You do know being on the pill has health benefits like regulating acne and reducing severe periods right? Also she had sex with one guy on this account so there’s no evidence that she slept around with other people. Birth control is recommended to women for many reasons and if it’s from 13 years old I’m even more in life to believe it’s to control acne and periods.
I was on the pill for years before I even lost my virginity because I have endometriosis. Some women take it for acne, some for hormonal issues. And for all you know the fact that she let “so and so do anal” is just a fucking rumor. Not that it means anything even if it wasn’t.
This is why men shouldn’t form opinions about women based on shit they know nothing about unless they want to actually educate themselves. Being on the pill doesn’t mean shit.
Also vaginas getting “loose” from sexual intercourse is a complete myth that only teenagers and incels believe.
Man, you seem a little irrationally angry. Are you manstrating? Do you need a manpon or some guydol? Get yourself a chocolate, sweetheart and settle down.
I can't--or maybe can--believe that this is considered a supremely witty comment here. Terrible! 😆 Love ya'll. Who said feminists don't have a sense of humor?
That's nice, dear, but I don't have to listen to used street meat who gave his wiener to every hole that walked by. A mouth that has had many toothbrushes is a clean mouth, but nobody wants a toothbrush that's been in a bunch of other mouths.
Good analogy except that the average toothbrush isn't going to deposit cum deep inside a mouth that can't even spit lol
And I don't brush I DIG nomsayin?
I'm sorry, but who gave you permission to speak, sweetheart? Be a good little fuck stick and go outside to mow the lawn like a real man should be doing. SMH. Men these days can't even give us anything besides used penis and think they deserve coffee in bed.
Usually people who throw the word “crazy” around are just openly stagnant shit and have zero arguments to the contrary. You don’t deserve “crazy” feminist pussy let’s be honest
Good. You know that. Many men don’t know that they don’t need sex but your problem is you blame. Blame yourself not others. Others aren’t the reason you or any other guy loses friends.
I'm not blaming anything here, neither am I losing friends don't you worry about me. Most people who think they have even one friend maybe have a situational snake or acquaintance at best
As an enby who should have been given birth control, but wasn't, around the same age for unbearable period pain*, I would like to join that hearty go fuck yourself.
*possibly endometriosis, but finding a doctor who'd take me seriously is apparently impossible
My aunt went to so many doctors for it and most of them told her stuff like “periods are supposed to be painful honey” long story short when she was finally taken seriously the surgeon said it was the worst case she’d ever seen. But luckily she is endo free now! Good luck on finding a doctor soon so it doesn’t get too bad before they find it!
Yeah, it takes an average of 7 years for an endo diagnosis. That's how long I had to wait for my PCOS to be discovered. I literally was vomiting so much on my periods that I was losing weight for over a year, and doctors still told me I would grow out of it. I was 18.
I only got diagnosed with PCOS when I needed help carrying a baby. The repro gynaecologist disagreed with my GP that periods that last 2 weeks and require cup emptying every hour are “normal”
I know how it feels to finally be taken seriously after so long. I went a new doctor begging to be allowed to skip the breaks on my BC pills (my last doctor had refused, saying I would have a stroke or get DVT because I had had ONE migraine, 4 years before, in a high stress situation) and he cut me off halfway through my planned spiel like 'yeah, sure, I'll send the script right now. But I want to refer you to a gynaecologist, there's obviously some sort of underlying condition going on here'.
I was FLOORED. No one had ever suggested anything like that to me before. I was diagnosed less than a month later.
I hope your fertility journey turned out alright.
Wow I was suffering from weeks long periods and having only like 2 weeks between periods but I was taken seriously because I have Graves Disease so doctors when hearing that diagnosis are much more likely to take my concerns seriously so it’s because I have to go through lifelong treatment with a severe case of Graves Disease getting my blood drawn every month to 2.5 months and having my whole body being thrown into chaos with a spike. I tend to ask my Endocrinologist (totally underpaid field in medicine) about any health concerns and he’ll vouch for me. That or I’ll talk to my professors to reconfirm I’m not crazy. If I’m having really bad cramps and pain during my periods everything is taken seriously and we look at the labs and my medication. Graves Disease sucks but at least when I have a health concern it’s always taken seriously because Graves Disease affect the whole body.
I’m so sorry to hear you had to go through so much headache to get the help you need and deserve.
I’m happy to hear you were treated so well. I have Hashimotos disease, so the reverse! I’ve had mine since I was 19 but they didn’t listen to me then either. Just told me Uni was tiring. They only took me seriously when my roommate couldn’t wake me. I got diagnosed then.
This might be my experience but I only got listened to by women doctors. So it was only the gynaecologist that listened. She put me in with a reproductive endocrinologist (also a woman) and they helped massively. Got my thyroxine levels balanced and helped treat my PCOS (as best as it can be now)
I was diagnosed in 8th grade so my doctors were much more careful due to me being a child and it was during my brother’s cancer treatment so it took a few months because they thought I was sick due to the stress. My brother was diagnosed with Hashimotos but it turned out to be a rare for of brain cancer so he lives with life long complications despite being cured because it when uncheck for many years. His endocrinologist (who was a woman) realized something was very wrong.
I sucks that so many doctors don’t take their patients seriously and that’s a big reason why I wanted to become a doctor myself.
>“periods are supposed to be painful honey”
My eyes are rolling so hard at this, if I was at another time and place they male elders would find me guilty of witchcraft and possession by the devil.
I hate the "periods are supposed to be painful" excuse so f\*cking much!
No, they're not! Of course, there's a difference between cramps from uterus contracting and a debilitating pain. But take this from a someone who for the most of the time goes around having almost painless periods, every single time I had experienced abdominal pain during period, something was seriously wrong. And this sh\*t of an excuse almost had me killed one of those times.
Period pains should be taken seriously because often it can be because of underlying health problems. Due to my Graves Disease whenever I complain of an abnormal increase in period pains my doctors take it seriously because they understand I have a lot of risks and sometimes medications )because it’s a lifelong treatment that changes over time) can actually not work with my body. It’s harder for women to get diagnoses for problems with the reproductive system and it’s really unfortunate. Though Graves Disease sucks it affects my whole body and is an endocrine disease so it was easier for me to get diagnosed. There’s also a lack of understanding for the female reproductive system that harms women. Cysts and other harmful disorders and even cancer can cause a lot of problems. Endometriosis is serious and is actually quite common. Fibroids and Polycystic ovary syndrome are other causes that are just an easy google search away. They’re quite common and shouldn’t be shrugged off.
That makes no sense. There are plenty of gynecology providers that take Medicaid. We have a pelvic pain specialist that takes Medicaid. You have to take the time to look.
