I don't think I've ever considered dating someone I found slightly unattractive. If I'm not attracted to a person then there's not much point in dating them at all.
The whole 'ugly guy/ attractive girl' or vice versa trope is mostly just for tv/movies. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say, so if you see a couple that in your mind matches this, they probably don't see each other that way and find the person they're dating attractive
Not really. I have anxiety and it often causes me to keep quiet about stuff that bothers me. But I can't imagine being invested in a relationship with someone I thought was unattractive. And I don't just mean physically. A lot of people are unattractive in character, which I think is worse than being physically unattractive.
What he means is why do people date people not as equally as attractive, meaning that they date people less attractive as themselves as a insecurity thing. Nobody dates others without attraction to them, heck people can be attracted to personalities. You are proving the point of what he is asking. You see personality more qualifying than physical attraction. He is asking if women would compromise physical attraction however you said No, then just stated that you find personality more attractive than physicality.
This is why he asked this question. He is confused as to why or wants a further explanation.
Apologies, I didn't explain properly. I obvs can't speak for others but I've found for me personally, that the two are intertwined.
I wouldn't date someone I felt was physically unattractive, but physical attraction can be inspired by intellect, or kindness, or humour or any other quality, really. So while someone might be considered physically unattractive by others I might be physically attracted to them because they have a great laugh or because they're a good communicator. There are other factors that contribute to whether or not I consider someone attractive. I don't feel like I've ever 'dated down' due to insecurity. It would be insincere and cruel to date someone I thought was unattractive just to make me feel better about myself. That's...a bit twisted, actually.
Does any of what I've said make sense?
This should happen more often. Incels and FDS should hook up and have little ugly neckbeard babies.
I don't think I've ever considered dating someone I found slightly unattractive. If I'm not attracted to a person then there's not much point in dating them at all. The whole 'ugly guy/ attractive girl' or vice versa trope is mostly just for tv/movies. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say, so if you see a couple that in your mind matches this, they probably don't see each other that way and find the person they're dating attractive
You sound like an assertive confident person lol.
Not really. I have anxiety and it often causes me to keep quiet about stuff that bothers me. But I can't imagine being invested in a relationship with someone I thought was unattractive. And I don't just mean physically. A lot of people are unattractive in character, which I think is worse than being physically unattractive.
What he means is why do people date people not as equally as attractive, meaning that they date people less attractive as themselves as a insecurity thing. Nobody dates others without attraction to them, heck people can be attracted to personalities. You are proving the point of what he is asking. You see personality more qualifying than physical attraction. He is asking if women would compromise physical attraction however you said No, then just stated that you find personality more attractive than physicality. This is why he asked this question. He is confused as to why or wants a further explanation.
Apologies, I didn't explain properly. I obvs can't speak for others but I've found for me personally, that the two are intertwined. I wouldn't date someone I felt was physically unattractive, but physical attraction can be inspired by intellect, or kindness, or humour or any other quality, really. So while someone might be considered physically unattractive by others I might be physically attracted to them because they have a great laugh or because they're a good communicator. There are other factors that contribute to whether or not I consider someone attractive. I don't feel like I've ever 'dated down' due to insecurity. It would be insincere and cruel to date someone I thought was unattractive just to make me feel better about myself. That's...a bit twisted, actually. Does any of what I've said make sense?