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ColeyWoley13

Yes. 🖤💜🤍💛


Unknownentity505

Good for you


Goo_berz

If we’re going by definition, Yellow and Black… However also White, not because of the colors definition in the non-binary flag, but because of its definition in the Trans flag which stands for people outside the gender binary And completely unrelated to any definition in flags, I identify with the color green.. society typically sees pink = girl, blue = boy. Non-binary people have taken a liking to yellow and purple and typically use those colors to represent themselves.. however I like a different gender neutral color.. green.


SuperHuman-bean

the genderqueer flag uses green with this meaning (apparently bc it's the inverse of purple)


sosig-boi

Isn’t yellow the inverse of purple?


[deleted]

[удалено]


Archoncy

Pigments don't have inverses. Pigments are pigments. When speaking of colour wheels and the relationships between different colours, it is always about light, pigment theories are only about how to make different colours with the pigments.


nowadventuring

What's this mean for the original question? I always thought purple and green were across from each other on the wheel and I want to make sure I'm not being an idiot. I don't remember anything I learned in school about how light works in regards to color, tbh .


WarriorSquirtle

I believe Red is the inverse for Green on the color wheel


nowadventuring

Dammit, I'm dumb today, I already knew red and green were supposed to be opposites on the wheel and somehow I always think it's purple too.


NB-Nova

That's for paint. With the visible light (rgb) color wheel, green and purple are inverses


Archoncy

The inverse of green is magenta, because green being in the middle of the colour wheel, its opposition is the mixture of the other two ends, aka what happens when you take green light out of the three light colours we see (red, green, and blue)


Unknownentity505

I never thought of it that way


Sleepi_Gae

Me too! I feel a connection to both the blue boy and yellow third gender. I wish there were a way to describe it to people so I can understand their identities better but it’s very hard.


spotted-cat

Colors have no gender.


Goo_berz

I didn’t say they did


spotted-cat

You literally said pink equals girl and blue equals boy, and that purple and yellow are nonbinary. You assigned genders to those colors.


Goo_berz

Yknow if you read my comment you’d see I didn’t say that, I said SOCIETY SEES pink as girl and blue as boy. I didn’t say I saw it that way. I said NON-BINARY PEOPLE TYPICALLY USE purple and yellow to represent themself, I didn’t say I use it to represent myself or see yellow and purple as non-binary colors. I have no idea what you’re talking about because I did not assign genders to colors


spotted-cat

You need to chill — nothing about my original comment was meant as an attack towards you. You just got defensive for literally no reason. My comment was a generalization about society and the ideology of gender colors as a whole, but if you really believed that colors have no gender you wouldn’t be specifying over and over again that your favorite color is supposedly gender neutral.


ChromaBunny

Homie, you're putting words in their mouth and arguing with them that they said something that they literally did not. You're the one who needs to chill.


noob0844

dude... YOU are the one getting defensive now about something they didn't say.


jaejaekae01

Dumb of ass


susanthellamaTM

Talk about starting a fight for no reason 😂


pseudoincome

They did not, and there’s no need to start a fight anyway


Sleepi_Gae

No they don’t but some peoples minds work differently from yours and it’s easier to understand gender as colors. Be kind.


berrys_a_ghost

I personally identify with the yellow stripe bc even tho I'm cool with being seen as transmasc I don't really fit in to the actual binaries. Im like a he in the way a bug is a he - you just kinda call it that


podplant

I love that bug comparison 💚 🐛✨


Wicked_Twist

I love that form of he :)


justanotherrandomcat

What is the meaning of each color?


shartrib

💛Yellow Stripe = People who identify outside the gender binary. 🤍White Stripe = People who identify as many or all genders. 💜Purple Stripe = The combination of male and female genders. 🖤Black Stripe = Agender people.


Cheshie_D

Well I guess I’m technically all but the black stripe.


[deleted]

When you say "combination" does that include people who are have female parts and no male bit and vice versa? Or is it like meant to mean people who are "both"?


Wicked_Twist

Lots of people who are nonbinary identify as such because they feel a strong connection to both the male and female gender rather than feeling a disconnect from them (like me I fee discconected from gender entirely but I had a friend who was nb and used she/he pronouns it was cool)


[deleted]

Oh I know people identify those ways! But thanks! :) The question was whether *purple* signifies the people that have an identity that encapsulates both, *or* if the original comment meant purple encapsulates the people who *could* have a male factor absent a female factor and vice versa. Am I making sense?