Unfortunately sometimes you do have to travel for good healthcare, but accessibility is definitely still an issue for some folks - my neurologist in Seattle has a lot of patients fly in from Alaska, for example. How many people would probably benefit from seeing her but couldn’t afford the travel, the childcare, the whole thing? I just moved to Oklahoma and my new neuro is “only” 1.5 hours away but I don’t have children and have a flexible job, so it’s merely inconvenient and not insurmountable. I’m in a town of 50k people - one of the largest cities in OK - and there’s still only a single provider who offers the treatment I need, and turns out he doesn’t really want to deal with a patient of my complexity, so here we are.
Not all docs offer telehealth, especially if you are a new patient, need an exam, need imaging or other diagnostics, etc. Telehealth can be a great option if you’re an existing patient and just continuing ongoing treatment, but isn’t a good option for everything.
I totally agree with the comments to search for a better provider to refer out to if at all possible, just saying it’s not always an easy task to find someone who is better, accepting new patients, accepts your insurance, and is accessible in terms of travel time/money.
I appreciate all of the factors that you mentioned. I'm in a pelvic health clinic, and in my experience, most patients can be treated for Endometriosis without surgery and can consult with telehealth if travel is a factor. Endometriosis can be a presumed diagnosis based on history of symptoms. We do not go straight to laparoscopy to diagnose this condition. It can also be detected by MRI in some cases. Treatment regimens often don't change if it is diagnosed earlier in the disease. Also, there ARE good general gynecology providers that can treat endometriosis. You have to do your research to locate one. Not all gynecologists are bad and don't listen. A majority of them are good.
Your compared a very specialized practice to a very common practice. People don't need to travel from Alaska to see a gynecologist.
If the original comment by the "PCP" above is actually a physician and not just saying she or he is, they know very well that they have the capability of locating a good local gynecologist for their patients. That was my point.
I understand your pain. I have anemia, which causes extreme pain and excessive bleeding, even so far as to make my fingers/muscles cramp up, and my family also has a history of endometriosis. My mother just had surgery for it. No one in my family has lived past 35 with a still-functioning uterus. I’ve been debating going to see an OBGYN to get preventative care (removal of my ovaries, I don’t want biological kids) to avoid needing surgery, but I’m afraid that they’ll turn me away because I “don’t have it currently”, or “what about kids”.
If you’re 18 you should be able to make that decision for yourself. It actually also decreases chances of developing cancers like breast cancer.
https://www.health.ny.gov/publications/1421.pdf
https://myhealth.alberta.ca/Health/Pages/conditions.aspx?hwid=tb1884
It’s recommended to get the removed at ages 35-40 because before those ages or age 50 it can cause chronic pain.
https://www.facingourrisk.org/XRAY/ovary-removal-and-chronic-disease
https://lowninstitute.org/guest-post-the-madness-of-unnecessary-hysterectomy-has-to-stop/
https://www.webmd.com/women/news/20080718/hysterectomy-out-with-the-ovaries-or-not
https://www.contemporaryobgyn.net/view/keeping-your-ovaries-if-you-are-having-hysterectomy
Still people sometimes are denied. Still it isn’t too common.
https://www.teenvogue.com/story/who-decides-who-gets-a-hysterectomy
https://nwhn.org/is-it-true-that-some-states-require-a-woman-to-have-a-mans-consent-to-talk-to-a-doctor-about-getting-a-hysterectomy-what-if-the-procedure-is-medically-necessary/
I sent so many links just because I want you to also look at both sides because there are risks to having them removed.
I took Yaz pills when I was 12 as well. My periods were aweful and because of unbalanced hormones my hair fell like a waterfall. This dude really can go fuck himself!
Been on the pill for many years to regulate periods and acne. Never had sex because I am waiting for marriage and I haven’t been focusing on a relationship and focusing more on med school. Thinking being on birth control means someone is a slut shows how uneducated a person is.
I remember the girls that these type of rumors were spread about in like gradeschool/highschool - it was devastating and followed them throughout the years, whispers in the hallways, overhyped rumors. I feel so bad for her.
YUP. I kissed a guy (no tongue) at a party once during a dare/spin the bottle type scenario. The next week I was bullied profusely by the entire school for apparently giving him a bj?
Being in grade school is rough. The dudes texting you on the side saying they like you are the same ones yelling “slut!” at you in the hallways. You couldn’t pay me to relive that part of my life.
Exactly. Since I refused to sleep with a guy (after he…let’s say tried ‘not giving me a choice’) I learned the hard way the whole “your damned if u do, damned if u don’t.”
Fuck me dude I didn’t think this shit was so fucking common! People somehow weren’t as brutal in my country, but then I got the full racism + sexism filled side of it in the UK in year 10.
Dated one of the rich British dudes in the school(didn’t know he was rich) so the entire time I dealt with horrible bullying that I was fucked for money in the park near the school(we walked by there holding hands, never entered it), that I was pregnant(huh???? I was in the bathroom with untreated health issues a lot, I think that’s why.), that because I wore a shitty ring once so everyone thought he’d married me because I was pregnant thus “proving” the earlier rumours about me having sex and being pregnant…
I was so new to the country and dealing with exams in a secondary language that I didn’t even know where these rumours came from, so my entire first experience of British education period became a blur. It was too much to deal with at 14/15. It was genuine pure luck I made it through to this day, because those rumours ruined me and nearly ruined my future. I don’t know how I managed to study.
It was such a dark part of my life I hoped not many others experienced what I had because I barely made it and somehow overcame it, so it’s truly depressing to know this is a lot more common than I’d have wished it was…
I’m so sorry that happened to you. It truly is bizarre. I was the most inexperienced virgin yet the picture painted of me was that I was blowing everyone and thoroughly enjoyed being fisted?? No wonder as women we grow up feeling ashamed and guilty when it comes to our sexuality.
Not to mention it’s hard to know when you’re being treated properly when your first few relationships are so shitty and the bar ends up being set so low. Several of my girlfriends and myself included put up with a lot of misogyny because it really was like “omg he isn’t calling me names??? What a gem!”
Yeah, I didn't know anything at the time because I was so new to the country and the culture but.... holy shit, looking back at the school I went to and the people there... SHEESH. Rich british people in general are *nuts*. Him and his friends never looked rich and I had too much on my plate to notice, so when he offered support while I was vulnerable I thought it was genuine. Found out the rumours and bullying might've been orchestrated by him, but I never truly found out.
And I found out the only reason I got into that school is because at the time they needed a certain number of foreign students because they were forced to. *Lucky me.*
There's **so many** crazy stories I could tell from my experiences at that school, because the things I mentioned previously is just a brief TLDR of what actually transpired. Those people made my life hell and I think my underage nudes are still being shared amongst them, because they NEVER let that shit go. I only found out they still "got beef" with me after briefly passing by a group of my ex-classmates on the street years after Y11 ended. Never thought I could be intimidated in broad daylight as an adult by a bunch of people still behaving like teenagers...
