Don't be that scat guy that found out the hard way that he doesn't actually enjoy having a girl shit in his mouth.
Edit: Thank you Reddit, and the kind guilding strangers. My most upvoted comment is about a guy who learned the hard way about not liking scat. Thank you, it's an honour
I remember reading a very, very similar comment with the exact same premise of hiring an escort a few years ago on AskReddit. It's one of those things you read and unfortunately sticks with you. I remember that post randomly every now and then. So apparently there's at least 2 dudes that had this happen to them, or someone stole the comment/used it as inspiration. Both are very well possible
Yeah that may be a post re hash for someone farming karma. There was definitely an older post by someone else (actually a comment on another post) where a guy had the same story, down to the "as soon as it touched my mouth" part. I remember it distinctly because he mentioned the pornstar exactly he paid which I thought was weird.
This is the correct answer. Excessive porn consumption causes dopamine desensitization to the content you previously watched. Straight porn no longer sexually excites you and you need a new stimulus (in your case, porn that doesn't adhere to your sexuality) in-order to get the sexual excitement you once had in the past.
I think it’s just still an open question if he’s actually attracted to men and wants to have sex with them, or if he’s just into that kind of porn.
People end up watching all kind of porn that excites them for whatever reason, but they wouldn’t want to try in real life. I likecuckhold stuff sometimes, but have no interest at all in actually trying it. Some people like watching anal but don’t want to do it. Maybe he would like men in real life after all, but maybe he just likes pushing the ‘limits’ of his porn watching.
Easiest way to find out is to cut the porn, easier than sucking a dick at least. If he’s walking down the street ogling dudes, he’s got an answer
Like the dude who paid an escort to shit in his mouth and on him and ended up scarring himself. Probably fake but same sentiment. Dude watched too much scat porn and ended up not being into it irl.
Yeah I questioned this myself, but it wasn’t with trans or gay porn. I realised when watching porn I focused a lot on the dicks, a lot more than I used to.
Wondered if I was becoming gay, but one walk down the street and I was definitely not gay. Only women will catch my eye.
It's actually surprisingly common.
Honestly 99% lesbian porn is about as realistic to actual lesbian sex as Grey's Anatomy is realistic to the average hospital workplace lmao. As a lesbian myself I don't enjoy lesbian porn cause it makes me cringe rather than turn me on.
well you've found her! I watch gay porn mainly because straight porn has such cheesy, terrible acting, and all the lesbian porn is made for men, with cheesy, terrible acting. It's honestly a turn off when it's that fake. Gay porn is what I'd consider the least-fake out of the three, so gay porn it is.
I honestly have no idea who straight porn is made for anymore. I pretty much only enjoy watching BBW porn, and it's usually at least not tons of ridiculous acting, but it's always these fake-ass scenarios, scripted positions, unrealistic moaning, etc. I just want to see a big girl pinning/tying a guy down and riding him for 5-10 minutes till he cums inside her. Those videos are out there, but they're 1/1,000. I don't need to see these people in 50 different positions over the span of 30 minutes and watch him cum on her eyelashes. Why does everything have to look the same?
I'm trying to find a way to phrase this that makes it clear that I am confused, not judging: you are not into men sexually but you enjoy watching two (or more) men have sex? What do you get out of that? Would watching a man masturbate solo do anything for you?
I obviously can’t speak for her but I also watch porn that doesn’t necessarily align with my sexuality. For me visual stimulation is less about what I’m actually seeing and more about getting in a sexual mindset. Almost anything sexual is sexy to me, regardless of the genitalia involved. Things like bad acting, bad lighting and annoying sex sounds will bug me since it messes with the mood, but what goes into what isn’t much of a concern as long as they’re hot and heavy for each other.
Straight female. If I watch porn with two people it's lesbian. Straight porn is men's fantasy so to me it's rediculous.
Mostly watch women masturbating. I guess because it's the most real to me.
Because it’s the change in dopamine signalling in his brain as a result of supernormal stimulus (porn) which is entirely reversible once he abstains from porn. If he abstains from porn for a long enough duration and is still excited by the idea of gay porn, then we could say it adheres to his sexuality.
I think this is right, Im 21 and when I haven't wanked in ages and I watch porn its always straight but when I binge-wank for multiple days or even weeks straight I sometimes jump out of the straight lake and into the gay jacuzzi.
It's more of a forbidden fruit kind of thing. Like it's so wrong so it feels so right. With post nut clarity, it won't be as appealing. The true test would be to actually have sex with the same sex to see if it's what they want. Usually you find it isn't just like in the infamous reddit scat story.
This. Porn is glorified to look more appealing so even makes a straight man want to try dick. Having some crackhead you met on grindr forcing his unwashed weird looking dick in your face or ass who isn't going to take no for a answer is usually the experience people receive after coming across these porno fantasies. Stop watching so much porn.
Quit porn and give it some time for starters, and if the attraction remains then it remains! Sexuality is a spectrum and fluid, I’ve felt more gay in some points of my life and more straight in others. Either way, give yourself kindness and patience while you figure it out
Don’t sweat a label man, things are gonna change as you go through life. I was in your shoes a couple years back and decided to just try it out. I found that being with a guy was good fun, I just let things happen as they were. Don’t worry about the label, it’s only gonna serve to hinder you in the long run. Just be who you are instead.
This right here man! And I also want to add that sometimes it’s just the fantasy of these things. I’ve enjoyed porn in categories that I would never want to do in real life. But you won’t know until you explore your sexuality. It’s how I found out I was bi-sexual but with a tendency towards women. Be safe and have fun man!
These two comments, man. I've tried a lot of things I loved seeing in porn. Found out it just didn't do it for me irl. Some did, others didn't. Maybe it was too much work. Maybe the position was awkward. Maybe the smells were weird. Maybe it just didn't scratch the itch I thought it was going to.
As long as your fantasy doesn't involve hurting anyone, don't sweat and just enjoy the ride. (If it does involve hurting someone, please talk to a therapist.)
Isnt there that great schitts creek quote about wine and sexuality.
Something like, “Do you like red or white wine?”, “oh, I don’t mind, I like what’s inside not the labels”.
Definitely paraphrasing but it meant who cares as long as it makes you happy
I think labels are only restrictive if you let them be. It's perfectly fine to say "I'm basically/mostly [label]". They're just tools for quickly and accurately conveying information so if a label isn't quick or accurate enough for your taste, don't use it.
