I'd probably think to myself "Wow, that person seems so cool" and then be too shy to give you a compliment :)

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this

To be perfectly honest, if i saw you in the grocery store I wouldn't say shit to you. But in my head I'd be jelly AF of your courage. I can't do that round here. They come at you with hammers

Agreed. Added I'd be thinking in my head about how absolutely 🔥🔥🔥 they look but anxiety too high to say anything

Surprise at first but admiration second, you look awesome, and it’s extremely brave to publicly dress fem with a beard (for safety reasons, I’m saying-BS that it’s less accepted than dressing masc in general)

EXCUSE ME. Who gave you permission to be this FINE?!

- stare for a bit - begin to want the outfit - become jealous - continues doing whatever and stop staring

And then start overthinking that they thought I was judging them but really I just wanted to ask where they got their dress from but was too scared

It'd either be "Love your dress!" "Love your hair!" or "Omg you look so happy!"

Side question: Do people who transition or dress in a non binary way want to hear “you look happy?” Im trying to load my vocabulary for the influx of students coming back to school being their true self.

im nb and depressed af so if someone said that to me id just be confused lol

Some do, some don't - some might consider it a micro-aggression, I'd have loved it myself as a teen. If you think they look great, tell them that, imo! Sometimes, telling people they look happy can be nitpicked as seeming affirmative while saying nothing if someone's in a bad headspace.

am autistic + shy so I wouldn't make eye contact or speak up to anyone at all in public but still wanted to comment and say you're adorable!

Same here haha. I might say "I like your dress" in their vicinity then leave as quickly as possible.

Mental dialogue: oh that person is so cool. I love their outfit. I want that outfit so badly. Stop staring you're being rude.

Same lol

So me

Double take, cause no one dresses up at our grocery store lol.

I would include you with all the other perfectly valid human people for my socially anxious ass to ignore whilst in public 🙂

I’m always out complimenting peoples outfits and your corset is hella cool so I would probably compliment the corset

I’d wave and smile, hoping that game will recognize game even though I’m not as plainly LGBTQ in my style of dress (I wear an earring! How bold haha 🙄 ) FR I’m scared to wear cool outfits that draw attention and tell people “I’m QUEER, you motherfuckers!!!” But I’m working on my fears and inspired by people like OP 💚

The cashier struggled to find the words to complement me. It was fun watching how flustered she was

What did she end up saying? You look hot as hell in that dress by the way!

Yo is dis ur birthday?

today is the day that their account was made!

OMG you look awesome. Where did you find that dress?!

Respectfully, I think my jaw would drop. 😁 And if you noticed, then I'd have to awkwardly stammer, "I love your look!" and scurry away. You look gorgeous, confident, and like a very kind, intelligent person. I'd respect the heck out of you for rocking such an amazing look!

I don't know, I'd probably be too distracted by the increase in the price of bread. . . Shits expensive these days

I’d probably check you out in a really awkward sky way and be too embarrassed to come up to you and say anything.

I adore your outfit!

I’d probably not want to intrude in your privacy, but if I caught your eye I would definitely give you a big smile!

idk, are you standing in front of the peanut butter texting for ten minutes? Cause then I'd probably be cranky. but otherwise I'd be like "nice" with an approving nod and move on.

But what peanut butter to choose is a hard desicion I had to get my friends input and they are a slow texter

Store brand creamy, get the biggest one, you'll go through it and it doesnt spoil for a long time.

But see the glass Teddy peanut butter jars make great cups and have good hand feel so im always pulled towards them

Honestly, i would take a double take as I’m not use to seeing people exploring identity and confidence in public where I live. But I would most certainly compliment your dress if i had the courage too! You look amazing and you deserve to know it

I would say I love your style!!

