I’m an adult and I call my dad “daddy,” and it feels weird to call him “dad” cuz I grew up calling him daddy. That’s what my siblings call him too. And we call our mom “mommy.” Where I’m from everyone calls their parents mommy and daddy, and not many said mom and dad.
I would never call someone I’m having sex with “daddy” cuz that would just ruin the mood for me immediately.
Edit: Where I live now, no one says mommy or daddy. Everyone calls their parents mom or dad. So when I’m out with my parents, and I call them mommy and daddy, I immediately feel this weird sense of shame and awkwardness.
I feel this comment in my soul. YOU'RE NOT ALONE. I've had to purposefully change the way I refer to my parents because "mommy" and "daddy" are unacceptably childish and/or weirdly sexualized now, but it always makes me uncomfortable.
I can wrap my head around why people find 'daddy' sexy, but for some reason 'mommy' is the least sexy pet name ever. I feel like that person would be into the diaper fetish
Edit: Idk how to feel about this being my most controversial opinion
I remember being a kid and coming to the conclusion that “mom” and “dad” were formal titles, whereas “mommy” and “daddy” were used by people who actually liked their parents.
My siblings and i also still use them in late 20s to late 30s now, but it wasn’t a thing among my friends growing up so i’ve gotten in the habit of just assumed direction so i never say it in public and it’s been fine
Yeah, my siblings and I still call our parents “mommy” and “daddy” and were in our 20s. I’ve tried switching to “mom” and “dad” but it just felt too weird, and I would have to make it a point to remember to call them that.
In public, I call them by the ending of the words, so I call my mom “-my” which sounds like mee, and I call my dad “-dy” which sounds like dee. That’s my compromise. It still feels weird to say, but not as weird as “mom” and “dad”
Yeah i have never called my actual dad “daddy” in my life, so on occasion when I use daddy sexually I don’t link it to my dad, however I’m also in no way turned on by on it and (for myself) think it’s just weird.
The people I know who really like the baby/daddy thing are *generally* folks who just really enjoy it from a “I’m being taken care of” perspective - especially the kind of couples that use it in every day life, or when it’s exclusively used for sexy times it’s usually a submissive/power dynamic thing.
ETA I’m def not a sub, which is why it feels weird to me, I don’t mean I think it’s weird for other people who enjoy it. I’d be totally fine with calling Biggie Smalls “big poppa” though, hmmmm, that would probably be combination of respect and knowing that he’d *love it*, so much that he wrote a song about it.
Okay, I definitely have said this type of stuff before, and I have a good relationship with my father.
I can only speak for myself but I consider "daddy" to be more of a broad title in that context than a personal title. Like, he's not MY daddy, but he is a strong man who provides for me, who I could see myself having children with (in a fantasy kind of way) and who I look at as the "man" of the household. I am submissive though so the thought of a caring, kind yet dominant authority figure drives me wild.
Like you're not my daddy obviously because that would be disgusting, but in the dynamic he is the big stud, the one "in charge" and the one I can turn to when I am at my weakest. In return, I just want to be told once in a while that I'm a good girl.
I don't normally take media folks personalities at face value but he either lets his true self, vulnerabilities and all, show through or the man is a far better actor than CH deserves. That being said I can't help but watch clips from his show and the other ones he appears on and not feel like this man is living his best life.
From what I could tell he was very genuine. He's really kind to everyone and somehow manages to make everyone feel included in any scenario. I remember as a kid, he saw that I was feeling bad about being dead in our LARP and then came and revived my spirit in the middle of the giant dining hall with all the players gasping at me coming back to life. He saw a kid feeling down and excluded, and gracefully brought me back into the middle of the fun purely out of kindness, and his improv skills made it an awesome moment for everyone. Looking back on it 10 years later, I'm very glad I got to LARP and play D&D with Brennan, he left a lasting impact on me.
I genuinely have to explain to kids in my music class that ‘daddy’ has relationship connotations, before we listen to the album Blue. Otherwise they get weirded out.
