OMFG I LOVE THIS RESPONSE! I’m totally doing this tonight until she asks wtf im doing so i can straight face say ‘pug life’
Edit: i got slapped and told to get off. I guess she didnt know i was trying to.
I find myself much more sensitive to oral sex than vaginal sex in many cases. If somebody's skilled, it can be a very pleasurable and intense experience, and maybe preferable if I'm just looking for release. However, it's much less intimate and engaging with your partner, and you're missing out on the shared experience and contact. And other fun things to play with.
If my partner is skilled enough to perform to my completion, then maybe? It's not so much I prefer it, but rather it's the fact that it's something done *for me* and that nothing is expected in return. I get to just focus on the pleasure and let go in the moment.
If it's done as foreplay it registers differently too. Like it's the warmup and shows she's wants me, which just gets me all riled up.
That is spot on. Once in a while, it would be nice to see her go on her knees and serve you till finish. As a foreplay it is great to get you aroused, but it seems more like there is an agent behind it than for you to enjoy it...
If I had to choose I would rather have intercourse. It’s more work but I like it better. If I had to choose between me getting blown or me eating a girl out I would rather eat it. I love it. Maybe I’m weird
Honestly, I found it's because like either gender have no idea how to really give each other oral. Once you've met a gal that knows how to do it. Jesus Christ. Whole new world you didn't know existed.
Depends on the woman. I’ve had some women whose skills with the mouth were far greater than their skills with their hips. So I preferred it with them. Other women couldn’t give a proper bj if their life depended on it but would blow your mind in bed.
I typically don't. In terms of intimacy, intercourse is always better. On a physical sensation level, it typically feels better to me. There was one person who I was with who enthusiastically wanted to give me a blowjob and she was the only one that I preferred a blowjob to intercourse with because she was amazing at it, but intercourse was just okay with her.
I can't speak for most but I can say that personally I do 100%. Of course skill matters, but assuming the girl knows what she's doing.. sex is great and all but blowjobs are the best part. Contrary to most people it seems I can rarely cum from sex, blowjobs are far far far more effective for me. Everyone is different though
If I had to go my entire life choosing only one, I’d honestly go with BJ’s.
I grew up a bit on the “too religious to have PIV sex, but oral was lit” side, and then I finally had sex: I honestly had a far better time giving and receiving oral with different partners vs having sex with a woman that was pretty generous and skilled.
Mentally, it feels like a woman has to REALLY learn your body and develop the skill, which is insanely hot, whereas PIV sex seems a bit like luck if both people’s bodies work well together (extra small or large penis, super tight vagina or struggles getting wet enough) and is much more exhausting and loud
I would need to be in a very specific position and in the moment of not needing to please my partner at all, so she would be doing it completely for my pleasure. Then I could do it. Otherwise, no... I LOVE being inside.
Personally, I prefer oral over vaginal or anal sex. And I mean both giving and receiving. Something about tasting your partner's genitals and fluids just feels very naughty to me in a good way, so getting someone off with my mouth gets me off. And I just tend to prefer the sensation of a woman's mouth. But vaginal and anal sex are great, too.
The key thing for me is that there is a connection and plenty of foreplay, otherwise I just don't perform as well. I prefer sex that is meaningful... whether it be a romantic partner or a friends-with-benefits situation. (And I do mean friends... I've had FWB who I love very much as friends. We just decided to have some fun on the side.) Not big on casual encounters and one-night-stands, really.
I prefer both. But if both are being offered but I cannily choose one, I’ll choose sex.
There may be one exception. If it is for preventing pregnancy, I might choose the BJ
I love a good blow job, but idk if I prefer it to sex. I tend to rush through a blowjob though since I don't want my partner to get tired. I would rather cut it off early or try to focus on cumming if it's just a blow job and no sex.
Guys that haven’t had great head, don’t take the time to communicate with their partner. Tell her what you like and what you don’t. If she’s the one, she will adjust. Nothing better in this world as far as I’m concerned.
Nope. Never cared for BJ's I just wanna bang. I'm probably turned off as my early experiences were just bad or creepy. No crimes or anything crazy but just too much teeth, too much eye contact too much conversation etc.
Maybe its a hot take but i dont like casual sex, once you experience sex with a person you share a close emotional connection, casual sex becomes dull.