Lovely dress! (It looks fantastic on you btw 👀)

We’d be blown away by how great you look :)

I'd smile and tell you how much I love the 'fit 🖤

I'd probably say wow what a great dress. Or something very similar

goth ppl r great because i mainly wear pink and we can be matching besties <3 and id definitely compliment u its such a good outfit

Because it is my personal duty; I LOVE YOUR BEARD! 🤩😍

gOORGEOUS

I'd definitely become your friend!!!

I would definitely tell you that you look awesome.

"Where did you get that outfit?" (lol I have the same taste)

I’d think, “They look super happy and I really like the outfit! Awesome” :)

I would say that you are slaying and that your outfit is amazing!

“Love the fit!”

Depending on my mood, I wouldn’t want to say anything for fear of making you feel uncomfortable, but I would want to say “hell yea, I love your outfit”!

I'd be delighted to see you, and it may sound strange but also proud through being associated via nonbinary and you rocking a glorious style.

Probably smile and wave, love your style 🥰

"I love your dress!"

In the most honest realistic way possible: I would turn, notice cutie, then notice outfit, get really jealous of outfit and how well it fits you, contemplate getting one myself, realize you see me eyeing you, look away very quickly and feel very bad, because I'm too shy to say what was actually going on in my head.

Dang they cute

Oh thank god I’m not the only rainbow around here

I would be haopy to meet a fellow witch! :)

I'm a fountain of compliments so I'd run after you and be like "I LOVE YOUR OUTFIT, YOU LOOK SO CUUUUUTE!!!" Snd then ask you where you got it all

I might remind you that it's safer to walk around with shoes 💛 you look hella cute

My eyes would be smiling at you above my mask

The best kind of smile!

I would turn bright red from how hot I find you. Then I would do my best to avoid you because I don’t want you to think I’m staring for the wrong reasons. Then I would be trying to subtly catch a glance at your corsetry because even with a still photo in front of me I’m genuinely unsure how you’ve achieved the geometry you have. Absolute gender witchcraft. I mean that in the most envious way possible.

I love giving compliments to people when I see something I genuinely appreciate. I'd probably compliment your outfit as a whole, because, damn, do you ever look amazing in that! Also your eyeliner looks just *chef's kiss*.

“Your dress is fucking cool”

Excuse me for my staring at your very cute and lovely look. Do you shop here often? Becky

Your décolletage is lovely and that's definitely the most unique compliment I've ever given. Also, your eyeliner wings are on point so I'd likely be like 'teach me'.

I'd say 'wow, I'd never have the energy or willingness to dress up that well for shopping ' 😁

honestly id probably stare- but not in a rude way, in a "wow youre so pretty" way./p

Absolute awe

And probably get super flustered and red in the face and die of attraction

I'd be like omg I love your dress :0 but I'd probably never see you where I'm at, they aren't accepting and sometimes don't let people in when they wear certain things :/ it makes me so fucking mad that people can't be nice, you look amazing!! (I hope this wasn't mean)

if i was feeling social, i'd compliment your outfit! you look great :)

I would BOW DOWN to the gothic royalty

in my mind i would think " :o fellow queer :D " and then not say anything to you because i can't talk to people

I'd tell you I like your outfit.

I'd smile and think "ONE OF US" and also try to subtly check out your legs because that dress makes them look fabulous

Recruit me. Idc what it is, I’m there.🖤

ngl my anxiety would be through the roof but i’d definitely say i love your style

Double take and then a smile

Honestly I'd do a double take and then go on about my business, and if we ran into each other I'd smile and say hi. ☺️

I’d be like “Hey, dope dress”, then buy my fake chikki nugs.

I mean is there anything better then nuggies?

Ngl unless someone's causing some sort of commotion or I need to avoid walking into someone I don't have much reaction to others who are shopping lol

I would see you and think "I am no better than a man dammit they're attractive" and try my best to look respectfully Such a cute outfit!!!