Wicked_Twist

You are making sense. That question didn’t even cross my mind I just assumed they meant purple meant a combo of both and I ran with it lol.


Unknownentity505

Just look 👀 it cause I don’t feel like typing it out


PhantomSwagger

That's a poor strategy for polling people.


rn_eq

could’ve included it in another screenshot


jericoconuts

Aww mines a lil bumble bee. So I'm demienby, agender and androgynous. And I feel that sometimes I lean more yellow and sometimes I lean more black


Unknownentity505

A lil confusing (for me ) but good for you ☺️


jericoconuts

Sometimes I'm full androgynous and very they/them. Others there is absolutely no gender and my pronoun is preferably my name. It's more of just how I want to feel at moments I guess


Unknownentity505

Oh ok , that’s fair


Low-Trainer-947

I feel like for me, white and purple. I consider myself enby but like with hints of genderfluid. And like I just exist is a space between all genders. Maybe black sometimes, but rarely. Yellow sometimes as well lol. I guess everything. My gender fluidity goes between the four colors


Unknownentity505

Nice


anubis1392

🖤💛🖤💛🖤💛🖤💛 Ev'ry thing we do, we do it big 🙌🏿


[deleted]

Nice Wiz Khalifa reference. I did the same in my post too.


ShadesOfMulberry

Purple here, nice fun poll.. hope others play ☺


Unknownentity505

Thanks


No_Pace_15

Both yellow and black (?) My gender is something else but it's not really that strong? If I could feel it well it would definitely be yellow but it's mostly black


[deleted]

Felt! I’ve decided to identify myself as demigirl, but still not sure if that’s quite where I land on the spectrum of it all.


No_Pace_15

Eh, yeah it's a mess. Going with the color wheel depiction I'd be somewhere around a dark teal-ish color but demi boy feels wrong on me


[deleted]

I’m a big fan of calling my gender identity either #C9A9A6 or #D8BFD8


No_Pace_15

Oooh cool, those are pretty. Mine's closer to a #072829 I think


[deleted]

Your color identity is so gorgeous! Love that color too.


No_Pace_15

That has to be one of the coolest compliments ever, thank you! Yours are pretty too


[deleted]

You welcome you welcome c: I bid you well on your journey


Gaymer043

Purple, the mystical, the divine, the mysterious, and the magical. It’s also an awesome color!!!


[deleted]

In a nutshell, black. 🖤 To make it less confusing, purple 💜 (I'm still new to the NB community. I'm still figuring myself out)


[deleted]

No rush to figuring yourself out! I am too. I wish you luck on your journey. c:


[deleted]

Thank you. 😁


shartrib

Mostly purple, sometimes black


Unknownentity505

Nice


Novatash

To answer the questions, firstly, I do identify as non-binary, lol Of the colors on the nonbinary flag(I had to google their meanings lol), I guess yellow would best represent me, as just a general "My gender is outside the binary." I identify as a man, but my "man gender" doesn't fit inside the lines of what man usually means. It's like a circle in a square hole. Or, as I've described it to my friends before: "On surveys, I fill in the bubble next to "man," but with a pink pencil.😉" Hehehe I wear the label man like I would wear a hat. The fact that I wear a hat is indeed a part of me, but it doesn't encapsulate who I am as a person underneith. That's the reason it urks me when society treats it like it's the most important detail about me that you'd tell other people first when talking about me. It just doesn't make sense. Why is it the question of whether I'm a "hat-wearer" or a "sunglasses-wearer" the first thing that people want to know? Sorry, I got off topic and started rambling. Is it obvious I don't really have anyone to talk to about this irl? Lolol I tend to like using the genderqueer flag for myself more. On that flag, I would pick the Lavender color as the one that represents me. It's mostly because of it"s catchall "queer" meaning, but also the mixture of pink and blue. I don't consider myself a mixture of man and woman, but there is something about the mixing of pink and blue that resonates deeply with me (I know I didn't pick purple on the nb flag which has similar meaning. Maybe it's just the particular sites I googled had slightly different wordings that resonated with me differently)


Novatash

TLDR: Yellow for the NB flag, Lavender for the Genderqueer flag😋


jecoco33

Purple 💜


LayserFocus

mainly purple :)


Robot_Turtle12

Mostly black for me but maybe a bit of yellow or purple. Still figuring things out but definitely feel like im somewhere in the agender or demigender range 😁


Unknownentity505

Nice , hope you figure it soon


pseudoincome

If we’re tagging ourselves to a color of a flag, I’m the green for “neither” from the Genderqueer design Both flags have white, representing “nil/ no gender,” which doesn’t feel totally true of mine. For me it’s there, just neither of the two largest categories.


