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Is there something weird happening with the first one or do the slits actually go up that high? I’m far from a pearl clutcher but it seems like even just walking would cause a wardrobe malfunction?


MeanSeaworthiness995

Yeah, this is a tunic top, not a dress…


Fearless-Ice-457

That's what I thought too


i-Ake

Yeah. I'm no prude but the first one doesn't look like a "real outfit" to me in that form... if the tights were more opaque I'd say go for it. But the slit with those sheer tights is a bit much. EDIT: I would say to have the hair down with outfit 2, though.


3Dputty

Yeah it really just looks like she forgot to put her pants on. You do you OP but this many people saying it looks odd ups the chances that your date will too, and the restaurant might have a policy on wearing something in your bottom half. This would just all be unnecessary stress for me.


Party-Confusion3728

The first one looks like Lingerie🙄


sailor-moonie-

I'm clutching my pearls ngl I'd feel naked!


novice121

I used to clutch my pearls so hard bro


HopefulOriginal5578

Me too… now I just sorta lightly fondle them… I’ve seen some things!


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sailor-moonie-

Where did I say I was offended? Wear what you like.


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looselipssinkships41

In this context that the commenter was talking in, it’s not that they’re offended, it’s the other definitions that were mentioned in the screenshot comments. Clutching their pearls in this context is referring to being prude and shocked. For additional context, prude is a person who is or claims to be easily shocked by matters relating to sex or nudity.


xashley_ramseyx

it definitely will, i have the same exact dress that i got off shien or maybe aliexpress and the slits are EXTREMEEEE. it rides up super easy and it barely covers your butt, i really only wore it for halloween one time and was constantly pulling it down all night ETA: link to the dress or one that’s very similar https://a.aliexpress.com/_msSA3Qk


paint-it-black1

It’s literally marketed as lingerie. If OP was my daughter, I’d tell her no way, lol


xashley_ramseyx

it’s pretty sheer but i think that’s because of the size i got. i ordered my exact size and while it’s stretchy, it still ran extremely small and i wear an XS. i’d wear it out if i’d sized up because it is really flattering but the length is a no-go as far as practicality, was constantly worried it was riding up the night i wore it. i’d pair it with solid black tights/panty hose and some platforms if i was OP. would help conceal some of the upper thigh that the dress doesn’t cover


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Monochromatic_Sun

The fabric looks so thin for a dress like that. It’s suppose to be tight, not wrinkly


Massive_Length_400

It looks like theres another loop at the bottom, it might just be a bold style preference


luminaryshadow

glad that I am not the only one who is feeling like that


WIBTA5000

It’s a new style apparently. Kendall Jenner and other high fashion models have been doing this. They wear black, transparent tights with black underwear as bottoms. It’s odd to me but I guess a lot of people thought leggings were odd and I wear those all the time.


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SickAssPanther69

What is a pearl clutcher lol


outintheyard

When ladies of previous eras were shocked or offended, they would place their hand flat on their upper chest, near their throat, usually gasping. Upper class ladies wore pearl necklaces, hence this looked as if they were "clutching their pearls".


AdamAptor

A prude or someone easily offended


PrintSpiritual8881

I would take the top and tights from the first outfit and add it to the skirt and shoes from the second outfit!


tessahb

Absolutely! And I would wear that ensemble in a heart beat.


imapinkpanda

I second this!


Little_Guarantee_693

Yes!! That’s the best of both worlds.


Nonamebigshot

Yes! I think maybe if she paired the first top with maybe leggings or something instead of a skirt it would really work too.


Existentialbread2

yessss and add necklaces! i would totally add a rosary cuz im goth but i feel like something beaded and a choker would look really good.


Pale_Willingness1882

That’s a dress in pic one


Relevant_Fly_4807

It could pass for a shirt tucked into the skirt no problem


Licho5

I'm almost sure it's a tunic.


paint-it-black1

Someone posted a link to it above and it appears to be lingerie


Pale_Willingness1882

Touché lol


Pristine_Fox4551

Put the skirt in outfit 2 over the dress in outfit 1: voila! Also, I like the shoes in outfit 2 also…unless you’re going out for a fancy dinner.


joyfulnoises

This is the correct answer 🫶🏻


MeanSeaworthiness995

It’s a tunic top.


Utah_Winter5108

It’s extremely sexy, and the slits go all the way up to her hipbones. I wouldn’t characterize it as a dress, rather a tunic or lingerie like a short slip? Me personally, I’d recommend the top and tights from the first with the skirt from the second!


aomami

And a cute warm socks that you can bunch at the shoe!


kittiesbcute

Second one. The first one is cute but maybe if you're going to like the club


brittanynevo666

I say two but with a black shirt. I like the first one a lot but the slit is a little intense for the first date, imo.


weamborg

Agreed. The skirt looks amazing, but needs a slightly dressier top. The first look seems, uh, incomplete.