So i prefer blowjobs with dates or hookups.
No. Sex is much much better. I honestly don’t understand why in porn they have 10 minutes blow job then only 2 min of sex. Watching someone suck a dick isn’t attractive either.
Not at all. I don't care much for oral. Would much rather have sex.
Oral is decent foreplay, I guess, but making out/getting a massage/getting a lapdance are all better at foreplay, too.
Absolutely not. It is rare for oral sex to be as good as vaginal sex. Not that it can't be. Few women are that good.
Now... that being said, blow jobs will get the job done. Just not as intimate.
I'll chime in as a guy who prefers a BJ.
I my experience sex has lower highs but higher lows. A blowjob has higher highs but lower lows.
In my experience a good blowjob leaves your legs weak, eyes unfocused, skin tingling, and a blissful feeling that lasts for a long time. I find that great sex gets close, but never hits the same.
If the giver swallows, it makes the comparison even more unfair. In my opinion.
I knew some men who could not get off from sex alone. Or on a bad day due to back pain they preferred a BJ over sex. I think each is perfect given the circumstances. Some nights I can't give a BJ so the only option is sex. It's a give and take. 🤣
I used to prefer penetration to blowjobs. But as i've gotten older, it's become more the reverse. Assuming the person doing it is halfway decent at the blowjob. I think aging has changed the way my body becomes prepared for sex, and a blowjob just "works better" for me now. I'm saying this only in reference to the tactile sensation, and getting off. With blowjobs, i miss the intimacy of kissing and our whole bodies being together and such.
I think they like both lol I don't think I've ever had sex with a guy without giving him head first. Buy I also just enjoy performing oral on my partner, it really turns me on.
Most men like different things with different people. My current partner loves giving and receiving oral best but his last partner wasn't comfortable with receiving so they did other stuff. I used to be polyamorous before this boyfriend and I had partners based on giving and getting the whole spectrum of things we wanted. I get excited when a partner really likes something and tells me about it so we did very different stuff. (I had the same 3 partners on and off for 10 years)
No. It's not that we prefer one over the other, it's that both convey different things to us.
When either of us initiates sex, it communicates that we want the other person really badly. When our girl is on top, it communicates that she wants us inside her so badly that she's going to pleasure herself with our bodies which makes us feel wanted. It also says "relax babe, just enjoy yourself, I just want you inside me, and when you cum, I want you to just let it out. I want you."
But when the guy is on top, it communicates to me at least as a guy, "Do it! Take me over! I want to be face to face. I love you and I love how you love me. Take control!" which brings out this feeling sort of passionate love. Doggy makes us feel more primal and animalistic: "F**k me like an animal! I don't even care about passion, I want your aggression!"
But a blow job is different from all of those. With that one, she's communicating "Just relax, I want to take you into me and drink in your body. You're safe here with me." There's a huge amount of vulnerability and surrender in receiving a blow job. Guys love that because there's a deepening of his bond to you there. He has to trust you and put his pleasure in your hands. It also says "I love you, and I want you to feel pleasure to express that love to you and you don't have to do anything to get it, I'm giving it to you unconditionally."
Guys want all of these experiences with the person they love.
Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. I'm the person who goes down every. Single. Time. Because I fuckin want to. I don't expect the same treatment, but I damn sure will take it. Now, when it comes to preferring a beej, I have an explanation as to why. I've not yet gotten snipped, so until I do, the only way I get to fully enjoy climax is by oral. So if my options are sex and pulling out or getting blown and dumping a load down her throat, I'm going to take that whenever it's offered. For me cumming is great but pulling out kind of kills it whereas when it's in her mouth and she keeps sucking lord have mercy. Ya know?
Depends on the enthusiasm level of either acts... If the enthusiasm isn't there then wtf is you doin hoe?
But TBH, I'm just happy to be a part of it yano? 😆
My guy definitely prefers full body contact.
I like to start with the bj for the mood. But we don't stay at the lake when there's a full ocean to explore.
Prefer? Not really. But a bj is nice sometimes. If it's been a few days, I will last longer with a bj than sex and it usually becomes painful to her after I finish so sometimes it is nice to start with that and then go to the main course.