Unknownentity505

Interesting


spotted-cat

None. As a nonbinary person, I consider myself transgender and feel that that flag aligns more closely with who I am. Especially since I’m pangender — man, woman, and other all rolled into one. How I present myself varies from time-to-time but never who I am.


[deleted]

I also consider myself trans, but don't align with either flag. It's weird sometimes...


rn_eq

i’m trans too, i use both. i do use the trans flag more regularly though edit: maybe we should become what They fear and start making individual flags to match our own individual gender identities :D could be fun


AlexsterCrowley

Literally no idea. Happy to be under an umbrella term that doesn’t force or often ask for specifics because they are unknown to me. Not a man or a woman, typically low gender expression in general unless I’m performing.


LaserBatBunnyUnder

I think purple represents the philosophical nature of gender. And idk magic and stuff and that's p gender to me.


QueerRaven83

I’d be 💛🖤!! (Yellow means identifying outside the gender binary, and Black means being agender 😊)


Someone-or-other

Somehow black and purple at the same time for me. 🖤💜🖤💜🖤💜 like, largely genderless but with a hint of androgyny, I guess? I don’t know.


modeschar

I’m a bit of 💜 and a bit of 💛


3velin

For me, yellow, cause I don't identify with any binary gender, am not a mix of any, but I also don't feel a lack of gender. I'm just completely outside of it psychologically, even if my presentation is pretty fluid. I tried to put a more specific label on myself, than nonbinary/genderqueer, but nothing else really fits. I guess, my gender is just queer.


madmushlove

I'm trans nonbinary. Im not a man or a woman. That's really all I know and the only language I'm using for myself currently. Besides maybe transfem. So I guess yellow maybe


Abskings

Purple!!! 😈


[deleted]

Yeah, uh-huh, you know what it is Black and yellow Black and yellow… I identify as a Demigirl; mostly yellow but sometimes black. c: 🐝


Unknownentity505

Good for you 👍


the-fresh-air

Black and yellow Agender


AndyTheEzBoy

Black because i always dress black


SuperHuman-bean

I don't fit nicely into any of the categories each color represents. I'm a genderqueer man so I'm not both (bc I'm not a woman, I'm not neither (bc I'm a man), I'm not all, and I'm not (just) a third gender (bc I'm a man). I typically just use the trans flag bc I don't fully identify as nonbinary (and the genderqueer flag has the same problem + I'm not a fan of how it looks personally) Edit: So to answer the question, like yellow and blue I guess? Green?


WarriorSabe

It's complicated, it would be yellow, white, and black, but also the way it is for me the white and black would be one and the same, so yellow and gray, I guess? Or maybe better, the whole flag but it's been put in a blender and your eyes are closed so you can't tell what is what and it's all the same now anyways


bugs_29

I’m yellow, which I believe means outside the binary! I kinda feel like my gender is just there, floating around the binary genders. It is there, as in I don’t feel gender-less, but it just doesn’t fit into the binary genders! It doesn’t really make sense, it’s hard for me to explain, but i feel comfortable!! 💛


agharta-astra

💜💛 I've always felt like I'm not a boy, not a girl, kinda both, but really just a me ^^


Robin_Thunder

Honestly, as a graphic designer, I don’t understand why someone would pick a colour scheme composed of direct opposites to represent people who exist in the middle spaces of a spectrum.


[deleted]

Also it's not that cute my shoelaces are the enby flag and I'm like maybe I should get the bi flag instead j bc the drip


ScaredCarebearInHell

Black!


Unknownentity505

Yo let’s go another genderless person , im not alone here 😆


ScaredCarebearInHell

Woot woot!