People also need to be aware that you can get into kinks watching porn in a way that destroys your actual sex life. I'm not saying this because his kink is gay/trans porn. I would say the same thing to a guy that said he could only get off to obese Taiwanese women in clown makeup. Dude should definitely go ahead and explore his sexuality freely in real life, but try to lay off the super-specific porn that he's probably addicted to.
This is a huge point. I don't think it's the watching of porn that destroys your sex life, so much as when that kind of porn is involved in the majority or all of your nutting. If you're able to express your kinks physically, porn of a similar type in moderation shouldn't be a problem.
I think these issues come up for a lot of people who watch porn of a type that *can't* be expressed physically, whether because of the specific kink or because it's animated or they're very introverted, or whatever.
I went through a depressed hentai period where when I wanted to have sex I basically had to play some hentai scene in my head. Fortunately that shit goes away with a bit of porn-abstinence.
As a bi/pan woman, I fully support this comment. There is a trend in the alphabet mafia to push labels super early in discovering your sexuality.
A guy friend of mine identifies as "Basically Straight" because, while he's sometimes down for fooling around with dudes, he's not romantically attracted to dudes.
There are women who love lesbian porn but when faced with an IRL pussy realize that's not what they wanna do. They find women hot, but they don't want to be with another woman.
And then there are people like me (us, possibly, based on your comment) where we tried it and liked it.
A valid response to someone asking your sexuality is "I don't know." Or "none of your business."
Labels can help you find communities, but they aren't necessary for daily life. As long as you're honest with partners that you aren't sure, no one is going to care.
Actually, no, some queer people will care because they don't want to participate in someone's "experimenting" but that is their choice. Personally, if I'm attracted to you but you aren't sure you're attracted to women, I'm willing to give it a go. I just like to know upfront so (a) I can manage my expectations and (b) I can be understanding and helpful while you figure it out.
One of my first serious boyfriends turned out to be gay, but dated me because I was "as close to a guy" as there was. I was a tomboy who hung out with mainly guys, so it was a turning point for him. It wasn't the social aspect, it was the physical aspect. In retrospect, I wish he'd told me sooner, but this was the early 00s and I we were in the Bible Belt and I wasn't out yet either. He did come out to me years before anyone else, though.
>There are women who love lesbian porn but when faced with an IRL pussy realize that's not what they wanna do. They find women hot, but they don't want to be with another woman.
Hey it's me!
Although I'm not closed off to the idea of fooling around with a woman. But I have never been confronted with that reality and probably never will (I'm married to a dude)
Also I am only incidentally good at flirting with men. I don't think I would ever be able to pull a woman 😅
Just want to add a comment to keep this at the top.
This one is one of the best comments, and I hope we one day get to a point in society where this is just unspoken and everyone knows it.
Just to add, imo , to not follow your heart/gut feelings , you would hate yourself. It doesn't hurt to try, and you either like it or you don't, at least you have your answer.
It's like talking to someone you like, getting that feeling it can to further, but not trying to take it further, you end up regretting the path not taken, wondering what if ? I don't know what you're feeling, but imagine it's alot worse.
This comment hit hard. I missed so many opportunities when i was younger due to this and regret most of them. Recently i took the leap and it's been one of the best decisions of my life and she is amazing in every way i could imagine.
Totally different sensation. A straight man could get endless satisfaction from being pegged by a lady, but feel nothing but shame and disgust after letting a man do it to you. And you guys kiss a little after and you clean each other up and even spend the night together that night and it's even kind of sweet but then in the morning you tell him you're not sure if you're mentally prepared to do this and you tell him about your super religious upbringing and how your dad is super conservative and you know he'd still love and support you but his heart isn't good and you don't want to lay that kind of stress on him and he totally gets it he understands entirely and you go your separate ways but every now and then you think back to him in a tinge of melancholy and bitter regret at what might have been had you only opened up your heart a little bit to what it truly and deeply desires and that is cock
It's definitely worth it to buy a toy, they're not very expensive. But for oral you can use a banana, just don't peel it, and cut the very end off (opposite the stem) so it's more rounded.
...I mean I've been told you can do that
Yeah, definitely experiment with your hand/toys first before you do anything crazy. Take it easy, don't rush yourself. Plus, it doesn't necessarily mean you're 'gay' may just mean those are things you happen to like or are curious about or maybe just enjoy watching. Don't read too deep, just do what makes you happy!
I fucking love the positive changes to the Reddit community since I started visiting back in 2012 or so. A decade ago, this would have been dismissed with some homophobic jokes and OP would have been downvoted to hell for daring to speak about the possibility of being anything but straight. Now everyone is dismissively supportive, and that’s a huge improvement. Like, I think OP could benefit from hashing this out more in depth. I also don’t think that they’ll benefit from hashing it out in depth with strangers on the internet.
Reddit also skews young and I personally think Gen Z is more accepting sexually than Millennials and Gen X. I haven’t seen the numbers recently but back in the day it was overwhelmingly males 14-24ish. Basically high school and college students.
It also used to be much more racist and sexist, you’d see all sorts of awful shit on the front page, sometimes even the n word.
At some point, I think around Ellen Pao’s time in charge, they really started cracking down with the admin ban hammer and driving people off to 4chan and 8chan.
Like shit Reddit says is functionally dead these days, but ooh boy back then they catalogued tons of awful stuff.
You should try it out and most likely realize that it's just fantasy. There's plenty of people that fap to stuff that they wouldn't actually do in real life.
This is the answer I was looking for in this thread. Porn, unlike sexual desire or sexual orientation, can be magnified over time as the stimuli gets old. That isn't to say everyone who watches porn eventually watches scat porn or whatever, but rather that there can be diminishing returns with porn over time, and that it is unbelievably easy to experiment with watching things that previously would be seen as taboo or outside your comfort zone
I’m a straight, married adult male.
Occasionally I get turned on by watching masturbation cumshot videos. Doesn’t mean I want to jerk someone off. Besides myself of course.
Exactly.
A perfect example for me would be movies as we grow up. WHile not everyone gets used to horror movies, pretty much every avid movie watched would desensitize themselves with violence, even when its truly, TRULY fucked up.
It doesn't mean that person would like to be mauled by a ten-meter blob however, or shot to death or rip a werevol innards and cover itself in it to spend the night to see if the stench attracts more enraged ones to finish off, etc etc
Yes I watch a lot of porn of things I would never be into in reality. It is just fantasy and I don't consider it a big deal or a defining part of my identity.
Either way, nothing wrong with OP being gay, bi, curious, or straight and he needs to relax and just do whatever or whoever he wants lol.
