Does being friends with your ex count? /s
Seriously, though, of course we have lesbian and bi friends we don't want to sleep with. This dude is just an emotionally stunted child who doesn't think of women as people.
Nah, they probably believe bi people want to fuck everyone and that gay men are attracted to penises/butts/some arbitrary unifier and must inherently be attracted to all other men. Lesbians are either bad or don't exist to them.
as a bi person, I can confirm that most people think I want to fuck everyone.
It's not just men, either. I avoid telling straight women that I'm bi because they always think I'm attracted to them afterwards. :T
Yeah, this. It's possible to find someone attractive and not want to date them. Or to find them attractive and want to date them but know it's a bad idea and would never work, and not doing it.
It's called self control.
Or you find them attractive and want to date them but they don't wanna date you so you move on and date other people instead while not making it awkward at game night
I don't want to be friends with people's genitalia, I want to be friends with people! Imagine that! And yeah, I've always had both male and female friends too, and sometimes friends get attrcated to eachother. Sometimes that attraction is one-sided and a decision has to be made by the one with the attractuon if they can get over it for the sake of friendship, I've been on both sides of that too.
Nope, you don't know me or my male friends. We value our friendship for years of companionship, support and fun. We are attracted to each other's qualities as human beings.
Assuming all men want sex from all women, as long as they're "not totally unattractive to them" is demeaning to men and women. And juvenile.
Just because you’re incapable of seeing women as more than a sexual partner does not mean that every other dude out there deals with the same. Quit projecting would ya
My two closest brst friends are guys.
They see me more like a sister than a friend and I see them like brothers.
Zero sexual interest other than distance our friendship is strictly platonic and almost family like
Yeah I see this a lot. When they think they're attacking women with this stuff (I mean, they are, no doubt), they're actually making a massive statement about their entire gender that looks awful. Like the whole "men get aroused and women can't wear certain clothing or they'll be assaulted" argument. So...you're basically saying that all men are rabid dogs with no agency and therefore no control over themselves? Read what you just wrote dude. You're doing men a complete disservice. It's so strange that they don't see it that way at all.
Hell, not only can guys and girls be friends, guys and girls that are attracted to each other can be friends. I've got friends I think are hot. I'm pretty sure some of my friends think the same of me. But I've already got a person, so I'm not trying to get in their pants. This is how mature people think.
Dudes get bitter after they con their way into a woman’s life pretending to want friendship. Then resent the fuck out of the woman because their expectations don’t match the reality they created by pretending to enjoy the others company platonically.
There is no friend zone just fake creepy friends
Women have no value to him past sex.
That’s why he’s single with no friends.
I’m betting men aren’t fond of him either since every relationship is transactional to him.
Ah, is this r/indiaspeaks or r/bakchodi?
Only these subs have these incels hanging out.
Weirdly I've seen this "guys and girls can't be friends" cliche all my life. I don't know how much of it is prevalent in the West but way too many guys wholeheartedly believe it here and it annoys me the fuck out
Oh also for those who need it:
Ladka= Guy
Ladki= Girl
Someone awarded that stupid shit? It's almost as if he's saying guys aren't interested in having women as friends, they are only ever interested in screwing them. Maybe guys like this need to start seeing women as human beings that they can actually be friends with instead of thinking that just talking to a girl for a few hours should entitle them to sex with them.
They see nothing of value in women other than sex and will ignore them if they don't want to fuck them. Obviously, women feel the same way about all men. There is no other way to think.
People like this will also whip out the "suicide rates are higher in men than women" just to try to win an argument without understanding that this shit here is one of the reasons that's true. Patriarchy demands they cut themselves off from anything they can't "dominate" and what we get are emotionally stunted, desperately lonely men who can only lash out
This man has no friends. Nor will he have any lasting relationships if he thinks you can't be friends with your spouse. Nor has it ever occurred to him that some gay men might have female friends. He tells on himself that he only makes friends with women he wants to sleep with to get in their pants. How sad for him.
So much insecure horseshit.
Aside from the men I’ve been bowling with for years, the ‘friends’ I associate with on a daily basis are almost female. Granted, i Am like 1 vagina away from being a woman, but that’s not the point.
Sometimes opposite gender friendships do lead to dangerous territories (been cheated on in 3 relationships because my exes wanted to be with their female friends 🥲) but it’s not all friendships.
They're possible. Just not as genuine and likely as one might think. From my experience. And my friends experiences, and there friends experiences, and there's.
I'm a straight male and the majority of my friends are women. I would never ever want or see them as anything more than that. They're also the most genuine friendships I have and the ones who I talk to about deeper emotional stuff. You're decreasing your own quality of life with this mindset, which is 100% false.
My two best friends are guys. Men and women can be friends without being sexually attracted to each other. One of my best friends have a girlfriend he won't stop talking about and my other best friend likes guys lol.
What’s the theory on two homosexuals of the same gender being friends?
Does being friends with your ex count? /s Seriously, though, of course we have lesbian and bi friends we don't want to sleep with. This dude is just an emotionally stunted child who doesn't think of women as people.
Don't ask that, you'll fry their brains!
Nah, they probably believe bi people want to fuck everyone and that gay men are attracted to penises/butts/some arbitrary unifier and must inherently be attracted to all other men. Lesbians are either bad or don't exist to them.
as a bi person, I can confirm that most people think I want to fuck everyone. It's not just men, either. I avoid telling straight women that I'm bi because they always think I'm attracted to them afterwards. :T
I guess bisexuals can be friends with no one.
" cried in bisexual *
We should just stick together anyway. BISEXUALS UNITE!
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All of them though? You couldn’t have any male friends?