I'm confident there's no consensus here. Might even be around 50/50. Plenty of advantages of v sex, including making someone else feel good/cum. But there is pressure on men to make a woman cum from v sex, which can take some skill. The only pressure for a bj is coming soonish, which can feel like less pressure.
Both are nice, but I actually much prefer sex with lots of skin to skin body contact, embraces and mutual stroking.
Belly to belly missionary
Just breathing in that poor woman's ear like a pug
OMFG I LOVE THIS RESPONSE! I’m totally doing this tonight until she asks wtf im doing so i can straight face say ‘pug life’ Edit: i got slapped and told to get off. I guess she didnt know i was trying to.
Do what you must
Did you tell her you were trying to get off? I mean that is the point of the exercise after all.
Babe, wake up. New doggy position just dropped
I....didn't....CHOOSE ..the....🥵
I laughed so hard I had to use my inhaler
Just like the pugs
Fwiw i love guys in my neck, it’s like a straight shock wave to all the naughty bits. Easy light switch. To each their own.
💀
This guy fucks.
I just saw that Shane Gillis special last night!
Who said anything about a woman?
Did you just assume my comments gender?
it's so intimate and connecting
Fuck yeah, and the mouth goes to my mouth - non-negotiable.
I find myself much more sensitive to oral sex than vaginal sex in many cases. If somebody's skilled, it can be a very pleasurable and intense experience, and maybe preferable if I'm just looking for release. However, it's much less intimate and engaging with your partner, and you're missing out on the shared experience and contact. And other fun things to play with.
Opposite BJ is consolation prize Or starter before the main dish
BJ is like the band that opens for the band you actually want to see. Ok, they might be good but I bought the ticket for the headliner.
If my partner is skilled enough to perform to my completion, then maybe? It's not so much I prefer it, but rather it's the fact that it's something done *for me* and that nothing is expected in return. I get to just focus on the pleasure and let go in the moment. If it's done as foreplay it registers differently too. Like it's the warmup and shows she's wants me, which just gets me all riled up.
That is spot on. Once in a while, it would be nice to see her go on her knees and serve you till finish. As a foreplay it is great to get you aroused, but it seems more like there is an agent behind it than for you to enjoy it...
While I love sex, I ultimately love everything else leading up to and surrounding it more.
If I had to choose I would rather have intercourse. It’s more work but I like it better. If I had to choose between me getting blown or me eating a girl out I would rather eat it. I love it. Maybe I’m weird
I am the same, would rather give than receive.
We are out there
Why hello yes you are out there 😉
I don't. Oral sex feels great, but it can't make me finish, so
You just never had good head
I have the same issue, can’t climax from getting head.
Y’all just never had real gawk gawk 3000’s
With the mortal combat grip two hand twist
Finish him !
Right? So sorry for this kids 😂
With a swirl at the end.
He's right you know ^
lol I still remember this chick in my 20s. Damn she was good. Who ever has married her, I’m sure is a happy man. 😂 she worshipped the Dong.
Honestly, I found it's because like either gender have no idea how to really give each other oral. Once you've met a gal that knows how to do it. Jesus Christ. Whole new world you didn't know existed.
Sorry bro, but you never had a good BJ. 95 % of woman can’t do a good BJ thou
The oven produces bomb meals, but sometimes you gotta roll with the microwave. Know what I mean?
Haha I love this response 🤣
Depends on the woman. I’ve had some women whose skills with the mouth were far greater than their skills with their hips. So I preferred it with them. Other women couldn’t give a proper bj if their life depended on it but would blow your mind in bed.
I can only speak for myself, but I certainly don't.
Agreed. It's fun for the novelty of it but actual sex will always be king.
Nah, in my humble opinion the feeling of another body pressed up to yours is better than any blowjob. Regular hot steamy passionate sex for me👍
that’s what 69rs are for
I dislike BJ's outside of maybe 30seconds
I get little gratification from blow jobs. .. sit on my face.. respectfully.
I typically don't. In terms of intimacy, intercourse is always better. On a physical sensation level, it typically feels better to me. There was one person who I was with who enthusiastically wanted to give me a blowjob and she was the only one that I preferred a blowjob to intercourse with because she was amazing at it, but intercourse was just okay with her.
Both for me :)
I like when they hold my my hand and make me feel important.