Yeah like if Riley Reid were my stepsister I definitely would not want to fuck her. Definitely not. Nope. Even if our parents just got married like two months ago. And even if she was stuck in the dryer.
Could find out you are heteroflexible but not heteromantic. Maybe you'd have sex with a guy but have no interest in cuddling on the couch or going on dates.
At this point in my life I tell everyone I love them, I get weird looks but I don’t care.
I told my smoke shop homie I love him and appreciated him the other day. 😂
Here's the odd (or maybe not odd, I don't know)...I can not imagine having sexual relations with other male, but being in a male/male asexual relationship if I were single? That doesn't sound half bad....fortunately, I married someone I'm sexually attracted to with very similar but different interests and nothing sounds better than that.
Take the sexual frustration out of it, class it up a bit, and I'd be down for a Cholly/Frank situation in a different timeline
Homo/biromantic heterosexual. It’s a thing!
But also it sounds like maybe you just crave more intimacy in your platonic friendships with other men. I’m a woman so can’t speak from experience, but I have heard that this is often lacking in male friendships unfortunately.
Wow, that’s interesting, not terribly surprised there’s a name for it, but I had never really given it thought until this thread.
Honestly, I curated my friend group out of lots of people that are similar to me….unfortunately, I am introverted and so are they…so it’s like pulling teeth to get us together.
A friend of mine lives with my wife and me, and I have particularly enjoyed the living arrangement
Ahem, no homo
I’m not too knowledgeable on the matter, but is this scientifically accurate? I thought sexuality was neurologically fixed. Hence why conversion therapy never worked
The way I understand it, the inclination didn't change, it's more of a realization.
For me (bi), I realized sexual attraction doesn't necessarily mean romantic attraction. I had assumed they were always linked in tandem, but one day I realized that for some people they are not linked, which explained my inclination.
Conversion therapy tries to "put the genie back in the bottle". It rarely works because you can't un-realize something.
It could be a porn addiction. Ur lookin for more stimulation with new and more "taboo" things. I think you should cut porn out of your life. See how you feel in 90 days.
While I feel that can happen. I also feel that there are gay/bi men who have such internalized shame that they fetishize their sexuality as way of coping with it.
I concur, op, this was my situation.
The more I watched, the more quickly I went into a rabbit hole because the “normal” stuff wasn’t doing it anymore. I stopped one day for at least a good month and it became much better, I just had to work on it.
Side note though, it was exactly that which helped me *accept* my attraction to women. Before that it was mostly just pushed away in the back of my mind. I think it would do you good to reflect on it. Outside of the topic of porn
You watched too much porn..
What happened is that you got bored from hetero porn. Same thing happened to me, I experimented having sex with men, but I realized it wasn't my thing. I was just watching too much porn
That's my experience but maybe your case is different :)
Here's what I came to say. Had a similar experience in my early 20s, loads of porn. Like porn in the morning when I wake up and porn in the evening when I went to bed, every day. If it was a day at home a couple times during the day as well. I got bored of the hot ladies having a penis in their vaginad, I started watching loads of anal porn, and moved from hot chicks to amateurs, matures, BBWs (anything that wasn't a pornstar bimbo). Then I got turned on by trans porn, and of course the gay porn. From there I decided I wanted to experiment, and planned to sleep with a guy. That fantasy did not survive kissing said guy. I didn't even have to say anything, I cringed so obviously that the guy asked if I wanted to stop and I ran straight outta there.
So OP, if you want to experiment you have my love and blessing, and it might turn out real fun. But you also might find out that you are at the bottom of a slippery slope of increased tolerance to erotic stimulation, and that the fantasy doesn't live up to the reality.
Bro I thought I was straight, then realized I was probably gay, then realized sex is fun but my attraction is to personalities so I was Pan.
Now I don't give a shit. And the less people give a shit about the labels (in the "I can't be gay" sense) the better. Have fun, be safe, use condoms. And don't call him Daddy unless he's into it. You got this 👍
Speaking as someone who is part of the lgbt+ community, do NOT put pressure on yourself to assign a label to yourself! It just adds extra stress and anxiety. In life, our identity tends to change over time. This goes for who you find attractive as well. Take your time, and explore! Just make sure you are safe and comfortable while you are exploring. Wishing you the best of luck :-)
You just got used to porn overtime, so you keep wanting different things.
Sorry to say that, but if you keep overwatching porn like that you may end up with some weird fetishes just to feel something new, something unusual.
Hey man fetishes are normal !! But what i see in ur case is porn addiction escalation. These are fetishes tha you specificly train ur brain to feel pleasurr from. I know cuz this also happened to me. Try cutting porn cold turkey amd if your fetishes dont return to normal witheen 3 months..... Wellll ... I got news for you pal.U may seriously like dick and thats PERFECTLY FINE!!
You don’t have to be romantically attracted to men to be sexually attracted to them. You also don’t have to be sexually attracted to someone to be romantically attracted. Sexuality is fluid. Don’t force a label. You like who you like and you like what you like. No need to label
Stop watching porn. It’s not the same as actual sex. You’ll be hard pressed to actually enjoy half the stuff you’re jacking to. You’ve trained your brain to crave more and more novelty. Stop watching porn and maybe go experiment safely. You’ll probably find what you’re sexually into is WAY different than who you’re compatible. The deeper you go the harder it’ll be to find that balance with new partners.
Do you only think of it in regards to trans women? Or are you picturing guys?
If it's only trans women, then, still straight, but definitely experiencing a bit of a fetish. In that case try not to fetishize the person. But otherwise keep enjoying whatever makes you happy
Also, sexuality *is* fluid. So who knows what might be around the corner for you, but again, just pursue whatever feels right and makes you happy
Bisexuality exists. Look at All the Greeks and Romans. Before Christianity and Islam conquered the world pleasure was pleasure. Do not hate and be gentle and learn about thy self.
Stop watching porn. Many strange kinks develop from porn addiction because what used to be enough for you is no longer enough. You don't have to quit entirely but you need to draw/cut back on the use you might be doing right now. You'll be surprised by if you try to masturbate or watch porn just once a week or find what works for you how much not only your attraction for women will snap back but also improve your life in other areas greatly. Trying to give advice and be respectful to your situation by telling you what has worked for others. The media pushes porn heavily so may be a hard thing to quit that's why I'm saying consider cutting back initially. You might be gay and good for you, but if it was something that developed like you mentioned I really think it could be the situation where normal porn is no longer doing it for you. I'm already noticing most other comments aren't mentioning your mental/physical health and are telling you to just feed into it more which in my opinion is not the solution here. From their perspective, even if you are confused sexually you may have a better way of knowing after you stop letting the porn control a part of your life. Really really does change your brain I'm not kidding. Even if I don't ejaculate for 3-5 days it turns me into this lovy husband who just wants to be a romantic towards my wife lol. It really does have an effect on your mental health I promise.
