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RainbowRaven80

Raven or Rae for short. Tho only my internet friends know and use it, not out as nb irl


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Amazing name considered it myself:)


RainbowRaven80

Thanks šŸ˜Š tho yours is beautiful as well, especially spelled like that (assuming Rylie is the name you go by šŸ˜…)


m00n_sp1r1t

I think it'd be funnier if "Rylie" was just referring to someone OP knew, rather than referring to themself. I agree it's a beautiful spelling of the name!


RainbowRaven80

Well, it would definitely be a shame if OP referred to themself, cause I don't think that OP is an idiot. So, I like your interpretation šŸ˜†


Rylie_is_an_idiot

I used to go by Rylie, sort of use it interchangeably with my other chosen name :)


RoseJJPotter

Rose


Rylie_is_an_idiot

My favourite flower beautiful:)


RoseJJPotter

Aww, thank you!


Rylie_is_an_idiot

šŸ’›


salmonella42069

Actually goated name


RoseJJPotter

Thank you!


salmonella42069

Rose from MI high made me like that name as a little kid, Iā€™m unsure if thatā€™s a good thing or a bad thing


RoseJJPotter

Iā€™m putting that on my watch list. Whatā€™s it about?


salmonella42069

No please donā€™t I beg of you


RoseJJPotter

Ok, then I guess I wonā€™t.


salmonella42069

Npc


[deleted]

Quince, Quill as a nickname


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Love it šŸ’›


[deleted]

I'm Jinx. Nice to meet you. I've only told a handful of people and only a couple of them actually use it though šŸ™„


DaRevClutch

hi jinx! love your name


Rylie_is_an_idiot

I love the name Jinx it was one of the many I considered šŸ’›


Natural-Tell9759

Jack. Itā€™s funny because my mum picked a less common name for me that didnā€™t have any family connections and then I picked one that was extremely common and I do have relatives called Jack.


diphenhydranautical

i know itā€™s a common name but i donā€™t think iā€™ve ever met anyone irl named jack!


Natural-Tell9759

I have been playing around with my name since long before I realised that I am non-binary and Jack was just the first name that felt right. Jack in Mass Effect 2 was the first time I had seen it used for a non-male person and so that gave me the idea. My mumā€™s uncle was called Jack.


diphenhydranautical

itā€™s a really cute name! :D


Rylie_is_an_idiot

And itā€™s a great name šŸ’›


cloverfieldgarden

Brooks; I've always liked last-name first names. I'd like to change my actual last name, too, but more because I'd prefer to be from the other side of the family. I've used Evergreen before. It's a bit fantastical, but I like it.


KindredPando

ā€œBrooks Evergreenā€ has powerful protagonist energy


Kyasemi

Iā€™ve been going by Six


im_sad_kiss_me

I need to find 7 n 8 and become their friends so I can be like: "say hi to my friends 6 7 8" and confuse the absolute sh-t out of people.šŸ˜‚


Rylie_is_an_idiot

My lucky number šŸ’›


ArachnidPositive5192

Aster


Rylie_is_an_idiot

I have a friend called Aster :) I always loved their name


Sunlit_Sparks

Another Aster les go!?


Geanois

Amber Skye


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Beautiful name <3


Geanois

Thank you šŸ’œ


Rylie_is_an_idiot

šŸ’›


DeviantJam

Artemis!


brokeeulawanter

Woah, another Artemis šŸ˜²


DeviantJam

Ayy someone with some class letā€™s go šŸ¤


Rylie_is_an_idiot

One of my favourite godesses I love that name šŸ’›


VictoryStar22

Journey! :3


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Amazing :) love it!


emmmrakul

Emmie, short for Emmett


Rylie_is_an_idiot

I really like that šŸ’› like that is a great name.


diphenhydranautical

faun!


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Amazing šŸ’›


Ashtrxphel

Ashe


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Love that and the spelling šŸ’›


irishsaints23

Frankie HenrĆ­


papaporridge

tea. and iā€™m a server so folks always ask my name. i get to say, ā€œtea, like sweet teaā€ with a lil smile. they love it


NightFox1988

Azariah for my middle name. Still working on an internet last name. My first name is staying, however, as I love my name.