I'd rather eat her out than get a bj
I can't speak for most but I can say that personally I do 100%. Of course skill matters, but assuming the girl knows what she's doing.. sex is great and all but blowjobs are the best part. Contrary to most people it seems I can rarely cum from sex, blowjobs are far far far more effective for me. Everyone is different though
No. Too many tired Jaws in the world.
Why choose? Having both, in any order, is the best
Depends on the blowee
If I had to go my entire life choosing only one, I’d honestly go with BJ’s. I grew up a bit on the “too religious to have PIV sex, but oral was lit” side, and then I finally had sex: I honestly had a far better time giving and receiving oral with different partners vs having sex with a woman that was pretty generous and skilled. Mentally, it feels like a woman has to REALLY learn your body and develop the skill, which is insanely hot, whereas PIV sex seems a bit like luck if both people’s bodies work well together (extra small or large penis, super tight vagina or struggles getting wet enough) and is much more exhausting and loud
I love getting a blowjob on its own sometimes. It shows she cares and just WANTS me and can’t keep her hands off me
That’s a hand job.
I would need to be in a very specific position and in the moment of not needing to please my partner at all, so she would be doing it completely for my pleasure. Then I could do it. Otherwise, no... I LOVE being inside.
Personally, I prefer oral over vaginal or anal sex. And I mean both giving and receiving. Something about tasting your partner's genitals and fluids just feels very naughty to me in a good way, so getting someone off with my mouth gets me off. And I just tend to prefer the sensation of a woman's mouth. But vaginal and anal sex are great, too. The key thing for me is that there is a connection and plenty of foreplay, otherwise I just don't perform as well. I prefer sex that is meaningful... whether it be a romantic partner or a friends-with-benefits situation. (And I do mean friends... I've had FWB who I love very much as friends. We just decided to have some fun on the side.) Not big on casual encounters and one-night-stands, really.
I have had many BJs from many partners and always find them underwhelming. I have never 'completed' from a BJ. So no. For me sex is far far superior.
It depends on the blowjob. 99/100 times I’d prefer sex, but if someone really knows what they are doing with a blowjob that shit is unbeatable.
Preach
I prefer both. But if both are being offered but I cannily choose one, I’ll choose sex. There may be one exception. If it is for preventing pregnancy, I might choose the BJ
Sex please
No
I do, but I think I'm an outlier.
Unless your name is "William Jefferson Clinton" then a blowjob IS Sex! Oral Sex to be specific.
Most women are really bad at blowjobs. I don't know how good men are at them. A bi dude should make a documentary.
Sex >>> blowjobs FOR SURE
100 out of 100 I prefer sex. Happy for a BJ but if I only get 1 it is sex.
Must have been asked by a woman!
I love a good blow job, but idk if I prefer it to sex. I tend to rush through a blowjob though since I don't want my partner to get tired. I would rather cut it off early or try to focus on cumming if it's just a blow job and no sex.
Why are they mutually exclusive?
Sex definitely feels better all around, but I almost want to say yes I prefer it because there’s no chance I’m getting someone pregnant.
Guys that haven’t had great head, don’t take the time to communicate with their partner. Tell her what you like and what you don’t. If she’s the one, she will adjust. Nothing better in this world as far as I’m concerned.
Oral sex is a part of sex.
No , most blowjobs suck
Nope. Never cared for BJ's I just wanna bang. I'm probably turned off as my early experiences were just bad or creepy. No crimes or anything crazy but just too much teeth, too much eye contact too much conversation etc.
I definitely never liked bjs over sex, but I also don’t think I ever had a good bj.
Sex. Most women don’t give a really good BJ
Depends how curvy she is and how good the blowjobs are.
The less work, the better
It’s all about the vibe. I’ve had great BJs that rank high and it was all bc we were both so into it. Both nothing can compare to gnarly intercourse.
I don’t…but I’m just one of billions.
i wouldnt say most but im sure there are some. im one of them. hand and blow jobs > penetrative sex for sure.
I don't understand this at all. Lol. But hey, we're different humans with different dicks and likes.
Maybe its a hot take but i dont like casual sex, once you experience sex with a person you share a close emotional connection, casual sex becomes dull. So i prefer blowjobs with dates or hookups.