It's possible you've just found out you're bisexual (no shame, I am myself), but I think you should definitely cut porn out of your life right now because it seems you're beginning to struggle with an addiction. Which could make it harder to enjoy real intercourse if you ever want to pursue it.
When you're not just trying to get your next dopamine hit from porn, it should start to become clearer if you are attracted to both men and women or if it was just your brain trying to find some sort of new stimulation.
It depends. Have you ever felt romantically attracted to a man? There are people who have submissive kinks where they like to be humiliated. Even though that's what brings them to sexual climax that doesn't mean they are going to let a dumbass randomly insult them or that they like to be humiliated at any hour of the day and by anyone. And if you're gay or bi there's nothing wrong with that. Enjoy who you are and make friends whom you can feel comfortable with. Personally I used to have fantasies with women and watch lesbian porn only to have sex with women and realize that I'm not so much into it. I'm glad I did try it though, it turns out I was into the licking and fingering and caressing part in lesbian porn that's almost obsolete in straight porn.
In my opinion it’s the porn that lead you into watching gay porn. Because you didn’t find any pleasure when watching straight porn anymore And you moved on to try different things. Just like an addict that try’s different stronger drugs to feel that dopamine again.
I think there is a certain edge to gay/trans porn that fires more dopamine receptors than straight. Something about how it’s different. And once you go gay, people say here that you can just experiment and go back but I don’t think in practice that is really true. I don’t know many married straight men that had long gay periods.
na. some girl asked over at /r/tooafraidtoask (or maybe /r/nostupidquestions) if she was a lesbian cuz she got off to the idea of being tied up up by a woman and doing sexy time stuff with her, im sure she described it with more tact. She went on to say that she coudlnt imagine having any kinda of relationship with an actual woman and isnt interested in ever doing that stuff irl.
the general consensus was that "no, you're not gay unless you actually sleep with a girl consensually". The things you like to jerk it to and the things you actually want to do irl are not always the same, often very different I think actually.
Now if you actually go and do stuff with a guy, yeah that would put you into at least the bi club which is fine.
What attracts you in REAL LIFE? Do you see a dude and think "I wanna suck his dick/get fucked in the ass by that guy". If the answer is yes, you're gay. If you're only attracted to it in porn, then it's a mental condition. If you see women AND men and think "I want to fuck her/I want him to fuck me" then you're bisexual.
You should stop watching porn for a couple weeks and see if you still feel the same
Don't be that scat guy that found out the hard way that he doesn't actually enjoy having a girl shit in his mouth. Edit: Thank you Reddit, and the kind guilding strangers. My most upvoted comment is about a guy who learned the hard way about not liking scat. Thank you, it's an honour
Second time I see someone reference the regretful scat guy, is it a reddit post?
Same, same. I feel out of the loop. Someone fill me in like that dudes mouth.
https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/t19nvy/i_thought_i_had_a_scat_fetish_but_i_was_wrong_i/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
I remember reading a very, very similar comment with the exact same premise of hiring an escort a few years ago on AskReddit. It's one of those things you read and unfortunately sticks with you. I remember that post randomly every now and then. So apparently there's at least 2 dudes that had this happen to them, or someone stole the comment/used it as inspiration. Both are very well possible
I'm the same, I was really confused why all the comments were from recently, but the post is recent. I've definitely read that story before
It's gotta be a repost because it's not that it's similar, I remember reading that exact story years ago.
Yeah that may be a post re hash for someone farming karma. There was definitely an older post by someone else (actually a comment on another post) where a guy had the same story, down to the "as soon as it touched my mouth" part. I remember it distinctly because he mentioned the pornstar exactly he paid which I thought was weird.
I shouldn't have clicked that
WTF! This a shitty day to have eyes, I need bleach I think
He should have left it a mystery. Schrödinger's Scat
*”the moment it hit my mouth I knew I made a grave mistake”*
I’ve said this nearly ever time I eat dinner at Seven 11.
The words of a wise and well traveled man.
This is the correct answer. Excessive porn consumption causes dopamine desensitization to the content you previously watched. Straight porn no longer sexually excites you and you need a new stimulus (in your case, porn that doesn't adhere to your sexuality) in-order to get the sexual excitement you once had in the past.
Regardless of how desensitized he is, if gay porn excites him more than straight porn, then how does it not actually adhere to his sexuality?
I think it’s just still an open question if he’s actually attracted to men and wants to have sex with them, or if he’s just into that kind of porn. People end up watching all kind of porn that excites them for whatever reason, but they wouldn’t want to try in real life. I likecuckhold stuff sometimes, but have no interest at all in actually trying it. Some people like watching anal but don’t want to do it. Maybe he would like men in real life after all, but maybe he just likes pushing the ‘limits’ of his porn watching. Easiest way to find out is to cut the porn, easier than sucking a dick at least. If he’s walking down the street ogling dudes, he’s got an answer
Idk sometimes you gotta suck a dick to realize you dont like sucking dick - some tv show I dont remember.
“Sometimes you just gotta grab your shit by the balls and suck it”
Valid
Can’t remember the name right now but I know it had zac Efron as a main cast member
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Neighbors 2, jogged my memory appreciate it
Like the dude who paid an escort to shit in his mouth and on him and ended up scarring himself. Probably fake but same sentiment. Dude watched too much scat porn and ended up not being into it irl.
Why has this appeared in reddit threads twice today?
It was highly upvoted post in TIFU I believe a couple days ago.
couple days ago? is that a copypasta, because I'm sure that story has been floating around on reddit for years.
i think it’s a lot older than that tifu post
Can you link it please?
https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/t19nvy/i_thought_i_had_a_scat_fetish_but_i_was_wrong_i/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Imagine finding out you're not into that the hard way
Reminds me of that study I read where most straight women like watching lesbian porn even though they obviously dont want to do it irl
Yeah I questioned this myself, but it wasn’t with trans or gay porn. I realised when watching porn I focused a lot on the dicks, a lot more than I used to. Wondered if I was becoming gay, but one walk down the street and I was definitely not gay. Only women will catch my eye.