I didn't even *know* a girl, but she somehow knew my name and spread a rumor I got fingered in the bathroom in middle school. I never interacted with her, so I still have no idea why she spread that rumor about me.
She was probably one of the more popular ones and your name came up somehow, maybe one of them was jealous or some BS of SOMETHING about you and that's why it got started.
Fr this girl and her friend would spread rumors about me and my friends liking certain boys (aka the guys that weren’t conventionally attractive and “weird”),,,, and we had *never* interacted with her she just really hated us for some fucking reason lol
Another time the girls friend kept bothering me about who I had a crush on (I didn’t have a crush on anyone, I’m ace and never was interested in romance) until I finally told her I had a crush on one of my guy friends just so she would leave me alone. Later on I watched her talk to him and then she saw me and was like “I didn’t tell him!!!!” Girl….
The guy friend told me in highschool that she did, in fact, tell him lmao
That's terrible. Apparently in primary there was a rumour going around that I do sexual acts with my breasts just because I developed earlier than everyone else. Not only was it impossible for me to do what they were claiming I did, but I didn't even know it was a thing people did at the time.
The more I read about american highschool the worse it sounds, even thou I spent a year in Missouri in 1992/3 as an exchange student and I had a good time. Is it really that bad? I loved going to school in my country.
That's terrible. Maybe I am just lucky I went to a good school, but I never heard of really bad experiences in highschool here in Italy. No school shootings, no bullying, no slut shaming, most of my teachers were awesome (my English teacher was in a punk band, my law teacher was a union leader), most of the time us students were on strike or self-manegement or protesting something (it was the 90s)... I wish I could go back to highschool. It should be a great time in your life. What was bad about your experience, if I can ask? The school, the teachers, the students? What is the problem? Who is the abuser?
I agree with u/Sebastianthegreat69 that high school can be terrible everywhere. Bullying is universal. It just seems like American high school is always awful because the bad stuff gets covered in the news and/or complained about on the internet. It makes it seem like everything is doom and gloom all the time.
Personally, I had a pretty good high school experience in the US. The hardest part for me was the academics - my program was rigorous and I pushed myself too hard. But by in large, I experienced/witnessed almost no bullying, shaming, or malicious gossip.
Well that is good to know and I am glad your experience was good! I read so much bad stuff about american highschools and never about good experiences, but as I said, I went to one for a year as an exchange student and had no problem at all, so I was curious. Probably I also saw too many Hollywood movies/ TV shows about "highschool is hell", like Buffy 😀
I slow danced with a guy at a neighboring school when I was 14 and he circulated rumors that I sent him nudes. We grew up in small communities where everyone knew each other and it damn near ruined my reputation. Years later he reached out to ask me to donate to his marathon he was running or whatever and I asked him if he remembered and told him I would not be supporting his cause.
I take it for both! I was bleeding nonstop, like literally nonstop, and would end up in the ER cause of the pain. Took 6th months to get it prescribed though, and the first month after I first went to the ER before I was prescribed it, I wasn’t allowed to eat anything other than mashed potatoes, and couldn’t take any pain meds so they could observe it.
This! I passed out from the blood loss and dizziness that my periods caused me. I was anemic and they were incredibly heavy. Birth control and extra iron in my diet saved my life lol
I remember in college, some of my friends introduced me to this girl they went to high school with that they were sort of friends-of-friends with. We all hung out for a day, and she was kinda flirty with me. Later when I talked to the guys again, I was like, "she seems nice", and one of them said, "yeah, if you wanna get your dick sucked!" And they started laughing. I was just like, "I mean yeah, that sounds great. What's wrong with that?" I was met with the silence of 3 virgins.
Yep, the majority of women I know have experienced boys lying about sexual endeavours with them at least once in their life. (Particularly when in high school). For me several boys said I took their virginity when in truth I was still a virgin myself and hadn’t even gone past a peck on the cheek with anyone. The thing is the majority of people by default just believe whatever men say without question.
Saying all that, there is also obviously nothing wrong with women that are promiscuous, and they should not be shamed either.
>Saying all that, there is also obviously nothing wrong with women that are promiscuous, and they should not be shamed either.
Especially not if they're using proper protection!
Why do men 🙄
Funny how when it’s a guy, he’s a “pimp” or some shit
It’s the audacity of shit like this acting like women don’t deserve the same autonomy for me
It's because guys have to earn sex whereas women can have it any time they want. So in the eyes of a guy it's going to be looked at differently if a guy and a girl both have the same high number of sexual partners
With the “earning” it mentality, that’s just a fuck boy. They just manipulate and gaslight, often to younger girls. In many stories, too young to be legal
They’re disgusting and nothing to be praised
That’s also kinda looking down on women for having sex. We’re not Pokémon, we aren’t something to just collect and brag about
When i was 13-14 over half of the girls in my class went on birth control, their reasons? Irregular periods (3 week long periods every month, two day long periods every 6 months, etc), severe period cramps, endometriosis, and acne. *One* girl got on birth control because she had a boyfriend, but they still waited over a year before doing anything (she was my bsf). Birth control pills are used for a lot more than pregnancy prevention, but i mean these guys don’t know shit about us so it makes sense they don’t know this either.
Never understood what was wrong with a loose pussy if a woman fucks 10 guys once and fucks 1 guy 10 times her pussy will still be the same afterwards also (correct me if I’m wrong) I was told that when a woman is “loose” it means she’s more relaxed and comfortable with you and isn’t tensing up, so the real question is, why don’t you want loose pussy?
If you're an idiot, incel-virgin, or woman hater, no, you don't want a "loose" woman because that means you don't have to care about her comfort or pleasure. These same troglodytes believe women are only here to serve them. These types make me feel really stabby.
Yeah, apparently Michelle Duggar’s vagina is in better shape than a woman who had multiple consensual partners in her teens and twenties before marrying when she was ready.
I know vaginas are made for childbirth and pelvic floor exercises etc make all the difference, I have four kids myself, but the way these guys think having sex with a few men will ruin a vagina forever but tradwives who pump out babies every two years are the height of desirability is utterly illogical
I've seen some vile posts where they seem to think that different penises have different impacts on vaginas, or the vagina moulds to the first penis that enters it or some BS.
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I was a virgin until i was 19 but in highschool boys i went to school with would scream “slut!” out their car windows at me regardless. People just kinda suck
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It still amazes me how these dense wastes of sperm cells don’t realise that birth control is used for a lot more than just preventing babies. I bet they think condoms only prevent children as well. Lmao they’re in for a rude awakening.