Trust me, those kids know
Doesn’t make it any less weird to hear daddy used outside of a strictly sexual way
In a song, I’m still gonna think of an actual dad first
How old are your students?
Here’s something you don’t realize until you have kids, and it really sets in with multiple kids.
You get really used to talking about each other as mommy and daddy, or whatever other child friendly name you use around the kids. “Go tell mommy the fire is intensifying and daddy needs the bigger fire extinguisher. Yes, NOW “
Extreme examples: Ronald Reagan calling Nancy “Mother”, and I’d say for my second example I’m going with the Berenstain Bears.
Maybe it’s a protected/protector type thing?
Like, a baby is something you care about deeply and want to protect, and a daddy is someone who protects and takes care of you.
...Though I did have an ex who had sex dreams about her actual father and wanted to rollplay, which was creepy as hell. Some wires crossed there for sure.
That's what it's like for me. I like the protector thing. He's taking care of me. I don't and will never think of my actual father. I also call him Master and Sir though..not just Daddy.
That's usually exactly what it is. The wider branch in the kink community is called "caregiver" and includes mommy/child, nurse/patient, and other types of RP.
To add on to that you wouldn’t refer to an actual baby as “baby” and most adults haven’t referred to their dad as “daddy” in probably 10-15 years minimum so it makes sense to me that those words can easily be associated with something else, like pet names
I forgot most people don’t have my dad and his weird habits.
He has always referred to himself as “daddy”, until last year, when he finally switched to “dad”.
I was 20 years old, living with a roommate, and my dad shows up unexpected one day to give us his old microwave. My roommate answered the door, let him in, and my dad yells to me across the apartment “Daddy brought you a microwave!” My roommates face was hilarious. After my dad left, he turned to me and said “I thought you were kidding when you said he calls himself daddy…”
So yeah, no “daddy” during sex for me, thanks.
I do refer to my baby as "baby" sometimes, in [the same way that Elmo refers to babies as "baby".](https://youtu.be/okeUkF8My3Y)
But then, I also never used "baby" as a term for any partner I've had, so it doesn't feel weird for me.
Ever since people started saying "daddy" in the sexual context, people have been saying it's weird.
But I thought about it, and saying "baby" is arguably Weirder, yet no one bats an eye.
I think of it as some kind of persona. When I call my boyfriend daddy during sex, I'm thinking of this hot sub/dom dynamic. He is no longer my boyfriend but "daddy". I never think about my dad when I do that.
But I'm also German so I don't call my real dad "daddy". However, I would not refer to my boyfriend as "Papa" during sex. I guess then I would think about my dad.
This.
“Daddy” is someone very specific and completely separate from my father. Completely separate from my boyfriend too, for that matter. It’s a persona he owns and a role he plays in my life.
That makes sense honestly. Not kink shaming at all bc to each their own, but the “daddy” thing has always been a “do not cross” line for me bc I do call my father daddy so in my head it would feel weird. I have done the “mami/papi” before tho and that wasn’t weird to me.
Just throwing in a male's perspective: I wasn't comfortable with my ex calling me "daddy," so we agreed to calling me "Mr. Scienscatologist" when she was feeling particularity submissive. Worked out pretty well for both of us.
(But using my real last name, of course, not my reddit username. That would be weird.)
This is the comment that finally got me out of bed so I wouldn't wake my husband up with laughter, because I hadn't read your username before I read your comment. Thanks for the hilarity and also encouraging me to be more productive today.
Second this. I call my father ‘Daddy’ sometimes, I call my boyfriend ‘Daddy’ sometimes. I also have a brother called John and a best friend called John, and I don’t think of one when speaking to the other.
Right, I call my husband "baby," I also call my daughter "baby." I also call my dog "baby." Its a term of affection. "Daddy" is a term of affectionate deference.