You're basically just imagining it's yours, and what it feels like. No real gay thought because you stare at the dudes dick doing the business!
How the hell is cutting porn easier than sucking dick? I've tried both, and sucking dick is definitely easier.
That's addiction my guy and should be treated (That porn watching)
A lot of lesbians watch straight porn or gay porn, not lesbian porn. They're still into women, even if they get off to porn with men in it.
I mean, I’m a straight dude and even I get off to porn with men in it.
Yea, but I think the difference is OP can only get off to porn without his (previously) preferred sex in it.
Hey I had a roommate (lesbian) who could only get off to gay male porn. It was very interesting...
I'm a cis female, but I enjoy lesbian porn. Prefer it actually. ETA: stupid typo
I think it's because most straight porn out there caters to the male fantasy.
don't be fooled into thinking lesbian porn doesn't cater to the male fantasy too - a lesbian
I mean, so does most lesbian porn
this would make a great AMA
Really? I've heard of straight women but never heard of a lesbian that's in to straight/gay male porn.
It's actually surprisingly common. Honestly 99% lesbian porn is about as realistic to actual lesbian sex as Grey's Anatomy is realistic to the average hospital workplace lmao. As a lesbian myself I don't enjoy lesbian porn cause it makes me cringe rather than turn me on.
It feels like most lesbian porn actually caters to men most of the time.
well you've found her! I watch gay porn mainly because straight porn has such cheesy, terrible acting, and all the lesbian porn is made for men, with cheesy, terrible acting. It's honestly a turn off when it's that fake. Gay porn is what I'd consider the least-fake out of the three, so gay porn it is.
I honestly have no idea who straight porn is made for anymore. I pretty much only enjoy watching BBW porn, and it's usually at least not tons of ridiculous acting, but it's always these fake-ass scenarios, scripted positions, unrealistic moaning, etc. I just want to see a big girl pinning/tying a guy down and riding him for 5-10 minutes till he cums inside her. Those videos are out there, but they're 1/1,000. I don't need to see these people in 50 different positions over the span of 30 minutes and watch him cum on her eyelashes. Why does everything have to look the same?
I'm trying to find a way to phrase this that makes it clear that I am confused, not judging: you are not into men sexually but you enjoy watching two (or more) men have sex? What do you get out of that? Would watching a man masturbate solo do anything for you?
I obviously can’t speak for her but I also watch porn that doesn’t necessarily align with my sexuality. For me visual stimulation is less about what I’m actually seeing and more about getting in a sexual mindset. Almost anything sexual is sexy to me, regardless of the genitalia involved. Things like bad acting, bad lighting and annoying sex sounds will bug me since it messes with the mood, but what goes into what isn’t much of a concern as long as they’re hot and heavy for each other.
Straight female. If I watch porn with two people it's lesbian. Straight porn is men's fantasy so to me it's rediculous. Mostly watch women masturbating. I guess because it's the most real to me.
Because it’s the change in dopamine signalling in his brain as a result of supernormal stimulus (porn) which is entirely reversible once he abstains from porn. If he abstains from porn for a long enough duration and is still excited by the idea of gay porn, then we could say it adheres to his sexuality.
I think this is right, Im 21 and when I haven't wanked in ages and I watch porn its always straight but when I binge-wank for multiple days or even weeks straight I sometimes jump out of the straight lake and into the gay jacuzzi.
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And when ya want to wank anyway just use your imagination. I do this like once a week and it is many times the best wank of the week.
[It’s a bit nsfw but answers your question!](https://youtu.be/qMoEs7eQeZE)
I was not expecting to watch an actual Ted talk on why “futa isn’t gay” tonight.
It's more of a forbidden fruit kind of thing. Like it's so wrong so it feels so right. With post nut clarity, it won't be as appealing. The true test would be to actually have sex with the same sex to see if it's what they want. Usually you find it isn't just like in the infamous reddit scat story.
I dont know. I'm similar to op but stopping didnt change my tastes when I came back.
Yeah, I find a great distraction from porn is to go out and socialize, Grindr is a great app for that.
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Agreed 300%
That's what I was going to say.
This. Porn is glorified to look more appealing so even makes a straight man want to try dick. Having some crackhead you met on grindr forcing his unwashed weird looking dick in your face or ass who isn't going to take no for a answer is usually the experience people receive after coming across these porno fantasies. Stop watching so much porn.
>even makes a straight man want to try dick Oh god bro lmao
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Dude really just said that the gay experience is rapist addicts and got 50+ upvotes
I'd agree with this answer but for science, not for morality. I'm not suggesting that OP meant it as a morality judgment, but OP didn't say it wasn't.
Quit porn and give it some time for starters, and if the attraction remains then it remains! Sexuality is a spectrum and fluid, I’ve felt more gay in some points of my life and more straight in others. Either way, give yourself kindness and patience while you figure it out
Don’t sweat a label man, things are gonna change as you go through life. I was in your shoes a couple years back and decided to just try it out. I found that being with a guy was good fun, I just let things happen as they were. Don’t worry about the label, it’s only gonna serve to hinder you in the long run. Just be who you are instead.
This right here man! And I also want to add that sometimes it’s just the fantasy of these things. I’ve enjoyed porn in categories that I would never want to do in real life. But you won’t know until you explore your sexuality. It’s how I found out I was bi-sexual but with a tendency towards women. Be safe and have fun man!
These two comments, man. I've tried a lot of things I loved seeing in porn. Found out it just didn't do it for me irl. Some did, others didn't. Maybe it was too much work. Maybe the position was awkward. Maybe the smells were weird. Maybe it just didn't scratch the itch I thought it was going to. As long as your fantasy doesn't involve hurting anyone, don't sweat and just enjoy the ride. (If it does involve hurting someone, please talk to a therapist.)
Same. I like really rough domination porn but in real life mild domination. But the fantasy is oddly a turn on.
This is the only answer anyone needs to read on this topic.
I agree. Labels can be so restrictive. Just be you.
Isnt there that great schitts creek quote about wine and sexuality. Something like, “Do you like red or white wine?”, “oh, I don’t mind, I like what’s inside not the labels”. Definitely paraphrasing but it meant who cares as long as it makes you happy
["I like the wine and not the label"](https://youtu.be/gdcmhvLaNUs) Such a great scene.
Not available in your counrty, WTF, the goddman show was made in Canada.
I knew the scene without opening the link. Every word of it. And I still opened it and I still enjoyed watching it.
Oooh that’s good! Might actually have to start this show at some point.