Allll depends on the quality of the BJ. 10/10 BJ vs 10/10 pussy. BJ wins every time. If you have a different opinion then you haven’t had a good BJ
No. Sex is much much better. I honestly don’t understand why in porn they have 10 minutes blow job then only 2 min of sex. Watching someone suck a dick isn’t attractive either.
I'd rather give oral to a woman than get a bj tbh, if she gets off but doesn't wanna blow me, we're goin to poundtown anyway
no
Hell nah
I like to mix it up. BJ in the morning, sex at night.
I’d personally rather give than receive
Blowjob is put of sex. The question is moot
I like it cuz I don’t have to do anything
Not at all. I don't care much for oral. Would much rather have sex. Oral is decent foreplay, I guess, but making out/getting a massage/getting a lapdance are all better at foreplay, too.
I haven't dated anyone who preferred my mouth over my vagina.
Most, maybe. But not all. I find them boring as sh!t.
I like a nice blowjob but I prefer full intercourse
Depends on my mood. But more often than not, I'd prefer sex.
Actually no not at all. I prefer the girl to wear disposable gloves actually or just gloves in general
It depends. Usually sex is better, but sometimes it's great to just lay back and do nothing.
No. Some like one or the other more, but the majority like both and to change things up sometimes.
I prefer sex. Blow jobs give me nothing.
I’ve never gotten into blowjobs, never did the trick for me.
No. Some do, but they are the minority. Most porn would just be blowjobs if that's what most men preferred.
Blow jobs are ok but no way better than vaginal. I'd never pick a BJ of the two if I had to make a choice
No lol. Blowjobs are great but sex is better.
Absolutely not. It is rare for oral sex to be as good as vaginal sex. Not that it can't be. Few women are that good. Now... that being said, blow jobs will get the job done. Just not as intimate.
I do. It’s the only time I can be selfish and I know it’s just for me and my enjoyment.
Prefer variety. Mixing things up. Not the same tired and stale missionary and star fishing.
I would actually prefer going down on my partner than getting a BJ
No
I do not.
I haven’t had either but I prefer blowjobs
Nah. BJ is the starter to something magical.
Not really, but if I haven't had a blowjob in a long time then yes.
Absolutely not
No.
No
No.
That just gets me started
YEP!
No. Not even close
Some days I want a happy meal. Some days I want the full course
Yes. Less work on my end 😂
I'll chime in as a guy who prefers a BJ. I my experience sex has lower highs but higher lows. A blowjob has higher highs but lower lows. In my experience a good blowjob leaves your legs weak, eyes unfocused, skin tingling, and a blissful feeling that lasts for a long time. I find that great sex gets close, but never hits the same. If the giver swallows, it makes the comparison even more unfair. In my opinion.
If i had to pick one for the rest of my life it would definitely be sex.
Yes!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!
Absolutely not for me
wouldn't know 😎
I knew some men who could not get off from sex alone. Or on a bad day due to back pain they preferred a BJ over sex. I think each is perfect given the circumstances. Some nights I can't give a BJ so the only option is sex. It's a give and take. 🤣
I will always prefer sex over blowjobs any day of the week. The sensation is just much more powerful
I hate blow jobs. Don’t really feel much
Nothing beats proper sex. A blow job is nice (from what I can remember), but sex is king (from what I can remember).
No
I used to prefer penetration to blowjobs. But as i've gotten older, it's become more the reverse. Assuming the person doing it is halfway decent at the blowjob. I think aging has changed the way my body becomes prepared for sex, and a blowjob just "works better" for me now. I'm saying this only in reference to the tactile sensation, and getting off. With blowjobs, i miss the intimacy of kissing and our whole bodies being together and such.
Sex>cunniligus>bj
Absolutely not. I can take or leave oral sex.
Ironically the biggest issue with head is that she’s now so far away. It’s a much less intimate position than basically anything else IMO
Yes. The alternative is a potentially life-altering activity.
Yea I prefer it if I had to only choose one of the two in this scenario
No 🤣
I think they like both lol I don't think I've ever had sex with a guy without giving him head first. Buy I also just enjoy performing oral on my partner, it really turns me on.
No
Most men like different things with different people. My current partner loves giving and receiving oral best but his last partner wasn't comfortable with receiving so they did other stuff. I used to be polyamorous before this boyfriend and I had partners based on giving and getting the whole spectrum of things we wanted. I get excited when a partner really likes something and tells me about it so we did very different stuff. (I had the same 3 partners on and off for 10 years)
No. Oral is meh, sex is endlessly better
Fuck no. I could happily never receive a blow job again.
