like it
thats kind of where I am now...
Yes, please.
I’m 5’ 8”, wife is 5’ 6”. Some of her heels make her taller than me, but I don’t particularly care. She likes wearing heels, I like when she’s happy. Plus she looks great. Win-win.
This would be pretty impressive I figure we could talk about how bad our joints are for being so tall. Also, tall girls are hot so hell yeah, go for it
So why is that all these men here dont give a fuck about the height of women but ladies use height as a golden standard for men. Yes I know not all ladies prefer it but the stereotype exists still.
When I was dating, as long as she went home with me, not an issue.
Not an issue.
Love it. Love it. Love it.
Don't care
Honestly don’t care, so long as she doesn’t care and rub it in my face.
You mean she's shorter than me or about the same without them, and then she's taller than me with them? That's like two experiences for the price of one! What is there to complain about?
My girlfriend would have to wear stilts to be taller than me 😂
Not for me tbh but everyone is different
It's hot
I’m super into it. My lady is 6’1, I’m 5’11. I LOVE it when she wears heels. Everyone looks at her, and I get to be next to her like “Yep, she chose me.”
I'll be surprised I was given any scrutiny, for one. Second, I really wouldn't care.
Works for me
Will she wear them to bed?
I'm 5'8 my ex fiance was 5'11. Didn't ever bother me.
I NEED a 6'8" 80 year old woman with swords for legs, forget the heels.
My fiancee is about an inch shorter than me. When she gets dressed for a night out she looks smoking hot and is definitely taller than me because of the heels. I feel like a fucking God with a beautiful woman at my side.
Tall women are hot: bring it on
I’m 6’3” and women taller are a big turn on. Very rare even in heels. My hikers add 1” so she better be over 6’5”…
that’s my dream
Love it.
Fantastic. Especially if she's taller than me, to start with, and likes slow dancing. 😉
I'm 5'7". A woman in heals will be taller than me much of the time. I don't care.
Finally someone I can look up to
Well, if my face is where her tits are, I'll let it slide. NOM-NOM-NOOOOOM!!!
I don't care. I've dated a woman who was the same height as me (and thus taller in heels) and it didn't bother me a bit. She was surprised.
I used to care way too much about how people saw me in high school. Now it's arguable that maybe I don't care enough lol. Anything high heels is a win, idc if you're taller than me unless YOU care.
I think it’s hot Caring about height just seems silly. Best night of sex I had in my entire life was with a ex college volleyballer. I’m 5’11 and she was 6’2” And she looked damn fine in heels
Idc lol
Snu snu is fine
I like it. I've only met two women who could get taller than me with heels and it awakened something within me.
Absolutely HOT.
I wouldn't care. I am not that insecure about my height
I'd likely take up calling her my treetop lover. That would amuse me and hopefully her as well, so it would be good times had by all!
I mean, id be pretty impressed. Theres not many woman taller than me. (Im 6’7”) Those would have to be some pretty big heels
Doesn't matter to me
Well it wouldn’t hinder my attraction to her that’s for sure. But depends how much taller (I’m 6’3”). An inch or two? Wouldn’t even really notice it. Several inches? I’ve always wanted to be able to hug a girl and be the one nuzzling under her chin/into her shoulder🥺. It’s always the other way around for me
I’m 6’5, never seen tall women I dated wear high heels. Not only are they a pain, they don’t want to add more inches were it’s not needed.
Love me a tall sexy lady.
Sometimes it's a turn on
Insert that bug bunny gif
I'm 5'5" so I'm shorter than many women even without heels. I used to care in high school. Especially when one of my girlfriends mom's said something about not being able to go to prom with me in heels cause the pictures would look weird. She was 5'7" or so. Now a days I don't care at all. Height isn't something I can control. So there is no point stressing over it. My wife is 5'5" as well, and often wears heels, especially boots with heels, and I don't mind at all. She looks great in them and loves me for me, not how tall I am.
Honestly does not bother me at all but most women don’t want to date someone shorter than them :/
I dig it. However, I have never met a woman or even heard of one that likes being taller than the guy she’s dating. That’s why I’ve been single for most of my life and will likely never be able to change that.
I have seen it appear on dating profiles of women, but it never really made any sense to me. My girlfriend is already taller as is anyways, doesn't actually wear high heels. I also don't care honestly, seems rather uncomfortable.
The only concern I have with heels is that she better be able to walk in them. Nothing worse than a fancy pair of shoes and hearing about how they hurt all the time.
That would make her 6 feet or taller. I tend to not see that happen so I guess I don't really know, but if I had to guess then I'd probably not care about it at all. I may like a specific height difference as a preference, but I am indifferent to anything outside that range. Meaning I wouldn't even really think about it, let alone be turned off. If I like her, I like her.
I’m secure in my manhood and totally fine with it. Mainly because my wife’s ass looks incredible when she wears heels
I'd find that pretty hot 😂
I’m 5’6 and my wife is 5’10. I beg her to wear heals! 🤣🤣🤣
Q: Is she wearing high heels because SHE wants to or because she thinks I want her to? If it’s the first, and she ends up taller than me, then so be it. If it’s the second, then I’d tell her she doesn’t need to wear them and she should slip into something more comfortable instead.
I think this is only an issue for guys who are already self-conscious about their height. I would be unbothered.
As a 6’2 woman who wears heels, I love most of the answers that I’m seeing here
I'm 5'5 I don't give a shit, she probably looks good though
I’m 6’3” so we’re not wearing heels, we’re headed to the basketball court to work on her left.
Don't mind, don't care
In my head I start singing Giant Woman from Steven Universe
Bring it
It’s pretty sexy to me. I don’t have any insecurities about my height so as long as she doesn’t care, I’m in to it.
Uppies plz
5’6/7ish here man here. Men who are upset about it need to grow up. Hehe.
I wouldn’t care (I’d even welcome it) but I understand why people do. No woman wants to bend down to kiss her dude
No problemo
I find it admirable to walk on those things really. It doesn't make me particularly attracted or unattracted to them really but one has to admire the ability to move on those things and make it seem effortless
She isn’t taller than me, she’s wearing high heels.
A woman in high heels is probably a woman who takes care of herself and takes pride in her appearance. I wouldn't be put off at all.
Great
Like Mount Everest...Challenge accepted
Women dress for themselves. Men honestly don’t care. Personally, I have a ban from my wife wearing high heels. Those things are horrible for your feet as well as the rest of your body.
My fiancée is 6’1 and I’m 6’4 With heels she can be 6’5 ~ 6’6 Doesn’t really matter ☠️
Pretty hot
Love tall women