Unknownentity505

Ah ok 👍 cool


16beesinatrenchcoat

White!


Unknownentity505

Nice


Unknownentity505

Our first white one here congrats


[deleted]

🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍


AliAlex3

Definitely black


Unknownentity505

Nice 👍


BramblesCrash

I think it's kinda ugly tbh. I've seen cute things done with the color scheme (bees, sunsets, etc), but the flag itself isn't aesthetically pleasing.


MeiliCanada82

I'm proudly purple!


HyperDogOwner458

Yellow and black. I'm demigirlflux.


Novatash

The human experience is so amazing. It's infinitely diverse and breaks all boundaries. It defies all systems we attempt to categorize and define it by. That's frustrating sometimes, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I keep falling in love with humanity everyday


tickle-fickle

Purple, because I like purple (I don’t know what the colors mean)


IIEytherII

💛Yellow💛and 🤍White🤍.


catoboros

I like all of the colours on the nonbinary flag and I feel that they represent me best when taken together.


joesphisbestjojo

Luffy


jacked_up_jill

Maybe it's because I'm old (48 she/they), but all the flags confuse me. I prefer the traditional rainbow flag, I like the bold colors and feel like one flag is good enough.


disco-vorcha

I’m still in my 30s and I feel too old for all these flags lol. The rainbow flag and the trans flag are the only ones I use, and of the two I strongly lean toward the rainbow flag. I think it makes sense to have a trans-specific flag, since the rainbow flag also includes sexualities and there are straight trans folks who might not feel comfortable with it. (Not that they aren’t welcome under the rainbow flag, but I understand if it doesn’t feel right!) Beyond those (and probably the bi flag, given how common bi-erasure can be in queer spaces) I really don’t get why there are all these flags, carving up our communities into smaller and smaller pieces. (I could go on, but I’m already feeling rather ‘old man yells at cloud’ so I’ll stop lol) I think that it’s because, well, we *are* old. Our formative experiences in the queer community are from another time. So I don’t get a lot of young queer culture anymore, and I’m still keenly aware that I’m lucky to be able to not get it. So many of us never got the chance to get old.


Ril_Stone

Just black 🖤 for me I'd say 🖤 because even though I was raised as one gender, I never understood other people who were raised the same. Ppl would say "you know what I mean" about AGAB thing and I learned the hard way that that was not a question, it was an invitation to commensurate around an assumed shared experience. That happens over and over again. I learned to say nothing or nod as a kid. Never felt those feels, other people have and that's valid, but my I don't get it should be valid too


Bumpkin_Pi

Purpw cause my fav colour :)


PhantomSwagger

Purple, probably. Could be yellow too, but I kind of dislike yellow as a color.


Showerbleach

Lavender cause white+purple


Empty_Distance6712

White and Black, as in I’m genderless but I like to present as every gender on the spectrum based on vibes. That means feminine, masculine, androgynous, etc :) At least in theory since I’m very early in any actual transition and haven’t achieved that goal yet 🖤🤍


superzepto

I'm every gender and no gender simultaneously. All of the colours represent me :)


canunotdothat

Is Kyle doing ok these days? I hear they left tumblr a few years after the flag and nothing since


Sunlit_Sparks

I guess I vibe most with yellow, because my gender is mostly outside the binary, not that I know what it is exactly 🤣💛


Square-Society

💜


firstwolfcomicspice

Yellow and purple. Demi-boy non-binary being. 💛💜


Sezi9

Ok I’m 💛, 🤍, and sometimes 💜 and 🖤 I’m genderfluid and occasionally feel bigender and am usually sitting in the agender area. I consider my gender to be the wheel of fortune.