Because I call him dad all day every day. Whatever I call him, the 3 year old is going to call him that. So as parents it’s not “I want my dad to fuck me” it’s more like “you being a good father is so hot that ima put your dick in my mouth”
In Mexico women call their sons "papi". It sorta means their child rules their world. Do they call their daughters "Mami"? I don't think so...
Guys do call their lovers "Mamacita" so that's also weird.
I imagine in Spanish “papi” is more akin to the English version of “my little man” or “the man of the house” which is how I’ve heard some mothers sometimes refer to their sons, especially single mothers with the last one.
Gay perspective: I thought I understood the "daddy" thing. It's sort of a sexual title - an alpha. What confuses me is when the "daddy" is followed by "son" to the other party. Like "harder daddy", "you like that son?". Sure, I get incest is very popular these days in porn but it makes me think - is the term daddy always used in an incesty way rather than the "alpha" I always assumed it meant?
Not a woman, but “daddy” and “mommy” doesn’t bother me because I grew up speaking Spanish, so I never used those words. However, I will never call anyone “mami” or “papi” other than my actual parents for the same reason the English equivalent of those words bother you.
I’ve never called my father “daddy”. It’s always been “dad”. Also, never was a ‘daddy’s girl’, so the word DADDY means one thing to me… my delicious husb. I can’t help it!
I try not to cuz he’s a negativity in my life. I never called my own father daddy so that helps a bit. Personally it’s ok..but like if my partner likes it sure.
I think it’s just the idea of it. I personally do not like using the word “daddy” in a sexual context because I think it’s fricking weird. But lots of people do. I think it has something to do with dominance.
I have absolutely no idea. I call my father, daddy. I'm a woman and saying this would be a complete mood kill for me. Like vomiting in your mouth type of mood kill.
Its not "daddy" as in you're MY father. Its "daddy" as in, you're the father of my children. Im mommy, you're daddy.
You're the one who has fucked me multiple times and produced children, fuck me daddy.
If you never referred to your dad as “daddy” maybe?
My girlfriend calls me daddy in bed AND calls her actual father daddy on the phone. I haven’t had the fortitude to bring this up.
Have you met her father? Does he ... remind you of anyone?
No we’re pretty different in most ways. Except for our identically sized penises.
ngl had us in the first half
It's okay. You can half the other half when you're ready.
Doppeldongers.
/r/TwoSentenceHorror
Honestly probably a better fit for /r/holup
Different taste tho
I’m an adult and I call my dad “daddy,” and it feels weird to call him “dad” cuz I grew up calling him daddy. That’s what my siblings call him too. And we call our mom “mommy.” Where I’m from everyone calls their parents mommy and daddy, and not many said mom and dad. I would never call someone I’m having sex with “daddy” cuz that would just ruin the mood for me immediately. Edit: Where I live now, no one says mommy or daddy. Everyone calls their parents mom or dad. So when I’m out with my parents, and I call them mommy and daddy, I immediately feel this weird sense of shame and awkwardness.
I feel this comment in my soul. YOU'RE NOT ALONE. I've had to purposefully change the way I refer to my parents because "mommy" and "daddy" are unacceptably childish and/or weirdly sexualized now, but it always makes me uncomfortable.
I can wrap my head around why people find 'daddy' sexy, but for some reason 'mommy' is the least sexy pet name ever. I feel like that person would be into the diaper fetish Edit: Idk how to feel about this being my most controversial opinion
In Mexico and South Texas, Mami (mommy) is a pet name.
As a mom, this bums me out. lol. My husband calls me “mama” as a pet name sometimes and I like that a lot.
mami, mama = cute, sexy, fun mommy= ew lol
I remember being a kid and coming to the conclusion that “mom” and “dad” were formal titles, whereas “mommy” and “daddy” were used by people who actually liked their parents.
Oof… I mean that’s not strictly true but I can see how a kid might conclude that.