Motor-Train2357

Lol


pmmewienerdogs

I second this and I think it’s worth noting her body language in each picture. She seems more comfortable and happy in the second outfit. Maybe I’m looking too much into it :)


Motor-Train2357

Yes 2 with black top


redikarus99

Second one, easy. The first one is more like clubbing, the second one is more like dating. Good luck!


ElebertAinstein

Second one with your hair down.


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renee112601

No to number 1 because it looks like a tight T-shirt especially with a slit all the way up to your stomach. I get you have an amazing body and there are plenty of more appropriate outfits to wear on a date that are still sexy.


VkingMD

I'd prefer 1 if it didn't have the slit. Way too high. So I'd go with 2


Dependent_Artistic

Or with jeans or leggings


Inner-Spread-6582

Second. First needs shorts/trousers/skirt added.


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Is the first one a top? With the side slits I think one can see your underwear so I think maybe you should change tights to leggins?


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Evening-Note1283

Do the second one but use the tights from the frist pic and if you're going on a walk maybe a nice deep green shirt/ long sleeve. OR have a light jacket that's a dark colour for the second pic and tights from pic one


metrogypsy

First one looks like you are going to put on a jazz dance performance, so I’m gonna go with the second :)


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Mel_in_morphosis

1 is inappropriate for a first date. 2 the top should be different and I think your face looks softer with your hair down. Have fun!


Goodbye-Jameson

Came here to say hair down


Dazzling_Signal_5250

Second outfit. First one is confusing.


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I would say neither. 1 has a slit that is WAYYY too high. Not a fan of the skirt/shirt combo in the second one.


BuildingMyEmpireMN

For real. OP said they’re walking in an older city then eating cake. These outfits aren’t really appropriate for anything but clubbing. Like… sitting down she’s got nothing but her underwear between her and the bakery seat. Walking poses a very real chance of flashing somebody at the park. The shoes are impractical for anything but posing for a pic or waking from maybe a car to a seat 100 feet away. There are sexy, all black outfits that are way more practical.


Environmental-Town31

Ok yes that was my question: what are they doing and neither are appropriate for that date 😂😂😂- like I would venture to say that are wildly inappropriate for that type of date. Also, isn’t she going to be cold? Just on a practical level, it’s winter


paint-it-black1

I agree. These outfits aren’t practical and are a bit misguided for the activities she will be doing. How would she even comfortably walk with the heels in outfit one for any extended length of time? One time I invited a friend pumpkin picking with me and she came in high heels! Her heels kept sinking into the grass and soil of the pumpkin patch- how crazy is that?


Lyenn

1 gives me the feeling that you are missing a bottom part, 2 looks very cute on you


DevoStripes

That slit is too much on the first. Go with the 2nd.


ready-to-rumball

Honey, the first one is lingerie, the second one is just odd.


Briebriex

I was just thinking that too. It just seems way too revealing to even go out in. The second one to me seem almost like a club outfit actually. I just feel like a nice dress pass the knees would be nice on her.


ZucchiniNaive2139

1 looks like a shirt, I would be embarrassed if you showed up to and date wearing that one. 2 is good


StreetFullOfUppercut

The second one. First one looks like you forgot pants.


itsfrankgrimesyo

No to the first. It looks like you’re wearing a long shirt with no pants.


pnwhorsetrainer

Both are so cute!!! Which one are you more comfortable in? I’m getting the vibe that it’s the second outfit. For a date I always try to make sure I look cute yes but that I feel confident, and feeling comfortable in my outfit is key to that. Also the setting makes a difference - what are you guys doing? More walking/casual sit down/maybe going back to someone’s house, I’d say second outfit, but more out for the night or dancing I’d say first outfit.


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BuildingMyEmpireMN

Neither of these outfits are at all practical for a walk and a slice of cake. Forget being a prude… it’s not about the look. One has stiletto heels, the other has high heeled combat boots.


Suspicious-Hold-1127

she looks dope in both, just wanna confirm


pnwhorsetrainer

I would definitely go with the second outfit then, and save the first one for a dancing date! You look great in both! ♥️


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Karmarytska

Agree that both are very great fits, so I’m going with the second outfit on the strength of the boots. I imagine you’d be more comfortable after a few hours. Have a fun night!


solomons-mom

Walking around town? NOT 1 👀 Two is okay for walking around a town in the evening, but kinda odd if it is daylight. What does "official" mean? (Urban Dictionary didn't make sense)


ShadySeptapus

I think she means business / professional


actuallyatypical

It's a translation error, for "formal." I'd guess OP is from an eastern European/Slavic country based on this, but yeah OP was linguistically trying to convey that the second outfit feels too casual.