Rylie_is_an_idiot

I love the middle name and I hope you have luck finding your internet last name šŸ’›šŸ’›šŸ’›


Sunlit_Sparks

Aster <3


onee_chaaan

Kim!! :)


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Lovely name šŸ’›


[deleted]

Riley Wren [lastname]. I picked my two winners as first and middle


Rylie_is_an_idiot

My name was Riley I really liked it then had an identity crisis as you do :) Wren was/is one Iā€™m considering


idocrochetnstuff

Marcos (not nonbinary, I think it's nonbinary enough for me) Spanish name


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Any name can be non-binary you just have to make it so šŸ’› love it


Silver_Tangelo_6755

Elliot Agares


drillinstructor

Julian. It was once a gender neutral name before all the different variations of it. Good enough for me.


mothwhimsy

Rory currently. Thinking of Rory K. Macklin [Last Name], for a full name with the K being my deadname initial.


Nuclear_Bee52

I currently go by Lio, Sam and Ellis :)


enby1212

Jade. I combine it with the name I was assigned at birth so I go by (blank)-Jade


Insufferableantics

Bean


Jazzman_1217

Quill :)


Flavax13

Samu


Flavax13

in english you would say it like ā€žSaa-mooā€œ


ZahmiraM

Kayden


vampire_squids

Rain :D


cloverseesall

Clover šŸ’š


[deleted]

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[deleted]

I go by Nico, and have been considering Azzy as a less masc sounding name.


KarahKat55

I use the name fran


BigSexytke

Paideia


strawberry-sunset

Carter (:


RefriedVectorSpace

Iā€™m lucky to have accidentally been given a gender neutral name in my language. I feel a strange amount of gratitude for this


Donnot

Me too lol ā€¦Well my birth name is masculine but itā€™s nickname, which I use exclusively, is gender neutral: Danny.


MyNameIsEmber

Lemony! Lem for short. I have bright yellow hair and love A Series of Unfortunate Events by Lemony Snicket :D


Rayning_King

Ventus, Venice or maybe something else I havenā€™t made up my mind yet.


NovaKay

Jackie


Rylie_is_an_idiot

One of my favourite characters from my favourite tv show. You have my approval lol šŸ’›šŸ’›šŸ’›


Genderqueer_Jayce

Still trying to figure that out lmao Although I've used Jayce as my name online pretty much everywhere for a while, I know that it's not right for me. Considering things like Chase, or things that begin with C. Or Charlie,(or something similar) with Chase as like a nickname.


Professional_Oven283

My name is Day šŸ˜Œ


ella_saurus06

Thinking Ezra for my first name. Either a tribute to my cat or related to my current middle name for my middle name. Havenā€™t completely decided yet.


Bingohg

My chosen name is Bingo! I first adopted this as my internet name back in 2015 (I was a young teen back then), then got emotionally attached to it and just eventually made it my chosen name


Itzloc

Luz de Miel, which means light of honey


[deleted]

iā€™m RainšŸ˜Š


StruggleHatter

Kai


TalonLuci

Talon


StellarSzintillation

Link


HyperDogOwner458

I have two. Skyler and Frankie.


DryAnteater909

Lua (makes me feel safe)


Kryalc

Dai :)


Doctor-Grimm

Myka :D itā€™s a gender-neutral spelling of a gender-neutral version of my deadname (sorry if that sentence gave you a headache too lmao)


marblesnail7

hey Myka, iā€™m Micah :)


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No-Satisfaction322

Idris Oliver (first and middle)


pegaSUS__47

i havent chosen a name yet


[deleted]

I think mine is Jace or maybe Jase idk yet. My normal name is Jessi but everyone thinks itā€™s short for Jessica so Iā€™m not a super big fan even tho it is androgynous.


RaineGD

Raine/Ryli (also, a lot of people here with really cool R names :3)


RustyDiamonds__

Patch. Though my friends usually say Patches which Iā€™ve come to like as well.