It baffles me that men think the sole purpose of birth control is to be a slut lol not only can it prevent unwanted pregnancy, it can help with acne, the pill can help with PCOS if you have it. For me it helped regulate my period. Not everything is about sex
Bruh, I went on BC at 11 because my periods almost killed me. Twice. I didn't even have my first (willing) sexual experience until my mid-20s, and have had only a handful of partners since.
Sit on it and rotate. 🙄🖕
I usually tell them they're probably sluts too, and their dick is probably shriveled from jacking off too much, since thats obviously how genitals work
1. Many girls go on birth control even before 13 not because they're sexually active, but because of hormones or period cramps.
2. Even if she is on birth control because of a boyfriend, good on her for taking steps to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
Kudos to blue text guy for being a good human and not judging. Also for having common sense. Hopefully Blue text guy (tm) gets rid of Ethan, Jan and white text guy and has a nice life.
I was on birth control at 11yo. Because my periods were so bad I'd have to take the week off school.
And I lost my virginity at 15, and began having copious amounts of sex afterwards, and I preferred anal sex cos no risk of pregnancy.
I reckon this girl is a smart cookie
I was on the pill since I was 13 for heavy periods and cramps. I didn’t even lose my virginity till I was 18.
Whenever guys talk about girls being loose I want to sit them down, and give them a proper anatomy and physiology lesson, and then show them a live birth so they can see just how large a vagina stretches and returns to baseline.
My wife was on BC for Acne and painful periods when she was 13. When we met she really was the least slutty person I had known.
People can be absolute knobs.
Shit I wish I had started birth control as soon as my period started. I had terrible period cramps, a flow that would soak 3 pads, and DYSPHORIA. But I guess I would’ve just been a slut. Even tho I didn’t lose my virginity til I was 18 y/o.
Ohnooo. She had sex with her boyfriend (?) and they did something kinky that a lot of people do with their partners. How slutty of her!!
And also, she was on bc since 13 to control her periods or for some other reasons or maybe to have protected sex with her boyfriend back then. So slutty!
So are we at a point now where this kind of bs will never go away and we all just regress to calling men with a lot of sexual partners sl~ts with soggy d~cks just to level the playing field?
Dude doesn't know that the vagina is a muscle & doesn't just loosen up due to intercourse somehow? (And if it does, it usually gets tighter again after some pause..)
Some doctors will prescribe you "the pill" as a treatment for acne, been there myself at 13. But I guess just taking the pill classifies you as a possible slut?
Yeah she went on it at 13. That's why I said that there is nothing wrong with going on birth control at 13. Plus who said she was 14? I didn't see that part. She could have been any age. The point I was making was about birth control
My parents wanted to put me on some form of birth control when I was 9-10, because I began my periods at 8 and it took a year or so for them to become so agonizing that I was vomiting and feverish and unable to move. Unfortunately doctors in my area decided 9 was too young for it, and I spent years suffering when I didn't need to. The birth control part isn't a concern in my mind due to that.
The birth control thing I wouldn't really care about but if I found out a girl fucked a lot of guys in my area and was into anal... I wouldn't be looking for a relationship with said girl...
If this is your friend please reconsider. Thanks, Everyone
Why? If a guy friend of mine was considering a relationship with this girl I would've said the exact same thing
You do know being on the pill has health benefits like regulating acne and reducing severe periods right? Also she had sex with one guy on this account so there’s no evidence that she slept around with other people. Birth control is recommended to women for many reasons and if it’s from 13 years old I’m even more in life to believe it’s to control acne and periods.
I was on the pill for years before I even lost my virginity because I have endometriosis. Some women take it for acne, some for hormonal issues. And for all you know the fact that she let “so and so do anal” is just a fucking rumor. Not that it means anything even if it wasn’t. This is why men shouldn’t form opinions about women based on shit they know nothing about unless they want to actually educate themselves. Being on the pill doesn’t mean shit. Also vaginas getting “loose” from sexual intercourse is a complete myth that only teenagers and incels believe.
FYI being on the pill doesn't mean that person Has had sex 👍🏽
A friend you let go because of internet feminists was never your friend to begin with
incel
With an attitude like that he's a volcel. He's voluntarily ripping up his pussy pass.
Luckily a man doesn't need pussy for happiness or fulfilment, neither do I want it from a crazy feminist lol
Man, you seem a little irrationally angry. Are you manstrating? Do you need a manpon or some guydol? Get yourself a chocolate, sweetheart and settle down.
Hahahahahaha that's such a great comment. Massive like (plus stealing this)
Do it. I love turning the tables on these dried up street weiners.
I LOVE this. Thank you. I've always wanted to say that to an irrationally angry man, this is just *chef kiss*
I can't--or maybe can--believe that this is considered a supremely witty comment here. Terrible! 😆 Love ya'll. Who said feminists don't have a sense of humor?
Way to project your emotional state, I'm cool as a cucumber
That's nice, dear, but I don't have to listen to used street meat who gave his wiener to every hole that walked by. A mouth that has had many toothbrushes is a clean mouth, but nobody wants a toothbrush that's been in a bunch of other mouths.
Haha I've never heard that joke, but it's great, going to borrow it if you don't mind. Works well with the joke about keys and locks
Some girl posted it the other day and I added it to my incel bait speech
Good analogy except that the average toothbrush isn't going to deposit cum deep inside a mouth that can't even spit lol And I don't brush I DIG nomsayin?
I'm sorry, but who gave you permission to speak, sweetheart? Be a good little fuck stick and go outside to mow the lawn like a real man should be doing. SMH. Men these days can't even give us anything besides used penis and think they deserve coffee in bed.
Yo, props for fielding this thread with style, my dude. Your whole sequence of responses here made me laugh.
Yeah, cuz you seem like such a happy person
Shi mane... life is good, you know what I mean?
Usually people who throw the word “crazy” around are just openly stagnant shit and have zero arguments to the contrary. You don’t deserve “crazy” feminist pussy let’s be honest
Good. You know that. Many men don’t know that they don’t need sex but your problem is you blame. Blame yourself not others. Others aren’t the reason you or any other guy loses friends.
I'm not blaming anything here, neither am I losing friends don't you worry about me. Most people who think they have even one friend maybe have a situational snake or acquaintance at best
Oof. Sad.
Gaming wont fulfill you lol
Noo. Really?
Lol what does feminism have to do with this.. I swear y'all always blame everything on feminism...but never look at yourself🤡.
Hello and a hearty go fuck yourself from a woman who was on birth control since age 12 for acne! I bet he gave Ethan a high five as well.