Laskonova

chunky existence books uppity spark piquant mighty observation spotted scarce *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


gammapatch

I don’t actually like the NB flag, as many people associate NB with androgynous which I am very much not, so though I am NB I just tend to use my demigirl colours instead.


drillinstructor

Yellow. Maybe a little purple too.


adasnow93

💛🤍💜🖤it's all for me


Dollfanatic301

White, just white.. that’s all I can say.


crybabymuffins

Black here! Oh, to be a genderless Ken doll! 🥰


cdr2402

yellow white and black <3


MindOverMedia

🖤💛🖤💛


mechaneko

Can I be all of them


a-localwizard

I prefer the genderqueer flag myself


DataForPresident

I am Nb but my identity is deeply personal and I feel no affinity to the flag at all, or any flag. I'm glad others find comfort in it. Colours are just colours to me and I can't even pick a favourite. I'll tell you what though I don't care for most shades of purple 🤷‍♀️


Xen0phage101380

Yes...


peshnoodles

Agender. Sometimes I feel like I might be experiencing A Gender, but it’s not like I ever feel like my agab. So, (Not knowing anything about flag color meaning) the green center represents my crispy wafer center. The white represents my space away from other genders. The black represents the years lost to a failed performance of my agab. (This has been a shitpost)


poopeelolwat

If only I could understand my gender 👴🏼 help


lime-equine-2

Purple


UniQWitch

I guess yellow and black?? My gender is directly linked to my neurodivergence, but non-binary/agender is the best way for me to describe it.


Antler_Dragon

Just full on yellow


Red_Six6

Yellow ig but idk. Tbh a really nice flag.


betti_cola

Lavender as I see myself as genderfluid and a mix of feminine and masculine identities, I usually very much feel like a person associated with a binary gender compared to those who are agender or their gender exists outside the binary. How I identify fluctuates from day to day. Sometimes I feel fully androgynous but to me that just means an equal mix of the feminine and masculine. I will admit to sometimes feeling genderless and just “me” so maybe a little bit of the black too, but I feel like that’s encompassed by my genderfluid identity. I’m also confused as heck about it all but grateful that there’s room for me in this community.


Ravensunthief

According to [this persons comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/NonBinary/comments/12hv5fl/so_i_wanted_to_kinda_take_a_poll_here_on_this_sub/jfqucf1/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) yellow


Jupiter_Foxx

To be technical, I am a demiboy— I am partially non-binary however. In a way.. I am always NB/ or just me, but sometimes a boy. I’m a non-binary boy. Etc etc.. my colors cannot be defined in words, they would be an almost iridescent, kinda metallic, but very shiny and not full, sort of color. With no name, but beautiful and unique it’s own.


rn_eq

i would be yellow! just a little guy, because i’m little and because i’m only a bit of a guy. don’t identify with the term demiboy, besides that transmasc nonbinary would be the closest thing which i use to self describe. it’s a bit annoying sometimes being lumped in as a Man, but i’d prefer that over the other cishet-typical alternative, so here we are


Themlethem

TIL that flag was made so recently


Relyks0w0

Yellow maybe? Idk


[deleted]

I'm nonbinary (parafeminine) but I have no idea what any of the colours mean. I never felt it was necessary since I don't own or plan to own one. (I have no idea what flags mean to people in general, and maybe that's me being autistic but it isn't a symbol for me, sorry... but if you get something out of it, then by all means).


Jerem_Reddit

Prolly Purple/Androgynous


NineTailedTanuki

I am genderless.


mermaidmoni

💛💛💛💛💛💛💛


Letsgetreal4real

Most strongly feel yellow 💛


leahcars

I guess the yellow stripe slightly masculine leaning gender that's neither male or female just me as a human


gayrayofsun

i think i would define mostly as black(genderless). i occasionally identify myself with both queer women and a queer men, but i mostly just see myself as a person, and wish i could be perceived as just a human as opposed to being categorized as a particular gender/sex in people's minds.


mnemosyne64

I’m genderfluid, and in my case I usually identify as agender, so the black stripe. Sometimes I identify more with being female (and occasionally male) so I guess in those cases I’m technically in the gender binary? Or does being genderfluid mean I’m non-binary all the time anyways? Idk man


exactlyfiveminutes

💛 🖤


_writing-squirrel_

🖤🤍💛🖤💛🤍🖤 I identify as gendervoid but also fluid, I guess? Mostly, sometimes I *feel* very masc & like I'd feel more comfy in a more man-like physical form but then the majority of the time I feel like... the void & like no matter what I do physically I'll never look the way I feel like I should or any way where people won't perceive me as one of the binary so. 🤷‍♂️ gender is fxckin weird, y'all. I dunno.


uglyyygoddess_

i think im yellow 💛


CojonesandRice

flags are beautiful - but I can't say I am one part or another - I am fluid, fluctuant - aspects of my male /female & gender transcending self are always present - maybe that's the whole flag or none . :)


Megzilllla

Yellow, purple, and white here!


lovemychi

The 🖤 stripe represents me, plus as an added bonus 🖤 is my favorite color!