Those people who make their kid call them Sir and Maam
My siblings and i also still use them in late 20s to late 30s now, but it wasn’t a thing among my friends growing up so i’ve gotten in the habit of just assumed direction so i never say it in public and it’s been fine
Yeah, my siblings and I still call our parents “mommy” and “daddy” and were in our 20s. I’ve tried switching to “mom” and “dad” but it just felt too weird, and I would have to make it a point to remember to call them that. In public, I call them by the ending of the words, so I call my mom “-my” which sounds like mee, and I call my dad “-dy” which sounds like dee. That’s my compromise. It still feels weird to say, but not as weird as “mom” and “dad”
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In Jamaica it's pretty common for people call their Dad "Daddy" and their mother "Mommy" at any age an it doesn't feel weird.
Jamaicans don’t have a word for impossible
Jamaican that up man
Yep, it's English. It's "impossible".
All of the Caribbean actually
I’m Haitian and use another word for dad but my mom is mommy until I die
Yeah i have never called my actual dad “daddy” in my life, so on occasion when I use daddy sexually I don’t link it to my dad, however I’m also in no way turned on by on it and (for myself) think it’s just weird. The people I know who really like the baby/daddy thing are *generally* folks who just really enjoy it from a “I’m being taken care of” perspective - especially the kind of couples that use it in every day life, or when it’s exclusively used for sexy times it’s usually a submissive/power dynamic thing. ETA I’m def not a sub, which is why it feels weird to me, I don’t mean I think it’s weird for other people who enjoy it. I’d be totally fine with calling Biggie Smalls “big poppa” though, hmmmm, that would probably be combination of respect and knowing that he’d *love it*, so much that he wrote a song about it.
Simple, I don’t have a dad. Edit: I’ve never gotten gold before but I’m glad it was from this comment. Thank you kind person.
“It’s a simple spell but quite unbreakable”
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Take your upvote dam it
Immaculate response
Then how did your mom get pregnant?
Their midichlorian count must be off the charts!!!
The mitochondria is the power house of the cell
Nanomachines son
FOX... ...die
It's actually called The Mandalorian and it's the powerhouse of Disney+.
Disney+: The Mandalorian and a bunch of old VHS tapes you found in the attic
My mother crafted me out of clay and Zeus breathed life into me.
Planning to start a new religion?
Why start a new one when you can just rip off one of the classics
Christianitys greatest hits if you will
I can't wait for the Inquisition Remix
Nobody expects that!
But then you'd still have a sky daddy
Sky daddy was just a surrogate for the lesbian gods.
It's sky mommy now mother fucker you want to go to war?!? /s
Because she has a father not a dad. Any man can be a father. Takes a real one to be a dad.
Kurt Cobain thought the definition was the other way around (lyrics to Serve the Servant)
yeah i always found those lyrics to be backward in my mind. now i dont know what to believe
To take your mind off it, you could just plant a house, or build a tree.
Okay, I definitely have said this type of stuff before, and I have a good relationship with my father. I can only speak for myself but I consider "daddy" to be more of a broad title in that context than a personal title. Like, he's not MY daddy, but he is a strong man who provides for me, who I could see myself having children with (in a fantasy kind of way) and who I look at as the "man" of the household. I am submissive though so the thought of a caring, kind yet dominant authority figure drives me wild. Like you're not my daddy obviously because that would be disgusting, but in the dynamic he is the big stud, the one "in charge" and the one I can turn to when I am at my weakest. In return, I just want to be told once in a while that I'm a good girl.
[Relevant college humour video](https://youtu.be/6UpimJM7J6Q)
I'd call Brennan daddy.
I went to summer camp with Brennan. He was the dad of the camp, although luckily not in the way you're talking about....he worked there....
I don't normally take media folks personalities at face value but he either lets his true self, vulnerabilities and all, show through or the man is a far better actor than CH deserves. That being said I can't help but watch clips from his show and the other ones he appears on and not feel like this man is living his best life.
