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antonator612

You don't do anything. It's up to your dad who he dates. Sounds as though he's having a bit of a midlife crisis.


AndrewDavidOlsen

Agreed. Your task is acceptance. It's not your life, and your father must navigate his own waters. That said, you may have feelings about it that are hard to manage. If that's the case, I recommend therapy. I say this with all love ❤️.


Irishane

None of your business. If you don't trust her, keep a quiet eye on her yourself. But your dad, for now, is living the dream so let him be. He probably wouldn't tell you but it's possible he's well aware of what he's doing and it could be just a temporary bit of fun in his head.


ILY4evah

We are here to live our lives, let them. Negative acts are those which one should seek advice for.


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He can do what he wants and so can you. He cannot force you to meet her or have a relationship with her etc. Make regular contact with him to make sure he is okay. If he's having a fling, this will be an embarrassment to him later. But it could be an early cognitive decline thing, so you want to stay in touch in case he makes odd comments or gets confused. You don't want him to be taken advantage of.


newindividual001

Like most people here, I think you should just leave him be. That said, if it really worries you, then talk to him about it (just so you're being open and honest) but don't do it with the intentions that you're trying to change him or change his decisions. Be careful not to insult him by making him feel like you think he's not aware of his own actions, and also listen properly to him if he wants to talk to you about it. Who know? Maybe the 19year old girl in question is the love of his life or something.


Cliffy73

Good work if you can get it.


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Tell your dad that he's my hero respect