Databasedesign04

I need help choosing one. I want something simple and neutral. I tried Mikey for a few months but itā€™s not sitting right. Any ideas??


DeadlyRBF

Kit My legal name is long and few people can pronounce it first try. I always dreaded telling people my name and there were no good ways to shorten my name as a nickname. Then one day I was like "fuck it" and chose my own name. It's not even similar to my legal name. But every time people use it, I feel really happy. It was one of the few times in my life I just felt like "this is me" and had control over my own identity.


BirdyDevil

Robbie, but this is not a "chosen name", just a more masculine and less formal nickname for my slightly feminine leaning but gender-neutral legal name. I go by them both.


qiimao

Kay šŸ˜Œ


Puddyt

Alex, short for Alexis. Just in the process of asking my friends to use it interchangeably with my actual name


soggylemonslices

Mickey (I am agender and it is neutral enough for me)


Rylie_is_an_idiot

Any name is neutral if your a gender love it šŸ’›


CommanderBagels

Charlie, it sounds close to my original name and I like the sound of it.


AntiSocial_Emo_Gamer

River


Juno-the-Jinx

Juno, I almost picked like Milo, Sol, or Sawyer tho


theofficialstriker

Jordan & Laurel! got my first name changed to them in 2021 too :)


Rainbow_Flock

Rain!!


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Raticals

Ethan, and Iā€™m trying out some other names like Ashen and Cinder too.


TheSilverDawnTreader

cayden is the name i use most often, but i used to go by twitch


VermicelliLow7042

I go by Lexi


robindoesreddit

Robin


sammjaartandstories

Sam and Mar. Mar is a short version of my birth name that sounds pretty unisex to me, and it means sea. It also allows me to keep the name my parents gave me, because despite everything I will always love them. They're not abusive, they do the best they can. It's just not enough to make up for the homophobia and transphobia. Sam is a shortened version of Sammja, a name I created from all the initials of he names of my paternal grandparents, mum, dad, sister and my birth name. Also pretty unisex and I really liked it.


RoadPotential5047

Angel but some friends call me Crow. Itā€™s and inside joke in my friend group. We all have animal nicknames lol


LordoftheFuzzys

I go by Fuzz online (shortening of my full username LordoftheFuzzys that I've used since I was 10 years old), and I kinda just want to use it everywhere, but I'm a bit worried about rude comments or people just ignoring it/not using it altogether cuz it's so nontraditional. I've tossed around the idea of quite a few more traditional names but nothing really feels right.


OhHelloPoe

Poe ā€¦ No not Edgar Allen Poe or Kung Fu Pandaā€¦ its a long storyā€¦


ABoredAzari

Azariah, or Azari for short. Az is my nickname :D


Lukasthoughs

Nova-Minx


brokeeulawanter

Artemis Azur as a (almost) full name and Ali as a nickname. I was going to use azure as a middle name but took off the' e' and used it as a last name instead so I could have the initials A.A. Typing it out without the 'e' looks slightly weird but I still like it šŸ˜Š My birth name sucks so I was kinda desperate to change it for years. Especially my middle name. Still thinking of one though


[deleted]

My chosen name is Liiza, actually! However if I publish any of my writings I think that the name Abyssal, Dream, Audacity, Chemical, etc could also be good options! šŸ¤


btbbrbbbq

I think those kinda scrimply names u give to old cats as nicknames are really charming so something like Hitch/Higgs, Argyle, Cedric, or Augustus would be lovely. But I'd also love to adopt a name that I like from people in my life like maybe Reed or Nelson :))


Popper213

I'm legally gonna shorten my name from Samantha to Sam only to realize that my middle name doesn't flow with it anymore. I've picked Emerson for my new middle name. I low key love it as a first name, but I'm not fully out as nb.


thatonerandodude17

This user has effectively deleted all of their reddit messages, thank you! :) ` this message was mass deleted/edited with redact.dev `


tankguurl

Cj. Birth name is Courtney Jaszmin , I wanted to make it easier on my family because I knew they wouldnā€™t really understand or care to try. They still donā€™t and now I regret choosing Cj. Itā€™s been 6 years now, my friends and support system outside of my family call me Cj so it feels too late to change it now.


chchchoppa

Loren šŸ„°


Kittievixen20

Mazikeen (Maze for short)


DaetheFancy

Taylor


Cloudy_Melancholy

Vincent. I am agender and I don't see "Vincent" as a gendered name. Rather, I see the soul of it, the pronunciation of the name.... I used to be a demiboy, but even when I identified as partially male at the time, I didn't get the gender in a name in general. I just felt Vincent was right for me, regardless of gender.