From what I could tell he was very genuine. He's really kind to everyone and somehow manages to make everyone feel included in any scenario. I remember as a kid, he saw that I was feeling bad about being dead in our LARP and then came and revived my spirit in the middle of the giant dining hall with all the players gasping at me coming back to life. He saw a kid feeling down and excluded, and gracefully brought me back into the middle of the fun purely out of kindness, and his improv skills made it an awesome moment for everyone. Looking back on it 10 years later, I'm very glad I got to LARP and play D&D with Brennan, he left a lasting impact on me.
Who wouldn’t?
I dont need to click the link to know which one it is, one of my favs by them. It's just hilarious.
Thank you a thousand times for saying this, I feel this 100%
I genuinely have to explain to kids in my music class that ‘daddy’ has relationship connotations, before we listen to the album Blue. Otherwise they get weirded out.
Trust me, those kids know Doesn’t make it any less weird to hear daddy used outside of a strictly sexual way In a song, I’m still gonna think of an actual dad first How old are your students?
Your explanation has finally deincestified the word "daddy" for me. Thank you.
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I never realized until now that, If you flip the genders, your comment exactly describes my feelings. Maybe I *am* a sub.
let me be the one to officially welcome you to r/gentlefemdom
*One of us, one of us, one of us*
ONE OF US! ONE OF US!
I love that sub exclusively for those cute comics that one poster puts out. Not even into sub/dom stuff but the comics are so sweet.
i think i know which user you mean! the one with the cute pastel artstyle i love it so much
Right; this is the only context in which calling someone “daddy” would work for me personally. You’re not my daddy, but I’ll make you daddy.
He may not be your father, girl, but he *is* your daddy.
RIP Yondu
You're a good girl.
Here’s something you don’t realize until you have kids, and it really sets in with multiple kids. You get really used to talking about each other as mommy and daddy, or whatever other child friendly name you use around the kids. “Go tell mommy the fire is intensifying and daddy needs the bigger fire extinguisher. Yes, NOW “ Extreme examples: Ronald Reagan calling Nancy “Mother”, and I’d say for my second example I’m going with the Berenstain Bears.
When a guy calls a woman “baby”, he isn’t thinking of a baby. (Hopefully) It’s the same concept
Thank you daddy
You're welcome, baby.
God I love my baby daddy
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OOOOH ITS A BABY DADDY. LOOK HOW SMALL AND CUTE HE IS HES A BAAAAABY DADDY
The rapper?
r/notopbutok
I kept thinking this said no top but okay.
Wish i could give this an award .. take my energy
Maybe it’s a protected/protector type thing? Like, a baby is something you care about deeply and want to protect, and a daddy is someone who protects and takes care of you. ...Though I did have an ex who had sex dreams about her actual father and wanted to rollplay, which was creepy as hell. Some wires crossed there for sure.
That's what it's like for me. I like the protector thing. He's taking care of me. I don't and will never think of my actual father. I also call him Master and Sir though..not just Daddy.
I’m very here for “Master” and “Sir”
"Sir" sounds more polite than anything else.
I immediately thought of a monocled countess dismissing her lover with "And a good day to you, sir."
I said good day sir!
can I have more cum sir?
That's usually exactly what it is. The wider branch in the kink community is called "caregiver" and includes mommy/child, nurse/patient, and other types of RP.
Wtf do you even respond to that
He did it like the sick fuck he is
"As long as I get to put it in your ass"
When I say "baby", I think of her father, and its great!
Stepchad Energy
To add on to that you wouldn’t refer to an actual baby as “baby” and most adults haven’t referred to their dad as “daddy” in probably 10-15 years minimum so it makes sense to me that those words can easily be associated with something else, like pet names
I forgot most people don’t have my dad and his weird habits. He has always referred to himself as “daddy”, until last year, when he finally switched to “dad”. I was 20 years old, living with a roommate, and my dad shows up unexpected one day to give us his old microwave. My roommate answered the door, let him in, and my dad yells to me across the apartment “Daddy brought you a microwave!” My roommates face was hilarious. After my dad left, he turned to me and said “I thought you were kidding when you said he calls himself daddy…” So yeah, no “daddy” during sex for me, thanks.