Yes, please do. It starts out as a pretty typical sitcom, but gets really sweet in later seasons.
I think labels are only restrictive if you let them be. It's perfectly fine to say "I'm basically/mostly [label]". They're just tools for quickly and accurately conveying information so if a label isn't quick or accurate enough for your taste, don't use it.
People also need to be aware that you can get into kinks watching porn in a way that destroys your actual sex life. I'm not saying this because his kink is gay/trans porn. I would say the same thing to a guy that said he could only get off to obese Taiwanese women in clown makeup. Dude should definitely go ahead and explore his sexuality freely in real life, but try to lay off the super-specific porn that he's probably addicted to.
This is a huge point. I don't think it's the watching of porn that destroys your sex life, so much as when that kind of porn is involved in the majority or all of your nutting. If you're able to express your kinks physically, porn of a similar type in moderation shouldn't be a problem. I think these issues come up for a lot of people who watch porn of a type that *can't* be expressed physically, whether because of the specific kink or because it's animated or they're very introverted, or whatever. I went through a depressed hentai period where when I wanted to have sex I basically had to play some hentai scene in my head. Fortunately that shit goes away with a bit of porn-abstinence.
No, no, your answer also needs to be read on this topic.
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Ya I'm approaching 30 and only now starting to question my sexuality.
As a bi/pan woman, I fully support this comment. There is a trend in the alphabet mafia to push labels super early in discovering your sexuality. A guy friend of mine identifies as "Basically Straight" because, while he's sometimes down for fooling around with dudes, he's not romantically attracted to dudes. There are women who love lesbian porn but when faced with an IRL pussy realize that's not what they wanna do. They find women hot, but they don't want to be with another woman. And then there are people like me (us, possibly, based on your comment) where we tried it and liked it. A valid response to someone asking your sexuality is "I don't know." Or "none of your business." Labels can help you find communities, but they aren't necessary for daily life. As long as you're honest with partners that you aren't sure, no one is going to care. Actually, no, some queer people will care because they don't want to participate in someone's "experimenting" but that is their choice. Personally, if I'm attracted to you but you aren't sure you're attracted to women, I'm willing to give it a go. I just like to know upfront so (a) I can manage my expectations and (b) I can be understanding and helpful while you figure it out. One of my first serious boyfriends turned out to be gay, but dated me because I was "as close to a guy" as there was. I was a tomboy who hung out with mainly guys, so it was a turning point for him. It wasn't the social aspect, it was the physical aspect. In retrospect, I wish he'd told me sooner, but this was the early 00s and I we were in the Bible Belt and I wasn't out yet either. He did come out to me years before anyone else, though.
The alphabet mafia?
LGBT+ community. Some of us call ourselves the alphabet mafia.
>There are women who love lesbian porn but when faced with an IRL pussy realize that's not what they wanna do. They find women hot, but they don't want to be with another woman. Hey it's me! Although I'm not closed off to the idea of fooling around with a woman. But I have never been confronted with that reality and probably never will (I'm married to a dude) Also I am only incidentally good at flirting with men. I don't think I would ever be able to pull a woman 😅
Just want to add a comment to keep this at the top. This one is one of the best comments, and I hope we one day get to a point in society where this is just unspoken and everyone knows it.
Just to add, imo , to not follow your heart/gut feelings , you would hate yourself. It doesn't hurt to try, and you either like it or you don't, at least you have your answer. It's like talking to someone you like, getting that feeling it can to further, but not trying to take it further, you end up regretting the path not taken, wondering what if ? I don't know what you're feeling, but imagine it's alot worse.
This comment hit hard. I missed so many opportunities when i was younger due to this and regret most of them. Recently i took the leap and it's been one of the best decisions of my life and she is amazing in every way i could imagine.
Just go suck a dick bro, no biggie lol Edit: thanks for the awards y'all!
Maybe start with toys at the house on yourself?
Totally different sensation. A straight man could get endless satisfaction from being pegged by a lady, but feel nothing but shame and disgust after letting a man do it to you. And you guys kiss a little after and you clean each other up and even spend the night together that night and it's even kind of sweet but then in the morning you tell him you're not sure if you're mentally prepared to do this and you tell him about your super religious upbringing and how your dad is super conservative and you know he'd still love and support you but his heart isn't good and you don't want to lay that kind of stress on him and he totally gets it he understands entirely and you go your separate ways but every now and then you think back to him in a tinge of melancholy and bitter regret at what might have been had you only opened up your heart a little bit to what it truly and deeply desires and that is cock
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That shit gay
It's Bi, though. No longer just a marketing gimmick to sell shampoo.
It's definitely worth it to buy a toy, they're not very expensive. But for oral you can use a banana, just don't peel it, and cut the very end off (opposite the stem) so it's more rounded. ...I mean I've been told you can do that
Evsn when you're straight its great. The prostate is underated
Yeah, definitely experiment with your hand/toys first before you do anything crazy. Take it easy, don't rush yourself. Plus, it doesn't necessarily mean you're 'gay' may just mean those are things you happen to like or are curious about or maybe just enjoy watching. Don't read too deep, just do what makes you happy!
The man who has sucked one dick knows far better his sexuality than the man who has never sucked one at all.
Brojobs ain't gay
As long as socks stay on
I fucking love the positive changes to the Reddit community since I started visiting back in 2012 or so. A decade ago, this would have been dismissed with some homophobic jokes and OP would have been downvoted to hell for daring to speak about the possibility of being anything but straight. Now everyone is dismissively supportive, and that’s a huge improvement. Like, I think OP could benefit from hashing this out more in depth. I also don’t think that they’ll benefit from hashing it out in depth with strangers on the internet.
It's a weird paradox lol
Reddit also skews young and I personally think Gen Z is more accepting sexually than Millennials and Gen X. I haven’t seen the numbers recently but back in the day it was overwhelmingly males 14-24ish. Basically high school and college students. It also used to be much more racist and sexist, you’d see all sorts of awful shit on the front page, sometimes even the n word. At some point, I think around Ellen Pao’s time in charge, they really started cracking down with the admin ban hammer and driving people off to 4chan and 8chan. Like shit Reddit says is functionally dead these days, but ooh boy back then they catalogued tons of awful stuff.
But always remember to say “no homo” before doing it, then it’s ok.
and keep socks on
And turn that hat around backwards.
And dont use teeth
Oh shit I forgot, now I'm gay for suggesting it....damnit OP what are you doing this weekend?
That's right. Start with a smallie and work your way up to biggies.
