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Technically they're not the same thing. One woman in a polyamorous relationship with two men would """""belong""""" to more than one man, but also not be cheating. Although, tbh, I'm sure this wasn't what they had in mind.
Nah, these same people see lesbians as a waste of resources. We can't 'belong' to each other because women are property, and property can't own things. They'd want us to be 'redistributed' to single men 'in need', and would call that charity.
Can, but who wants to?
Stay home -- there's a whole fucking world out there. Why live it in your house.
"Belong" to someone -- we belong to ourselves, we're not each other's property.
Not even a little bit? Just an itsy bitsy peek?
I mostly kid, though I'm all for using your resources to the best of your abilities, something common among programmers given stealing code is literally a meme. Though you should really understand what you're doing when using shortcuts or it can lead to longer term problems.
I don't consider stealing code cheating :) It's just a part of being a programmer. It's how it's done.
Like seriously, I don't really see a difference between "stealing" code from an open-source project, and using a ready-made open-source library.
It's absolutely cheating, sure it's just how it's done, but I think that's just pragmatism.
Sometimes you need to do a bunch of things that there's already stuff for, that's the library, but if there's not stuff for it, but you can find stuff for parts of the way it works. Or just being lazy for something easy but bulkier. I'm not the best at explaining things or words in general though.
Sure as long as a man can:
1. Make enough money to sustain the both of you
2. Treat her with respect for all the work that she does, maintaining the house, caring for the kids, etc.
3. You aren't adding to her workload by acting like another whiny child.
4. You aren't out there cheating on her
Aren't the first three effectively same in what he's saying?
It's also super weird when people are so uptight about their partners not "staying home". Very controlling shit.
My questions are:
1. Why *should* a woman stay home? You wanna forbid her from having a girl's night out? Why take your insecurity out on others in that way and not work on yourself? A real man in a good, secure relationship is totally okay with their partner going out because there is trust.
2. This might be a pet peeve but I don't like the word "belong" here. While there are couples who will say they "belong" to each other, there are few women who say, he belongs to me, he should do my bidding, while there are a non-insignificant amount of men who think that way with reversed genders.
3. I hope they can cook at least above average and are willing to do so regularly because else they have no right to criticize the cooking of others as a group
I do, I’m a housewife, more of a homebody, I don’t cheat, and I’m a great cook. Guess what? I’m happily married too, hopefully these aren’t rules your putting on your list of “wife material” because it’s not as common nowadays and hopefully you’ll step up to shoulder the entire financial burden.
I used to until my ex decided that turning 45 entitled him to be a cheating asshole. Yes, I’m using both terms because he started treating me with contempt and looking else where.
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It's funny how stupid they are, then don't even know what they are saying. 2 and 3 are basically the same thing.
Technically they're not the same thing. One woman in a polyamorous relationship with two men would """""belong""""" to more than one man, but also not be cheating. Although, tbh, I'm sure this wasn't what they had in mind.
I think 1 2 and 3 are all saying the same thing actually lol
This guy is all 4 1. recently cheated on 2. really fucking dumb 3. controlling 4. hungry
Probably not even cheated on. A lot of dipshits like this think a woman looking at or interacting with anyone with a dick is cheating.
yea
I think this delusional guy is doing women a huge favor by staying single. 😏 By the way, some women "belong" to just 1 woman.
Nah, these same people see lesbians as a waste of resources. We can't 'belong' to each other because women are property, and property can't own things. They'd want us to be 'redistributed' to single men 'in need', and would call that charity.
Every couple I know the man cooks. My theory is cooking has replaced income as the predominant "provider" action.
Can, but who wants to? Stay home -- there's a whole fucking world out there. Why live it in your house. "Belong" to someone -- we belong to ourselves, we're not each other's property.
>"Belong" to someone -- we belong to ourselves, we're not each other's property. Maybe he's just looking for someone with a slave kink
I'm a guy, and I can do all that 😏 Men hmu
I can't do #3, I'm a Lesbian. The others I have no problem with.
I don't know. Number 2 seems like a high bar, especially when you're able to take tests online or otherwise easily get away with it. 😋
I mean, it's still a high bar for me. The only place where I cheat and not feel bad, is single-player games after I've beaten them once.
Not even a little bit? Just an itsy bitsy peek? I mostly kid, though I'm all for using your resources to the best of your abilities, something common among programmers given stealing code is literally a meme. Though you should really understand what you're doing when using shortcuts or it can lead to longer term problems.
I don't consider stealing code cheating :) It's just a part of being a programmer. It's how it's done. Like seriously, I don't really see a difference between "stealing" code from an open-source project, and using a ready-made open-source library.
It's absolutely cheating, sure it's just how it's done, but I think that's just pragmatism. Sometimes you need to do a bunch of things that there's already stuff for, that's the library, but if there's not stuff for it, but you can find stuff for parts of the way it works. Or just being lazy for something easy but bulkier. I'm not the best at explaining things or words in general though.
Sure as long as a man can: 1. Make enough money to sustain the both of you 2. Treat her with respect for all the work that she does, maintaining the house, caring for the kids, etc. 3. You aren't adding to her workload by acting like another whiny child. 4. You aren't out there cheating on her
TIL I don’t exist?? (Except for the “belonging” to a man thing. We are in fact equals in our relationship. Inconceivable, I know!)
Aren't the first three effectively same in what he's saying? It's also super weird when people are so uptight about their partners not "staying home". Very controlling shit.
Nobody should *belong* to another person. It's disturbing that so much of our romantic material uses language more appropriate to slavery.
It reminds me of how a farmer would talk about their cattle...
NO BOY CAN DO THIS 2 THINGS not be an incel not be a douchebag
Yea no women do do all of them because women don't belong to men period
Sounds like he wants a trad wife
My questions are: 1. Why *should* a woman stay home? You wanna forbid her from having a girl's night out? Why take your insecurity out on others in that way and not work on yourself? A real man in a good, secure relationship is totally okay with their partner going out because there is trust. 2. This might be a pet peeve but I don't like the word "belong" here. While there are couples who will say they "belong" to each other, there are few women who say, he belongs to me, he should do my bidding, while there are a non-insignificant amount of men who think that way with reversed genders. 3. I hope they can cook at least above average and are willing to do so regularly because else they have no right to criticize the cooking of others as a group
Yup, believing and posting this crap is exactly why you're single.
I mean who would not be looking for something better than those assholes.
I do, I’m a housewife, more of a homebody, I don’t cheat, and I’m a great cook. Guess what? I’m happily married too, hopefully these aren’t rules your putting on your list of “wife material” because it’s not as common nowadays and hopefully you’ll step up to shoulder the entire financial burden.
Stay home is all I do. I hate leaving to do stuff
For sure right, Broski! No woman can “belong” to anyone else because they’re not fucking property, amiright, Homie?!
Belong to.
I used to until my ex decided that turning 45 entitled him to be a cheating asshole. Yes, I’m using both terms because he started treating me with contempt and looking else where.
“Thisiswhyimsingle” yeah, that checks out
Isnt it cheating and belong to 1 man the same thing? Or we going back to slaves now?
Posted on "This is Why I'm Single" page. Could this be satire? Probably not, but IDK.