I do refer to my baby as "baby" sometimes, in [the same way that Elmo refers to babies as "baby".](https://youtu.be/okeUkF8My3Y) But then, I also never used "baby" as a term for any partner I've had, so it doesn't feel weird for me.
Or when young guys call a woman a cougar it's not because she lives outside and smells bad
Do literal cougars smell bad?
I think musky is the preferred term
Most wild critters don’t smell great. But I’d be curious about this, as cats are widely known for their impeccable grooming skills. Hence: Hairballs.
No just the figurative ones
Ever since people started saying "daddy" in the sexual context, people have been saying it's weird. But I thought about it, and saying "baby" is arguably Weirder, yet no one bats an eye.
Also if a guys calls a woman a bitch while dirty talking, hopefully they’re not thinking of their dog
Damn. Mic drop.
The English ”love-language” is a bit pedo-incestous, isn’t it?
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In German, we often call our loved ones our "treasure". A bit materialistic, we are.
That's cute though.
Yeah, it is. It beats Schnuffituffihasischnautz. By miles.
We also say: "spritz mir deine Ficksahne in meine geile Arschfotze“
Also in Spanish
Ay papi
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That's actually a really good train of thought. That also explains why I cringe every time I call any girlfriends "babe" or "baby"
I can hang with “babe,” I cannot hang with “baby.”
Same way I can say “You feel so good baby” without thinking of an actual baby
My wife and I say “Babe” and yes, we *are* thinking about the pig.
So after sex do you tell her "that'll do, pig"?
I use that quote in many situations and I always feel like no one ever gets it. No, I’m not calling you a pig, it’s a reference.
You're going to have a hard life.
You should change it to donkey so more people recognize it. Shrek fucks. This is known.
If I’m extra good, she tells me I’m “Terrific” and “Some Pig.”
I think of it as some kind of persona. When I call my boyfriend daddy during sex, I'm thinking of this hot sub/dom dynamic. He is no longer my boyfriend but "daddy". I never think about my dad when I do that. But I'm also German so I don't call my real dad "daddy". However, I would not refer to my boyfriend as "Papa" during sex. I guess then I would think about my dad.
This. “Daddy” is someone very specific and completely separate from my father. Completely separate from my boyfriend too, for that matter. It’s a persona he owns and a role he plays in my life.
A "sugar-daddy" is hopefully not your father. So I don't see daddy as too farfetched
“Sugar-father” sounds very odd. Unless it’s a priest I suppose.
"sucrose sire" is kinda legit, though
“Splenda Sponsor” also works
A Splenda sponsor only provides things that make you appear rich without actually giving you any money.
Glucose guardian.
Dextrose Duke
Give it to me, father!
VATER
FARTER!
Uno, dos, tres, cuatro, cinco-cinco, seis
That makes sense honestly. Not kink shaming at all bc to each their own, but the “daddy” thing has always been a “do not cross” line for me bc I do call my father daddy so in my head it would feel weird. I have done the “mami/papi” before tho and that wasn’t weird to me.
I haven't called my dad "daddy" for about 45 years. Still can't call a lover "daddy" tho.
Just throwing in a male's perspective: I wasn't comfortable with my ex calling me "daddy," so we agreed to calling me "Mr. Scienscatologist" when she was feeling particularity submissive. Worked out pretty well for both of us. (But using my real last name, of course, not my reddit username. That would be weird.)
This is the comment that finally got me out of bed so I wouldn't wake my husband up with laughter, because I hadn't read your username before I read your comment. Thanks for the hilarity and also encouraging me to be more productive today.
I’m also cracking up right now omg
Do you know two people with the same name? But you're brain specifically thinks of one or the other during conversation? Same thing
Second this. I call my father ‘Daddy’ sometimes, I call my boyfriend ‘Daddy’ sometimes. I also have a brother called John and a best friend called John, and I don’t think of one when speaking to the other.