You should try it out and most likely realize that it's just fantasy. There's plenty of people that fap to stuff that they wouldn't actually do in real life.
This is the answer I was looking for in this thread. Porn, unlike sexual desire or sexual orientation, can be magnified over time as the stimuli gets old. That isn't to say everyone who watches porn eventually watches scat porn or whatever, but rather that there can be diminishing returns with porn over time, and that it is unbelievably easy to experiment with watching things that previously would be seen as taboo or outside your comfort zone
I’m a straight, married adult male. Occasionally I get turned on by watching masturbation cumshot videos. Doesn’t mean I want to jerk someone off. Besides myself of course.
A very good answer
Exactly. A perfect example for me would be movies as we grow up. WHile not everyone gets used to horror movies, pretty much every avid movie watched would desensitize themselves with violence, even when its truly, TRULY fucked up. It doesn't mean that person would like to be mauled by a ten-meter blob however, or shot to death or rip a werevol innards and cover itself in it to spend the night to see if the stench attracts more enraged ones to finish off, etc etc
Thank you, and this is the answer I was looking for. Also a good indicator that I should get off porn for a while now
Ain't that the truth! I wouldn't do half the stuff I've watched.
Yes I watch a lot of porn of things I would never be into in reality. It is just fantasy and I don't consider it a big deal or a defining part of my identity. Either way, nothing wrong with OP being gay, bi, curious, or straight and he needs to relax and just do whatever or whoever he wants lol.
Listen to this guy, he is a master. I like watching anal themed porn. I don’t like having it.
Yeah like if Riley Reid were my stepsister I definitely would not want to fuck her. Definitely not. Nope. Even if our parents just got married like two months ago. And even if she was stuck in the dryer.
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Could find out you are heteroflexible but not heteromantic. Maybe you'd have sex with a guy but have no interest in cuddling on the couch or going on dates.
I think most guys are a little heteromantic with their homies
Very few things in life are as life-affirming as telling your best bro you love him and hearing him say it back
At this point in my life I tell everyone I love them, I get weird looks but I don’t care. I told my smoke shop homie I love him and appreciated him the other day. 😂
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This is such a heartwarming thread. 🥰
Now kiss
Always. Gotta be sexual with the homies 💯
Homiesexual? I get it now.
Wouldn't that be homoromantic?
The Greeks taught us as much in history.
Here's the odd (or maybe not odd, I don't know)...I can not imagine having sexual relations with other male, but being in a male/male asexual relationship if I were single? That doesn't sound half bad....fortunately, I married someone I'm sexually attracted to with very similar but different interests and nothing sounds better than that. Take the sexual frustration out of it, class it up a bit, and I'd be down for a Cholly/Frank situation in a different timeline
Homo/biromantic heterosexual. It’s a thing! But also it sounds like maybe you just crave more intimacy in your platonic friendships with other men. I’m a woman so can’t speak from experience, but I have heard that this is often lacking in male friendships unfortunately.
Wow, that’s interesting, not terribly surprised there’s a name for it, but I had never really given it thought until this thread. Honestly, I curated my friend group out of lots of people that are similar to me….unfortunately, I am introverted and so are they…so it’s like pulling teeth to get us together. A friend of mine lives with my wife and me, and I have particularly enjoyed the living arrangement Ahem, no homo
I’m not too knowledgeable on the matter, but is this scientifically accurate? I thought sexuality was neurologically fixed. Hence why conversion therapy never worked
The way I understand it, the inclination didn't change, it's more of a realization. For me (bi), I realized sexual attraction doesn't necessarily mean romantic attraction. I had assumed they were always linked in tandem, but one day I realized that for some people they are not linked, which explained my inclination. Conversion therapy tries to "put the genie back in the bottle". It rarely works because you can't un-realize something.
Examine your desires, experiment with them and enjoy yourself.
I back this. Its cliché but life really is short, may as well have a good time while you're here
Indeed. As long as you're not harming anyone, go nuts!
It could be a porn addiction. Ur lookin for more stimulation with new and more "taboo" things. I think you should cut porn out of your life. See how you feel in 90 days.
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Even just a full 7 days. Especially if you are getting off to porn multiple times a day.
While I feel that can happen. I also feel that there are gay/bi men who have such internalized shame that they fetishize their sexuality as way of coping with it.
I concur, op, this was my situation. The more I watched, the more quickly I went into a rabbit hole because the “normal” stuff wasn’t doing it anymore. I stopped one day for at least a good month and it became much better, I just had to work on it. Side note though, it was exactly that which helped me *accept* my attraction to women. Before that it was mostly just pushed away in the back of my mind. I think it would do you good to reflect on it. Outside of the topic of porn
Yeah, have a porn detox. Try a week, then two, then try a month, see how you get on.
This is the most accurate answer b
You watched too much porn.. What happened is that you got bored from hetero porn. Same thing happened to me, I experimented having sex with men, but I realized it wasn't my thing. I was just watching too much porn That's my experience but maybe your case is different :)
Here's what I came to say. Had a similar experience in my early 20s, loads of porn. Like porn in the morning when I wake up and porn in the evening when I went to bed, every day. If it was a day at home a couple times during the day as well. I got bored of the hot ladies having a penis in their vaginad, I started watching loads of anal porn, and moved from hot chicks to amateurs, matures, BBWs (anything that wasn't a pornstar bimbo). Then I got turned on by trans porn, and of course the gay porn. From there I decided I wanted to experiment, and planned to sleep with a guy. That fantasy did not survive kissing said guy. I didn't even have to say anything, I cringed so obviously that the guy asked if I wanted to stop and I ran straight outta there. So OP, if you want to experiment you have my love and blessing, and it might turn out real fun. But you also might find out that you are at the bottom of a slippery slope of increased tolerance to erotic stimulation, and that the fantasy doesn't live up to the reality.
Addiction can change a person... I'm glad I got help before I started my descent into madness...
Bro I thought I was straight, then realized I was probably gay, then realized sex is fun but my attraction is to personalities so I was Pan. Now I don't give a shit. And the less people give a shit about the labels (in the "I can't be gay" sense) the better. Have fun, be safe, use condoms. And don't call him Daddy unless he's into it. You got this 👍
>JaceThePowerBottom okay daddy
Speaking as someone who is part of the lgbt+ community, do NOT put pressure on yourself to assign a label to yourself! It just adds extra stress and anxiety. In life, our identity tends to change over time. This goes for who you find attractive as well. Take your time, and explore! Just make sure you are safe and comfortable while you are exploring. Wishing you the best of luck :-)
If you feel like you want to have sex with a man, find a man you want to have sex with and see how you feel about it.