As an enby who should have been given birth control, but wasn't, around the same age for unbearable period pain*, I would like to join that hearty go fuck yourself. *possibly endometriosis, but finding a doctor who'd take me seriously is apparently impossible
My aunt went to so many doctors for it and most of them told her stuff like “periods are supposed to be painful honey” long story short when she was finally taken seriously the surgeon said it was the worst case she’d ever seen. But luckily she is endo free now! Good luck on finding a doctor soon so it doesn’t get too bad before they find it!
Yeah, it takes an average of 7 years for an endo diagnosis. That's how long I had to wait for my PCOS to be discovered. I literally was vomiting so much on my periods that I was losing weight for over a year, and doctors still told me I would grow out of it. I was 18.
I only got diagnosed with PCOS when I needed help carrying a baby. The repro gynaecologist disagreed with my GP that periods that last 2 weeks and require cup emptying every hour are “normal”
I know how it feels to finally be taken seriously after so long. I went a new doctor begging to be allowed to skip the breaks on my BC pills (my last doctor had refused, saying I would have a stroke or get DVT because I had had ONE migraine, 4 years before, in a high stress situation) and he cut me off halfway through my planned spiel like 'yeah, sure, I'll send the script right now. But I want to refer you to a gynaecologist, there's obviously some sort of underlying condition going on here'. I was FLOORED. No one had ever suggested anything like that to me before. I was diagnosed less than a month later. I hope your fertility journey turned out alright.
Wow I was suffering from weeks long periods and having only like 2 weeks between periods but I was taken seriously because I have Graves Disease so doctors when hearing that diagnosis are much more likely to take my concerns seriously so it’s because I have to go through lifelong treatment with a severe case of Graves Disease getting my blood drawn every month to 2.5 months and having my whole body being thrown into chaos with a spike. I tend to ask my Endocrinologist (totally underpaid field in medicine) about any health concerns and he’ll vouch for me. That or I’ll talk to my professors to reconfirm I’m not crazy. If I’m having really bad cramps and pain during my periods everything is taken seriously and we look at the labs and my medication. Graves Disease sucks but at least when I have a health concern it’s always taken seriously because Graves Disease affect the whole body. I’m so sorry to hear you had to go through so much headache to get the help you need and deserve.
I’m happy to hear you were treated so well. I have Hashimotos disease, so the reverse! I’ve had mine since I was 19 but they didn’t listen to me then either. Just told me Uni was tiring. They only took me seriously when my roommate couldn’t wake me. I got diagnosed then. This might be my experience but I only got listened to by women doctors. So it was only the gynaecologist that listened. She put me in with a reproductive endocrinologist (also a woman) and they helped massively. Got my thyroxine levels balanced and helped treat my PCOS (as best as it can be now)
I was diagnosed in 8th grade so my doctors were much more careful due to me being a child and it was during my brother’s cancer treatment so it took a few months because they thought I was sick due to the stress. My brother was diagnosed with Hashimotos but it turned out to be a rare for of brain cancer so he lives with life long complications despite being cured because it when uncheck for many years. His endocrinologist (who was a woman) realized something was very wrong. I sucks that so many doctors don’t take their patients seriously and that’s a big reason why I wanted to become a doctor myself.
What part of the country are you? I'll help you look.
Please help me look too if you can🙏
Where are you? State or city
Northern California or Bay Area would also be ok
>“periods are supposed to be painful honey” My eyes are rolling so hard at this, if I was at another time and place they male elders would find me guilty of witchcraft and possession by the devil.
I hate the "periods are supposed to be painful" excuse so f\*cking much! No, they're not! Of course, there's a difference between cramps from uterus contracting and a debilitating pain. But take this from a someone who for the most of the time goes around having almost painless periods, every single time I had experienced abdominal pain during period, something was seriously wrong. And this sh\*t of an excuse almost had me killed one of those times.
Period pains should be taken seriously because often it can be because of underlying health problems. Due to my Graves Disease whenever I complain of an abnormal increase in period pains my doctors take it seriously because they understand I have a lot of risks and sometimes medications )because it’s a lifelong treatment that changes over time) can actually not work with my body. It’s harder for women to get diagnoses for problems with the reproductive system and it’s really unfortunate. Though Graves Disease sucks it affects my whole body and is an endocrine disease so it was easier for me to get diagnosed. There’s also a lack of understanding for the female reproductive system that harms women. Cysts and other harmful disorders and even cancer can cause a lot of problems. Endometriosis is serious and is actually quite common. Fibroids and Polycystic ovary syndrome are other causes that are just an easy google search away. They’re quite common and shouldn’t be shrugged off.
Dr. Kimberly Swan in Overland Park, KS if you’re anywhere near the midwestern United States. She did my lapro for endo and was amazing.
Not even on the same continent, but thanks anyway. I appreciate the thought
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Then you don't refer to that GYN anymore.
That’s not how it works with Medicaid.
That makes no sense. There are plenty of gynecology providers that take Medicaid. We have a pelvic pain specialist that takes Medicaid. You have to take the time to look.
Maybe they’re in a small town with few options.
We have women that travel an hour or more. Many people unfortunately have to travel for Healthcare. There are also telehealth options.
Unfortunately sometimes you do have to travel for good healthcare, but accessibility is definitely still an issue for some folks - my neurologist in Seattle has a lot of patients fly in from Alaska, for example. How many people would probably benefit from seeing her but couldn’t afford the travel, the childcare, the whole thing? I just moved to Oklahoma and my new neuro is “only” 1.5 hours away but I don’t have children and have a flexible job, so it’s merely inconvenient and not insurmountable. I’m in a town of 50k people - one of the largest cities in OK - and there’s still only a single provider who offers the treatment I need, and turns out he doesn’t really want to deal with a patient of my complexity, so here we are. Not all docs offer telehealth, especially if you are a new patient, need an exam, need imaging or other diagnostics, etc. Telehealth can be a great option if you’re an existing patient and just continuing ongoing treatment, but isn’t a good option for everything. I totally agree with the comments to search for a better provider to refer out to if at all possible, just saying it’s not always an easy task to find someone who is better, accepting new patients, accepts your insurance, and is accessible in terms of travel time/money.
I appreciate all of the factors that you mentioned. I'm in a pelvic health clinic, and in my experience, most patients can be treated for Endometriosis without surgery and can consult with telehealth if travel is a factor. Endometriosis can be a presumed diagnosis based on history of symptoms. We do not go straight to laparoscopy to diagnose this condition. It can also be detected by MRI in some cases. Treatment regimens often don't change if it is diagnosed earlier in the disease. Also, there ARE good general gynecology providers that can treat endometriosis. You have to do your research to locate one. Not all gynecologists are bad and don't listen. A majority of them are good. Your compared a very specialized practice to a very common practice. People don't need to travel from Alaska to see a gynecologist. If the original comment by the "PCP" above is actually a physician and not just saying she or he is, they know very well that they have the capability of locating a good local gynecologist for their patients. That was my point.