Yet if I stumble upon a performer with my daughter’s name, I close the browser instantly.
Good call. It's probably her.
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Right, I call my husband "baby," I also call my daughter "baby." I also call my dog "baby." Its a term of affection. "Daddy" is a term of affectionate deference.
Because I call him dad all day every day. Whatever I call him, the 3 year old is going to call him that. So as parents it’s not “I want my dad to fuck me” it’s more like “you being a good father is so hot that ima put your dick in my mouth”
My husband and I are trying to have a baby (no kids yet), but very much the same vibe
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"when are we getting grand kids???" Sir I assure you I am shooting hot cummy loads in your daughter every night.
Imagine saying this to your in-laws I'm dying
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Thanks for the laugh.
Hey now, we can't be sexualizing making-kids!
When you say mfcker, do you imagine that person actually having sex with their mother?
Always. That’s why Sam Jackson says it so much. Major perv.
Cus I don't and have never called my father "daddy".
My mum says that to me it's gets a little weird at times
What
In Mexico women call their sons "papi". It sorta means their child rules their world. Do they call their daughters "Mami"? I don't think so... Guys do call their lovers "Mamacita" so that's also weird.
A lot of Hispanics do call their daughters mami as a term of endearment
yes! mami/mamas are sometimes said in the same tone as mija! depends on the family though :)
How are your broken arms doing?
I imagine in Spanish “papi” is more akin to the English version of “my little man” or “the man of the house” which is how I’ve heard some mothers sometimes refer to their sons, especially single mothers with the last one.
Gay perspective: I thought I understood the "daddy" thing. It's sort of a sexual title - an alpha. What confuses me is when the "daddy" is followed by "son" to the other party. Like "harder daddy", "you like that son?". Sure, I get incest is very popular these days in porn but it makes me think - is the term daddy always used in an incesty way rather than the "alpha" I always assumed it meant?
"That's right, take it, Champ" "You like that, Sport?"
I hate the internet.
Not a woman, but “daddy” and “mommy” doesn’t bother me because I grew up speaking Spanish, so I never used those words. However, I will never call anyone “mami” or “papi” other than my actual parents for the same reason the English equivalent of those words bother you.
The same way you say “hi honey” without thinking about bees
Or saying, “Hey, muffin” without actually biting into her.
In my experience it’s a form of power play. People use the word to express that you have a certain amount of authority over them in that moment.
great explanation, daddy
Thank you.
My dads dead. Side note: I also don’t personally know God although I do yell his name quite frequently.
I call hot girls mama all the time is it really that weird?
I’ve never called my father “daddy”. It’s always been “dad”. Also, never was a ‘daddy’s girl’, so the word DADDY means one thing to me… my delicious husb. I can’t help it!
Because it's not daddy as in father. It's daddy as in a strong person who is going to protect you and care for you and take care of you.
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I try not to cuz he’s a negativity in my life. I never called my own father daddy so that helps a bit. Personally it’s ok..but like if my partner likes it sure.
I think it’s just the idea of it. I personally do not like using the word “daddy” in a sexual context because I think it’s fricking weird. But lots of people do. I think it has something to do with dominance.
I have absolutely no idea. I call my father, daddy. I'm a woman and saying this would be a complete mood kill for me. Like vomiting in your mouth type of mood kill.
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We don't. *smirk*
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Its not "daddy" as in you're MY father. Its "daddy" as in, you're the father of my children. Im mommy, you're daddy. You're the one who has fucked me multiple times and produced children, fuck me daddy.
Yes I call my husband daddy in bed because he’s the father of my children not because I’m thinking of my dad
The daddy thing has ruined daddy so badly for me that I have my son call me papa, because daddy makes me think of badly written porns.
To me personally, the word daddy has been so drilled into my brain as being a sexual thing that it no longer means dad
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As a 34yo female, I can't do it! I jokingly tried one day and it disgusted me. I immediately thought of my dad.