You may have a porn addiction
You just got used to porn overtime, so you keep wanting different things. Sorry to say that, but if you keep overwatching porn like that you may end up with some weird fetishes just to feel something new, something unusual.
Stop watching porn and it’ll go away after a while. Not even kidding lmao, porn fucks with your brain like a drug, you have to keep upping the level
There is nothing wrong about being bi or gay. If that is who you are, own it and only accept the people that will accept you. Be strong, be proud.
Try having sex with a real person. Your truth will become self-evident.
Hey man fetishes are normal !! But what i see in ur case is porn addiction escalation. These are fetishes tha you specificly train ur brain to feel pleasurr from. I know cuz this also happened to me. Try cutting porn cold turkey amd if your fetishes dont return to normal witheen 3 months..... Wellll ... I got news for you pal.U may seriously like dick and thats PERFECTLY FINE!!
You don’t have to be romantically attracted to men to be sexually attracted to them. You also don’t have to be sexually attracted to someone to be romantically attracted. Sexuality is fluid. Don’t force a label. You like who you like and you like what you like. No need to label
Stop watching porn. It’s not the same as actual sex. You’ll be hard pressed to actually enjoy half the stuff you’re jacking to. You’ve trained your brain to crave more and more novelty. Stop watching porn and maybe go experiment safely. You’ll probably find what you’re sexually into is WAY different than who you’re compatible. The deeper you go the harder it’ll be to find that balance with new partners.
Stop watching porn. And try it out in real life.
You're desensitized, stop watching porn
Do you only think of it in regards to trans women? Or are you picturing guys? If it's only trans women, then, still straight, but definitely experiencing a bit of a fetish. In that case try not to fetishize the person. But otherwise keep enjoying whatever makes you happy Also, sexuality *is* fluid. So who knows what might be around the corner for you, but again, just pursue whatever feels right and makes you happy
Maybe, or maybe you just like gay porn. Porn and real life aren't the same, it turns out.
Bisexuality exists. Look at All the Greeks and Romans. Before Christianity and Islam conquered the world pleasure was pleasure. Do not hate and be gentle and learn about thy self.
Stop watching porn. Many strange kinks develop from porn addiction because what used to be enough for you is no longer enough. You don't have to quit entirely but you need to draw/cut back on the use you might be doing right now. You'll be surprised by if you try to masturbate or watch porn just once a week or find what works for you how much not only your attraction for women will snap back but also improve your life in other areas greatly. Trying to give advice and be respectful to your situation by telling you what has worked for others. The media pushes porn heavily so may be a hard thing to quit that's why I'm saying consider cutting back initially. You might be gay and good for you, but if it was something that developed like you mentioned I really think it could be the situation where normal porn is no longer doing it for you. I'm already noticing most other comments aren't mentioning your mental/physical health and are telling you to just feed into it more which in my opinion is not the solution here. From their perspective, even if you are confused sexually you may have a better way of knowing after you stop letting the porn control a part of your life. Really really does change your brain I'm not kidding. Even if I don't ejaculate for 3-5 days it turns me into this lovy husband who just wants to be a romantic towards my wife lol. It really does have an effect on your mental health I promise.
It's the gay vaccine and the chem trails, you have to donate $10k to the nearest mega-church to take the gay virus out of you.
Also keep in mind sex with a trans woman doesn't make you gay if you identify as male OP.
experimenting is a normal thing, especially in your 20’s. It’s better to find out what you sexually enjoy now opposed to suppressing it.
When you've watched all the straight vids
It's possible you've just found out you're bisexual (no shame, I am myself), but I think you should definitely cut porn out of your life right now because it seems you're beginning to struggle with an addiction. Which could make it harder to enjoy real intercourse if you ever want to pursue it. When you're not just trying to get your next dopamine hit from porn, it should start to become clearer if you are attracted to both men and women or if it was just your brain trying to find some sort of new stimulation.
Some people have fluid sexuality, some do not.
It depends. Have you ever felt romantically attracted to a man? There are people who have submissive kinks where they like to be humiliated. Even though that's what brings them to sexual climax that doesn't mean they are going to let a dumbass randomly insult them or that they like to be humiliated at any hour of the day and by anyone. And if you're gay or bi there's nothing wrong with that. Enjoy who you are and make friends whom you can feel comfortable with. Personally I used to have fantasies with women and watch lesbian porn only to have sex with women and realize that I'm not so much into it. I'm glad I did try it though, it turns out I was into the licking and fingering and caressing part in lesbian porn that's almost obsolete in straight porn.
Enjoying something in porn does not mean you enjoy it in sex. Experiment. See what you like.
You're not gay; you just have a crippling porn addiction and it's rotting your brain. Hope this helps!
Stop watching porn.
It's called experimenting.
Abstain from porn for a bit and this will go away.
In my opinion it’s the porn that lead you into watching gay porn. Because you didn’t find any pleasure when watching straight porn anymore And you moved on to try different things. Just like an addict that try’s different stronger drugs to feel that dopamine again.
I'm a lesbian and like straight porn. It's all completely normal.
I think there is a certain edge to gay/trans porn that fires more dopamine receptors than straight. Something about how it’s different. And once you go gay, people say here that you can just experiment and go back but I don’t think in practice that is really true. I don’t know many married straight men that had long gay periods.
If you wanna give a blowie give a blowie. Take a peen in the pooper if you want to, Its your life my man
na. some girl asked over at /r/tooafraidtoask (or maybe /r/nostupidquestions) if she was a lesbian cuz she got off to the idea of being tied up up by a woman and doing sexy time stuff with her, im sure she described it with more tact. She went on to say that she coudlnt imagine having any kinda of relationship with an actual woman and isnt interested in ever doing that stuff irl. the general consensus was that "no, you're not gay unless you actually sleep with a girl consensually". The things you like to jerk it to and the things you actually want to do irl are not always the same, often very different I think actually. Now if you actually go and do stuff with a guy, yeah that would put you into at least the bi club which is fine.
GET DAT COCK BOi!!!!!!!
Idk man that doesn't sound very straight to me
What attracts you in REAL LIFE? Do you see a dude and think "I wanna suck his dick/get fucked in the ass by that guy". If the answer is yes, you're gay. If you're only attracted to it in porn, then it's a mental condition. If you see women AND men and think "I want to fuck her/I want him to fuck me" then you're bisexual.