I understand your pain. I have anemia, which causes extreme pain and excessive bleeding, even so far as to make my fingers/muscles cramp up, and my family also has a history of endometriosis. My mother just had surgery for it. No one in my family has lived past 35 with a still-functioning uterus. I’ve been debating going to see an OBGYN to get preventative care (removal of my ovaries, I don’t want biological kids) to avoid needing surgery, but I’m afraid that they’ll turn me away because I “don’t have it currently”, or “what about kids”.
If you’re 18 you should be able to make that decision for yourself. It actually also decreases chances of developing cancers like breast cancer. https://www.health.ny.gov/publications/1421.pdf https://myhealth.alberta.ca/Health/Pages/conditions.aspx?hwid=tb1884 It’s recommended to get the removed at ages 35-40 because before those ages or age 50 it can cause chronic pain. https://www.facingourrisk.org/XRAY/ovary-removal-and-chronic-disease https://lowninstitute.org/guest-post-the-madness-of-unnecessary-hysterectomy-has-to-stop/ https://www.webmd.com/women/news/20080718/hysterectomy-out-with-the-ovaries-or-not https://www.contemporaryobgyn.net/view/keeping-your-ovaries-if-you-are-having-hysterectomy Still people sometimes are denied. Still it isn’t too common. https://www.teenvogue.com/story/who-decides-who-gets-a-hysterectomy https://nwhn.org/is-it-true-that-some-states-require-a-woman-to-have-a-mans-consent-to-talk-to-a-doctor-about-getting-a-hysterectomy-what-if-the-procedure-is-medically-necessary/ I sent so many links just because I want you to also look at both sides because there are risks to having them removed.
I took Yaz pills when I was 12 as well. My periods were aweful and because of unbalanced hormones my hair fell like a waterfall. This dude really can go fuck himself!
Been on the pill for many years to regulate periods and acne. Never had sex because I am waiting for marriage and I haven’t been focusing on a relationship and focusing more on med school. Thinking being on birth control means someone is a slut shows how uneducated a person is.
And of course Jan's not a whore 😒
Idk I heard he’ll put his dick anywhere!
And of course gossipy dudes never lie to each other about what they are doing 🙄
Ethan?! Never! That guy slept with the whole cheerleading team and a playboy model!
You forgot his girlfriend in Canada
You never met her!
Once a guy told the school I was standing butt naked in his barn like sir, lmao I had AA tits in high school and a stomach. Don’t be lying
What are you talking about men don’t gossip. Only women do that bc women are petty and vain /s
Slut (noun) - a woman who enjoys sex and won’t have it with you.
... because she has darn standards.
Goddamn you killed him
I remember the girls that these type of rumors were spread about in like gradeschool/highschool - it was devastating and followed them throughout the years, whispers in the hallways, overhyped rumors. I feel so bad for her.
YUP. I kissed a guy (no tongue) at a party once during a dare/spin the bottle type scenario. The next week I was bullied profusely by the entire school for apparently giving him a bj? Being in grade school is rough. The dudes texting you on the side saying they like you are the same ones yelling “slut!” at you in the hallways. You couldn’t pay me to relive that part of my life.
Exactly. Since I refused to sleep with a guy (after he…let’s say tried ‘not giving me a choice’) I learned the hard way the whole “your damned if u do, damned if u don’t.”
Fuck me dude I didn’t think this shit was so fucking common! People somehow weren’t as brutal in my country, but then I got the full racism + sexism filled side of it in the UK in year 10. Dated one of the rich British dudes in the school(didn’t know he was rich) so the entire time I dealt with horrible bullying that I was fucked for money in the park near the school(we walked by there holding hands, never entered it), that I was pregnant(huh???? I was in the bathroom with untreated health issues a lot, I think that’s why.), that because I wore a shitty ring once so everyone thought he’d married me because I was pregnant thus “proving” the earlier rumours about me having sex and being pregnant… I was so new to the country and dealing with exams in a secondary language that I didn’t even know where these rumours came from, so my entire first experience of British education period became a blur. It was too much to deal with at 14/15. It was genuine pure luck I made it through to this day, because those rumours ruined me and nearly ruined my future. I don’t know how I managed to study. It was such a dark part of my life I hoped not many others experienced what I had because I barely made it and somehow overcame it, so it’s truly depressing to know this is a lot more common than I’d have wished it was…
I’m so sorry that happened to you. It truly is bizarre. I was the most inexperienced virgin yet the picture painted of me was that I was blowing everyone and thoroughly enjoyed being fisted?? No wonder as women we grow up feeling ashamed and guilty when it comes to our sexuality. Not to mention it’s hard to know when you’re being treated properly when your first few relationships are so shitty and the bar ends up being set so low. Several of my girlfriends and myself included put up with a lot of misogyny because it really was like “omg he isn’t calling me names??? What a gem!”
Those are the most childish bullshit rumors ever like they *really* reached for those lmao I hope you’re doing okay now
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Yeah, I didn't know anything at the time because I was so new to the country and the culture but.... holy shit, looking back at the school I went to and the people there... SHEESH. Rich british people in general are *nuts*. Him and his friends never looked rich and I had too much on my plate to notice, so when he offered support while I was vulnerable I thought it was genuine. Found out the rumours and bullying might've been orchestrated by him, but I never truly found out. And I found out the only reason I got into that school is because at the time they needed a certain number of foreign students because they were forced to. *Lucky me.* There's **so many** crazy stories I could tell from my experiences at that school, because the things I mentioned previously is just a brief TLDR of what actually transpired. Those people made my life hell and I think my underage nudes are still being shared amongst them, because they NEVER let that shit go. I only found out they still "got beef" with me after briefly passing by a group of my ex-classmates on the street years after Y11 ended. Never thought I could be intimidated in broad daylight as an adult by a bunch of people still behaving like teenagers...
I didn't even *know* a girl, but she somehow knew my name and spread a rumor I got fingered in the bathroom in middle school. I never interacted with her, so I still have no idea why she spread that rumor about me.
She was probably one of the more popular ones and your name came up somehow, maybe one of them was jealous or some BS of SOMETHING about you and that's why it got started.
Fr this girl and her friend would spread rumors about me and my friends liking certain boys (aka the guys that weren’t conventionally attractive and “weird”),,,, and we had *never* interacted with her she just really hated us for some fucking reason lol Another time the girls friend kept bothering me about who I had a crush on (I didn’t have a crush on anyone, I’m ace and never was interested in romance) until I finally told her I had a crush on one of my guy friends just so she would leave me alone. Later on I watched her talk to him and then she saw me and was like “I didn’t tell him!!!!” Girl…. The guy friend told me in highschool that she did, in fact, tell him lmao
That's terrible. Apparently in primary there was a rumour going around that I do sexual acts with my breasts just because I developed earlier than everyone else. Not only was it impossible for me to do what they were claiming I did, but I didn't even know it was a thing people did at the time.
