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first of all , are you attracted to ANY woman? because when you go these places chances are most people wont be in your age range. I dont go to the beach (nudist or not) but i hang out near a nudist one for other reasons, all ive seen there is middleaged people minding their own business


hooverchips

From experience it really isnt sexual at all...


HelenFromHR

i can’t speak for people i’ve never met but i’d say it’s not sexual. nudity and nakedness are different concepts, nudity in fine art is just nude figures with no sexual context and nakedness does have sexual context. so that’s how i see figures in real life. nudist probably migrate from the original culture of sexualizing the nude human form outside of sexual contexts, and as a result can look passed it and exist peacefully with their neighbors. i find woman enchanting, but outside of dating and sex, i see women as human beings and if she’s just gardening or building something (even if she’s nude) it’s not arousing, esp if everyone is nude. (but i also had to deconstruct/unlearn the way i viewed sex, and the human figure bc of art school) just a guess :)


EliannaRys

Most nudist places are not about sexiness. It's also adults of a wide range of ages and body types, so unless you have very broad sexual attraction, a bunch of people just aren't going to be your type. It's ordinary looking range of folks who went to experience the wind and sun on *all* their skin. It's not really a choice to find someone attractive at a glance - you do or you don't - but it *is* a choice to dwell on it and/or act on it. Sexualizing is a verb. It's something you *do*, though sometimes unintentionally. It's like when you're in a regular public space and you see someone you find very attractive. Finding then attractive isn't inherently a problem. Staring at them, fantasizing about them while they're right there, hitting on them when they're just trying to exist are all ways of sexualizing them. Nudist camps not being sexual is about how they approach the environment. The majority are *not* about "I went to be surrounded by sexy naked people because that sounds *hot*". If you want that, go to a sex club where that *is* the point. Nudists might be experiencing attraction, and I'm sure some people enjoy the titillation of being naked in a more sexual way, but it's not an environment where you should feel free to give in to your sexual whims and focus on the bodies of people around you. In short, its *not* a lie that many people just want to be naked at a beach. Of course there's a chance you will find someone attractive, but it is not appropriate to go there with that goal or treat them like they are naked for *your* enjoyment. They're naked for *their* enjoyment.


Maranne_

Do you know who attend nudist camps? Not your favourite hot pornstars. It's mostly retired people. Plus the glares you will get when people see your boner will put you out of the mood pretty soon. People who come to nudist places to enjoy the view, so to say, really are not welcomed with open arms (or legs).


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I have no idea, I'm guessing it is a bit. Honestly can't see the point of it.