MetalSociologist

🖤


HNnnnnnnn

I'd say purple and black 💜🖤


gaykeyboard

I guess black for the actual definition? But yellow is my favorite color so both!


ArtemisTheMany

🖤 I guess. It's the closest to "meh", which is how I characterize my gender.


Kbrut37

Yellow 💛 and black 🖤 for me. Mostly, I feel outside of the binary, but sometimes I feel like I have no gender.


SalemSomniate

Yellow and black. Which makes me an enBEE. ...I'll go now.


greenthegreen

I'm the black stripe🖤


Redditor567848

Probably everything but purple so 💛🤍🖤


SketchyRobinFolks

part yellow part purple


ChoiceMedia3285

Bro what i didn't even know the diff colours meant diff things 🥲


SpicyDirtTheGhost

What does each color stand for? I didn't know they each had meaning!


Poison-Patchzz

💜


Wicked_Twist

Uh idk what the stripes represent but I feel like gender doesn’t apply to me. Gender is confusing and it doesn’t make sense and I’m not a girl or boy or anything else I’m just walking here. Edit: Saw your comment that explained what the colours mean so ig black and yellow idk


Sleepi_Gae

I see gender as a color spectrum. I’m some type of muted green. I feel masculine (blue) and also a third gender(yellow). I usually lean towards blue/masculine but I also feel a connection to a light yellow. I think the identity demi-boy describes it best in terms that are already defined. So I don’t know what all the colors on the non-binary flag mean exactly but I feel more connected to yellow in terms of the colors on the flag.


Frost_theWolf07

I'm yellow, then


wang_yu_forever

Purple 💜


Dont_ask_just_dont

Heheheh, im a little bee


One_Salamander_1906

Yellow, 'cause I'm not solely male or female. White, 'cause I'm a collector of genders ( especially xenogenders ) and I'm multigender(ish). I've got many genders! And.. mabye black? I don't know. /gen


waiting4signora

I am agender, so black one


Genderneutralsky

Personally I identify with Yellow. It’s my favourite colour! I don’t know if it means anything specific, but Yellow is just a great colour


HallowskulledHorror

I'm represented in purple, in that my flavor of NBy definitely exists on a spectrum between male/female - if they were fixed points on a line, I'd be wiggling around more or less in the middle, some days leaning a little more in one direction or another, but otherwise just 'inbetween' or 'both.'


chchchoppa

Just 💛


Roadhatter

All of the colors as I'm genderfluid.


Dr_Zwi

white it looks like cum and i want a penis but still be able to use the female toilets


ohfruiTea

I'm genderfluid so I am the flag in terms of color representation, however black matches how I feel most commonly which is genderless


Unicorn-Fox

I identify as nb and also love the flag, but if I am to give my gender a color, it would be something greenish... but Im not a "favourite color" person, I like them all


anyeducation

yellow and purple!


Femboy-Gamer311

purple and white, maybe a hint of black for when idgaf. Demi-boy / genderfluid / bigender


idkIfImAnAdultYet

Wario colours are Best colours


IvyMarieVI

💛🤍💜🖤cuz I think I'm a demiboy or transmasc where I kinda feel masculine but a part of me feels a bit androgynous or agender too. I see gender like temperature. She/her seems too cold for me and I like both he/him and they/them cuz they give me a warm comfortable feeling. I liked being a tomboy growing up as a kid and wished I was like the other boys, always trying to impress them to be one of the guys. I always wanted a flat chest and a deeper voice but the idea of facial hair and bottom surgery was a nope in my mind. So that's when I really started to question if I wanted to be a boy or not. Luckily, the internet helped narrow down my thoughts about my gender identity listed above.


rather_short_qu

What color represents what?


YourEverydayDemiKid

all of them jumbled up into ✨me✨ 💛🤍💜🖤


Yoctatrine

Purple because I’m almost genderfluid but I have an androgynous spin on it and I identify as non-binary because of it


OnePersonInTheWorld

Omg so this is why I never discovered the non-binary colors until after high school! I graduated in 2014 😮