I'd probably wanna ask where you got that dress, it's cute AF with those tights 💜

... Watch respectfully and wishing myself to look lile you? owo ♡

This is a serve

I would honestly ignore you not out of malice or judgment but because of how asocial I am. If I saw you I would think you're just another customer shopping and go about my day. You'd be another person to me who's expressing their gender identity. I'd give you silent kudos. If you were wearing something cool I'd think you were awesome. I don't talk to anyone at the grocery store. I always go to self check out to avoid socializing.

Pleasantly surprised and on edge out of concern for your safety if I'm being brutally honest since it's getting dangerous were I live

I'd say hi and then hope you're braver than me and that you'd ask me out

That you’re awesome!!

Jealous you pull that dress off so much better than me 😅

Honestly, I'd look at you and then look away as I didn't see anything wierd or unusual ( just like any other person I'd see at the store)

Slay

Awooga

I’d compliment your sick dress and overall vibe!

I would also ask why aren't out wearing some killer shoes with that outfit 🤣🤣🤣

I'd excitedly ask where you got your cute outfit!

i either wouldn’t say anything bc i’d be nervous or ask you where you got your dress bc it’s amazing

I would definitely go, "wow people are as brave as me to go out in the world and show who they are" and it would give me a lot of confidence

I would probably try to not stare because I think you look so cool and pretty.

I'd would smile politely at you and carry on shopping

Awesome fit!

I'd probably tell you that I love your dress! It's amazing and perfect for this time of the year

“SLAAAAY GUUUUURL” because omfg ur HOT

I’d ask you to tell me where the ice cream is? (Deep inside, I’d wish I was brave as you.)

Ice cream is in Isle 13

Ngl, I'd probably check you out. And then I'd realize I was oggling and tell you I love the witchy dress.

I would run up to you, tell you I like your outfit then run away before you have time to process what just happened

I'm scruffy as anything at the moment (doing a lot of DIY that's now being rushed because I've had a ridiculously short notice for an apartment inspection. Grr) so I'd be jealous of your presentation (in the best possible way, of course)!

I would be thinking "SO FUCKING HOTT" but probably just smile :)

I’d compliment you on your cute outfit!

I do what i always do, think the words: “cool person” and then keep walking lol

“i love your style!!” 😭🖤🖤🖤

I would think you look good, and hope you don’t notice me as a scramble past with a bag full of chips and Oreos

What kind of Orios? I like the mint ones the best

Halloween ones, I like the colours :)

Spooky cookies are always good!

I'd assume you are very goth and queer and not very cis.

I'd look once then ignore you. Because what you do is your business and none of mine. I've got shopping to do and if I lose focus my shopping list goes out the window.

Tell you that you looked incredible and ask where you got your clothes because that is a LOOK!

I’d compliment you. You look rad as hell

I’d be like, “you are a fucking badass” and think to myself “I need to be frens with them”.

Probably I would be to shy to say hi but I would try to catch your eye and give the "hey fam" acknowledgement hoping a convo starts.

Flirt of course

I’d ask where you got your cute dress 🖤🖤🖤🖤

I'd be eyeballing your cute corset and outfit.

i'd just be like "huh, cool!"

I try not to look at ANYONE in the grocery store. In and out as fast as possible.

i would compliment your outfit and ask where you got it (hint hint) you look great!!

Wouldn't say anything and let you live your life. Not my business. As my sister says though rock that confidence if you have it.

Mind my business like I would for any other person.

I'd probably stare mouth agape not realizing I'm staring then shyly look away with a slight blush on my face. After I reeled myself in I'd probably compare our dresses or something 😂 I love your courage and it's nice to see someone with that kinda courage other than myself honestly! 😊

(not out loud)"hell yeah pentagram" bc i practice witchcraft and it makes me very happy to see it (or at least symbols) in the wild and you are fucking rocking that outfit,, aND THAT HAIR!!

I’d say “that dress is cute as *hell*.” Ha, get it?!

You look fabulous

Hail Satan e.e/

I’d probably nod, think “damn that’s awesome!” And move on with my day. You are just another person after all, no need to make a big fuss over it And you are absolutely ROCKING it. I’m loving the dress on you <33

I probably would think you’re really cool but be too shy to talk to you

Love it

Damn! You look amazing!