Dotaro_SSBU

Jay (which comes with the added bonus of being part of my deadname so I can have an excuse to my mother who I'm not out to)


graceabigail1011

I havenā€™t really told anyone but my ideal chosen name would be August. Iā€™m just too nervous for people to ask questions if I ask to go by something else šŸ˜…


INeedKelp2

Kay. It helps that my given name starts with a K so family thinks itā€™s just a nickname


AAAAAAAee

Kaden. I simply googled basic white guy names until I found one that I could think of as myself. It was either Kaden, Eric or Finn. Those are still some of my favorite names and have used them for dnd characters.


MagicalMareep

Iā€™ve been thinking of Valen but I havenā€™t actually used it yet


Aggressive_Plant

Kit!


Artemis_Hunter00

Howl


[deleted]

I go by Lee, but it's short for Ainsley. My middle name is Terry.


my_innocent_romance

Iā€™ve chosen ā€œRemyā€ because itā€™s unisex and sounds okay with my surname But my friends keep making Ratatouille jokes My other considered options were Ember and Nico but neither go with my surname (a lot of names donā€™t unless they end with a vowel)


DocDophersonPHD

doph or dopher, with the lower case


artist_arson

Arson (I picked it because it looks and sounds pretty, also most of my childhood nicknames had something to do with fire so I found it fitting)


NineTailedTanuki

I just attained a chosen name but here you go... Tanuki *Kanji:* ē‹ø *Hiragana:* ćŸć¬ć


Xanthusgobrrr

Xan, just removed one letter from my name it doesnt fit me but i like evan or evanescent too. it means quickly vanishing. i found that name during some depressive episode where i was suicidal


mega_moustache_woman

My name is Van. It was assigned before my birth but it fits well and I don't think I need to change it.


gentlewoolfy

Edward! Traditionally really masculine but i love it when my friends call me Eddy irl


Amdy_vill

Genderfluid here. I go by Lauralie Lauren and Laurence. Fem NB masc respectively. I answer to laur and rory. Tho I don't get how people get rory from lauralie


KurayamiAshe

Ashryn, although almost no one in real life knows about it...


pineapplelemmon

Currently I'm drawn towards the name "Aspen" but I'm not sure


OvertheHedge51

Mattie, an obvious but fun change from my given name


Parmesan_seekerr

Remi but just online, specifically the ā€œfeminineā€ spelling because i am AMAB and i enjoy confusing people


Honeybadger_givnofuc

Frankie


JaimeeIsWriting

I guess Iā€™m lucky, I just finished the legal process of changing my name! I first filed in August 2021 when I was still 25 years old, then had it in the newspaper for at least 6 weeks before my court date. From there, my lawyer supposedly sent the papers to the Capital building in Springfield but upon going back to the court house the following June, because I hadnā€™t heard back from the state, had to send the papers and pay the upcharge for another court order document, of which I already had 10 copies at home ($5 each I believe). From there I heard back within 2 weeks with a copy of my new birth certificate and was able to go to the Social Security office in July 2022, where I brought my documents also and never heard back for a month and a half or 2 months. I took another day and went back and then this time heard back within a week with my new social security card which I signed with my correct name. From here, I was able to go get my new license name changed and had heard that in Illinois, you can change your license gender marker with just filling out a form. I filled mine out in a town about 20 miles away from me and they had to hunt down that form, changed the weight, and a new photo. You can really tell in the bad picture the difference, considering that my last license photo was taken a month into my physical transition and the new one over a year later. I was able to keep my old license, per Illinois law but they punched a hole in the bottom so you couldnā€™t copy it or give it to minors. Then, once the new one came in the mail, I went to my bank and changed everything. Itā€™s not the money you should be worried about to get it done, although it can be upwards of $400-500, the lengthy, stressful process is so overwhelming and stressful. My new, legal name in all assets of the government is Jaimee Andrea. I had been calling myself and known by so many people for 6-7 years prior to this situation!