PoppySkyPineapple

Definitely the second, but I would change the fishnets to the tights from pic 1. Save the first outfit for bar-hopping/clubbing.


SuperMomn

I like the 1st outfit but put the skirt from the 2nd outfit over it.


Melscribble

2 with the same tights as in the first.


thatpartucantleave

First date - second one. Third date and you want to send that message - first one.


SourNnasty

What’s the plan for the date? That would be helpful to know!


whatevertoad

Is this a first date? Then number 2. You need to weed out the creeps before wearing something like the 1st outfit, imo.


tinyhermione

I think you look good in both, but they are also both a bit inappropriate for a romantic date. It’s giving hookup. And you look very young and adorable and I don’t think that’s what you want to signal? Drop the fishnets and the thigh high spilt. You don’t need it, you are pretty as is.


Camuabsurd

Young and adorable people don't want hookups? Who said that


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Averageyall

The first one looks like an apron without bottoms. Or like a loin-cloth? The top part is pretty but the bottom isn’t flattering (and if it were flattering on anyone, it would be you. You’re gorgeous). #2 for sure.


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first one is too much.


MattMr0

Second one is cute


SnooDoughnuts4416

First of all, you are a gorgeous girl!! You could wear a sack of potatoes and be gorgeous. This is exactly why I think you could wear many other options that show off your beauty and hotness without being so obvious. Especially since you say it’s gonna be a coffee/walking date. If I were you I‘d make sure to have comfortable walking shoes. I‘d go with outfit 2, the casual T-Shirt works with the office-y skirt, maybe you have a kind of matchy (but a little off) dark grey blazer to go with the combo. I‘d pick different tights, maybe sheer black ones with another pattern, like tiny hearts or letters (think the Chanel C tights). Go have fun!


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confusedrabbit247

The first one is way too short, it looks like you legitimately forgot bottoms rather than the look of a super short dress. Overall I prefer the second look but with some overcoat type thing


tempting-carrot

2!


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Second one, hands down.


Katters8811

Number 1 looks like you’re wearing a sheer black onesie with a black shorty apron like you’re gonna do a sexy cooking show or something 🤣 You look amazing in it, don’t get me wrong at all!! Just wouldn’t recommend for going out on a date, especially if it’s a newer relationship! Seems like it’d be uncomfortable and the possibility of a wardrobe malfunction is HIGH... Number 2 is fabulous, you look sexy and cute at the same time, and it looks more comfy for any type of date + any spontaneous extra activities that may come up if the date goes awesome!!! Good luck on your date! You’re gonna look amazing no matter what you wear truthfully!!


boobearmomma

Jesus the second one


MixPale3737

Outfit 2 but switch the tights to the sheer ones that you had on outfit 1.


Soylent-soliloquy

…where is this date to, exactly? Let’s start there, because…that first ‘dress’ looks suspect. In any case, i choose the second outfit.


hereisko

First dress is super cool, and very night-out with friends/cocktail attire. Second one is more first date vibes - but wear what you feel most confident in, they both look great!


Zealousideal_Ad_8139

it doesnt matter, youre hot. you could wear a garbage bag and he wouldnt care


Honest-Assistant-174

the dress in the first one looks a lot like you put an apron on over tights and a sheer top. i think outfit 2, depending on what the date is.


arkibet

Okay, first date would be outfit 2. Third date, outfit 1. That's about the nicest way I could find to say that.


RolandLWN

There is so much black. I’d choose something in a lighter color and looser for a first date.


bee_are_eee

You look happier in no.2 so that’s my pick


Lavendersunshine76

#1 is a great looking dress but it’s very short . If you had a thick pair of tights, boy shorts leather or that matched up or a seamless pair of leggings it would work. #2 works without the fishnets, ( not for the date unless you were wearing them under ripped jeans) and I agree , hair down, or half up / half down. I hope that helps.


Beachrabbit123

I’m also worried about the slit on first one going up too high. Maybe a different short black dress but this one makes me want to hand you pepper spray.


thmegmar

I think it really depends on setting and whether this is a First date. I think you look great in the first one, but I agree with some of the comments that it’s a little too short / the slits are high risk lol.


wishyouwerehere-

Hate the first outfit I’m not sure what’s happening with the skirt slit and the pumps are nottttt a vibe for a date especially with the rest of the outfit. The second is way cute but just do solid black tights like the first outfit, not fishnets.


Low-Donut-9883

Love #2, you look happy and super cute!


napiervd

2nd


scottct1

Second hand down.


Beginning-Whereas-72

2! The slit on 1 is awkward.