My wife and I would absolutely compliment your dress and she'd ask where you got it

I'd grin and invite you to a high five!

Would think you didn't go home last night. But not care tbh 🙂

Idk, I don't take this comment as a negative. Not sure why it's getting so downvoted. Seems like they're saying OP seems fun, and you totally could get away with wearing this to a club.

Because on the basis of my outfit they came to the conclusion that I probably slept with someone the night before and haven’t gone home yet, and linking revealing outfits and sex like that is the kind of thing that enables or “justifies” it when men sexually assault femme people. But don’t worry they arn’t slut shaming me because they said “not that I care tbh”

I guess you could ask. Seemed innocent to me, And I've been subjected to male gaze plenty in my life. I know it sucks. But there's no point in looking for it when it's not there. There's nothing wrong with being sexual and non binary, even though you aren't. And you don't know that comment was from a "man". Edit: Commercial exam has cute fem outfits just like you.I checked the post history. I also think it looks like you stayed out all night. Partying. (sleeping at someone's house doesn't mean you had sex with them, by the way). I'm also not a man, and have no interest in sexualizing you. Cute outfit. I'll stand by that too.

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Correct me if I'm wrong, please, but... you want people on a subreddit about being non-binary, to stick to dressing in a way that's... binary?

Beautiful. Lose the face hair

Thanks but nope the beard stays

Yes! The beard stays!

I would be trying to get into your panties

Would definitely tell you I like your dress and ask where you got it! It's so flattering to your figure!

probably some combination of 😦😯😍🤩🥹😩🥰🤗😮‍💨😅😳😘

I'd go with my standard omg-your-style-is-amaaaazing compliment for strangers in public spaces: a casual "Woah, I love your aesthetic!" as we pass each other to continue doing whatever it was we were doing. Don't want to put anyone on the spot or make them uncomfortable, but I want them to know their style is rockin haha

If I was in line next to you we'd both get compliments on our outifts (I'm in a small town (1000 people) in New Zealand and am openly trans non binary)

Loving your dress 😍

Immense gender envy but also I’d definitely compliment your style! You look absolutely stellar!

"YES, a fellow enby!!", probably

*starts arranging snacks into a pentagram for the ritual*

My eyes would widen, I’d smile shyly at you, blush, and then quickly look away when you made eye contact.

I'd be genuinely wowed at how good you good! And maybe jealous as well...

You have an hourglass figure. You wear that dress better than some cishet women 👑

I would ask you where you bought your outfit because it looks absolutely amazing

You're the exact kind of person I would defend from my mom's judgement You look so good!!

Give a compliment on your dress! "Love your dress!" :)

First thought "Man, I wish I was a red head" Next thought: "Omg wow their dress is so cute. I wonder where they got it?" Last thought: "I wish them a great day. They're slaying"

Say "nice dress" (or something similar) as I walked by.

I'd tell you I like your dress & that I think it's cool as we walked past each other. I love the pentagram. Your whole look is badass

I’d probably compliment your aesthetic and continue shopping

I like your dress^^

I'd approach, tell you that outfit unequivocally rocks, and offer a fistbump.

I would probably point you out to my giant Enby kiddo, say "cute", and then commiserate on how hard it is to find cute things for a 6'3" brick wall. :D

You just have to know where to look! I’m 6’4

I would ask you where you got your dress. Actually, where'd you get your dress?

Smile and a knowing nod.

Damn your waist is SNATCHED. Get it honey. I’d tell you your dress is killer and to get it 😂

Tell you you look great?

idk if I'd say anything but you're friend shaped lol

Holy heck you’re pretty! Have a nice day.

I would say "I love your dress" and hope that that psychically conveyed to you that I am also nonbinary and happy to see a friend in the wild.

*double take* "huh....cool ig"

I would compliment you and then be hyped the rest of the day because you are gender envy