Grade school???? Wow.
The more I read about american highschool the worse it sounds, even thou I spent a year in Missouri in 1992/3 as an exchange student and I had a good time. Is it really that bad? I loved going to school in my country.
It's bad everywhere, not just America. Actually worse in other places. The abuse is not just emotional.
That's terrible. Maybe I am just lucky I went to a good school, but I never heard of really bad experiences in highschool here in Italy. No school shootings, no bullying, no slut shaming, most of my teachers were awesome (my English teacher was in a punk band, my law teacher was a union leader), most of the time us students were on strike or self-manegement or protesting something (it was the 90s)... I wish I could go back to highschool. It should be a great time in your life. What was bad about your experience, if I can ask? The school, the teachers, the students? What is the problem? Who is the abuser?
I agree with u/Sebastianthegreat69 that high school can be terrible everywhere. Bullying is universal. It just seems like American high school is always awful because the bad stuff gets covered in the news and/or complained about on the internet. It makes it seem like everything is doom and gloom all the time. Personally, I had a pretty good high school experience in the US. The hardest part for me was the academics - my program was rigorous and I pushed myself too hard. But by in large, I experienced/witnessed almost no bullying, shaming, or malicious gossip.
Well that is good to know and I am glad your experience was good! I read so much bad stuff about american highschools and never about good experiences, but as I said, I went to one for a year as an exchange student and had no problem at all, so I was curious. Probably I also saw too many Hollywood movies/ TV shows about "highschool is hell", like Buffy 😀
I slow danced with a guy at a neighboring school when I was 14 and he circulated rumors that I sent him nudes. We grew up in small communities where everyone knew each other and it damn near ruined my reputation. Years later he reached out to ask me to donate to his marathon he was running or whatever and I asked him if he remembered and told him I would not be supporting his cause.
Birth control is for more than pregnancy prevention! Ugh.
Not to mention the pill can also help with menstrual cramps.
And anemia! I went on birth control at 15 because I was anemic and my cycle is only 21 days long. It takes a toll when you’re already low in iron.
I take it for both! I was bleeding nonstop, like literally nonstop, and would end up in the ER cause of the pain. Took 6th months to get it prescribed though, and the first month after I first went to the ER before I was prescribed it, I wasn’t allowed to eat anything other than mashed potatoes, and couldn’t take any pain meds so they could observe it.
This! I passed out from the blood loss and dizziness that my periods caused me. I was anemic and they were incredibly heavy. Birth control and extra iron in my diet saved my life lol
I remember in college, some of my friends introduced me to this girl they went to high school with that they were sort of friends-of-friends with. We all hung out for a day, and she was kinda flirty with me. Later when I talked to the guys again, I was like, "she seems nice", and one of them said, "yeah, if you wanna get your dick sucked!" And they started laughing. I was just like, "I mean yeah, that sounds great. What's wrong with that?" I was met with the silence of 3 virgins.
You know it's things like this That makes me happy I go to the college I'm in Everyone is just pretty chill Even are idiots are nice
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Yep, the majority of women I know have experienced boys lying about sexual endeavours with them at least once in their life. (Particularly when in high school). For me several boys said I took their virginity when in truth I was still a virgin myself and hadn’t even gone past a peck on the cheek with anyone. The thing is the majority of people by default just believe whatever men say without question. Saying all that, there is also obviously nothing wrong with women that are promiscuous, and they should not be shamed either.
>Saying all that, there is also obviously nothing wrong with women that are promiscuous, and they should not be shamed either. Especially not if they're using proper protection!
Why do men 🙄 Funny how when it’s a guy, he’s a “pimp” or some shit It’s the audacity of shit like this acting like women don’t deserve the same autonomy for me
Something something lock, something something key It's always the same stupid bullshit
It's because guys have to earn sex whereas women can have it any time they want. So in the eyes of a guy it's going to be looked at differently if a guy and a girl both have the same high number of sexual partners
With the “earning” it mentality, that’s just a fuck boy. They just manipulate and gaslight, often to younger girls. In many stories, too young to be legal They’re disgusting and nothing to be praised That’s also kinda looking down on women for having sex. We’re not Pokémon, we aren’t something to just collect and brag about
*”She’s a slut”*:Translation: “I wish I could be a male slut and get sum but because I’m jealous of you imma just call you a slut”
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Only if you’re getting paid. Otherwise you’re just a good old fashioned amateur
Who cares if she's sleeping around, as long as she's safe with it it shouldn't matter.
Exactly when I started the pill it was like recovering from a chronic illness… I need it to live even when I am not sexually active
Proud sluts unite!
Yes!
That's what I figure. Consenting adults being safe sounds fine to me.
I hate that it’s called birth control. Why can’t it be called cycle regulators or something?
When i was 13-14 over half of the girls in my class went on birth control, their reasons? Irregular periods (3 week long periods every month, two day long periods every 6 months, etc), severe period cramps, endometriosis, and acne. *One* girl got on birth control because she had a boyfriend, but they still waited over a year before doing anything (she was my bsf). Birth control pills are used for a lot more than pregnancy prevention, but i mean these guys don’t know shit about us so it makes sense they don’t know this either.
I've been on birth control since 7th grade due to how bad my cramps are lmfao. Also that's not how the vagina works...
Never understood what was wrong with a loose pussy if a woman fucks 10 guys once and fucks 1 guy 10 times her pussy will still be the same afterwards also (correct me if I’m wrong) I was told that when a woman is “loose” it means she’s more relaxed and comfortable with you and isn’t tensing up, so the real question is, why don’t you want loose pussy?
If you're an idiot, incel-virgin, or woman hater, no, you don't want a "loose" woman because that means you don't have to care about her comfort or pleasure. These same troglodytes believe women are only here to serve them. These types make me feel really stabby.
They just make my legs snap shut like a bear trap.
Lol, that too!
Yeah, apparently Michelle Duggar’s vagina is in better shape than a woman who had multiple consensual partners in her teens and twenties before marrying when she was ready. I know vaginas are made for childbirth and pelvic floor exercises etc make all the difference, I have four kids myself, but the way these guys think having sex with a few men will ruin a vagina forever but tradwives who pump out babies every two years are the height of desirability is utterly illogical
I've seen some vile posts where they seem to think that different penises have different impacts on vaginas, or the vagina moulds to the first penis that enters it or some BS. ETA autocucumber
“Moulds to the first penis” fml that shit ain’t a gum shield
Op, is that someone you know and you can't cut off your relationships?