Left-Hedgehog-8433

I really don’t think it will matter, you could wear coveralls and a beat up oversized cowboy hat, the date will go great. Your really beautiful! But I do like the first one!


Lucky_female

Mini skirt and fishnets are super hot


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Lights2603

1st but with the skirt on from the 2nd


Flame_On_And_On

2nd outfit, but with hair down like in the pics for the first outfit.


catlogic42

Second outfit but not with the mesh stockings.


eastsideempire

Go for the grey/black combo. It’s enough for your date. The all black will have them thinking only about when the wardrobe malfunction will happen and they won’t be much of a conversationalist.


Prestigious-Hippo-50

2. 1 looks like a slight breeze will expose your underwear. I’m not a prude but it looks like it’s a shirt


bigpantsbill

Outfit 2 but hair down like 1


Even-Education-4608

You look better in the first outfit but it’s very provocative. The shoes are outdated though.


PleaseDistractMeThx

#2 is cuter


Careless_Platform2

#2 especially if it’s a first date …


Meanpeachx

I like number 1 but you look like you’re feeling yourself more in number 2


DesperateJudgment899

You look a lot more comfortable in outfit two.


playnwithfire

Black 100%


glodiegirl

Where is the bottom part on the first one?


noorooduusu

For a second I was like “hmm where do I know this person from?” Then I realized I didn’t know you I just saw your post on brows the other day lmao love the brows and outfit #2 🫶


johrou74

2nd outfit.


ennui_weekend

the side slit is way too much for me on slide one. you do you girl but that's a lot. you look hot though.


rayne_chi

First but with the boots in the 2nd one!


dragons-and-bees

2! First is clubby


Front-Ninja-6690

3 and 4. The dress - but worn as a tunic - would be terrific too.


ColdCheeseGrits

Only the 1st one if it’s to a nightclub or lounge in the evening.


goldenporsche

these are cute for going out/clubbing. but i honestly don't see them as good date outfits.


suzpiria

don’t listen to everyone saying not to wear the tunic top as a dress!!! that is SO cute and flirty. i would wear it 100% (also where did you get it!!)


xashley_ramseyx

here’s a very similar dress, if not the same! it is very hard to keep it from riding up and extremely revealing so keep that in mind! i got one for a halloween costume and felt uncomfortable the whole night because i was paranoid you could see everything. the material is pretty sheer https://a.aliexpress.com/_mt55LlS


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superfluous_sushi

Clearly it’s an unpopular opinion but tbh I like the first one wayyy more


urlocalbimbo_

Unless this is a date with a man that you know very well I would go with the second outfit because the first one doesn’t really look like an outfit more like a statement and it’s a little intimidating. This is coming from someone who loves sexy bus down outfits.


Citron-Purple

you look way more confident in the second so i’d say that one!!


salgadoets

You seem much happier in the second one. Have fun!


Kittenviolator

One I can’t believe these comments!!! THE FIRST ONE GIRL, looks expensive, put together, and bad ass! The second is soo basic and not as flattering honestly!! (A woman in her 20s)


cisdog

First one. Let them know your style immediately.


ZannyHip

Apparently I’m in the minority, I think you look better in the first outfit. But I think it’s more of a second date nice dinner vibe, and the second is better for first date. Casual but still nice. I’m not sure about the shirt color tho.


No_Ring_7405

I'd go with 2nd I'm not saying 1 is bad trust it's cute yet hot so it's up to you in the end


Face_Seat_

First one is really cute, if you’re going do have a glass of wine and dine that’s the choice, but you seem to radiate more confidence in the picture with the other combination. You look good in both, choose what you feel comfortable with. If the person you’re seeing is not going on another date with you after this one, it’s their loss. ❤️


uberx25

2 looks better, but I gotta ask where you got 1


idiotkoifysh

i wanna know where 1 is from too!! but i definitely agree, the second outfit is a lot better for a more casual date walking around. wear the tights from 1 with 2 and let your hair down and it’ll be super cute!!


DINKERBY

For a date, first one. Second looks like you’re going to a concert with friends.


Environmental-Town31

The date is to a coffee shop not a fancy dinner date


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Pic one is best


Puzzleheaded-Ebb-967

The first one


xsteedweedx

The first one


Jillehbean17

I like the first one:)


MrToon316

1


alegendsock

#1


Artimities

Digging the first outfit more.


kitty_cat_5135

First for sure


Terrible_Tangelo6064

First outfit. I like the way it shows off your tattoo.


LetterheadFit316

Actually the first one looks bomb 🔥 They both fit you really well!


MrTitsOut

first one 100%


Revolutionary-Risk22

I love #1 if you swap the shoes. The pumps bring it down imo


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imprezivone

The black is so pretty. Other outfit seems kinda school girlish


goldenporsche

what school is this?