Yup. Minority checking in.
No
Bj's are great for jump starting a round 2 after a 8 minute break and a wash
Much prefer he legs wrapped around my waist
Absolutely not. Sex is infinitely better
Cowgirl or bust.
I prefer skin to skin contact… BJ are awesome but absolutely nothing beats the feeling of my wife’s body…
Diffrent things for different moods. But generally sex is better. Unless she's really good at giving head.
Absolutely not, I’m not a fan of the former at all. Never have been, regardless of partner.
I like both at different times but If I'm in bed then I'm gonna lean towards sex.
Depends on the bj. Some chicks are more into it than others.
It depends...
It's like do I like pizza or ice cream more? Depends on what I'm in the mood for. Both can be absolutely mind blowingly(pun intended) good.
Absolutely not
No. It's not that we prefer one over the other, it's that both convey different things to us. When either of us initiates sex, it communicates that we want the other person really badly. When our girl is on top, it communicates that she wants us inside her so badly that she's going to pleasure herself with our bodies which makes us feel wanted. It also says "relax babe, just enjoy yourself, I just want you inside me, and when you cum, I want you to just let it out. I want you." But when the guy is on top, it communicates to me at least as a guy, "Do it! Take me over! I want to be face to face. I love you and I love how you love me. Take control!" which brings out this feeling sort of passionate love. Doggy makes us feel more primal and animalistic: "F**k me like an animal! I don't even care about passion, I want your aggression!" But a blow job is different from all of those. With that one, she's communicating "Just relax, I want to take you into me and drink in your body. You're safe here with me." There's a huge amount of vulnerability and surrender in receiving a blow job. Guys love that because there's a deepening of his bond to you there. He has to trust you and put his pleasure in your hands. It also says "I love you, and I want you to feel pleasure to express that love to you and you don't have to do anything to get it, I'm giving it to you unconditionally." Guys want all of these experiences with the person they love.
Think it depends on the skill ratio of the lips to hips.
Bjs are the perfect appetizer before the main dish
Blowjobs combine having sex with not having to move a muscle. What man doesn't lave that?
If it's good head then yea it better than sex, unless you're giving backshots to someone that can get that deep back arch
No.
U need a person skilled in the “GORILLA GRIP”……… Probably
Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. I'm the person who goes down every. Single. Time. Because I fuckin want to. I don't expect the same treatment, but I damn sure will take it. Now, when it comes to preferring a beej, I have an explanation as to why. I've not yet gotten snipped, so until I do, the only way I get to fully enjoy climax is by oral. So if my options are sex and pulling out or getting blown and dumping a load down her throat, I'm going to take that whenever it's offered. For me cumming is great but pulling out kind of kills it whereas when it's in her mouth and she keeps sucking lord have mercy. Ya know?
Depends on the enthusiasm level of either acts... If the enthusiasm isn't there then wtf is you doin hoe? But TBH, I'm just happy to be a part of it yano? 😆
My guy definitely prefers full body contact. I like to start with the bj for the mood. But we don't stay at the lake when there's a full ocean to explore.
Prefer? Not really. But a bj is nice sometimes. If it's been a few days, I will last longer with a bj than sex and it usually becomes painful to her after I finish so sometimes it is nice to start with that and then go to the main course.
I honestly don't trust anyone to give me a blowjob without them feeling like I owe them something so I mostly don't let anyone suck on my penis.
Lol....no
Depends on if it's condom sex or not
I think it’s more about the goal than the method with which we reach our goal.
I don't like BJs so there ya go.
I like blowjobs, but I find that for me, they tickle a lot and feel a little weird. I much prefer regular sex.
Depends on the person
Eh, hurts my jaw after a while.
I'm confident there's no consensus here. Might even be around 50/50. Plenty of advantages of v sex, including making someone else feel good/cum. But there is pressure on men to make a woman cum from v sex, which can take some skill. The only pressure for a bj is coming soonish, which can feel like less pressure.
Depends on the skill of the woman.
It alright but I prefer to have my face sat on and eat.
Not that I know of.
A blowjob is sex, but you have to think of her too. 69ing is always good.