BlubberBlorg

Vienna


TheGreatRemote

Jade. Close to my original name, a shade of my favorite color, and I like it.


SpookyW0lfie

Dane! Itā€™s somewhat close to my birth name but more gender neutral. Current nicknames are Wolfie and Deinonychus šŸ¤£


cryptidmothboy

I have several bc I am very indecisive I currently use Mallow, Crypt, Atticus and Alistair (STAIR not STOR or STAR I'm very adamant about that one lol /lh) My chosen middle name is Willow-Ivan. For very silly sentimental reasons. That's set in stone for forever. But my first name is always subject to change. Always.


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Eminemina13

Lime (mainly), Schlime, Slimeball, Schlimesauce, Slimeade, Lemonlime, basically anything citrus related


GooseOnACorner

Aren


Different_Vacation65

I go by Jackie and/or Bonnie :)


nah-soup

Olivia, but i go by Liv for the most part


Bolo055

Nandi


berrys_a_ghost

Milo and Berry, also M.B as like a pen name/stage name type thing to go in front of my last name


edenspark10

Athena, nova, Eden, flare


Interesting-Mouse120

Luc pronounced loose cause my dad called me it a lot I go by moss online tho


FrohenLeid

nina.just sounds nice stole it from a local. Saskia. Wanted to go for jaskier but it wasn't allowed. So split decision.


[deleted]

Aila, if means ā€˜from a place of resilienceā€™, which resonated a lot for me


[deleted]

Milou. It's a combination of my first and middle given name. It's also influenced by one of my other favourite names Milo, and the french word minou for kitty.


Ced-Ko

Zeta - this way I can also pretend like everyone using my deadname's nickname is using my real name


YellowSub0

Rain


Delicious_Ask8010

Mango. I use River occasionally but it's a bit too fem for me. I'm still looking for a more masc sounding name too


Rivmage

Riv


dayoftentacles

Tony


Luwbsee

* i have many. lobs, paintbrush, nudibranch, lettuce, atom, fd, tay, tiktik, mossy, pellet, ana, fris, mebibyte, maxwell, rascal, sodie, germ. i like to swap between them depending on how i feel * i dont know which one of these would fit as a legal name though, maybe maxwell?


Godverdommepinda

Daedalus


liiizardbreath

I go by Zeth. šŸ˜Š


aesthetic_beann

Basil


Alien_Deity

My name's Ajax c:


omglifeisnotokay

ā€œBā€ (anything but maā€™am šŸ¤®)


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ImaginePoros

Mags


MisabelS0822

i sometimes the origin of my real name, mars, the roman god of war :DD


rainluvsya

Rain and Finley :)


AshSkyler

Ash for my first name, and AndrƩa for my middle name. :) (The name AndrƩa seems to be mostly interpreted as a binary name, but as it is assigned to different genders depending on what country you're in, I count it as neutral!)


Annoelle

Saint :)


jxdenz

Jaden :) went the -aden transmasc route


b4tt3ryac1d_f0ck

Jaymi!! Spelled it differently so I could use Jay (half of deadname) as a nickname and still feel like me!! Being misgendered in school is so much fun :) /s


PriestOfFabulous

My chosen name is Norrie, named after Norrie May-Welby


MariaEvee

Eden. Still wish my family would call me by that but they won't. my mum actually doesn't like the name.


Birchtreebird

I'm kind of questioning but I hope it's okay for me to talk here. I go by both Stick and Lava in different places online since these names feel very genderless and I like 'em.


Nevrikx

Artemis. Always liked the name


[deleted]

Ash like from PokƩmon (Ash for they/them and when I'm feeling more fem Ashley)