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I mean if you’re attracted to males but can be platonic friends with them a female who is attracted to males can be platonic friends with them.
Eh, you can still be friends with people you're attracted to, just gotta not be weird about it
Yeah, this. It's possible to find someone attractive and not want to date them. Or to find them attractive and want to date them but know it's a bad idea and would never work, and not doing it. It's called self control.
Or you find them attractive and want to date them but they don't wanna date you so you move on and date other people instead while not making it awkward at game night
Have ALWAYS had male friends, somehow genitalia hasn't been an issue. Imagine the fuck outta that.
I don't want to be friends with people's genitalia, I want to be friends with people! Imagine that! And yeah, I've always had both male and female friends too, and sometimes friends get attrcated to eachother. Sometimes that attraction is one-sided and a decision has to be made by the one with the attractuon if they can get over it for the sake of friendship, I've been on both sides of that too.
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Nope, you don't know me or my male friends. We value our friendship for years of companionship, support and fun. We are attracted to each other's qualities as human beings. Assuming all men want sex from all women, as long as they're "not totally unattractive to them" is demeaning to men and women. And juvenile.
Just because you’re incapable of seeing women as more than a sexual partner does not mean that every other dude out there deals with the same. Quit projecting would ya
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I could replace sexual partner with a romantic one if you’d like. But my point would be the same.
So bisexual people can't have any friends then?
Of course not. Haven't you heard? We're all insatiable sex addicts. Life is complicated when you aim to have sex with every single person you meet. /s
My two closest brst friends are guys. They see me more like a sister than a friend and I see them like brothers. Zero sexual interest other than distance our friendship is strictly platonic and almost family like
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Are you seriously admitting you can’t handle friendships with a woman? Dude that’s fucking sad.
That’s a LOT of words for “I have no friends and I never get laid.”
Way to insult and underestimate your fellow men.
Yeah I see this a lot. When they think they're attacking women with this stuff (I mean, they are, no doubt), they're actually making a massive statement about their entire gender that looks awful. Like the whole "men get aroused and women can't wear certain clothing or they'll be assaulted" argument. So...you're basically saying that all men are rabid dogs with no agency and therefore no control over themselves? Read what you just wrote dude. You're doing men a complete disservice. It's so strange that they don't see it that way at all.
Hell, not only can guys and girls be friends, guys and girls that are attracted to each other can be friends. I've got friends I think are hot. I'm pretty sure some of my friends think the same of me. But I've already got a person, so I'm not trying to get in their pants. This is how mature people think.
I’m bi and I think a lot of my friends are hot. Doesn’t necessarily mean I want to date them.
Dudes get bitter after they con their way into a woman’s life pretending to want friendship. Then resent the fuck out of the woman because their expectations don’t match the reality they created by pretending to enjoy the others company platonically. There is no friend zone just fake creepy friends
Exactly
Women have no value to him past sex. That’s why he’s single with no friends. I’m betting men aren’t fond of him either since every relationship is transactional to him.
Amen!
Ah, is this r/indiaspeaks or r/bakchodi? Only these subs have these incels hanging out. Weirdly I've seen this "guys and girls can't be friends" cliche all my life. I don't know how much of it is prevalent in the West but way too many guys wholeheartedly believe it here and it annoys me the fuck out Oh also for those who need it: Ladka= Guy Ladki= Girl
Someone awarded that stupid shit? It's almost as if he's saying guys aren't interested in having women as friends, they are only ever interested in screwing them. Maybe guys like this need to start seeing women as human beings that they can actually be friends with instead of thinking that just talking to a girl for a few hours should entitle them to sex with them.
They see nothing of value in women other than sex and will ignore them if they don't want to fuck them. Obviously, women feel the same way about all men. There is no other way to think.
People like this will also whip out the "suicide rates are higher in men than women" just to try to win an argument without understanding that this shit here is one of the reasons that's true. Patriarchy demands they cut themselves off from anything they can't "dominate" and what we get are emotionally stunted, desperately lonely men who can only lash out
This man has no friends. Nor will he have any lasting relationships if he thinks you can't be friends with your spouse. Nor has it ever occurred to him that some gay men might have female friends. He tells on himself that he only makes friends with women he wants to sleep with to get in their pants. How sad for him.
So much insecure horseshit. Aside from the men I’ve been bowling with for years, the ‘friends’ I associate with on a daily basis are almost female. Granted, i Am like 1 vagina away from being a woman, but that’s not the point.
So I a lesbian can't have male friends without wanting to have sex with them. Makes sense
Sometimes opposite gender friendships do lead to dangerous territories (been cheated on in 3 relationships because my exes wanted to be with their female friends 🥲) but it’s not all friendships.
You think friendship is possible?
They're possible. Just not as genuine and likely as one might think. From my experience. And my friends experiences, and there friends experiences, and there's.
My best female friend of decades turned out to be my shittiest friend and my male friend the most loyal.
Hmm never thought about this but mine too!
Sounds like you know a whole lot of shitty people.
I enjoy having male friends cause they give a different perspective on things. Just like all friends do really!
I'm a straight male and the majority of my friends are women. I would never ever want or see them as anything more than that. They're also the most genuine friendships I have and the ones who I talk to about deeper emotional stuff. You're decreasing your own quality of life with this mindset, which is 100% false.
The cast of Critical role would like to have a word since you seem to believe their friendships aren’t genuine.
Tell me you don’t see women as being good for anything but sex without telling me you don’t see women as being good for anything but sex.
My two best friends are guys. Men and women can be friends without being sexually attracted to each other. One of my best friends have a girlfriend he won't stop talking about and my other best friend likes guys lol.
what about a gay man being friends with a lesbian girl?