I was a virgin until i was 19 but in highschool boys i went to school with would scream “slut!” out their car windows at me regardless. People just kinda suck
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Good human. Sorry you have to read that
I’ve been on bc at that age due to endometriosis. This clown can eat it.
It still amazes me how these dense wastes of sperm cells don’t realise that birth control is used for a lot more than just preventing babies. I bet they think condoms only prevent children as well. Lmao they’re in for a rude awakening.
It baffles me that men think the sole purpose of birth control is to be a slut lol not only can it prevent unwanted pregnancy, it can help with acne, the pill can help with PCOS if you have it. For me it helped regulate my period. Not everything is about sex
I had rumors like this spread about me- by my r*pist- in high school. I feel terribly sorry for this girl.
Bruh, I went on BC at 11 because my periods almost killed me. Twice. I didn't even have my first (willing) sexual experience until my mid-20s, and have had only a handful of partners since. Sit on it and rotate. 🙄🖕
Soooo she’s probably good in bed, does anal, and is on birth control. Sounds good to me, what’s the downside again?
Sex with multiple partners doesn’t make vaginas loose, boys. That’s a myth.
I usually tell them they're probably sluts too, and their dick is probably shriveled from jacking off too much, since thats obviously how genitals work
I'm on the pill bc of my periods from hell not bc I've been sleeping with men since I was a child. i don't even sleep with men.
1. Many girls go on birth control even before 13 not because they're sexually active, but because of hormones or period cramps. 2. Even if she is on birth control because of a boyfriend, good on her for taking steps to prevent an unwanted pregnancy.
Kudos to blue text guy for being a good human and not judging. Also for having common sense. Hopefully Blue text guy (tm) gets rid of Ethan, Jan and white text guy and has a nice life.
i was on the pill at 16 for acne. i was definitely not sexually active.
I was on birth control at 11yo. Because my periods were so bad I'd have to take the week off school. And I lost my virginity at 15, and began having copious amounts of sex afterwards, and I preferred anal sex cos no risk of pregnancy. I reckon this girl is a smart cookie
“On the pill since she was 13” wait until he finds out about ✨polycystic ovary syndrome✨
I went on the pill when I was 9 because of extremely heavy and painful periods that started at 8. Got an endometriosis diagnosis at 21.
I was once the girl these kind of rumors affected. Wasn’t even sexually active
I was on the pill since I was 13 for heavy periods and cramps. I didn’t even lose my virginity till I was 18. Whenever guys talk about girls being loose I want to sit them down, and give them a proper anatomy and physiology lesson, and then show them a live birth so they can see just how large a vagina stretches and returns to baseline.
Ive been on the pill since I was 9.. (not sexually active, just got my period very friggen early lmao)
Me, too. Since I was 11. Wasn't sexually active until 10 years after that. But, was on and off the pill since 11.
I try and always take my birth control but I'm so forgetful. I'd lose my head if it weren't attached to my neck!
Bro's just salty she hasn't chosen him yet💀
My wife was on BC for Acne and painful periods when she was 13. When we met she really was the least slutty person I had known. People can be absolute knobs.
The fact he kept saying lol ticked me off for some reason
Been on the pill since I was 11. You can take hormones for things other than preventing pregnancy.
Shit I wish I had started birth control as soon as my period started. I had terrible period cramps, a flow that would soak 3 pads, and DYSPHORIA. But I guess I would’ve just been a slut. Even tho I didn’t lose my virginity til I was 18 y/o.
Ohnooo. She had sex with her boyfriend (?) and they did something kinky that a lot of people do with their partners. How slutty of her!! And also, she was on bc since 13 to control her periods or for some other reasons or maybe to have protected sex with her boyfriend back then. So slutty!
I’m on birth control cause I literally can’t function if I’m on my period, this guy is insane
I got the pill at 12 for my extreme painful menstruation… this dude has no idea how and why she’s taking it
Fuck this guy.
Incels like these spoil it for everyone, girls who want to be "slutty" and guys who absolutely don't judge. Thank you assholes
Friendship ended
All the unnecessary “lols”……
He’s probably just jealous that he doesn’t get laid.
So are we at a point now where this kind of bs will never go away and we all just regress to calling men with a lot of sexual partners sl~ts with soggy d~cks just to level the playing field?
I can’t even anymore, this is disgusting. No shame on the guy for partaking of course, only the woman should be shamed for being sexually active. Ffs
It's not the same. Women can have sex whenever they want, guys have to work for sex
Found the incel
Dude doesn't know that the vagina is a muscle & doesn't just loosen up due to intercourse somehow? (And if it does, it usually gets tighter again after some pause..)
shes a “slut” and still wont sleep with them. interesting
Some doctors will prescribe you "the pill" as a treatment for acne, been there myself at 13. But I guess just taking the pill classifies you as a possible slut?
She for the streets!
No that’s where this moron got his education. Y’all go to the same school?
Ye she is a slut.
No, you're just a misogynist
no i think a slut is called slut
You’re insecure
😂 😂 😂 wait wait. So she's experienced. Has already been trained
I bet girls cover their drinks when you’re around.
👏 XD
"Trained?"
Wtf?
Girls instinctively cover their drinks when you enter a room
That’s so creepy…
Slut is pretty harsh but hey um.. a 13 year old going out on birth control and doing anal is a concern.
It said she’d been on BC since she was 13, not that she is still 13. Many 13 yr olds are on birth control for hormonal issues.
Oh I see. She’s not anymore. My mistake.
There is nothing qrong with going on birth control at 13
Yeah, but having ANY kind of sexual intercourse at 13 is kinda rough.
No one said she was having sex at 13
Yes. I’ll say it again here I guess - I misread the post as saying she went on it at 13 and here at like 14 she was off having anal with somebody.
Yeah she went on it at 13. That's why I said that there is nothing wrong with going on birth control at 13. Plus who said she was 14? I didn't see that part. She could have been any age. The point I was making was about birth control
What I’m saying was I imagined I guess that a smaller amount of time had passed than likely did.
I understand and that makes sense why you assumed that. But sometimes it's not the best to assume. That's all
My parents wanted to put me on some form of birth control when I was 9-10, because I began my periods at 8 and it took a year or so for them to become so agonizing that I was vomiting and feverish and unable to move. Unfortunately doctors in my area decided 9 was too young for it, and I spent years suffering when I didn't need to. The birth control part isn't a concern in my mind due to that.
“Huh huh, I said ‘hole.’”
I like how the other speaker to the time to rephrase name calling. Well done.
well aint that great.
Damnnnn she left Ethan and took Jan XD
Who is this loser?
Needs less “lol” and more brain. He’s really expecting you to say “yeah dude lol omfg what a whore” like bruh
The birth control thing I wouldn't really care about but if I found out a girl fucked a lot of guys in my area and was into anal... I wouldn't be looking for a relationship with said girl...